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"The top 5 things every husband should know". Pure beta propaganda, rampant with hamstering and a couple textbook shit tests

OBJHamSandwich
December 23, 2013
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Title "The top 5 things every husband should know". Pure beta propaganda, rampant with hamstering and a couple textbook shit tests
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OBJHamSandwich
Upvotes 36
Comments 60
Date December 23, 2013 2:12 PM UTC
(12 years ago)
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[–]LMS_THEORY_ 20 points21 points22 points 12 years ago (5 children) | Copy Link

Needs to be noted that while it's mostly beta propaganda, He says they do work to remain "attractive".

A little TRP knowledge in there. It reminds me of a top post we had a while back titled 'she doesn't love you'.

Maintaining attraction is just as important as maintaining frame it seems.

[–]TRP Vanguard: "Dark Triad Expert"IllimitableMan 7 points8 points9 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Maintaining attraction is just as important as maintaining frame it seems.

Yes, and for many, these are entwined.

[–][deleted] 12 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

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[–]LMS_THEORY_ 0 points1 point2 points 12 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

Preaching to the choir my friend

[–]Mr_Mori1 point 12 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link

We have new blood among the established choir.

It's best that some things get repeated/mentioned.

[–]drallcom3 0 points1 point2 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Maintaining physical attraction only works if you keep the unspoken threat in the air, that you could leave her any minute for another women.

[–]Gfresh404 21 points22 points23 points 12 years ago (8 children) | Copy Link

I stopped reading after the article recommended that guys pay more attention to women's shoes for the sake of their significant other.

[–][deleted] 4 points5 points6 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

I'd recommend the whole thing, it gets funnier!

[–]rule_of_law 2 points3 points4 points 12 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

Yea... that was written under the section called There's a Bigger Picture

....I'm so fucking pissed off right now

[–]Endorsed ContributorrebuildingMyself 0 points1 point2 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

The bigger picture is the hot woman that every man checked out made her insanely jealous so she needed to find a way to jab at her loyal beta (since he didn't check her out).

[–]ThorLives 7 points8 points9 points 12 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link

I didn't get the whole shoe thing. It sounded to me like his wife was being catty and trying to devalue another woman that was prettier than her. I also don't understand why it was under the "There's a bigger picture" title - as if paying attention to a small detail like "shoes" is the important part.

[–]Gfresh404 1 point2 points3 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Just don't read too much into it. It's like trying to understand why Blue Pillers hate us. It's pointless

[–]iusedtodiggraves 0 points1 point2 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

That was my question too. How am I suppose to know this shit if they talk in circles.

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point2 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Every guy would want to fuck that hottie even if she came in barefoot, even if she was wearing socks with flipflops, shoes don't matter to a guy. But it's the first little flaw the wife picked up just so her husband wouldn't pay so much attention to her.

[–]TRP Vanguard: "Dark Triad Expert"IllimitableMan 52 points53 points54 points 12 years ago (7 children) | Copy Link

"There are probably a lot more men who want to sleep with me than women who want to sleep with you."

Bitch pulled a dread game shit test. If his SMV was high enough that never would have flown. If he was in shape he could have said "2/3 the girls on my contact list want to fuck me, the other 1/3 are family members"

and then looked at that priceless sense of realisation hit her face, that she needs him more (which is the case anyway, because she's a depreciating asset sexually and blah blah.) AHAHAHA. This guy needs game. The article was pathetic.

Flair as blue pill example.

[–]Party_Liquor 11 points12 points13 points 12 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

Notice though that her dread game was in the beginning of the relationship some 36 years ago.

I wonder if she would be so confident now with the wall nary a memory in the rear view mirror?

[–][deleted] 5 points6 points7 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

It reminds me of a tale of how they'd tie elephants to a stake with a rope when they're young. They would try to pull it away but couldn't, being only young and weak

As the elephant would grow and get strong, they'd keep adjusting the rope to fit the size of the leg, but never needed to increase it's strength. The elephant learnt young that they couldn't break the rope and it became the truth for them, that rope was unbreakable and attempting was pointless.

That woman tied that man at the leg young, when she could, when he couldn't break the rope. Now he doesn't even try.

Whether the story is true or not it's a fitting analogy for this situation and blue pill 'truths' in general.

[–]TRP Vanguard: "Dark Triad Expert"IllimitableMan 2 points3 points4 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

She doesn't have the SMV to hold that bargaining position anymore.

[–]Endorsed Contributorgekkozorz 16 points17 points18 points 12 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

At least she's acknowledging that she's worthless except for her ability to have sex.

[–][deleted] 8 points9 points10 points 12 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

Is she? I didn't read it that way at all. That was a threat. "Walk around like you're not on a leash, and I'll become a professional dog walker!"

