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Red Pill Theoryajswdf/r/TheRedPill25/12/13 03:55 AM
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ajswdf/r/seduction23/11/16 11:11 PM
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Red Pill Theoryajswdf/r/TheRedPill14/01/14 01:38 AM
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Girls usually have the options because guys flirt with them on a daily basis so to them subconsciously they think "I can get a guy if I wanted to". I've had women be shocked that it doesnt work like that for men. I tell them how it is for men and they seem shocked how dating is for most of us. Part of it is projecting their own experience onto men, but almost by definition the guys they date tend to be more successful at dating (that's why they're dating them). So when their own experience, and …
/r/seduction06/09/25 02:03 PM
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This exactly, although I would say that nice guys are necessarily being manipulative. They could genuinely be a genuinely good person but don't have anything else going for them and hope to rely on their niceness to attract women.
/r/seduction16/07/25 03:49 PM
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OP just had AI write this for him so it's AI silliness, but if you're trying to extract something real out of it it's the difference between thinking "does she like me?" and thinking "I like her" and acting on it.
/r/seduction02/07/25 03:30 PM
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Thanks for the responses, it's very interesting. Just one more question. What would you say is the difference between attraction and spark?
/r/seduction26/06/25 06:00 PM
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That makes sense. So let's say you met a guy off Tinder and after 30 minutes or so of the first date you want him to make a move but he doesn't and eventually the date ends without him making any sort of physical contact. I bet this is the situation OP is in a lot. You would likely say you didn't feel a spark, right? Is it because you assume that he wanted to make a move but was too nervous to? Or you assume he's just not the type to be lead the situation and that's a turnoff? Also what about a …
/r/seduction26/06/25 05:07 PM
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I know what to do (thankfully I'm not quite as hopeless as OP), but I'm more interested in the mindset. What I don't understand why it's such a tremendous deal breaker for girls where it's a 99% rejection rate if I don't have any physical contact during a first date, but if I do it's a 99% rate of a 2nd date. But at the same time they don't want it to be in a way they view as pushy. Part of the problem (for me at least, I can't speak for OP) is that I would love if a girl was pushy and sexually …
/r/seduction26/06/25 04:43 PM
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Don’t be afraid of physical escalation on the first date with consent ofc (ex. holding her hand, hugging her by the waist.. is respectful, gentle and all of which should ideally lead to a kiss) Equally, create a safe environment and try to build trust...isn’t in a rush to get into my pants. I can empathize with the OP because I've struggled with this in the past, and a big reason is that these two things feel like a contradiction. So I'd like your perspective on it. In my mind girls are either i…
/r/seduction26/06/25 04:00 PM
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You have to think about it mathematically. Let's say he averages 1 appointment per 100 calls. So if he makes 300 calls a day then he will average 3 appointments per day. But because there's randomness it's not going to be 3 every day. 5% of the time he'll get no appointments. 15% of the time he'll get 1. 22% of the time he'll get 2. So 42% of the time he'll fail to reach his target of 3 appointments, even if his average is 3 per day over an entire year. That's 2 days out of 5 that he won't get t…
/r/seduction17/06/25 09:23 PM
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It's the same reason guys watch porn even if they're in a relationship. It's just a low cost way of having fun even if they don't actually plan on doing anything with him.
/r/seduction19/01/25 02:44 PM
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It's like how I treat bread sticks and vegetables. I try not to order them because I know they have tons of calories and will make me fat, but they're delicious so I'll often eat them anyway. On the flip side I tell myself I need to eat more vegetables because I know they're good for me, but I'll often go with the breadsticks instead. When they tell you they don't want players it's an intellectual desire because they know it's bad for them, but emotionally it's what they crave.
/r/seduction03/07/22 10:34 PM
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I think it wouldn't be pleasurable if you knew 5 other guys who had sex with the girl last month. Why? What difference does that make? If anything that's better, since she'd be more likely be better in bed. I've had sex with both kinds, and the frustration of having to deal with their anti-slut BS made the experience overall worse for those types.
/r/seduction22/02/20 05:13 PM
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You don't think sex would be pleasurable if you didn't have to struggle to get it? I'm glad I'm not you, nothing's better than when a girl doesn't play games and makes it easy.
/r/seduction22/02/20 04:22 PM
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In my opinion there are very few people who are just steaight up ugly with no hope. Both men and women have a lot more control over their looks than most people think. It's impossible to say for sure without seeing a picture, but I bet if she put more effort into her looks she would be attractive enough.
/r/seduction30/11/19 02:10 PM
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I'd rather have a girl just ghost, especially instead of 4 and 5. If you're not looking to date then why are you going out on dates? But it would be even worse if I'm supposed to believe it's true because that means you do like me, so why give that false hope that we could work it out?
/r/seduction21/11/19 01:57 PM
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This is why they say not to get dating advice from women. It's not that they're evil or stupid or anything, just that female attraction is much more complicated than it is for men and women have no real reason to try and understand what they do and don't find attractive. For most women, it really comes down to "I liked him because I liked him". So how are they supposed to give you advice when women don't like you?
/r/seduction21/06/19 06:16 PM
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Pof is the worst when it comes to bots. If I log in after midnight I'll get 3-4 bot messages.
/r/seduction20/06/19 01:34 PM
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Not at all. When I'm hanging out with a girl I'm in a relationship with I'll constantly talk about other women who are around who I think are hot. But it goes both ways, I also ask her if she thinks that other guy is hot and tell her she should get his number. Everybody knows that you're going to be attracted to other people. If you don't treat it as a serious issue they probably won't either.
/r/seduction13/06/19 02:09 AM
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Having sex won't make you happy by itself, but not having sex can very easily make you unhappy by itself. I never understood these types of posts. It's like a rich person telling a poor person that money won't make them happy. Sure, there are rich people who are unhappy, but there are a lot of people where the lack of money makes them unhappy. In the same way, there are a lot of sexually active people who are unhappy, but there are a lot of people not having sex where the lack of sex makes them …
/r/seduction26/05/19 01:46 AM
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I've always thought that it has to do with the female perspective of attraction and sex. For men, knowing what we're attracted to is easy. If she's good looking we're attracted, so we can even pinpoint specific things we're attracted to. But for women it's much harder to pin down. They're attracted to certain personality traits in men that reveal themselves in a large variety of ways. So if a woman doesn't think about it too much, it seems like attraction is mostly random and she just happens to…
/r/seduction16/05/19 07:29 PM
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Nah, girls know the deal. Especially if you're in private.
/r/seduction16/05/19 04:46 AM
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I'm not in the least bit surprised. Despite what the zeitgeist says, women are actually sexual creatures and you don't have to try and win them over with over the top dates before they concede to do you the favor of having sex. If you invite a girl over to your house, especially one you met on Tinder, she's going to assume you're going to try to have sex or at the very least kiss or something. If you don't make a move she's either going to assume you don't like her (so she won't want to hang out…
/r/seduction10/05/19 03:16 PM
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Judging by his comments, the latter.
/r/seduction06/05/19 03:24 AM
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Being tall helps, and making good money helps, but there's no one thing that makes a guy attractive or not.
/r/seduction06/05/19 02:23 AM
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You’re trying to make a friend for now, and if they’re interested it will eventually escalate. This is terrible advice. Unless you just naturally have a sexual vibe (in which case you're probably not the type of guy who needs help with women from the internet) all this will do is get you friend zoned. I can tell you from experience that it's extremely common for women to be disappointed if you act too platonically when they're ready to be sexual. This is something I struggled with, and I'd bet a…
/r/seduction05/05/19 01:30 AM
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Why are men attracted to boobs? Unless you want to dive into the evolution behind it the answer is pretty circular, women like confident guys because confident guys are sexy and attractive. I'm not a woman so I can say for sure, but I imagine it's a similar feeling you get when you see an attractive woman. And when a guy does something that shows his confidence, it's like when an attractive women unbuttons her shirt. Really women are attracted to power, and confidence is a subset of power, even …
/r/seduction25/04/19 03:33 AM
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finding a woman I can be with, which isn't an easy task for me What do you mean by this? Are you especially picky? Is weight training necessary if you're slightly chubby? I do know chubby guys who get laid. It's not necessary, but if you have issues with confidence it helps. If you're overweight you should also focus on losing fat.
/r/seduction22/04/19 02:39 PM
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Don't get too worked up about age, it's not like once you hit 22 you're doomed to die a virgin. I was 22 when I lost my virginity. The problem is that your mentality only hurts you, which leads to it becoming stronger which makes it harder to get laid and this spirals down. I've always used online dating because I'm an introvert. If you go that route, ask a female friend to take pictures of you and choose the 3 best ones to use on Tinder, Bumble, and as many as you can find, and set aside an hou…
/r/seduction21/04/19 08:52 PM
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Honestly that's way more right swipes than I expected. Her standards are pretty low considering how attractive she is.
/r/seduction07/04/19 06:04 PM
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This is why I don't send any sexual pictures or videos to anybody, it's too easy for them to keep it and spread it around. This is true even if you know the person. But they just wanted your face? That's pretty lame. Unless you're cheating on your wife or something I don't see why anybody would care.
/r/seduction22/03/19 04:11 PM
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Yeah that's my big problem. If you're a chubby chaser who likes single mom's it must be great, but for me I have to lower my standards to anybody who isn't grossly obese.
/r/seduction09/03/19 07:33 PM
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I spent some time in China and the results were ridiculous. It is doing it on easy mode. Here in the states I have to commit a lot of time to swiping on apps if I want to get a date, but there I very quickly got 100+ matches and had to slow down and be more selective. I don't know how it is for other people, but I've also had a lot more success in New York City than I do in my hometown of Kansas City. It may have been because of the algorithm showing you to more people when you're knew in a city…
/r/seduction09/03/19 05:14 PM
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I love the irony of this post. "This girl says I don't have a real personality and am using this sub as a crutch, tell me what to say guys!" But if you really want advice, just don't give a shit. I'd say you could jokingly tell her you're going to ask us what to say before responding, but given that that's what you're literally doing it's not really a joke.
/r/seduction24/02/19 03:26 AM
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Who cares about having good style? The only thing that matters is if women find you attractive in it, which a woman is most qualified to answer.
/r/seduction12/02/19 03:16 AM
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One thing on hair and fashion and the like, run everything by a female friend. Women love this stuff. I once took a friend of mine to the mall to pick out outfits for me and afterwards she said it was a lot of fun.
/r/seduction12/02/19 01:56 AM
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Nice, the second one is easier since that mental block is out of the way.
/r/seduction02/02/19 12:21 AM
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This isn't uncommon at all. That's a big reason why you should ask them out quickly, to weed out the ones who don't want to meet in person. Usually I just say something like "Let's get drinks sometime. I'll be free Saturday at 8, does that work for you?" That makes it easy for her, it's a simple yes or no question.
/r/seduction26/01/19 05:21 PM
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I really don’t want to fuck this up. I hate to say it, but if you have this mindset you're probably not going to be successful. If I were you, I'd try and get at least one other date, if not several, scheduled, so it will take the edge off of the whole "I have to get this one right" mentality. As for what to say, it depends on what your relationship was in high school and how old you are now. In my experience when I was in my early 20's if I recognized a person from high school they'd know who I…
/r/seduction17/10/18 03:54 PM
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Start after the "Here comes the pain"
/r/seduction12/10/18 03:12 AM
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Why is this upvoted? It's only useful for why getting advice from women is a bad idea. They don't know what it's like to be a guy dating women. Just because I go on a first date with someone, does not at all mean that I want to kiss them. This is a bad assumption to have. While it may be technically incorrect, it's the mentality you have to have. If you go in for a kiss and she rejects you it's no big deal. But if she does like you and you don't do anything (maybe not kiss, but at least show som…
/r/seduction01/10/18 04:57 AM
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It depends on a lot of things, including your relationship and personality. But if it was me I'd tell her she should date him in a joking way. If he's good looking I'd point that out, if he has a lot of money I'd tell her to be a sugar baby so she could take me on vacation. You get the idea.
/r/seduction01/09/18 06:38 PM
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I'm nervous every time. It's hard to describe how to bypass it. I guess it's like I disassociate from myself so it's almost like some other person is doing it. Or just doing it while allowing myself to feel nervous. The other thing is for me going for holding hands is far worse than kissing. If we're holding hands or cuddling or something I know she likes me so a kiss is easy. It's going for those that breaks the barrier between knowing and not knowing.
/r/seduction31/08/18 05:30 PM
