I am new to the red pill, but boy am I glad it is red and not black or white as that kind of thinking can get you into all sorts of trouble.

It sounds like y'all have been dealt some rough hands and have had some successes as well as some hard times.

I don't think finding your own way necessarily means having to be alone. After all, no man is an island. The middle way means finding away both between and within the world.

I don't think you should all give up on love or women. Like men, some women are wonderful and some are horrendous. We have all been sold a bit of a lie when it comes to relationships. They are not perfect, sometimes they are hard work but they are also worth it.

Men have been told their value is money and physical prowess and women that theirs is being beautiful and domestic chores. Both sides are worth far, far more. If a man is only interested in providing money without companionship or emotional connection then he is underselling himself and losing out on intimacy and companionship himself. He is also easily replaced by a job or a bigger earner if that's what the woman believes she needs or wants. It's the same for women, there's always another beautiful or younger model...but that stuff isn't actually very important.

A good relationship is where you care about your partner fulfilling their dreams as much as you wish to fulfil your own and this should be mutual.

From a woman who wishes you all well and hopes that those who need help or support will reach out to qualified counsellors or service providers.

Thankyou for your time.