[–]ArcticSpyder3 points 12 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link

I agree, but I believe what /u/gekkozorz is saying could be true as well.

[–]attaxx -1 points0 points1 point 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

If he was in shape he could have said "2/3 the girls on my contact list want to fuck me, the other 1/3 are family members"

or just: BRB gone to fuck.

[–]-Lolrax- 12 points13 points14 points 12 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

I occasionally have the pleasure of watching her navigate the retail world. I just sit back and enjoy.

What is more emasculating than watching women vascillate over the consumption of manufactured retail shit? This guy is a pussy.

[–]3trplurker 4 points5 points6 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

I've cured all my past GF's of this. Whenever they ask me to go "shopping" with her I tell her she has to first come with me whenever I need to buy electronics / computer / car stuff. They have a huge multistory building devoted just to computer shit and I'll have her follow me around holding various bags and box's for a few hours. It's so rough on her that she never asks me to go "shopping" again.

Humans are more motivated by the avoidance of pain then by the pursuit of pleasure.

[–]TheRedPrivilege 9 points10 points11 points 12 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link

"If he treats her like she's stupid, and he's married to her -- then he must be stupid for marrying her."

Sounds like some pseudo-intellectual Marilyn Monroe quote.

Take a deep breath and carry on in the name of a peaceful home. These days I pick up my clothes because I know it will make her happy -- and also because she's not nagging me about it.

And now his frame has been broken by the Hamster

"If you want to sleep with someone else, you can." "What??" I said. She repeated, "If you want to sleep with someone else, you can."

NO! DON'T FALL INTO THIS TRAP!

"Seriously?" I asked.

...

[–]Clauderoughly 8 points9 points10 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

She can make that threat, because she knows his SMV is so low, and he is such a whipped pussy he will never take her up on it.

In the meantime, she is almost certainly taking alpha cock behind his back.

[–]Endorsed Contributorgekkozorz 5 points6 points7 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Shit test failed.

[–]positiveeagle 6 points7 points8 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

My first instinct is to just say "Okay!" out of complete spite.

[–]ucecatcher 1 point2 points3 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

You were perhaps expecting something intelligent from The Huff? You should know better than that.

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point2 points 12 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

It's pretty amazing to read this and wonder if he doesn't see through some of the bs that he's writing.

Reminds me of how Ted Haggard was doubling down on being so anti-gay, when in reality he was really into dudes.

Relates to how this guy writes proclamations of how to be a good husband, when in reality, in his alone time, probably is infuriated that he has to deal with this type of dread game manipulation (IllimitableMan is right on the money there).

I'm talking from my BP experience a while back. I was the epic BP boyfriend, usual story of how was continually put down by her to the point of epic failure, rationalizing with friends of how 'happy' i was, only to go home and be paranoid about what would happen next. As things got worse, I would act oblivious, only to wonder why I had trouble sleeping at night and putting on a fake smile during the day. Disclaimer: not blaming the girl at all, I was a weak white night, learned a lot, and wouldn't be here at TRP if it wasn't for that experience.

Will be interesting to watch what happens in the next couple years with this guy. Hopefully he figures things out, cause right now he's on the path towards nuclear implosion.

[–]Endorsed ContributorrebuildingMyself 0 points1 point2 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Bitch was probably over his shoulder reading every word he typed.

[–][deleted] 12 years ago (5 children) | Copy Link

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[–]wiking85 12 points13 points14 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

??? He said she let him know that if he cheated, she would too; that's not letting other guys fuck her, its her telling him to stay loyal or else.

[–]Cold_August3 points 12 years ago [recovered] (3 children) | Copy Link

I missed that in the article. Where was it?

[–]CurveballSI 3 points4 points5 points 12 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

Dude let her get this line off:

"As long as it's okay for me to sleep with someone else too. Because if it's okay for you, it should be okay for me, right?" Then, she added, "There are probably a lot more men who want to sleep with me than women who want to sleep with you."

[–]Cold_August13 points 12 years ago [recovered] (1 child) | Copy Link

That was her roundabout way to tell him not to cheat on her.

[–]CurveballSI 2 points3 points4 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Thanks

[+][deleted] 12 years ago* (23 children) | Copy Link

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[–]TheRedPrivilege 2 points3 points4 points 12 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

right an article like this

I can't even take you seriously from your first sentence.

[–]Endorsed ContributorrebuildingMyself 1 point2 points3 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

/pol/ is over there

[–][deleted] 1 point2 points3 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

/pol/ GTFO . Isn't there some "happening" you need to prepare for ?

[–]frazzleddd5 points 12 years ago* [recovered] (18 children) | Copy Link

/pol/ pls

TRP isn't about racist ideology that may or may not have factual basis so you won't get much support here.