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I think this isn't quite the same definition of peaking. Obviously mean peak at a later age than women, but this extreme result is due more to online dating strategies. For example, an 18 year old man may limit his search to just 18 year old women because he doesn't want to date women older than him. He's willing to date 17 year olds too, but since they're not allowed on the site he can't select them. At the same time a 30 year old man is willing to date that same 18 year old girl, but would pre…
/r/seduction16/08/18 08:35 AM
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I prefer texting over calling because when you're on the phone it requires pretty much 100% of your attention. But with texting I can be doing something else and take 5-10 seconds to read and respond. And when they reply I can wait until I have a break to look at it again.
/r/seduction15/08/18 08:10 AM
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I've had this happen a couple times, and neither time was it because of those reasons (although I think those reasons are causes a lot of times). Once she was just being honest because she was on her period (not that that ever bothers me), and the other I'm 99% she was just teasing because when I brought it up to her la year or so later she said she remembered it and smiled mischievously.
/r/seduction03/08/18 02:59 PM
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This is a good video, but I don't think a guy with 20k subs is going to have any effect on what Tinder does.
/r/seduction03/08/18 10:22 AM
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Nope, we wanted different things. We dated for 2.5 years though.
/r/seduction09/07/18 10:51 AM
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Apparently I'm too late since you already told her, but I was in your exact situation and I just said it's a secret until after we had sex. In theory honesty is better but in my experience women will drop you for the smallest things, so better safe than sorry. As for having sex for the firat time, personally I had no problems. This girl is the only virgin I've had sex with and she bled the first two times, which I hear is common.
/r/seduction09/07/18 03:11 AM
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Both are true. Being taller does make you more attractive, but it's not like if you're under 6' you can only bang ugly girls. Being self conscious about it will hurt you way more than being average height in itself.
/r/seduction08/04/18 06:05 PM
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Nobody said you have to be monogamous. Lots of people have open relationships.
/r/seduction08/04/18 05:51 PM
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What do you define as quality? I've found the exact opposite, most of the girls I've been with, or even just been around platonically, I'd be ok with dating. Maybe it's because I'm a pretty emotionless guy so I'm not looking for anything serious, or maybe it's that I just happen to attract girls who fit with me, but I couldn't relate to this problem any less.
/r/seduction27/10/17 02:58 AM
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It's not just talking. As Hank Hill would say, you have to approach them with romantic intent.
/r/seduction22/01/17 04:33 PM
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Correlation doesn't mean causation. His name is Mike, but it doesn't mean we should all go out and get our names changed.
/r/seduction16/11/16 01:15 AM
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I've seen some evidence for this, but it's a little extreme to say never wear deodorant. I know for myself that if I work up any kind of sweat at all my BO is horrible, but if I know I'm not going to sweat during the day (i.e. it's winter and I'm sitting around all day) then I'll skip the deodorant to get that boost. If you're a guy without much BO you could get away with never wearing it.
/r/seduction16/11/16 01:14 AM
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It's not that women don't like good guys, it's that women don't like guys that are only good guys. Being nice is literally the lowest common denominator. Anybody can hold open doors and send sappy text messages, but it's hard to be muscular and confident and assertive and powerful. The problem is that these kinds of men take care of themselves first, so women interpret that as "mean" and say they want a nice guy. In reality they want a nice guy they're attracted to, not just a nice guy.
/r/seduction28/04/16 03:11 AM
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Al that stuff helps, but there was a story circulating a while ago about some homeless dude who gets shelter by spending the night at random girl's apartments. You're better off financially than this guy and he gets laid, so while more money helps it's not a complete deal breaker.
/r/seduction16/04/16 12:46 AM
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Why not class? Class is the best place for somebody with a lot of approach anxiety. You can just sit down next to her and say "Is this seat taken?" (even if the room's completely empty, she'll have zero illusions to what you're about but it's all part of the game) then say "My name's RedRaider456" then you can talk about anything, an easy thing being the class you're both in. Or another one is to take a test and if you get done early wait around until the object of your desire finishes, then tur…
/r/seduction16/04/16 12:42 AM
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Being in the top 20% is super easy. If you aren't fat and occasionally do interesting stuff you're probably in the top 20% of men.
/r/seduction14/04/16 03:55 PM
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You know what's funny, having a girl say "We're not going to have sex" is the surest sign that you have it in the bag. There's many reasons why they say this, but all them have to do with the fact that they're thinking about banging you. You don't need any fancy lines, just ignore it (or say something clever if you think of it in the moment, I probably would have said something like "If you say so" or "whatever you say") and continue as if she didn't say anything. That is, you should have gone f…
/r/seduction14/04/16 02:52 AM
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You're not doing online dating right then. I usually get a couple dates out of 100 messages. At least in my experience online is way heavier on looks, with Tinder being worthless if you're not top 10% or willing to date fat chicks and sites like OKCupid and POF being decent for ok looking guys.
/r/seduction02/03/16 02:43 PM
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Not for me. I'd rather be celibate for the rest of my life than bang a fat chick. That's basically admitting that your desperate, and I'd have to spend the rest of my life knowing I stooped that low.
/r/seduction27/12/15 11:05 PM
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I tried Tinder for a while, but I got a grand total of one date with a girl who turned out to be fat. Maybe I'll try again when I get closer to my fitness goals, but until then it's a waste of time if you're not willing to date fat chicks.
/r/seduction27/12/15 03:31 PM
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I only do online dating, so I can't speak to the first one, but I've never run into your second or third bullet. The closest I've come is girls responding to my message with stuff like "You really think that'd work?" in which case just move on and forget about them. 99% of the girls I send a message to either don't respond or respond in a respectful way. The 4th one is just the nature of human relations, especially early on in the relationship. Women, especially younger ones and attractive ones,…
/r/seduction18/12/15 03:29 PM
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It usually refers to a job you care about. If you're just working retail it's not a big deal.
/r/seduction14/12/15 03:42 PM
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You're not listening to what I'm saying. When you're in college and high school, you interact with hot women just by going. You literally don't have to do anything. In the real world you actually have to do stuff, either day game or night game or online or whatever. In the real world you don't meet attractive women just by existing. That's the difference, and why I emphasized introverts. An extroverted guy will see less of a difference because he enjoys going out and meeting people, but an intro…
/r/seduction12/12/15 04:25 PM
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Most people don't live in NYC, and even then any decent sized college has more and are easier to meet. The point is in college I didn't even have to do anything and I met tons of attractive women. In the adult world you have to put in work to meet women, especially if you don't live in the hip part of whatever city you live in.
/r/seduction12/12/15 03:40 PM
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It's not too late to ever get laid again, but it is too late to be in that environment where there are attractive women around you all the time.
/r/seduction12/12/15 01:31 PM
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This is all correct, but I would like to say that if you're in high school or college now is the time to get as much pussy as possible, especially if you're more introverted. I screwed up by focusing too much on academics and by the time I was out of school and had time to focus on women it was too late. It's so much easier to meet college in school than in the real world.
/r/seduction12/12/15 03:30 AM
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For me I've found the opposite is true. My natural instinct is to set up a date then ignore them until we meet, but they'd often flake. When I talk to them a little before hand they are more likely to show up. Then again, I do mostly online dating so that could be a difference.
/r/seduction07/11/15 08:46 PM
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Why? Kissing isn't that big of a deal. If you have to make a game out of it you're doing it wrong.
/r/seduction30/09/15 06:48 PM
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Your writing is terrible, but I think I see what you're saying and can see how it works. Basically you just say whatever you want and don't give a fuck how they respond. Certainly something to think about (you can see how my personality differs than yours, unfortunately yours works way better in getting laid).
/r/seduction17/09/15 03:16 AM
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There's a huge disconnect between guys and girls when it comes to dating, particularly online dating. We only experience it from our own perspective, so it's hard to feel sympathy for the other side when they talk about their problems. As a guy, girls don't appreciate how hard it is to get laid. They don't realize that we have to go out and constantly be rejected to get one date. They don't appreciate how complicated women's desires are, and how society tells us to do all the wrong things to att…
/r/seduction05/09/15 01:09 AM
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I have a response rate of 15-20% out of 100 emails sent. I write roughly 5 a day. I meet 10% of the girls who respond. That's why I use copy and pasted messages. I only message attractive women, and my numbers are about the same as yours. But because I send 50 messages a day instead of 5, I get roughly one date per day instead of one every 10 days.
/r/seduction28/08/15 05:40 PM
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That is incorrect. I have actually tried both, and I can tell you for a fact that while I got more responses with unique messages, those responses were less than worthless. What would happen is that I'd get a response, then in a message or two ask to meet up and suddenly they'd either stop responding or say "I want to talk for a bit before meeting up". That happens with copy and pasted messages too, but not as much. The reason is that with unique messages women were responding to my message, not…
/r/seduction28/08/15 01:29 PM
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You simply can't approach online dating like you do approaching girls IRL. There are a couple factors you need to keep in mind: Women get tons of messages every day. The first girl I met said she got about 7 messages a day, and her pictures were awful (even though she was actually quite attractive) and we live in a smallish city. A hot girl with good pictures who lives in a large city probably gets 20-30 messages a day, maybe more. When you approach a girl IRL, she may have been approached by ot…
/r/seduction28/08/15 02:55 AM
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I was a kissless virgin until 21, and my first kiss was a far, far bigger event than having sex for the first time. In my opinion, you've overcome the biggest obstacle.
/r/seduction16/08/15 04:44 AM
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I think you may be confused, this sub is for having sex with women IRL. Although if you give your location I'm sure there are several guys on here who'd be willing to service you.
/r/seduction09/07/15 03:29 AM
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A little awkwardness never hurt anybody. Worst case scenario it'll make a good story in a couple years.
/r/seduction16/06/15 02:59 AM
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I'm just glancing through it, and it seems like a guide written by some beta who goes on 12 dates before holding hands.
/r/seduction14/06/15 11:48 PM
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I used to have this problem too (although now I have different problems, it seems to never end). What I found to be the problem was that I was sending interesting first messages, when I started sending boring first messages this problem completely went away. It sounds counter intuitive, but it makes sense if you think about it. A lot of girls are on there just to talk, or even if they are willing to meet somebody they're still willing to talk to guys they're not interested in just for fun. I bel…
/r/seduction13/06/15 04:51 PM
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Looks do matter, just not in the way you think. If you dress well, have a good hairstyle, are in reasonable shape, have good hygiene, and aren't self conscious about how you look, the actual genetic part of looks doesn't really matter all that much. If you have sort of serious deformity, or your face looks like Pizza Hut's new special, you might be hurt more by it, but for 99% of guys what God gave them is more than enough if you put some effort into how you look.
/r/seduction07/06/15 06:04 PM
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I wouldn't think of it that way. Body language is just one piece of a larger puzzle. Have you ever heard of "Show, don't tell"? The idea is that when you're writing you want to show the reader whatever you're writing about instead of just telling them. It's very useful in online dating profiles. Compare these two sentences: Tell: "I went to China a couple years ago and played basketball with some kids." Show: "My greatest achievement in life is beating a bunch of kids in basketball. Those courts…
/r/seduction01/06/15 07:55 PM
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This question is so vague that it's impossible to give any other answer. Plus, you shouldn't be scared to say no.
/r/seduction29/05/15 11:22 PM
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"I can't"
/r/seduction29/05/15 10:31 PM
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I was just thinking about this the other day. This used to be a huge issue for me. A couple tips that might help: When I'm in this spot we're usually are sitting next to each other on the couch, so I'll put my arm around her and play with her hair. After a couple minutes of this (not too long or you'll psyche yourself out) it's easy to just pull her in. One issue I had was that I'm too much of a nice guy deep down. I wasn't so much scared of rejection, I just didn't want to feel like a jerk if t…
/r/seduction29/05/15 10:29 PM
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You're only hurting yourself if you do this. Just pull her in and kiss her. If she doesn't want to she'll stop you.
/r/seduction29/05/15 10:11 PM
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I was wondering if I was the only one who found this weird. I truly am busy at the moment, since I work full time and go to school full time, but when school's over I'll have plenty of time. What the heck are people doing that makes then so busy? I think people just like to pretend they're busy. It's the same at work. Everybody says they're swamped with work, but they spend a ton of time making small talk.
/r/TheRedPill23/07/14 02:40 AM
13

