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The RedPill saved my relationship

batmanassistant
August 27, 2015
70 upvotes
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Title The RedPill saved my relationship
Author

batmanassistant
Upvotes 70
Comments 25
Date August 27, 2015 3:52 AM UTC
(10 years ago)
Subreddit Posted in /r/TheRedPill
Original Link https://old.reddit.com/r/TheRedPill/comments/3ik0vz/the_redpill_saved_my_relationship/
Archive Link https://theredarchive.com/r/TheRedPill/the-redpill-saved-my-relationship.35885
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[–]Gobiel 71 points72 points73 points 10 years ago (5 children) | Copy Link

It seems so much like bait I couldn't help but laugh..

[–]RedVladimir 1 point2 points3 points 10 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

Yeah I call BS on this.

Any man worth staying with is not taught by his girl how to be the captain of the ship. You either Just Get It, or you don't. Teaching you how to get it defeats the purpose.

[–]batmanassistant1 point 10 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link

Well it's not as simple as I put it. So he's already a guy who gets angry and aggressive with me. Since I was raised in a feminist society I labelled him as an abuser and tried to leave. But I couldnt and the makeup sex was always amazing. And it's not like he is an actually abuser, he's just not a doormat. He's never hit me but he's come very close when I was acting bad and he also keeps saying he'll leave me if I continue to behave badly. But since I corrected my behavior, he's become very loving towards me and couldn't be any sweeter to me. Our relationship started kinda rocky but since I dropped any bullshit views I had it immediately started to improve we couldnt be any happier. I recognize which places both genders belong to most naturally and perfectly and don't ignore our biological natures anymore. A woman is most equal to a man when she's where she is supposed to be and most happiest. Trying to take over a man's position of control is actually an unhappier life for women since they're not even build to like that.

[–]moneyandsexislife 36 points36 points36 points 10 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link

You don't see that everyday.

One case is far too few to give me hope, but at least one relationship is marginally happier.

[–]babybopp 14 points15 points16 points 10 years ago* (0 children) | Copy Link

A lot of women do not realize modern day feminism is not pro women and their issues, it is just anti-men.

[–]Username-_-2015 1 point2 points3 points 10 years ago* (1 child) | Copy Link

The reality is that op made a TEMPORARY fix to her relationship. After a while she will look at her boyfriend and say to herself "I want a real man, somone who will take control without me telling him to."

Op will get that feeling one day that she is still in control of the relationship and basiclly gave power to her boyfriend and her boyfriend doesn't really have any power, it was given and it can be taken away. she will realize that and have the fealz and we all know how women are fealz over realz everytime, she will be looking for a real alpha. Cuz she is an independent womyn that needs no man to hold her back.

She will hamster away her relationship with her boyfriend and all the wasted time on him, bitch will even use red pill idea's to hamster her realtioship away. Well Jonathan was never a real man to begin with according to the red pill and i will help him out in the long run, if i dump him and leave him for a real man. Once she tastes, feels how good it is to be with a real man watch out jonathan.

[–]batmanassistant1 point 10 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link

Yeah thats a very valid and good point. Very good catch there. So I just replied to another comment that my boyfriend was already more the aggressive type. People told me to leave him because he could be an abuser. I never got that feeling myself but hearing that made me question it again. I tried to leave but that never worked out. He was and is still making threats that if I don't behave he'll leave me. He doesn't do that too much and says it nicely casually here and there but I get scared sometimes. Either way, all that happened is RedPill opened my eyes that a leading man is not an abuser and to not try to control. I didn't have to push my boyfriend to control because he was doing that already but I was trying to leave him for it because I thought it's abusive if that makes sense.

[–]UniversalFapture 0 points1 point2 points 10 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Now imagine if more women starting coming to red pill? And admitting to this? Crazy Feminazism can be beaten!

Isn't that what the Redpill women do?

[–]frys180 11 points12 points13 points 10 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Interesting. This feels very analogous to The Surrendered Wife. Have you read that book by any chance?

Also congratulations on your renewed relationship!