Edit: When I said racist I was referring to jews as a separate race and not really considering the religious aspect. Just to clarify any confusion on my usage of the term.

Also personally I do believe that the "cultural marxism" he's referring to is a legitimate concern but TRP is not the place to discuss it. We're alrwady close enough to the ban hammer. Let's not push all of their buttons

[–]TRP Vanguard: "Dark Triad Expert"IllimitableMan 6 points7 points8 points 12 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link

Just a little nuance, it's called anti-semitism if you're a jew hater, not racism. A blanket application of the emotionally charged term racism to all forms of discrimination shows ignorance, if you're going to call people on their shit then you need to come correct or if you actually engage in a serious debate people will pick on that little thing to pull apart your argument thus putting you on the defense. This is a common tactic with the intellectually dishonest whose only wish is to publically humiliate you. There's plenty of those around, trust me on that.

Attack is the best form of defence, if people can find holes in your arguments they'll keep bombarding you over petty shit to attack your credibility whilst simultaneously stopping you from holding them accountable for their own fallacious assertions/reasoning.

Racism is discrimination based on genetic/ethnic grounds, jews are members of all ethnicities as are christians, muslims etc so it's an issue of religious orientation not of ethnic disposition. Hope this helped.

[–]frazzleddd5 points 12 years ago* [recovered] (2 children) | Copy Link

Thanks for the lengthy response.

Personally I consider jews a separate race on their own due to the years of interbreeding that they've gone through. They typically have physical qualities that are characteristic of only themselves as well as a plethora of genetic diseases that they are highly prone to. I know its possible to convert to judaism but that's in a religious sense. You'll never truly be a full Jew unless you're born into it.

Thats just my opinion though. I know what you mean and trust me I hate the word racist in itself. Its usually a first defense mechanism used by people who want to be so PC they're willing to ignore facts.

[–]jobs33ker 0 points1 point2 points 12 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

The very word racist was coined by the Bolsheviks.

[–]frazzleddd 0 points1 point2 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Really? Now I did not know that

[–]sharkeishaNooo 1 point2 points3 points 12 years ago (6 children) | Copy Link

Not that I agree with imbrutall but I specifically remember a thread in here that was about how you shouldn't date a Jewish girl, and that most married Jewish men are emasculated beta providers. TRP should probably get its ideologies straight

[–]frazzleddd3 points 12 years ago* [recovered] (4 children) | Copy Link

That isn't discussing jews as a race. Just jewish women. I would say that definitely still counts as TRP ideology.

[–]sharkeishaNooo -2 points-1 points0 points 12 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link

Naw, they also discussed how the majority of the men are doormats as well.

There are a lot of bigots in TRP, so be careful what you take away from the sub. There's a few nuggets of wisdom to be found, but there is also a decent amount of underlying racism and sexism as well. TRP likes to classify things that maybe shouldn't be classified.

[–]frazzleddd 0 points1 point2 points 12 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

I'd disagree with that. Most of what TRP pushes generally can be construed as racist/sexist but I don't agree with that thinking. Just because someone can say something is racist or sexist doesn't mean its true. If I say women like powerful men and black people are more likely to rob someone than white men then someone can say thats racist/sexist despite it being true.

[–]sharkeishaNooo 0 points1 point2 points 12 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

I agree, but a thread stating jewish men are pussies is one of those ideologies I chose to not agree with

[–]frazzleddd 0 points1 point2 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Personal beliefs man.

[–]jobs33ker 2 points3 points4 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

I am a Jewish Guy, (well half, my mom is, so that makes me) and let me tell you from experience that the liberal doormat male Jews are always the non-religious variety. The religious ones actually live by strict code of ethics with the male at the head of the household, that's not to say they treat women poorly because they do not. But there is specific roles for men and women. They pray in separate rooms.. the women dress very conservatively, and are taught how to be good housewives.

[–][deleted] 12 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

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[–]frazzleddd 1 point2 points3 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

I'd consider jews a different race altogether but its a point of opinion so we'll bypass that.

And yeah I go to pol too. I've read up on it. No need to push it on me dude.

[–]jobs33ker 0 points1 point2 points 12 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link

Are we seriously close to being banned? Why?

[–]Endorsed ContributorrebuildingMyself 0 points1 point2 points 12 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

Since one of the admins sucks SRS strapon, I'd say it'll happen eventually.

[–]jobs33ker 0 points1 point2 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

I thought they all did lol

[–]frazzleddd 0 points1 point2 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

TRP related accounts are shadow banned frequently from different subs. There's been discussion of what to do if we're shut down and reddit in total is censored to a small degree so its quite possible.

[–]Dasugo -3 points-2 points-1 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

It wasnt that bad. Dont ogle women while with your wife. Is that being too beta? Oogle on your own time.

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