I feel you man. I don't give a shit what feminists say (that's for /r/TumblrInAction) or how horrible liberals are ruining the Western world (that's for /r/conservative). If I wanted to read that stuff, I'd go there. It's gotten to the point where too much TRP can severely hurt your ability to have sex with beautiful women. Who would any woman want to have sex with a guy who can't stop thinking about how horrible women are?
/r/TheRedPill21/07/14 03:00 AM
4

I've thought the same thing about fat women. Hell, it even applies to fat men. If you're fat, the best thing you can do to improve your dating life is to lose weight. A while back a woman posted a critique that asked something like "I get lots of views, but no messages". Upon looking at her profile, she looked cute in her main picture, but other pictures showed she was overweight. So I said something like "Guys visit your profile because your main picture is good, but leave because you're fat". …
/r/TheRedPill20/07/14 03:21 PM
1

Most people wouldn't lie about getting divorced, but people who lie about sexual partners will be more likely to stay married just for appearances. There was a study somebody posted here while ago that actually showed that this was part of the correlation. They compared these stats between people who answered live interviews and computer interviews, and the correlation was less for the computer interview. I should have bookmarked it. Yeah, but most men are a bunch of betas who are so scared of g…
/r/TheRedPill19/07/14 01:07 AM
1

It's hard to tell without access to the actual study, but to draw the conclusion that you shouldn't marry partners with high partner counts is a little hasty. This data is from a survey. People will often not answer surveys 100% truthfully to make themselves look better. So if a woman really cares about what people think of her, she's more likely to under-report her number in the survey, and also less likely to divorce even if she wants to. This study fails to measure the quality of the relation…
/r/TheRedPill18/07/14 07:39 PM
28

The spreadsheet is in the comments. You know that this has been going on a lot longer than 2 months though. Most people don't randomly start making spreadsheets of their sex life.
/r/TheRedPill18/07/14 03:02 PM
2

True, but the view is these guys don't want to really improve, they just want to stroke their ego. There was a post in /r/thebluepill a while back where members posted their pictures, and to the surprise of nobody they were mainly women and good looking men. And they were proud of that. Never mind ugly guys who want to have sex sometime in their life, nobody gives a shit about them.
/r/TheRedPill12/07/14 08:38 PM
6

The stereotype is that everybody on TRP is a fat virgin neckbeard who lives in their parents' basement who hate women because they can't get laid. Sure, there probably are a lot of guys like on here, and they're probably the most vocal (if you're out getting laid and being successful, why would you spend a bunch of time whining about feminists on the internet?). Then there's guys like use who used to be bad with women, but once you figure out how the world really works it's amazing how easy it i…
/r/TheRedPill12/07/14 07:57 PM
2

I get big tl;dr's from people acusing me of all kinds of shit I never say. I get that too. Never mind reading what I actually say, I occasionally comment on the Red Pill so I must hate women and all that.
/r/TheRedPill12/07/14 07:50 PM
2

I don't know about this video in particular (I'll watch it when I have time), but I've read and watched tons of stuff on body language. I never really found it all that useful really. When trying to read people your gut instinct and common sense is probably better than trying to logically reason it out. The stuff I found most useful is how to change you're own body language to look more confident. This should be the ideal when standing up (personally I ignore the first couple steps and just do t…
/r/seduction07/07/14 03:42 AM
7

I'm hoping you don't get downvoted into oblivion, since you're coming in with an open mind. I feel like I answered this one - we shared common interests, they had interesting things to say about interesting topics, and they were interested in engaging me in discussion on those topics. So - be knowledgeable and have an interest in having intelligent conversation with people, and see me as a person and a friend rather than something to fuck. While those are nice things for guys to have, they aren'…
/r/TheRedPill06/07/14 04:13 AM
-5

There seems to be three flavors of relationship advice; mainstream, PUA, and Red Pill. They all have their flaws. Mainstream advice is pretty much completely worthless. It's a bunch of people who don't know what they're talking about just saying what they think sounds good. PUA has some good stuff, but they seem to focus mainly on going to clubs and bars and getting one night stands, which isn't what a lot of guys want. They also rely too heavily on scripted lines, which is a pretty horrible way…
/r/TheRedPill06/07/14 03:52 AM
8

Do you think that all my friends and family would congratulate me on making a prudent and wise life-decision if I laid down 3/4ths of my net wealth on the pass line at the Bellagio and said “hand me the dice!”? Of course not. Don't pass has better odds.
/r/TheRedPill29/06/14 08:16 PM
0

cause that means it's open relationship time.I would offer an open relationship. If she declined then it proves she is selfish and thinks extra sex outside is something only SHE can do. Screw that! Perfect. One of my (many) complaints about TRP is that guys are so obsessed with women cheating on them.
/r/TheRedPill27/06/14 10:44 PM
2

Maybe you're not going to live like Jay-Z, but you'll realize you don't want that... you just want like, an HDTV. That is, to me, the saddest part of this video. I'm not a fan of his music, but at least Jay-Z has done something with his life beyond getting an HDTV and a mortgage.
/r/TheRedPill13/06/14 11:56 PM
9

My girlfriend's brother is going to school to become a doctor, and is even 6'3", yet his girlfriend make this woman look slim and sexy. I don't understand some people.
/r/TheRedPill13/06/14 11:43 PM
3

I saw that too, and it's stories like that that make me glad I got a vasectomy. I was also not surprised that his wife cheated on him. If you think life isn't worth living without her, you're probably going to come off as weak and needy.
/r/TheRedPill13/06/14 02:30 AM
11

And the people calling people neckbeards are the same ones who'd lose their shit if you called a woman fat. It's not ok to shame people, unless they happen to be an ugly male then fuck that guy.
/r/TheRedPill12/06/14 12:46 AM
10

This is the type of feminism I like. Fewer single moms and women I don't have to pay for? Sounds awesome.
/r/TheRedPill08/06/14 08:41 PM
10

When asked this question, people on /r/thebluepill usually point to Dr. NerdLove. He's better than most of the crap out there, but he would have been entirely useless to somebody like me from 7 years ago. I did treat women like people, I was confident, and I had friends and was sociable. But I didn't kiss a girl until I was 21. It seems most people outside of PUA's and TRP dance around the most important point, which is how to make women be sexually attracted to you. If a woman isn't sexually at…
/r/TheRedPill05/06/14 08:26 PM
3

A lot of people here see women as a single entity. Since some women trick men into getting them pregnant, this guy is getting revenge on all women by doing this. Never mind that the women in this story probably never did anything. She's a woman, so she deserves to be punished for the sins of other women.
/r/TheRedPill31/05/14 06:11 PM
3

The evidence that sluts are more likely to cheat is inconclusive, but even if it the case, I find it bizarre that people put that much emphasis in a number like that when decided whether or not to marry someone. You should know enough about the person to know whether or not they'd cheat on you before you make that kind of commitment to them regardless of how many people they've had sex with.
/r/TheRedPill21/05/14 06:06 PM
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You are fighting a losing fight my friend. There are some people here who, like us, don't give a shit how many guys a woman has slept with as long as she doesn't have an STD. But we are greatly outnumbered by the insecure neckbeards and religious conservatives who have formed an unholy alliance to upvote everything anti-woman.
/r/TheRedPill21/05/14 01:22 AM
2

marxist/liberal movements gained momentum because women got the vote. The Liberal movement, sure. But there has never been a serious Marxist movement in the US. women got the vote, but never got drafted. Women were given 50% of the power to send our men to war. Sure, but at the same time, we had the draft before 1920, but we no longer have it. So in terms of comparing the country how it is today versus how it was in 1920, that's another example of how the country has improved since women got the…
/r/TheRedPill16/05/14 05:59 PM
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That doesn't make sense at all. If the argument is that our country is so much worse than it was before women could vote, it's an argument you aren't going to win with very many people. Not only are we far more technologically advanced now than we were then, but the United States as a country is far richer and more influential. It should go without saying that for black people and other racial minorities, the country is much better now than it was back then. We don't have any lynchings or intern…
/r/TheRedPill16/05/14 05:44 PM
0

I don't know about this situation in particular, but this the of logic does make sense depending on the situation. By being a stay at home wife, she's sacrificing her own potential career growth. At the same time, but taking care of the domestic chores, this frees up the husband to increase his income and net worth more than he would have been able to do without her. In this case it makes perfect sense for her to get some of the financial assets she indirectly helped accumulate. Of course, if he…
/r/TheRedPill05/05/14 02:00 AM
1

Biologically for women, the younger you have children the better (at least as long as you're older than 20). But financially older is better, since most people are more financially secure as they get older. For a woman who wants children it's important to balance these two factors. However, since I've had more vasectomies than kids, I'm perfectly happy with the trend of more childfree women.
/r/TheRedPill26/04/14 02:06 AM
5

The idea is that women think about men, they tend to generalize men as the kind their attracted to. The supermodel example is pretty weak, but the stronger one is the very first one he makes when he starts quoting himself. The fact that it's common for women to say "All men are assholes" or something similar, completely ignoring the army of nice guys who will do everything for them. So there is a company whose senior management of four guys seems to favor the employment of young and attractive w…
/r/seduction22/04/14 12:31 AM
4

Holy shit. I feel really bad for both him and the kid. I can't believe he's doing all this for a woman who weighs closer to 300 than 200. I don't understand why any guy would put himself through that.
/r/TheRedPill15/04/14 11:28 PM
1

If your goal is to get laid, and not to do socially desirable things, then it is a useful skill. Maybe it's because I don't really value monogamous relationships that much, but to me it's not my job to enforce the rules they set for themselves in their relationship. The only exception is if they're raising children together, then them breaking up would have a real negative impact beyond just hurt feelings.
/r/seduction12/04/14 02:17 AM
1

I'd be quite happy. He's basically complimenting my good taste in women (and my ability to attract them). If she wants to stay with me then she'll turn him down. If she cheats on me with him that's fine too, I can always find another one. I'm undecided on whether or not to do that kind of thing personally, but I don't blame people for mentioning it on here for those that do. If you only want to maximize the number and quality of women you have sex with, being able to seduce somebody else's partn…
/r/seduction12/04/14 01:43 AM
11

I'm a fan of their various channels, but I have to make clear that he isn't a scientist. He has some degrees in scientific areas, but he doesn't have a PhD and he has no peer reviewed research (that I know of). He's more of a science educator. I don't spend a lot of time talking to many real scientists on these issues, but my feeling is that most scientists don't buy this crap about everybody being beautiful, especially not psychologists.
/r/TheRedPill11/04/14 10:18 PM
13

That's not entirely correct. Until Biden forced him to come out in favor of gay marriage, he said his views were "evolving", which is code for "I'm in favor of gay marriage but I'm too much of a wuss to come out and say it"
/r/TheRedPill04/04/14 03:43 AM
6

Usually my girlfriend just puts her hand down my pants, but I'm not so sure that counts as subtle. A woman I work with likes me I'm pretty sure. She always sits next to me in meetings, punches me when I make a joke, and has even laid her head on my shoulder a couple times (which honestly makes me nervous, being at work and all). One thing I look for is if she pushes her boobs out to show them off. It may not mean she's attracted to you, but usually means she's fishing for somebody in the area. A…
/r/seduction01/04/14 02:29 AM
42

I can see why people hate TRP as a subreddit, but it's dumb to assume that just because someone comments on here they agree with everything that has ever been posted.
/r/TheRedPill31/03/14 08:27 PM
1

None for me. When you weigh the positives and negatives of having kids, the negatives are immense, and the positives never appealed to me. Needless to say I got a vasectomy and couldn't be happier.
/r/TheRedPill27/03/14 10:09 PM
1

My situation is a bit different than yours. I have no interest in having kids at all, so I got one when I was 22. It's a little too early to talk about regret, but the procedure itself was very easy.
/r/TheRedPill27/03/14 07:01 PM
3

Yes, because talking about Presidents from 100 years ago might cause controversy, while mentioning the sitting president won't bother anybody.
/r/TheRedPill14/03/14 11:00 PM
1

You do know the Great Depression started in 1929, right? Less than a year after Coolidge left office.
/r/TheRedPill14/03/14 10:58 PM
0

I can't see Obama saying that. You know why you can't see Obama saying that? Because he's not a fucking idiot. Look at Todd Akin and Richard Mourdock. Their entire base is old rich white men, but they lost in Conservative states because of comments they made. Women are a key part of the Democratic base, why would he want to risk pissing them off with that kind of comment when he has enough money to buy a new pair of socks every day for the rest of his life? Besides that, what does Obama even hav…
/r/TheRedPill14/03/14 10:56 PM
1

My girlfriend did the exact opposite. She started in Finance, which she was very good at, but realize Computer Science had better jobs and switch. She's pretty bad at it, but she's sticking to it despite me trying to convince her to go back to finance.
/r/TheRedPill12/03/14 11:19 PM
3

I was a Physics major, Math minor, and currently pursuing a Masters in Computer Science (i.e. I got this STEM thing covered). As part of my university studies I took classes in English, Psychology, Philosophy, Anthropology, and, yes, Women's Studies. In all of those except Women's Studies, I felt like I was at least learning something. I could see the value (even though I generally don't think English and Philosophy are all that valuable). The feminist who taught my class was far more reasonable…
/r/TheRedPill12/03/14 11:15 PM
4

Everyone's different, people are attracted to different things. I can't believe people seriously say this kind of stuff. Sure, I might have a preference for bigger boobs while Bob likes smaller ones, but nobody's going to argue that Rosie O'Donnell is better looking than Kate Upton
/r/TheRedPill06/03/14 07:09 PM
1

This has nothing to do with the red pill, but while we're on the topic let's go ahead and explain this in both a pro-Conservative and pro-Liberal way. Pro-Conservative Guys who are physically strong work out a lot and understand that hard work leads to results, so we shouldn't be subsidizing people who don't want to put in the hard work to make money. Pro-Liberal Smarter guys tend to be physically weaker, because their intelligence makes them more interested in things like reading and learning n…
/r/TheRedPill02/03/14 10:15 PM
2

57% of Democrats believe in Evolution according to your link, while only 30% of Republicans do. 57% isn't good, but it's a lot better than 30%.
/r/TheRedPill02/03/14 09:58 PM
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My girlfriend and I don't spend much money (mainly going out to eat and going to museums and stuff), but when we do I pay about 90% of the time. Not because I'm beta and want to please her, but because I make a pretty good wage and she's an unemployed college student. It doesn't make any sense for her to pay for things with debt that I can easily afford. If she managed to find a job tomorrow where she made more than me I'd be ecstatic. Not only would I be happy for her, but it also means that I …
/r/TheRedPill28/02/14 11:53 PM
5

