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*The New Formula for Picking Up Chicks* alpha redpill eachings

mannymoose90

January 10, 2014
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Title *The New Formula for Picking Up Chicks* alpha redpill eachings
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mannymoose90

Upvotes 57
Comments 24
Date January 10, 2014 7:38 PM UTC
(12 years ago)
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[–]mannymoose90[S] 26 points27 points28 points 12 years ago* (6 children) | Copy Link

here is more alpha gold ive found on this site

Originally Posted by “PostMoves” [View Post] Here is the only piece of advice you will ever need to attract and keep women:

BE SELFISH.

That’s it. It takes a selfish man to have a woman or women completely devoted to his happiness.

Alpha simply means ‘to be selfish’. And women love selfish men.

An Alpha is completely unafraid of being selfish.

Alpha literally means ‘first’. It’s a selfish ‘me-first’ attitude.

What does an alpha Lion do? He sits around while the women go out and hunt for him. When they bring the food back what does the alpha Lion do? He eats first. Pretty selfish, huh?

The Lion doesn’t tolerate others eating before him. The best food is his. The alpha Lion doesn’t let other, lesser males mate with his pride. The Lion doesn’t act in a fair and noble manner. The Alpha Lion doesn’t raise other Lion’s children. He’s selfish. And because he is selfish, the Lionesses do everything to make him happy.

Now, I know a lot of guys will say “man, that’s a real douchebag thing to say!” to which I only have one reply: I hope you enjoy jacking off.

Political incorrectness does not make something false.

Women line up for the selfish men. Women run as fast as they can from the guys who aren’t selfish.

It takes a delusional mind to think that women want a nice guy who brings them flowers and compliments their beauty and does everything to make them happy.

The man is the leader. That’s all their is to it. When the man is most concerned with her happiness, guess what she is most concerned about. That’s right, she is most concerned with her happiness.

When you are most concerned with your happiness guess what she is most concerned about. Right again, she is concerned about your happiness.

She takes her cues from you – never forget that.

A woman with an unselfish man, one who will do everything for her, is like a dog with a weak owner. The dog is unhappy because it has no boundaries or rules. The owner is unhappy because the dog acts like an *******. When the dog has a firm owner and knows it’s boundaries it is a whole lot happier, and the owner is happy because he’s got himself a loving, obedient dog.

When a woman has herself a man who sets boundaries on her she is a whole lot happier.

Does this sound familiar?

“What the heck does she see in him? He’s such a prick! She’s way too good for him! If she was with me I’d treat her like a princess!”

That’s exactly why she will never ever be with guys who say this nonsense. She doesn’t want to date a giant phaggot. She wants to date a selfish alpha. She want to be with him and make him happy. She’s disgusted by the thought of someone wanting to treat her like a princess and groveling for her affection. A selfish alpha simply demands her affection. If she doesn’t give it to him, theres are a whole lot more women who will.

If your brain works properly then you have noticed that women who are completely, head over heels in love are never in love with a “super nice guy”. Their in love with guys who are selfish.

If you treat women like women they’ll sit around in skimpy outfits feeding you grapes.

If you treat women like men you’ll get nothing but an earful about how unfairly she is treated and how you need to respect her and then she’s gonna go out and get ****ed by a selfish alpha who treats her like a woman. Do you get it yet?

So what do you have to do to get women?

You got to get rid of the nice guy act. Just do what you want to do, when you want to do it and don’t put up with bullsh*t.

Only be concerned with what you want.

Be completely, unapologetically selfish.

It’s your way or the highway.

Learn your new favorite word: “no”.

If she does something you don’t like then you be selfish and tell her.

Never, ever pretend that what she did is ok. Never pretend that she is an Angel who can do no wrong. If she’s acting like a bitch tell her to stop acting like a bitch. If she cooked food that doesn’t taste good then tell her it isn’t good. If she looks fat in that dress tell her she looks fat. Lying to protect her feelings only makes her delusional about what is and isn’t acceptable.

Never pretend that she is a man or “just one of the guys”. She’s a woman. When you treat her like a woman she’s gonna act like a woman.

Let me tell you something that most people are afraid to say: Women are chameleons. They will change themselves for a man. That’s a woman’s nature. It doesn’t make her a bad person. She wants to change into the woman you want her to be. Let her. Help her. You aren’t doing her any favors by encouraging bad behavior, but you are doing her a big favor when you act like a man who knows exactly what he wants – and gets it.

What would a selfish man do? -Would he take turns doing the dishes? No. -Would he accompany her to her co-workers wedding? No. -Would he grovel and beg for forgiveness for anything? No. -Would he massage her shoulders for an hour? No. -Would he feel bad about being such an *******? No. -Would he put up with bitchy behavior? No. -Would he take her silly tests seriously? No. -Would he be ok with her seeing other guys? No. -Would he forgive her for betraying him? No. -Would he spend 3 months salary on a ring? No. -Would he put up with flaky behavior? No. -Would he take her out to a fancy dinner on the first date? No. -Would he say “please can you bring me a water sweetie“? No. He says “bring me a water“. -Is he scared that if he isn’t nice enough she will leave him for someone better? No. -Is he afraid to show her the door if she doesn’t act the way he wants? No.

Would he use her as a tool for his own happiness? Yes. -Would she love him with all of her heart and soul? You better believe it.

