think i'm going to unsub, thoughts ?

kyrpa · 2013-12-07T05:32:28+00:00

Or you could make positive changes in your own life using what you've learned here. The point isn't to change the world, it's to empower people to change themselves.

mordanus · 2013-12-07T06:17:55+00:00

That is one of the main reasons that I unsubbed from men's rights. It was just bad news after bad news. No improvement and no aim for improvement. Here it is a lot different. The point of linking things here is more of a "Don't be like this" or "What to watch out for." Take it light hearted and learn to laugh it off. We aren't victims here in this sub and that is the main difference.

alt30313 · 2013-12-07T05:52:51+00:00

i watch these videos, read these stories, it all makes perfect sense, yet it seems there is no improvement at all. it just keeps getting worse.

Watching, listening, reading ect means nothing if you don't apply yourself. Develop personal goals and establish what you will do to reach them and start today. Apply the theories to your life.

Have you applied the concepts for meaningful self improvement? Have you gone to r/becomeaman and worked through the program there? Have you failed, learned or grown through the process of self improvement/changing yourself?

isn't it better to just tune everything out, pack my shit up, and move to somewhere where women are still women.

good luck.

seeing this stuff on my feed (RP theories) doesn't add much more but sure does piss me off (BP examples) and ruin my day.

Well seeing theories that are unpleasant to a worldview that I desire would be unpleasant if I didn't find a way to adapt and apply myself to take advantage of reality. Seeing other people succeed would piss me off if I was to lazy to get off the couch or to afraid to risk failure and a chance for gradual self improvement.

thoughts :/ ?

Best of luck with life. You've only got one and no one but you truly cares if its fulfilling or meaningful in the end but you. Sorry there is no magic pill or snake oil here. You have to do work.

Invalidity · 2013-12-07T08:25:20+00:00

Sure we could stay positive. And then when the bad stuff hits, how do we prepare ourselves for it? I would say that the information here is best suited for people who look at a particular problem and devise ways to handle them appropriately. But if what you are looking for is self-improvement, there are a lot of other places to find such sources of information.

In particular, I believe the general idea is pretty simple to grasp: work out, eat healthy, live interestingly, work towards a goal, etc. Most of have a pretty good idea of how to go about it... but for the most part, it's just about getting your foot in the water and just doing it. People always fear about jumping into a cold shower, but once you get in you either get used to it or you jump back out.

Force_Padawan · 2013-12-07T20:54:06+00:00

You know what, it sure does look hopeless. There isn't a lot of good news on this sub. We already know this, and there isn't much we can do about it. At the end of the day all we can do is work on making our selves better off. What you really need to focus on is not becoming a part of the male suicide statistic that feminists love to ignore. The silver lining is really that this sub grows every day. More and more men are opening their eyes. Maybe one day, there will be enough of us that people will be willing to listen to us. Maybe it wont be in our generation, but maybe if we keep setting the example for the next generation, and the generation after that someday things may get better for all men. It may seem like its hopeless, but remember your a freedom fighter. Just my 2 cents.

[deleted] · 2013-12-07T08:24:59+00:00

Fucking suck it up, quit being a goddamn pussy and do something with your fucking life. You come across so lethargic it's fucking pathetic. Use this sub as an inspiration and stop bitching, start improving yourself.

Literally every choice you make, from what to eat for breakfast to what to do with your evening to where to go out tonight, is a chance to do and be better than you were yesterday. That is the core of inner game and the chance you need to stand above the rest. Complaining about seeing it and not doing shit is a testament to weakness. Cut that shit out and make something happen in your life, for chrissakes.

Fucking hell.

[deleted] · 2013-12-07T07:18:23+00:00

Be the change you want to see in the world?

frequentlywrong · 2013-12-07T08:41:07+00:00

Are you a woman? If not, why are your emotions controlling you? You sound like you need a fucking slap in the face.

Title	think i'm going to unsub, thoughts ?
Author	_torn
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Date	December 7, 2013 5:27 AM UTC (12 years ago)
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