I haven't read any of his work, but from what I've heard he gives very, very low level advice. For example, his advice to tackle the lowest amount of debt first. In reality the best strategy is to pay off the highest interest debt first.
/r/TheRedPill25/02/14 08:50 PM
-14

I'll defend her, kind of. Women view emotional cheating as worse than physical cheating, so I do believe she wouldn't have been as upset if he had been having one night stands instead of sex with the same woman multiple times. That being said, she obviously was expecting to get laid a lot and her boyfriend to get no action.
/r/TheRedPill23/02/14 06:08 PM
22

This is the thing that got me to really think about what I was doing wrong. It seemed like I had to put in so much effort and still got rejected, while plenty of guys had sex without hardly trying. It also makes me wonder, when I read these stories of beta guys who wine and dine a girl for months without sex and then find out she was banging somebody else, do they not wonder how much effort this other guy put in compared to what they're doing?
/r/TheRedPill23/02/14 06:23 AM
2

For me, I got the being attractive part down well before I lost my virginity. I struggled for many years to transition from "this girl likes me" to "I'm banging this girl". So the moment I lost my virginity was when I knew I had reached the finish line.
/r/seduction22/02/14 08:00 PM
8

Don't worry, I speak British. 11 stone is 154 pounds in American. 13 stone is 182. And that ain't skinny. My freshman year of high school I was 5' 9" and 120 pounds (8 stone 8 pounds in British). In hindsight I don't know how that's even possible, and I knew a guy about my height who weighed even less than I did.
/r/TheRedPill22/02/14 04:02 PM
20

I had a similar thing happen to me. I don't know how to do redditlog, so I won't post links (unless somebody wants to show me or do it for me, it shouldn't be hard to figure out from my comment history). This girl posted in /r/OKCupid a profile critique stating she got lots of visits but very few messages. When I look at her profile it became obvious why. Her primary picture is just of her face, and she looks quite beautiful. But then she also posted a picture of her whole body, and she was kind…
/r/TheRedPill22/02/14 03:52 PM
1

I love articles like this. They're great at pumping up my already overinflated ego. I do in fact have a good corporate job. I make far more than my parents did at my age, and they're lawyers! Hell, I make almost as much as my mom does now. I work less than 40 hours per week and the hours I do work are relatively stress free. I probably spend more time on reddit than I do actually working, and a lot of meeting time is spent talking about non-work stuff. There's a good reason why reddit has a STEM…
/r/TheRedPill19/02/14 11:04 PM
1

I would be surprised if it wasn't more complex than what I said. Political views are a lot more nuanced than just liberal or conservative.
/r/TheRedPill18/02/14 05:25 PM
6

Yeah, I'm not exactly going to go running to Nature to have them publish it. But if there are differences in attractiveness between conservative and liberal men, I would guess that would be pretty close to the reason why.
/r/TheRedPill18/02/14 04:52 AM
9

I'm a liberal man, but I'll admit that in general a conservative mentality would be more attractive to women. My stereotype would be that liberals want to help others and try to be understanding of the plights of other people, while conservatives want you to pull yourself up by your bootstraps without caring if you fail. The former is much closer to the beta mindset while the latter is closer to the alpha mindset. It also makes sense for rich women to prefer this over poor women. Richer women do…
/r/TheRedPill18/02/14 02:44 AM
4

Who would read that story and think he's gay? Why would a gay guy want to cock block his female friend?
/r/TheRedPill17/02/14 11:59 PM
5

What do you mean by "importance"? If you mean ability to attract a member of the opposite sex, it's more important for women than men by far, since men are mainly attracted to looks while women are attracted to looks plus other things. But if you mean important as in judged to be competent in other areas of life, I'd say it's probably about equal.
/r/TheRedPill16/02/14 01:11 AM
39

My first two thoughts: What a surprise... When men don't like fat women it's a tragedy, when women don't like short men nobody gives a single fuck.
/r/TheRedPill12/02/14 11:22 PM
9

When I first found the redpill (thanks to so many people mentioning they hate it), I was like "Cool, it's like PUA except without the canned lines." Now it's just what you describe, and I'm thinking about spending more time at /r/seduction.
/r/TheRedPill11/02/14 12:19 AM
6

That men are attracted to looks and women to wealth and social status. Fuck off, I'm attracted to looks and almost only looks. It may be true that this one woman is that way, but for the vast majority of women looks is just one part of what they find attractive. There are many, many guys (myself included) who were horrible with women for many years. Then they change in a non-physical way (i.e. their personality) and suddenly getting laid is easy. The idea of men being more "visual" by nature. I …
/r/TheRedPill08/02/14 12:12 AM
3

They've actually done studies that have shown fat shaming doesn't work, which surprised me. I guess the idea is that when people criticize you, you become defensive and less likely to change. On the other hand, I can't imagine that a general culture that views being fat as positive would motivate people to lose weight either. It's just the people have to come to the conclusion to lose weight themselves.
/r/TheRedPill07/02/14 12:53 AM
2

To be fair to your professor, she may simply be talking what the way the law is, not the way it should be. In a Democratic country the laws are influenced by popular opinion. She's 100% right that any politician who proposed banning divorce wouldn't be voted back to office, but since people don't enter into marriage expecting to be divorced, pre-nups aren't as big of a deal.
/r/TheRedPill04/02/14 08:16 PM
14

The problem with it is that he, and a lot of other white knights, get really wound up about this sort of thing when it probably doesn't happen that often. When they hear somebody complain like that, they intrepret it as "I was nice to Mary, so she should have sex with me. She doesn't want to have sex with me, so she's a bitch". I'm sure there are plenty of guys out there that think this way, but I doubt they're the majority. What most guys really mean when they say this is "I'm a nice, kind, and…
/r/TheRedPill03/02/14 08:35 PM
2

The funny thing about that PUA one is that my life was (and still is) pretty awesome before I discovered it, but I had no chance with women before, and would probably still be a virgin today if it wasn't for discovering it. So I did figure out what was "holding me back", and it was the very thing he's criticising.
/r/TheRedPill03/02/14 08:26 PM
6

It's not anything new, but it's a good analogy to help understand it. It's generally not what you say that matters, but what you communicate. If you say "I make $1 million a year" but drive a shitty car and live in a trailer you'll communicate that you're poor. In the same way, you need to communicate to women that you're a high value sexual partner, which means acting like it doesn't matter whether or not she likes you.
/r/TheRedPill03/02/14 08:15 PM
44

I'm re-reading the series now, and I have to say that the relationships are the most unrealistic part of the whole series. I mean, none of the teachers who live in the school seem to be married or have sexual partners. Being childfree is a requirement to work at Hogwarts.
/r/TheRedPill02/02/14 04:09 PM
2

I think there's a different motivation for each one of these. The first one is because they think the book is condoning rape. Rape is a very touchy subject, and for good reason. Rape is a horrible crime, as everybody will agree despite what people want to believe about this sub. The problem is that rape is not a clear cut crime. Sure, if a guy breaks into a woman's house, ties her down, and has sex with her, that's obvious. Most people would also agree that having sex with a woman who's unconsci…
/r/TheRedPill02/02/14 01:09 AM
3

Apparently it's a well know thing in China that Americans have ugly Chinese girlfriends, although the explanation I found was different. Basically, Asian guys put a more heavy emphasis on having an imperfection-free face (i.e. no acne or anything) while American guys don't care as much about that. I've also heard that asian guys take a more holistic approach towards rating women, while Americans focus on body parts individually.
/r/TheRedPill01/02/14 03:53 PM
1

My first reaction was disdain at yet another red pill spin off, but now that I think about it it could be somewhat interesting. The biggest reason the red pill exist is because of betas who never knew any better. For all their talk of compassion and empathy, feminists and the like have completely ignored the plight of the desperate incel who has no idea why no girls like him. Of the more reasonable blue pillers I've talked to, this seems to be the biggest point that they miss. They try to tell g…
/r/TheRedPill01/02/14 05:16 AM
2

Upvoted for being interesting, although I'm not quite sure I agree. It depends on what exactly you're talking about. But let's take the examples you do give: If you assuming AWALT and after 50 years of marriage you realize that you were wrong, that's a first-world problem right there. If you assume NAWALT and after 10 years of marriage you're wrong, you're most likely broke and broken. If you get married, even if she "isn't like that" or whatever, assuming AWALT would mean that you choose to get…
/r/TheRedPill30/01/14 04:47 PM
1

There are some situations when the abused fears that if they go to the cops or tell somebody, then their abuser will hurt them even more. But other than that I agree with you.
/r/TheRedPill29/01/14 11:16 PM
1

Yeah, I'm not sure what being a liberal has to do with it. The fattest states in the US are some of the most conservative, while the liberal first lady spends most of her time "fat shaming" kids.
/r/TheRedPill29/01/14 10:53 PM
23

Imagine this comic, but instead of a girl friendzoning a nice guy, it's an attractive guy rejecting a Fat Acceptance girl. When guys complain about not getting laid, they need to shut up an stop thinking they deserve sex. When a girl complains about not getting laid, it's societies fault for shaming her.
/r/TheRedPill28/01/14 08:49 PM
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I love those kinds of comments. First of all, they admit that it works. But more importantly, it shows the incredible lack of sympathy they have for incels. They tell them to stop complaining, they don't deserve sex. Then when the incel finds something that can finally get them laid, these people tell them that that's not what they really want.
/r/TheRedPill28/01/14 08:45 PM
6

It's not really that hard to find a woman who isn't a "crass/alcoholic/entitled slut". My girlfriend, while not perfect, never drinks, never curses, and has only ever had sex with one person (i.e. me). Her plan is to find a guy to get married to after we break up (which we will, since she wants kids and I don't). I was also best man at a wedding where the bride would also match your description. At the most basic level, red pill ideas are equally applicable to LTR's and ONS's, since it's ultimat…
/r/TheRedPill26/01/14 05:22 AM
-1

Between 1 and 10 on the offensiveness scale, the headline is about a 9.5 while the article itself is about a 4. Marketing complete.
/r/TheRedPill24/01/14 11:50 PM
0

I met my current girlfriend on OkCupid, and she's attractive. The problem with online dating is that for every attractive girl there's a hundred guys who are going to message her. So you're success rate is going to be way lower than in real life. The advantage is that you can message a dozen girls while eating lunch. There's really no reason to not at least put a profile up and check it every once in a while at least.
/r/TheRedPill23/01/14 02:31 AM
19

Here's an idea, why not have both parties be on birth control? It's not like you're limited to one birth control method per sexual encounter.
/r/TheRedPill23/01/14 02:24 AM
17

ROK is pretty hit or miss, but this was a great article. If a guy complains that he's always friendzoned, people complain that he thinks he deserves sex from the girls he likes. But if a guy expressive his preference for a certain type of girl, they complain that he's pushing his standards on women, the idea of people not deserving sex being completely forgotten.
/r/TheRedPill20/01/14 05:27 PM
4

I remember my school district had an entire booklet filled with scholarships that seniors could apply for. All the top students applied for every one they qualified for. Of the top students, only one got more than one, including our valedictorian (and he only got one because he was the only one that applied). On the other hand, there were many mediocre students, that got 3 or 4. It really pissed me off that they would reward mediocre students while giving the top students virtually nothing.
/r/TheRedPill20/01/14 02:23 AM
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The fact that she praised him as a father is definitely a positive. However, the way I read it is that she didn't want them to get in the way of her political ambitions. Without custody she has more time to focus on her career. She just doesn't want to frame it that way because it sounds bad (although I personally would view it as a positive if I were a Texas voter, since that allows her to focus more on running the state). Pretty much any politician is going to be somewhat narcissistic. You hav…
/r/TheRedPill20/01/14 02:18 AM
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There's a couple points you missed. two make her look better: Amber was 21 and in college. Dru was in ninth grade. Jeff Davis was awarded parental custody. Wendy Davis was ordered to pay $1,200 a month in child support. “She did the right thing,” he said. “She said, ‘I think you’re right; you’ll make a good, nurturing father. While I’ve been a good mother, it’s not a good time for me right now.’” And: “I was a vibrant part of contributing to our family finances from the time I graduated to the t…
/r/TheRedPill20/01/14 01:56 AM
3

Couple that with the Dems' mythiological belief that soon, very soon, very soon we swear, immigration will change the state blue, and you're going to see a huge commitment of cash. This is one of the most interesting things in politics in my mind, and I wish there was more data and analysis on it. On the one hand, when you look at the latino population, it seems like Texas will become a swing state in the next decade. On the other hand, Texas became more Republican relative to the rest of the co…
/r/TheRedPill20/01/14 01:53 AM
23

Do you actually believe they're really crying and don't know what they did? If a woman is going to shoplift, it makes perfect sense to do that, especially if it's a man confronting them, and especially if they're attractive. There are a ton of guys who'd let them get away with it. If I were the head of a shoplifting ring, I would yell at the women who didn't do this.
/r/TheRedPill19/01/14 01:16 AM
1