Would she stay with him if he turned into a super nice guy who put her happiness first? Sure. For a while. But she’d be getting sexed on the side by a selfish lover.

Guys – women were put on this earth to make selfish men happy. Not the other way around. You can be a liar and pretend it isn’t so, and drive her away in the process, or you can act like a man, a winner, and let her make you happy. She can become a part of your world or you can become part of her world. The choice is yours.

[–][deleted] 7 points8 points9 points 12 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link

Strip club = training ground for learning to say no to women. If you can't say no in there you will end up losing a chunk of money.

[–]strimpboi 2 points3 points4 points 12 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

My first trip to a strip bar, I didn't buy a dance, and refused the waitress every time they came around and ask me if I wanted to "buy the lady a drink" while a stripper was at our table. I became the guy they came back to when they were bored. Got used as a time ho when they weren't making money. Learned that lesson.

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point2 points 12 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

Yes. If you want tons of attention from them then by all means give them your money. But being the time ho is free

[–]strimpboi 4 points5 points6 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

I should clarify. They still found a way to use me. I should have blown them off and paid more attention to my friends. I got caught up in this "strippers are paying attention to me without me paying them" thing and listened to them drone on about bullshit. No, I'd either pay more attention to my friends or dominate the conversation so I wouldn't be bored. But I don't go to peel clubs anymore.

[–]heist_of_saint_graft 0 points1 point2 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

That excerpt is gold. My upvote is unworthy of its succinct beauty. I give it anyway.

[–]elStoogeDR 0 points1 point2 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

http://boldanddetermined.com/2011/11/18/the-only-piece-of-advice-you-will-ever-need-to-pick-up-and-attract-women-and-keep-them-vying-for-your-love-attention-and-affection/

[–][deleted] 12 years ago (9 children) | Copy Link

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[–]Kelly_Gruber 1 point2 points3 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Hardly, the majority of beta posts regarding women and or relationships are just sad

[–]henry589 3 points4 points5 points 12 years ago (7 children) | Copy Link

^ lol true u a weir? but they aren't completely red pill, they do call out the bullshit with feminism, and the threads are pretty dam funny.

[–][deleted] 12 years ago (6 children) | Copy Link

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[–]stormLP -2 points-1 points0 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Aware...and mirin greens

[–]mannymoose90[S] -2 points-1 points0 points 12 years ago* (2 children) | Copy Link

yea dude the misc is cool. ive been a 4chan /Fit/izen and Miscing since the late zyzz era may he L.I.P lift in peace were all gonna make it. my username is mannymoose420 whats yours im myron that rep potential real tea lol

[–][deleted] 12 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

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[–]mannymoose90[S] -2 points-1 points0 points 12 years ago* (0 children) | Copy Link

Thanx broni lettuce be real im honestly surprised theres quite a few of us miscers around i figured not alot of us ventured out into other territories lol

[–][deleted] 12 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

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[–]mannymoose90[S] -2 points-1 points0 points 12 years ago* (0 children) | Copy Link

Its better to have risked then to have not have risked for greens

"Red pill crew"

"disregard females acquire aesthetics crew"

"Was a red once and made it to green crew"

"Conceptions is my onesities crew"

"Always white knight conceptions and diva Jana on the misc crew"

"Chestbra killed zyzz for proton of the gods crew"

"Wrong brother died in the sauna crew"

"Way to many crews crew"

[–]strimpboi 6 points7 points8 points 12 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

The Misc is made up of some of the most alpha and some of the most beta dudes on the face of the earth. It's a crazy good place to chill. Haven't brought up RedPill on the misc or found anything in forum search, I'm sure many of the guys there are aware.

[–]mannymoose90[S] 0 points1 point2 points 12 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

-strong this,

-inb4 half the r/redpill becomes miscers or miscers coup this subreddit

-or disenfranchised sad Fa miscer started this subreddit as venagnce against the very women and betas who destroyed him

[–]MrStinky -1 points0 points1 point 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

They down voted you because they don't understand brah. Stay safe. SoClose Misc4LifeCrew

-Miscer since 2011 checking in

[–]ajswdf 0 points1 point2 points 12 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

This "new formula" is the same old formula that PUA's have been promoting forever.

While there's some good stuff in there, it takes the wrong approach, and it was the error I made when I first heard about it. If somebody reads this is tries to do these exact things the way he's describing they're going to fail. They'll come off as fake, because they are. Unless you're some sort of great actor, following these sort of rules just won't work.

You shouldn't have to think when trying to attract a woman. In fact, you shouldn't even have to try to attract women. If you're thinking hard and trying hard to attract women you're going to fail. If you're not naturally attractive, you simply won't be able to consciously control everything you need in order to consistently get laid.

And being naturally attractive doesn't just mean winning the genetic lottery. It means taking care of yourself and being a confident person in general. If you can get those things down everything else will fall into place.

[–]heist_of_saint_graft 0 points1 point2 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Yeah, Al Borland from "Tool Time" was swimming in gash.

[–]mannymoose90[S] 0 points1 point2 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

naw it deosnt soley rely on routines and stuff. it gives you guidelines along redpill advice on how to become your best self, its one of the books i have ever read on natural game next to models by mark manson. that why i love that forumula

[–]CptJackSwallows 0 points1 point2 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

fuck me that is one hell of a thread

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