[–]ColonelMitchell 5 points6 points7 points 10 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

This sounds like a troll post just due to the way it was written. But there's no doubt that having a chief-indian relationship works better than two chiefs together. My mother recognizes my father as the man of the house, the leader, and I appreciate that about her. I hope to find someone to do that for me someday.

[–]_whistler 11 points12 points13 points 10 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

RedPillWomen sub on the sidebar for feminine support and discussions.

[–]Noolaw 7 points8 points9 points 10 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Not sure if trolling but my girlfriend lets me make all the decisions because she realized the same things you said. Good for you.

[–]Futdashukup 4 points5 points6 points 10 years ago* (0 children) | Copy Link

Written feminism serves to alienate women from their desires. Women I've been with like me to dominate them sexually. That's not to say that she doesn't sometimes go on top, or tie me up. But 90% I'm in control. Because I'm an arrogant, selfish type, I've always pushed sex that way...and its rare that they're not wet as fuck. But one girl, a real feminist, always resisted. She had to be on top, she had to ride me...and sex was generally fine. But when I finally had my way, being totally dominant...she fucking loved it. And she stopped talking about feminism, reading feminism, stopped being vegan, she was like a different girl. Because she finally got what she wanted - a good, held-down fuck from a man, with her ass slapped hard and her hair pulled. But nowhere did they teach me, back in the 90s when I was a teen, that a lot of women love this shit. 50 Shades was a long way off. For years, I thought I was a pervert...but all the time I WAS RIGHT. You hear me GAAAAD? I WAS RIGHT!!!!!!

[–]SexyDeviI 5 points6 points7 points 10 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

You haven't followed the posting rules. There's nothing to learn from this. We're not a bunch of your girlfriends and we certainly don't give a shit about your relationship.

Plus, I smell bullshit and bait. Women aren't suddenly getting tingles for their former beta boyfriend who turned into an overnight leader because she allowed him too. He needs to do that for himself, because he is a Man, not because you asked him "hey how about you leading a bit now until I get bored of it?"

If you want to do him a real favor show him this Sub and let him get what he want out of it. You on the other hand, as well as your posts, have no place here. That's why /RedPillWomen was created - for you girls to talk about Red Pill stuff related to you that we men too busy improving ourselves simply can't bother to care about.

All the best.

[–]Dzuari4 points 10 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link

Congrats.

Being a guy I've noticed this with girls that are into submitting. I'm referring to in bed of course but just the general demeanor of the girl being submissive spills out into normal activities.

The girls that submit are always insurmountably more happy/open and fun to be around than the girls that are guarded or the independent/don't-need-no-man type. It's like they just let go and can be themselves around you and are a lot more carefree.

[–]razorwan 1 point2 points3 points 10 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

This is fake, not written by a woman. RP truths are all that are needed. These boring, fake stories don't do anything but cast doubts into weak hearts.

[–]RedPillWatchTower 1 point2 points3 points 10 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Please repost either to /r/thanktrp or /r/redpillwomen. Thank you.

[–]1commentatorX 0 points1 point2 points 10 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Congrats, glad you've reached a dynamic that satisfies you. But this belongs in thankTRP.

[–]battleof_lissa 0 points1 point2 points 10 years ago* (0 children) | Copy Link

Thank you for writing this, I could have written it myself.

I never noticed how much tiny various shit tests I gave until this sub, and now I cut that shit out or check myself right after I say it.

I would ask my SO to hand me something that is closer to me then him. Wtf is that?

After I swallowed the pill, I made many small changes scattered throughout his day, he changed for the better. I don't know how or if I should discuss RP will him, but so far he is leading more and more and I'm excited and tingly.

So yes, thank you RP!

Edit: I commented regardless of possibility of troll post. Still rings true.

[–]Science_isthenewcool1 point 10 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link

Glad it's helped. Amazing what happens when you get past your societal programming and let facts speak for themselves.

[–]lesleysnipes -1 points0 points1 point 10 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link

I was excited to read this post but then I saw

"I couldn't have been wronger"

Wtf?

[–]musclebound92 0 points1 point2 points 10 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

Holy shit a grammatical error, what ever will you fucking do?

[–]lesleysnipes 0 points1 point2 points 10 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

It's more than that..you wouldn't understand you're not a pure Englishman who lives by the code.

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