Can you give details? I can't see them myself, so I just have to go off the summary.
/r/TheRedPill17/01/14 12:00 AM
4

The first study doesn't really contradict blue pill thinking at all. They would argue that women who want to marry young would be looking for guys they could see marrying, while women who want to wait until marriage would be fine sleep around until they start husband hunting. The blue pill argument would be that those women who did sleep around are able to have just as good of marriages as those who married younger. And the more extreme blue pill argument would be that those older women would be…
/r/TheRedPill16/01/14 11:49 PM
6

Goes to show how stupid popular opinion can be sometimes. Truman was one of the best presidents we've ever had, and better than any president since.
/r/TheRedPill16/01/14 11:29 PM
1

That's still a pretty awful reason. If you spent all the time and resources a child requires on charity, you would make a much bigger impact on the world than passing down a couple genes that nobody cares about anyway. And I'm not saying that having a kid is bad. Just that the genetic argument is a piss poor reason.
/r/TheRedPill15/01/14 11:50 PM
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By that logic it should be men who shouldn't be allowed to vote, seeing as Bill Clinton was impeached by a party filled with men, who's support mainly came from men.
/r/TheRedPill14/01/14 10:18 PM
16

This is a good example where red pill thinking would do women some good. If you want a relationship and he doesn't next him. He's not the only guy on the planet.
/r/TheRedPill14/01/14 08:10 PM
2

TRP is great for its positive, constructive, self-improving philosophies.... It sucks for it’s negative, deconstructive beliefs I feel the same way. Sure, it's occasionally fun to make fun of some poor guy who has no idea what's going wrong, but when 90% of the posts don't help improve your sex life, it gets boring and useless.
/r/TheRedPill14/01/14 04:49 PM
2

This is my biggest complaint about the red pill. It seems half of the posts are complaining about women being sluts. I don't understand why some people are so obsessed with how many guys a woman sleeps with. Even if you assume women with lots of sexual partners are more likely to cheat, are you really going to not have a LTR with a woman who you otherwise like a lot because she had a lot of sex partners? And even if it is a deal breaker for you, is it really that hard to find a woman with just a…
/r/TheRedPill14/01/14 04:47 PM
3

I was about to laugh at you for being about 100 years behind the times, but after doing a little research it turns out Lamarckism is making a comeback.
/r/TheRedPill14/01/14 04:26 PM
2

But don't you want your own genes to continue on though? Why do you care about making your own genes continue on? How would that improve your life in any way? You realize that having kids will completely change your life, right? Having a kid because you want to pass on your genes would be like moving to a new city and changing your career so that you can have a red car instead of a white one. I got a vasectomy a couple weeks ago at 22, and I'm happy so far (although that isn't saying much). But …
/r/TheRedPill14/01/14 04:19 PM
1

The idea behind guys being the gatekeepers of relationships is that a woman would be better off with help raising a child than being a single mother. Men, however, can "pump and dump" and won't get stuck with a child, so having a woman who will stick around isn't as important. I don't know about red pill as a whole, but I personally tend to emphasize that people should do whatever they want. Some people really want to get married and have kids, while other people like myself don't want to do eit…
/r/TheRedPill13/01/14 02:38 AM
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The first and most fundamental idea is that men and women are different, both physically and psychologically. You already seem to accept this. There are two main differences when it comes to men and women. One is that men are the gatekeepers for relationships, while women are the gatekeepers to sex. The other is that what makes a woman attractive to a man is almost entirely her looks, while a man's personality also has an influence on a woman's attraction to him. For the first one, the main prac…
/r/TheRedPill12/01/14 05:10 PM
1

As others have said, you should be passionate about something because you're passionate about it, not to please women. But to answer your question more directly, it doesn't really matter what your passion is. I was a Physics major and a general math nerd, and my girlfriend loves it when I talk about that kind of stuff, she even begs me to "talk physics" during sex.
/r/TheRedPill12/01/14 04:24 PM
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I'm a huge TYT fan, and this is an example of why. I don't always agree with them, but they're more reasonable than pretty much any other news show I've ever seen.
/r/TheRedPill12/01/14 04:13 PM
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I'm a liberal, and I've definitely noticed some people make conservative comments not really related to red pill. I'm not quite sure why, but I have a couple ideas. Men as a whole tend to be more conservative, so naturally any group made up mostly of men will tend to be conservative (NFL fans also tend to be more conservative). Since Feminism is essentially a far left philosophy, the guys who buy into feminism are also going to be liberal, so that takes some liberals out of the red pill pool. I'…
/r/TheRedPill12/01/14 04:12 PM
13

It's not so much a shit test, as it is a reflection of her thoughts towards you. Imagine if a fat ugly woman came up to you shoved her breasts in your face. Wouldn't "Ewww" be your reaction too? I was once where you are now, and if I were to go back in time and give myself advice, I'd recommend just dropping her. Any time she asks to talk or do anything just say you're busy. It doesn't matter if you are or not, just say you are. Then what you do is you have to learn to get control of your own de…
/r/TheRedPill12/01/14 03:19 AM
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I was talking to my uncle (who's a professor of psychology) about this a couple days ago, and while we didn't mention feminism directly, we did talk about the underlying philosophy that a lot of feminists believe. Basically they tend to side with nurture in the nature vs. nature debate to an extreme degree (in reality our psychology is a mix between nature and nurture). This is why even the more academic feminists concentrate so much on what society tells us to do. If they can just get movies an…
/r/TheRedPill11/01/14 07:05 PM
6

The importance of not apologizing is actually something I learn in /r/TalesFromRetail. When you say sorry, even if you clearly aren't admitting to doing something wrong, people still interpret it as you admitting to being wrong. If you're in the right, don't apologize. If you're in the wrong, apologize quickly and fix your mistake if you can.
/r/TheRedPill11/01/14 04:38 AM
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This "new formula" is the same old formula that PUA's have been promoting forever. While there's some good stuff in there, it takes the wrong approach, and it was the error I made when I first heard about it. If somebody reads this is tries to do these exact things the way he's describing they're going to fail. They'll come off as fake, because they are. Unless you're some sort of great actor, following these sort of rules just won't work. You shouldn't have to think when trying to attract a wom…
/r/TheRedPill11/01/14 04:28 AM
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She dumped him for being too chubby, he is no longer chubby, and she wants him back. Makes sense to me.
/r/TheRedPill11/01/14 02:54 AM
3

I'm the same way. I spend most of my free time at home alone on my computer (of course, I don't have all that much free time). Somehow I've managed to teach myself how to at least appear outgoing for short periods when I need. But when it comes to maintaining, that's a lot easier. If you're not exciting and outgoing, chances are any LTR won't be either, and you'll spend most of your time together alone (at least that's my experience). So being outgoing and exciting isn't as important as just a g…
/r/TheRedPill10/01/14 04:27 AM
6

Pretty much. If anything you should always be improving. The biggest problem is that people on TRP/PUA/Seduction like to make these tips sound as ridiculous as possible (for the shock value? I don't really know why), so a lot of people try to act like the stereotypical PUA and end up making a fool of themselves. The goal is to meet somebody from /r/thebluepill in person and not have them realize you're a member of TRP (I recommend going over there and seeing how many women claim to have beta boy…
/r/TheRedPill10/01/14 03:44 AM
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Here's what happened. Husband was boring and lifeless while raising their children, so she lost attraction for him. She may or may not have cheated because of this. When kids leave, she sees an opportunity to leave and have a more fulfilling sex life. The husband recognizes defeat and starts preparing for bachelorhood, which he used to make himself more attractive (started talking to other women, be more playful and exciting, etc.). Because he started acting in a more attractive way, the wife st…
/r/TheRedPill10/01/14 12:45 AM
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This is priceless. We all know what's really going on here, so let's look at some commenters trying to explain it. I caught her in a lie about a gift from a coworker. One of my theories is she was having an affair, she wanted to go through with a divorce so she could get together with him. Their relationship soon fizzled out, so she now is rethinking divorce. This is 100% correct. Yep, because an affair fizzling out can make her start lusting after you. She told me before she didn’t have the hot…
/r/TheRedPill10/01/14 12:03 AM
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Most of the time, the Slut Double Standard Complaint is just something that sluts use to rationalize, excuse and defend their behavior. The irony being: if she truly believed her behavior was not shameful, she would not feel compelled to defend it. Methinks, the lady doth project too much. I don't buy this. Pretty much everybody will defend their actions regardless of whether or not they themselves secretly think it's wrong. For example, consider all the times /r/childfree complains about people…
/r/TheRedPill09/01/14 11:42 PM
2

Absolutely, but it decreased when you remote an incentive to lie. So there's solid evidence that lying leads to this false correlation, but of the correlation that's left with more accurate surveys, we don't know how much is still from lying and what is really representative of a real world effect.
/r/TheRedPill06/01/14 01:56 AM
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Wow, OP has spent a lot of time posting different AdviceAnimals in which he claims to be a woman and then says something designed to reinforce a negative female stereotype. Fucking scum. How dare he perpetuate the sexist myth that women who care for their husbands would want to do nice things for him? They need to stop spreading all these negative stereotypes about women and instead realize women are selfish bitches.
/r/TheRedPill06/01/14 01:05 AM
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If anything, that study supports OP's point. To determine whether the strength of the association between a predictor variable and infidelity was significantly different between the two modes of interview, we computed tests of dependent correlations (Cohen & Cohen, 1983) on the basis of the correlation coefficients associated with the regression coefficients presented in Table 2. There were statistically significant differences in the magnitude of the associations between the two modes of interv…
/r/TheRedPill05/01/14 11:02 PM
3

Other than demanding people finding women attractive no matter what, it isn't really all that bad, as long as they don't start complaining that they can't find a man after not giving a shit how they look.
/r/TheRedPill05/01/14 10:44 PM
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Now that you mention it (and I'm getting on a roll), their overriding concern is equality. Equality is a fine goal (at least equality of opportunity), but the way they get to it is very wrong. They believe that if men and women are fundamentally different, then discrimination is justified. That's why they get upset when any research is done that shows any difference at all. This is also why they embrace post modernism. When everything is subjective, it's impossible to say that one gender is supe…
/r/TheRedPill05/01/14 03:05 AM
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I put it to you, that my personal preference for slim women is not derived from prejudice or ignorance, but the exact opposite. Now that I think about it, that's pretty true. There are some women who are overweight who are somewhat attractive. Not many, but a few. But if I actually think about having a relationship with them (which is what they want, not necessarily what I want), I wouldn't want to date a women who lives the type of lifestyle that makes them overweight. I don't exercise enough a…
/r/TheRedPill05/01/14 01:36 AM
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There's two types of logic, deductive (if a, then b. a is true, therefore b is true) and inductive (I know that a ball that's thrown in the air will eventually start falling, because that's what's happened every other time). Induction is what science uses, while deductive is what math uses. The problem of induction is that we can't know induction is an accurate way of thinking about the world, because they only way you can prove induction works is to use induction. It's impossible to answer the …
/r/TheRedPill04/01/14 06:29 PM
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Now that I think about it, they basically use the problem of induction (the only way to prove induction is true is to use induction) to argue that you can't use induction, hence everything is subjective.
/r/TheRedPill04/01/14 05:44 PM
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That hit on some of the biggest problems I have with TRP, mainly the "women are more emotional" (I don't buy this at all, men and women are just emotional in different ways) and dismissing NAWALT too easily. The biggest problem with his comment is when he started talking about those probabilities. I'm pretty familiar with math and probability (I went to math contests in high school and almost always got 1st place in probability), and he made a couple massive errors in those calculations. What do…
/r/TheRedPill04/01/14 05:40 PM
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I sometimes go to /r/thebluebpill just to get a different perspective, and one time they linked to a guy on /r/asktrp who was in a long relationship, and after reading TRP started not talking to his girlfriend for days at a time and refusing to hang out with her if they weren't going to have sex. He was wondering why his girlfriend acted badly towards it, and the people at TBP used it as an example of why TRP doesn't work. Of course, what TBP failed to mention was that the people in the comments…
/r/TheRedPill04/01/14 05:05 PM
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I read an argument once that, no joke, science is inherently misogynistic. Since feminism is rooted in post modernism, which basically says everything is subjective, it is at odds with an institution like science that claims to be objective. I forget how they made the jump from "Science claims to be objective" to "Science is misogynistic", but it had something to do with the claim of objectivity being used to promote the status quo, which is itself misogynistic.
/r/TheRedPill04/01/14 04:46 PM
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There's no way a normal guy, no matter how beta, could message a girl every day for months without getting a response and not be able to take the hint.
/r/TheRedPill04/01/14 04:27 AM
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That's part of it, but I think women tend to go above and beyond in that regard compared to men. For example, my girlfriend always buys me candy and kettle corn for no reason, while I almost never buy her stuff out of the blue. In fact, I remember hearing some place that a girl randomly getting you stuff that you once mentioned you liked is a sign that she likes you.
/r/TheRedPill04/01/14 01:46 AM
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I think it is judging by the name, but I wouldn't be surprised at all if it's a girl, since they also have a problem understanding what it's like to not be able to get laid.
/r/TheRedPill04/01/14 01:43 AM
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I really hate this about people. I would love if people were able to freely speak their mind about stuff. I'd be a way better person because I would know more of what I need to improve on.
/r/TheRedPill04/01/14 12:32 AM
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I think it's largely in our nature to honor your dedication to us and our family by being worthy of the sacrifice you are willing to make on our behalf. I mean that in terms of being an honorable partner, a good parent, a kind and faithful person etc. That's pretty interesting. So a good test to see if a girl truly loves you is to see if she's willing to do stuff to improve your life? For example, she would surprise him by making his favorite meal, or making sure to stay in shape and look good f…
/r/TheRedPill04/01/14 12:30 AM
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That's an easy thing to say to do, but tough to actually execute. Don't wanna overly damage the man's ego or create an irreparable imbalance in the relationship. Why the fuck would she be worried about creating an "irreparable imbalance"? She's already halfway out the door, and if a swift kick in the nuts won't get this guy to stop being a fatass then she absolutely should leave him.
/r/TheRedPill04/01/14 12:24 AM
2

This is one thing TRP says that I've never fully accepted, but mainly because I didn't have evidence either way and honestly don't care enough to investigate. But since you've gotten some explanations on this, would you say that it is in line with what you've felt? Do you agree that women are incapable of loving a man the same way a man can love a woman?
/r/TheRedPill03/01/14 11:55 PM
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Good job. I found this paragraph of his particularly stunning. First, I don't think that you're really looking for what TRP is offering. At their heart, TRP and the 'seduction' community are about one thing: getting laid. You're a 23-year-old virgin, which means that you made it through high school and (probably) college, the horniest times in peoples' lives, without having sex. I don't think that casual, meaningless sex is what you're looking for. The thing is: TRP will not help you get a girlf…
/r/TheRedPill03/01/14 11:41 PM
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I never thought of it that way. There are a lot of people in the US who on the one hand point out all the ways our country is lacking, and say we should improve on it. Yet if you were to point out the ways an individual was lacking, and suggest ways to improve them, you're "shaming" them.
/r/TheRedPill03/01/14 11:33 PM
1

There was one comment that made no sense at all. Both of you put unreasonable expectations on NYE. Her for wanting to create the top romantic moment, you for wanting to be proud of your gf, dance, and have ultimate fun. Wanting to be proud of your girlfriend, dance, and have fun are unreasonable expectations? It's not like she accidentally spilled a drink on him and he flipped out on her. You can tout love, but she could ask the questions in reverse: if you loved her, you obviously knew she was …
/r/TheRedPill03/01/14 09:46 PM
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I also enjoy browsing the blue pill, and they can be reasonable sometimes. I find it amazing that they'll give red pill advise while bashing the red pill. They'll just use softer words. And then there's the group that thinks there's no way TRP would work, usually these are women. I think the reason they believe this is because they think of the cheesy PUA who tries to use all these tricks to get women to sleep with them. In reality the guys who truly know what they're doing game women in a way t…
/r/TheRedPill03/01/14 03:54 AM
1

You sure could. I went to a very prestigious school that cost $50k a year in tuition, so I was amazed people would spend all that money and waste the opportunity of going to a good school to major in something like Women's Studies or African American Studies.
/r/TheRedPill01/01/14 06:32 PM
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I took a women's studies class, and I spent most of my time wondering why my university would waste money on it (although my school had more money than it knew what to do with, and from what I could tell the women's studies department didn't get a ton of funds, but still). There is a place for Feminism in school, but just as a single class or part of a Philosophy class, not a whole major. "Feminist Theory" is basically just postmodernism, which is a fine thing to study as a part of Philosophy, b…
/r/TheRedPill01/01/14 12:27 AM
1

Because one of the requirements for my degree was to take a "cultural diversity" class, and back then I was naive and thought a class called Sexuality Studies would be really interesting and all of the other classes that fulfilled it were pretty boring.
/r/TheRedPill31/12/13 03:24 PM
1

I don't really remember. Most likely it was the history of how people thought about gender and sex.
/r/TheRedPill31/12/13 12:09 AM
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Well, the syllabus is in a pdf and pretty long, but I'll give the highlights. "Sexuality is important because norms regarding ʻproperʼ and ʻnormalʼ sexual behavior function everywhere to socialize and control . . . behavior.” --Leonore Tiefer “The hallmark of sexuality is its complexity: its multiple meanings, sensations, and connections.” -Carole Vance Course Description: An introduction to the history and practice of the study of sexuality. Using social constructionist, interactionist, and fem…
/r/TheRedPill30/12/13 11:48 PM
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I have a ton of crap if you really want to know. I took a class a couple years ago and the professor gave a shit ton of reading assignments. I was a naive freshman, so I actually downloaded it all and planned on reading it. If you PM me your email I'll send it to you, and you'll have more academic feminist writing than you'll ever need.
/r/TheRedPill30/12/13 11:13 PM
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I'm going to take the opposite side of this. His problem isn't that she slept around, but that she slept with white guys and not Indians. If he doesn't care about the number itself, then I don't think he should really care that she hasn't been with an Indian guy. Sure there were probably lots of Indian guys around, but from what I've seen Indian guys tend to be pretty beta, so it's not surprising she didn't find any of them attractive. If she's attracted to him, then I don't see why it's a probl…
/r/TheRedPill30/12/13 02:28 AM
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Because he lives in America, so if he married somebody who wasn't part of his traditions it would be harder for them to be a part of it.
/r/TheRedPill30/12/13 02:24 AM
1

Good for you, but having a twin bed still doesn't mean you're beta and not having regular sex. It just means you have a twin bed.
/r/TheRedPill29/12/13 05:45 PM
1

Good for you, but having a twin bed still doesn't mean you're beta and not having regular sex. It just means you have a twin bed.
/r/TheRedPill29/12/13 05:32 PM
1

I used to have sex on a twin bed all the time. If you already have a twin bed and don't mind it why would you spend hundreds of dollars on a new mattress just to please girls who have already decided to have sex with you by the time they've seen it?
/r/TheRedPill29/12/13 04:15 PM
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I think sleeping with other women will definitely let me know if what I am having is good or bad. Plus there are definitely some things I want to try that my gf is not really open to. OP, you're starting to sound like a self-righteous asshole. When you ask for advice, take it, and don't sit and give your damn opinion on every single suggestion trying to turn it into a debate. You're the one that asked for advice... Yeah, let's completely ignore the wants and needs of the guy asking for advice. H…
/r/TheRedPill28/12/13 04:27 PM
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I've thought about this too. Basically, as others have said, looks are evolutions way of getting you to mate with somebody with good genes and health. But, as you said, having sex with a suboptimal partner should still be better than having sex with noone (or having sex with both an ugly and an attractive girl is better than just having sex with an attractive girl), so why don't we have sex with everybody? The answer is that having sex with an ugly girl can lower your SMV, which negatively effec…
/r/TheRedPill27/12/13 07:59 PM
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Online, men buy items through her 'shopping list' and send them to her. This makes me feel really sad. I can kind of understand paying for the webcam girl to do what you want (although at that point you should just get a hooker). But why would you buy them stuff and get nothing in return? I don't blame the women who do that at all (hell, I would too if I could), but the guys who do it need to get their shit together.
/r/TheRedPill27/12/13 07:36 PM
2

I'm in a LTR now, and there are certainly some benefits. She helps me do chores around the house (she lives with her parents), I know she doesn't have STD's, I know she's on birth control (although that doesn't matter since I got a vasectomy), and she's pretty good with money so I can talk to her about stuff. She's also fun to be around and is pretty attractive. On the other hand we both know this relationship will end eventually, and I'll probably not be in a LTR after we break up. She wants to…
/r/TheRedPill27/12/13 05:47 PM
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I could maybe see it as rape if it weren't for the fact that they had sex at her house. It was already a stretch to call it rape, but once you invite them over to your house it's clearly consentual. (Also note how he framed it in the story. Not "She invited him over", but "he started to come over".) From a RP, perspective, he has an interesting comment. She describes feeling panicked after she delivered our daughter. Like she couldn't make the house safe enough. When it came to us being intimate…
/r/TheRedPill27/12/13 05:34 PM
1

I'm mainly talking about the correlation between values, not the values themselves. Obviously if you survey women asking how many sexual partners they've had, the average will be lower than reality (I think somebody did this and showed that men reported more sexual partners on average than women, which is obviously impossible). But when you think about how the lying would effect the relationships between values, it's also obvious that it would make lower sex partners and later age of losing virg…
/r/TheRedPill25/12/13 02:42 AM
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He went on to tell me that if the only thing a woman has to offer is sex, she isn't special. I bet there are a lot of people who would find this offensive, even though this is what feminism is supposed to be about. Somehow "we should treat men and women equally" has morphed into "all women have value beyond sex". The fact is that women (and men) are only valuable if they have value.
/r/TheRedPill24/12/13 11:16 PM
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Also, your friends didn't have the last laugh. They got to screw her once. You went on to marry this hot chick and have a beautiful family with her. That's getting the last laugh. I wish I could be this delusional. If I could think this way I would never be upset about anything.
/r/TheRedPill24/12/13 08:54 PM
3

First of all, this is from a conservative think tank, so it's very possible that they selectively included data that fit their agenda, although their source is a survey from the CDC. Secondly, since it's a survey, this isn't a representation of what reality is, but rather what people say the reality is. The fact that the women who lie would lie to make themselves look better could explain some of these correlations (like the fact that more partners means less happy). Also keep in mind that pover…
/r/TheRedPill24/12/13 03:06 PM
8

This is one thing I disagree with the rest of TRP on. I really couldn't give less of a shit how many guys a woman fucks. As long as she's fucking me and doesn't give me an STD I don't care. Even in a LTR it doesn't really matter. Sure, there's that one study that showed that women with more sexual partners are more likely to cheat, but "more likely" isn't "for certain". And even if she does cheat, it doesn't matter to me, I'll just break up with her. I don't understand TRP's obsession with sluts…
/r/TheRedPill24/12/13 12:59 AM
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“I’ve had the (near) perfect body and it’s not all it’s cracked up to be,” she wrote. To look like [Kang] does is (for most people) completely doable, if you are willing to sacrifice most of the things that you love. So she says that having a good body is a choice, and there are benefits on both sides. Awesome, I agree 100%. You look better and are healthier, but you have to spend time on it and sacrifice eating some things you like.Every person should weigh the benefits of both sides and pick t…
/r/TheRedPill21/12/13 10:26 PM
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That's what I find most amazing about TRP hate. Most people agree with a lot of the fundamental principles, but if you say it the wrong way then you're a horrible person.
/r/TheRedPill19/12/13 06:49 PM
1

You done good. That's pretty much the best possible response.
/r/TheRedPill17/12/13 05:09 PM
8

The decision to get married isn't as important as the one to have kids. Obviously marriage as an institution isn't important to him, so he'd need to decide if the government benefits are worth it. But if he's planning to have kids, and she wants to have kids, they should decide pretty soon. From her end, if she wants kids she's going to start having them before it's too late, and if he's not on board she'd be right to dump him so she has time to find a guy who will have kids with her.
/r/TheRedPill17/12/13 04:07 PM
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Agree, but the worst part is that the posts about women aren't even interesting. "OMG guys, can you believe some women like to have sex with lots of guys?" Ok, that's nice, but how about a post about how women look for different things in a FWB and a LTR, or what they want you to do in the bedroom. Those topics about women would help a guy gets what he wants, while the "Women are so slutty guys am I right?" posts don't really add anything.
/r/TheRedPill17/12/13 03:49 AM
4

I agree with her that people are too judgmental about other people. As long as you aren't hurting anybody, why should anybody care what you do with your life. On the other hand, they need to grow some thicker skin. So what if people say that about you? If people talking bad about you is the biggest problem you have your life is awesome.
/r/TheRedPill16/12/13 11:42 PM
6

You realize single men also tend to vote Democratic, right? In fact Obama won single men by 16 points. Besides, why is this relevant to TRP at all? Jews voted more heavily for Obama in 2012 than single women, does that mean Jews are lazy and want government money? Asians voted more democratic than even Jews, are they lazy and wanting to get government money?
/r/TheRedPill16/12/13 11:38 PM
6

My girlfriend showed up to our first date wearing sweats. She also doesn't wear makeup, so I thought about not going on a second date. I'm a pretty nice guy, so I decided to give her a second chance, and it turns out she looks good naked, which is all that really matters. But really, if you don't put at least a little effort into looking good for the first date then you can't complain when you don't get a second one.
/r/TheRedPill16/12/13 11:23 PM
5

I don't blame her at all. If people want to buy me stuff, I'm going to let them. He, however, is pathetic. Pretty much the type of guy who we try to educate here.
/r/TheRedPill15/12/13 03:13 AM
7

The Young Terks have an attractive woman on their show, and a couple years ago they had her go to the mall and try and get a guy to buy her shoes. You already know what happened.
/r/TheRedPill15/12/13 01:00 AM
6

I can't believe this is real. The best part, from the comments: What is a feminist logic is a question I’ve spent the past six months thinking about and researching. There are not a lot of women in philosophy, and there are definitely not a lot of feminist philosophers, so I don’t have a good answer for this question. There is great scholarship talking about weather a feminist logic can build off of formal logic or if it has to reject the laws of identity and create something entirely new. There…
/r/TheRedPill14/12/13 05:10 PM
1

I took a Women's Studies class in college that was essentially a feminist class. My problem with the class was the exact opposite of your problem with this sub. Their goals were admirable (they were the type of feminists who believed in equality, not women superiority), but they never proposed any real way to reach those goals. And even if they did propose a way to reach those goals, they would ultimately fail because the foundation behind their ideas was wrong. A TRP philosophy can be used to p…
/r/TheRedPill13/12/13 10:39 PM
322

You mean I just have to remain celibate until I'm 30, during which time I get to hear all about how you're having sex with guys that aren't me with no commitment, then when I'm 30 I'll get to spend a bunch of time and money on you for the same thing the previous guys got for free when you were younger and more attractive? How could anybody turn down this deal?
/r/TheRedPill13/12/13 04:55 PM
0

When a man is able to have sex with attractive women easily, he raises his standards. Why would I bang a 3 if I could land a 8? Naturally, the more men who follow TRP advise and can land more attractive women, the worse it will be for ugly women. It sucks for naturally ugly women, but would encourage fat women to lose weight, otherwise they won't be able to get laid.
/r/TheRedPill13/12/13 02:56 AM
2

This is one of the things I don't think TRP emphasizes enough. People (yes, women too) are way too scared of breaking up. Unless you have a kid or something, there's no reason why you should fear a breakup. Out of curiosity, what are some examples of her "bitchyness"?
/r/TheRedPill13/12/13 12:21 AM
5

I don't want kids, and I even got a vasectomy to cement it. It has nothing to do with TRP though, I'd rather just live my life the way I want than have to deal with them.
/r/TheRedPill13/12/13 12:11 AM
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You know, this sub gets a lot of flak for, apparently, only discussing ways to get laid even though we claim that it’s about being a better man This is the weakest complaint I've ever heard. The entire idea behind a subreddit is that it has a very narrowly defined purpose. Sure, some people may be obsessed, but just because people like to talk about a certain topic doesn't mean they're obsessed. If somebody posted a story about football in /r/dadjokes it would get removed. It doesn't mean subscr…
/r/TheRedPill12/12/13 05:25 PM
7

I just want to know what men are supposed to do if they find a woman sexually attractive. Are guys supposed to try not to be overly sexual. Or as the original comment says "He doesn’t want to oppress anyone by expressing interest or desire, so he just hangs around and acts cooperative." Apparently not... From the young UU woman’s perspective, there’s this guy hanging around her (or, more likely, multiple guys doing the exact same thing), pretending to only be interested in friendship when, from …
/r/TheRedPill10/12/13 11:22 PM
43

Imagine if a blue piller saw this. They'd say you just messed up by making her angry.
/r/TheRedPill10/12/13 10:39 PM
1

I love asking my girlfriend about guys she finds attractive, and she won't even consider anybody older than his mid 20's (she's 21). I wonder if she's just weird or if she isn't telling the truth.
/r/TheRedPill08/12/13 11:45 PM
3

Out of curiosity, what did they say? Has there ever been a sexually successful guy in history who has said "My trick is to be really nice and never indicate that I'm sexually attracted to them"?
/r/TheRedPill08/12/13 11:14 PM
8

I honestly think that most people agree with TRP at the most basic level. Only the most extreme feminists argue that there are no differences between men and women, and the vast majority of people agree that men and women look for different things in a mate. The only real difference between the "mainstream" view and TRP is that TRP is more willing to say what everybody knows, and isn't biased against men. Everybody knows fat people aren't attractive, but say it out loud and people hate you. Ever…
/r/TheRedPill08/12/13 11:09 PM
14

Pacifying someone into being completely sexless is normal when you just want to be friends but this process being repeated over and over again eventually starts to wear on my self-esteem. Let's just hope that someday he'll start to realize that what he's doing just isn't working, and despite what the top comment says, it is that he's unattractive. At some point he has to wonder why it's so difficult for him to have sex with women he finds attractive, and why nothing the SRS crowd is saying works…
/r/TheRedPill08/12/13 06:03 PM
2

Like the one fat girl who protested abercrombie and fitch by taking pictures of herself in their clothing with a really attractive guy? I'm still not quite sure what point she was trying to make, but it probably would have helped if the guy she took pictures with was also fat.
/r/TheRedPill08/12/13 05:38 PM
13

This is the main reason, and is how they view it, but I would argue that it makes no difference if men and women are inherently different. We should still have equality of opportunity.
/r/TheRedPill07/12/13 10:46 PM
9

I saw one post there that argued that TRP is in favor of rape. Their proof was a bunch of comments that were downvoted.
/r/TheRedPill07/12/13 10:40 PM
5

He said the BIL is an alpha. EDIT: I read it wrong too. It's the BIL's nephew, not OP's nephew.
/r/TheRedPill06/12/13 12:05 AM
1

That is a better way of looking at it. But using the duty frame is useful when one partner doesn't want to have sex or end the relationship. In that case, the partner witholding sex can't complain when the other partner leaves.
/r/TheRedPill05/12/13 09:17 PM
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/u/xLadyVirgil makes some good points in that second thread, basically arguing that sex is a duty in a monogomous relationship. Really the second story is the least objectionable thing I've read on here. I bet if you showed that story to them in a vacuum they'd be fine with his actions, but because it's on TRP they're automaticaly against it.
/r/TheRedPill05/12/13 07:46 PM
12

There's really two chunks to that. Him: How have you been Her: All good I have a BF now Him: Is it serious Her: Yea. Him: Oh so i guess you wouldnt want to hang out then Her: Well i text'd you so obviously i want to hang out.... as friends Him: But i really like you and dont know if i can control myself at a friends level Her: Well we'll just have to see what happens The second chunk: Him: What are you doing now Her: I just got out the shower Him: Ohh Snapchat!! (few minutes go by) Him:lol nvm H…
/r/TheRedPill05/12/13 03:33 AM
1

Copy pasta really doesn't get a lot of responses. Messages over 2 sentences don't either. Just glance only through the very end of the profile, write a quick, snarky one liner on some obscure thing in there - I've found that most successful. This is what I found to work well too. Atractive girls get a ton of messages, So you need to be able to stand out and do it quickly. A ton of women say in their profiles that they aren't interested in guys who post pics of their abs/muscles. They forget this…
/r/TheRedPill04/12/13 09:51 PM
5

What's an Uncle Tim? Is it like an Uncle Tom, but instead of a racist black person it's a man-hating man?
/r/TheRedPill04/12/13 09:36 PM
7

Being the contradiction between a guy who proposed to you "not wanting commitment", it's pretty shameful if the guys' reaction were to throw a tantrum. My best attempt at solving the contradiction is that in the middle of the relationship when she discussed marriage they didn't want to commit, but when faced with a breakup they got desperate.
/r/TheRedPill04/12/13 09:25 PM
3

Do you have any evidence for that "couples that cohabitate are happier and have more sex than married couples" thing? I know a married person who likes to point out that married people have more sex than single people. It would be nice to be able to point out that cohabitation is obviously superior.
/r/TheRedPill04/12/13 02:10 AM
2

Just because you throw around an acronym doesn't really address the issue that being a bad manager isn't a unique phenomenon among women.
/r/TheRedPill03/12/13 04:08 AM
21

I studied English and Spanish at Harvard University I'm going to stop you right there. I also went to a prestigious private school, and I'm amazed at the number of people who wasted that opportunity on useless majors. I knew a girl who majored in African American Studies. Keep in mind this school had a tuition of $50k a year and had an endowment of over $1 Billion for about 12,000 students. Why on earth would you go to Harvard and major in English and Spanish? At that point you might as well hav…
/r/TheRedPill03/12/13 03:59 AM
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If you really want to make yourself recession-proof, learn C# and Cobol. There are a ton of C# jobs out there right now, and no reason to assume that they'll die down anytime soon. In fact, my company pays employees $1500 if they can recruit a programmer. Cobol isn't big right now, but there are a lot of companies that still use that old green screen stuff, but the only people who know how to use it are 50+ years old. I predict that in about 10 or 20 years companies will be so desperate for Cobo…
/r/TheRedPill03/12/13 03:53 AM
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I've never seen a woman in a position of power at the workplace who did exploit her power. In fact, when I worked at McDonalds back in the day all of my bosses were female, and that is probably the best run fast food place I've ever been to. On the other hand I've also had a number of male bosses, and they have also all been excellent. The quality of a manager has nothing to do with their gender, although women are probably more susceptible to this type of feminism bullcrap ruining their profess…
/r/TheRedPill03/12/13 03:46 AM
2

Most decisions don't matter very much. Unless you're buying a house or car or making a long commitment, any wrong decision you make won't really effect your life past a couple days. So what if you go to a restaurant that isn't the best choice? In a couple weeks you won't even remember.
/r/TheRedPill01/12/13 04:27 PM
6

As a liberal, Obama's weakness pisses me off to no end. It seems every political debate goes something like this: Republicans: We want x. Obama: Ok. Me: God dammit.
/r/TheRedPill01/12/13 04:24 PM
10

There was one comment there that was 100% correct, the one by /u/PineConeKing. It's too long to post here, but he essentially says that the ideas behind TRP are correct, but: And in the end, with Red Pillers being guided by their anger, they become so focused on things like sex, control, and making out women to be the "enemy," they miss the ability to really connect and bond with another in a truly open and honest relationship. (I should add, many in TRP will discuss similar described issues wit…
/r/TheRedPill30/11/13 09:47 PM
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Same reason why "gender is a social construct" never has a footing in biology. Even briefly considering that in terms of evolution should make it obvious that it's wrong. Either they have to believe that gender is socially constructed in other social animals (chimps, dolphins, etc.) or they have to explain why humans are unique in this regard.
/r/TheRedPill30/11/13 12:40 AM
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After the first paragraph, the first answer isn't a complete disaster if you read it the right way. He's essencially saying to treat women like a human being, which TRP can translate as treat her like one of the guys. That would go a long way in improving a lot of betas. EDIT: Even the third answer you can make pretty good if you squint. She says to not make women uncomfortable, which being alpha helps (women are only uncomfortable when they guy who's hitting on them isn't attractive). Even the …
/r/TheRedPill29/11/13 02:24 PM
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Although in that case the guy did owe the boyfriend/husband/whatever something, so he was right to not cheat with her. The boyfriend let him stay in their house when he needed a place to stay.
/r/TheRedPill28/11/13 03:33 PM
12

Two words: Paternity test Alright, one more word: Divorce
/r/TheRedPill28/11/13 01:47 AM
5

I've heard it both ways. While maybe not "the most liberated thing a woman can do", the more reasonable feminists argue that women should be able to do whatever they want with their bodies, so porn and prostitution are fine. I've also heard that they're misogynistic. Personally, I would never pay for sex (it's pretty pathetic to have to pay somebody for sex unless you're disfigured or something), but if women want to it's fine by me. Why do I care what they want to do with their body?
/r/TheRedPill26/11/13 05:24 PM
1

If a guy is willing to buy her stuff, why not take it?
/r/TheRedPill26/11/13 02:36 PM
4

Let's be honest, most guys would do the same exact thing if given the opportunity. I've told my female friends before that they should take full advantage of their looks. If people will buy you free shit, let them. My girlfriend's kind of like this too. In our relationship we split stuff 50/50, but her plan is to marry a rich guy when she's 28. I asked her if she would cheat on her beta husband for somebody she found actually attractive and she said "No, why would I want to risk my money?" EDIT:…
/r/TheRedPill26/11/13 04:23 AM
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You should be able to "act alpha" naturally, so you can just attract women all the time and if you don't like them just turn them down if they ask. Having other women like you helps attract women. On the other hand, I find that sometimes I have time to think about my actions before I do them, and wonder if I should do alpha things or not. Usually I do do the alpha things, but at work I try not to as much because sex and work don't mix very well.
/r/TheRedPill26/11/13 03:13 AM
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Well, he did have the best sex of his life when he was married.
/r/TheRedPill25/11/13 10:35 PM
8

Men need to stop having sex with fat women (unless they're chubby chasers), otherwise why would they feel the need to lose weight? I've never had sex with a girl who weighs more than 130 pounds, to me it defeats the entire purpose of having sex (masturbation>sex with a fat girl). I could have lost my virginity about 5 years earlier if I had been willing to compromise on that.
/r/TheRedPill25/11/13 10:25 PM
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I'll buy that one test that asks if there is any female in the story that talks to another female about something other than a man. My favorite books and movies almost all pass this test. The only ones I can think of that don't are a Clockwork Orange (and I don't think anybody will complain) and Eyes Wide Shut (only because I can't think of any conversation that the protagonist isn't involved in). I don't really care about "strong" female characters, but what most bothers me is that the majority…
/r/TheRedPill24/11/13 01:19 AM
3

That's also part of the problem. Ultimately they need a reality check but they don't want to hear it.
/r/TheRedPill23/11/13 11:25 PM
7

It's a pretty big assumption to say they're trash. Unless you're familiar with the logic behind these comments, it's easy to assume that they're sexist. Most people want to help other people out. These women don't understand that they have to bring more to the table than just looks, because looks were good enough for them in the past. So if you can explain it in a way that they won't dismiss as sexist you can help improve their lives.
/r/TheRedPill23/11/13 09:30 PM
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Think about a guy's image. In high school and college guys want to be known as a player who can get laid whenever they want, so they'll be more likely to exaggerate their sexual conquests. An older guy doesn't want to be known as a player, because it looks bad when he's pursuing his career. When it comes to women, they don't want to talk about one night stands at all (although they're more likely to talk about the ones with guys closer to their age). They would rather talk about guys they were i…
/r/TheRedPill23/11/13 08:06 PM
1

As many people have explained, women have a harder time explaining what they find sexually attractive. This is because men are largely attracted to looks, which are very tangible. We think "wow she's attractive" or "eh, she's ugly". It's not exactly hard for a guy to make the connection that good looking = attractive. Women are more attracted to a guy's personality, which is a lot less tangible than looks. This makes it a lot harder for girls to pinpoint exactly what they find attractive. Most g…
/r/TheRedPill23/11/13 07:50 PM
7

There was one woman who posted on there several times, describing how her husband didn't want to have sex with her because he was too stressed from his job, despite the fact that she kept her body in good shape and got hit on all the time. One time her husband was in the kitchen, so she went into the bedroom naked to try and seduce him, and he said "You really want sex badly, don't you? We will later." Later never came. I suggested that she play hard ball and tell him that if he didn't fulfill h…
/r/TheRedPill23/11/13 07:30 PM
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His point is right, but I think he could have worded it better. When people hear "Women should be good at doing chores" it sends a flag of sexism in their brain, which shuts down all logic. If he would have included it along with some other positive traits like helping budget then his point would have been better received.
/r/TheRedPill23/11/13 07:03 PM
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Fine by me. I couldn't give less of a shit what other people choose what they do with their lives.
/r/TheRedPill23/11/13 06:30 AM
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One of the things I don't like about TRP is this attitude that females=bad and males=good. Sure, there are plenty of examples of women screwing up, but there are equally as many examples of men screwing up too. I have a friend, let's call him Troy, who used to work at a big insurance company. He's a real smart guy who did database work for them, but eventually they wouldn't promote him because of some BS rules. So he went back to school for Computer Science and found a job as an entry level prog…
/r/TheRedPill23/11/13 05:42 AM
7

Just keep in mind that if you don't have kids you are an evolutionary failure. This line of thinking is almost as bad as Creationists asking why there are still monkeys around if we evolved from them. Natural selection is a scientific theory that explains many things in Biology. It says how the world is, not how it should be. Being an "evolutionary failure" does not matter, at all.
/r/TheRedPill23/11/13 05:18 AM
1

They aren't really quotes, but these are the two most important things from TRP philosophy: Betas think about whether the girl likes them, alphas think about whether they like the girl. Women are gatekeepers for sex, Men are gatekeepers for commitment.
/r/TheRedPill23/11/13 05:12 AM
7

This guy should be commended for passing up potential riches to help those who aren't as fortunate. But he tried to live like he was rich. He made a bunch of expensive purchases (house, car, kids x2) before he and his wife were financially stable. If he had waited 5 years to start buying this stuff he likely would have been fine (although the wife may have still divorced him).
/r/TheRedPill23/11/13 05:07 AM
1

We saw different comments. The one I saw was very short (a sentence or two) and clearly said that he didn't think marital rape was rape.
/r/TheRedPill22/11/13 12:14 AM
4

I did see a comment in a thread a couple days ago that said that marital rape wasn't rape. But one comment doesn't equal everybody.
/r/TheRedPill21/11/13 08:55 PM
10

There is value to trying to make society change around you, but it's not an excuse to not improve your own life.
/r/TheRedPill21/11/13 08:53 PM
2

This girl had a very beautiful face, but didn't look fat at all so I didn't even question it. We set up a date for the morning, and the night before she tells me she doesn't want to go through with it. I was pretty pissed that she canceled at the last minute (people breaking plans is my biggest pet peeve). A couple weeks later I must have been bored or something, because I decided to look her up on facebook and it turned out she was pretty fat. Now I'm thankful that she canceled.
/r/TheRedPill21/11/13 02:10 AM
10

You turn around to confuse them so you have time to escape before they realize what's going on.
/r/TheRedPill21/11/13 02:07 AM
1

There aren't very many details, so it's hard to judge, but I'm going to side with the girl. I'm in a similar situation (I work full time, my girlfriend is a student) so I try to pay more for stuff because it just doesn't make sense for her to spend her student loan money on stuff that I can buy without even missing the money. Before I got this job she probably spent more on me than I did on her though. The only way I'll buy the guy's argument is if he's moving into an apartment his girlfriend ha…
/r/TheRedPill21/11/13 12:48 AM
3

Same here. There's a lot of useful info here and some interesting discussion, but some people are just way too extreme with it.
/r/TheRedPill21/11/13 12:42 AM
2

My girlfriend must be a fake woman then. I doubt any of these woman weigh less than double what my girlfriend does.
/r/TheRedPill21/11/13 12:39 AM
14

That second one on the right is my girlfriend's brother and his girlfriend. He's the definition of beta provider for her (WHY WOULD YOU BE A BETA PROVIDER FOR AN UGLY FAT GIRL?!?!?!). My girlfriend wants me to introduce him to TRP to hopefully shake him out of it.
/r/TheRedPill21/11/13 12:35 AM
13

After I did everything for her, drove her around, wine/dined the shit out of her and all this, she ended up sleeping with another guy while she was here. This sentence is the best description for the fundamental ideas behind TRP that I've heard. A beta guy invests an incredible amount of time, money, and effort just to have sex with a woman without success, yet she bangs a guy she knew for an hour.
/r/TheRedPill20/11/13 04:00 AM
5

She is pretty attractive, but with that level of crazy I wouldn't be surprised if it was a beta bucks alpha fucks situation.
/r/TheRedPill20/11/13 03:28 AM
7

You should make your comments about them as positive as possible. Something like "He's a really nice guy, you should go out with him". This not only lowers his value, but boosts your own by showing that you don't need her.
/r/TheRedPill20/11/13 01:41 AM
4

I can't think of any real decisions we've disagreed on. Since we've started dating I got a job, bought a house, and scheduled a vasectomy. I made sure she could drive me for the vasectomy, had her tour the house with me (she doesn't live with me though), and she didn't disagree with anything on those. When I got the job offer she just made sure I negotiated my salary higher. I trust her enough that I'd run every major decision by her just to get her thoughts to validate what I'm thinking.
/r/TheRedPill19/11/13 11:55 PM
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I like how that one guy said he should have just walked away. Yeah, because a guy whose job it is to be at the station can just walk away. I'm not quite sure how they expected him to handle it differently than he did. I feel sorry for her kids and husband. Their life must be hell.
/r/TheRedPill19/11/13 10:23 PM
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You should try reading sometime. I said: We might be at a restaurant trying to decide what we want, and I say we should get one thing, and she says we should get something different. I realize that her suggestion is better, and change my mind. What was left unsaid, because I thought it was obvious, is that this also happens in reverse, and sometimes we just decide to order our own things.
/r/TheRedPill19/11/13 09:39 PM
6

We might be at a restaurant trying to decide what we want, and I say we should get one thing, and she says we should get something different. I realize that her suggestion is better, and change my mind. That's the usual case. I don't think I've ever made a big decision that she questioned, but I'm glad that she is able to question it because she might find a mistake in my reasoning that I missed, or knows of a way to accomplish the same thing easier.
/r/TheRedPill19/11/13 09:03 PM
5

you're often wrong in your decisionmaking, and when your girlfriend disagrees with your decisions she is right to do so 90% of the time. I wouldn't say often wrong, and it's usually minor stuff I haven't thought much about. For example, we may be out to eat and I suggest we get something, and she suggests something else and I realize that her suggestion is better. So she is a more qualified leader of the relationship than you are. I never really thought about it that way, I don't know if either …
/r/TheRedPill19/11/13 08:56 PM
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That's a pretty accurate description, although saying she "lets" me have sex with here connotes that she doesn't want to, which couldn't be further from the truth.
/r/TheRedPill19/11/13 08:19 PM
9

Because there are a lot of areas where TRP is absolutely correct. But since even the areas where it's right are unpopular, it's difficult to find content like it anywhere else.
/r/TheRedPill19/11/13 08:17 PM
13

Questioning a decision I made isn't public emasculation, it's not any different than if a male friend did it.
/r/TheRedPill19/11/13 08:10 PM
11

Sure she is, because she only questions me when she knows I'm wrong.
/r/TheRedPill19/11/13 08:08 PM
17

Ha, "let". If I tried to tell her how to act I'd find myself without a girlfriend. People on here may find it hard to believe, but my girlfriend adds a lot of non-sexual value to my life because she's smart and practical. The fact that she makes a lot of the decisions doesn't detract from our sex life at all.
/r/TheRedPill19/11/13 07:54 PM
2

That was my first thought too. A lot of guys on here hate sluts. Sure, some just use it descriptively without judgement, but NAMALT isn't a valid excuse from what I hear.
/r/TheRedPill19/11/13 07:41 PM
4

Fake? I want a real movement like that.
/r/TheRedPill19/11/13 07:36 PM
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I'm glad it works for you, but I could never be in a relationship like that. About 90% of the time when my girlfriend questions a decision I made it turns out she's right. If she had to wait for a week to tell me then I would make a lot more bad decisions.
/r/TheRedPill19/11/13 07:35 PM
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I hate guys who shame girls for being slutty. The more they have sex, the easier it is for me to have sex with them.
/r/TheRedPill19/11/13 04:24 PM
17

I'm not quite sure what you're asking, but I'll try to answer anyway. How do I avoid being the beta bucks? Well, there's two parts to this question. First of all, nobody is forcing you to live like a rich person. Living below your means is a good idea financially, but if you don't want women to treat you differently because of your money don't tell them until your dating (I'm assuming you want to date, otherwise why would you care why they're interested?). The second part is that if they do know…
/r/TheRedPill18/11/13 06:32 AM
93

This has also been my experience. My desire for sex is far greater than my actual enjoyment of the act.
/r/TheRedPill18/11/13 06:13 AM
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I agree with you, but I'll play devil's advocate. The argument is basically that if a person has a certain personality, they're not likely to change. So if a girl likes to go party and sleep around, then when she gets married she'll still want to sleep around which will eventually cause her to either cheat or get a divorce. The problem with this is that it oversimplifies the situation. It's sort of like a credit score. If you have no other information to go on it's a pretty good estimate, but wh…
/r/TheRedPill18/11/13 06:09 AM
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Sure it is. I have a girlfriend and she improves my life a lot. I would love to have lots of one night stands, but since she wants to be monogamous I'm willing to sacrifice that because what she adds to my life is worth it. I just don't put her on a pedestal.
/r/TheRedPill17/11/13 08:37 PM
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Then there's nothing in Red Pill to suggest you shouldn't be attracted to him (although I'm somewhat of a moderate in terms of TRP). Yes, we say no to each other when we disagree, because we are mature adults. There are a lot of relationships where the guy will agree to anything the girl suggests, even if he disagrees. There was a post on /r/relationships a couple days ago where some girlfriend was attracted to the guy's best friend, and suggested an open relationship. Even though he strongly di…
/r/TheRedPill17/11/13 08:33 PM
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It's hard for anybody to say for sure without knowing more about the relationship, but there's pretty much two ways to view it. The pessimist would say that you're fine dating him now, but eventually you'll start getting bored and unconsciously resent him for not being more ambitious. The optimistic view is that he does do some red pill things, you just don't realize what those things are. Think about these questions: Does he ever say no to you (not all the time, but at least whenever he legitim…
/r/TheRedPill17/11/13 06:14 PM
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Woman are welcome to comment and post, it's just that it's mainly from a man's perspective because men have more control over their sexual value. For women, their sexual value is largely determined by their looks, but that's just a part of a man's sexual value. In addition, while men have a lot of control of their sexual value, our society teaches them the exact wrong things to increase it. So the red pill mainly exists to teach guys the true way to increase their value (hence the red pill metap…
/r/TheRedPill17/11/13 05:55 PM
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I'm not as opposed to open relationships as some people on here are, but god damn if your partner suggests it and you don't want it just say no. If he just says "You can either date me or fuck the friend, but not both" and if she doesn't accept it then break up with her. Why would he say yes if he has no intentions of fucking other girls?
/r/TheRedPill16/11/13 03:45 PM
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To be fair, didn't MTV have a pick up artist show?
/r/TheRedPill15/11/13 03:36 PM
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