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This is what has replaced dating? Really?

Bobsutan
May 17, 2013
8 upvotes
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Title This is what has replaced dating? Really?
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Bobsutan
Upvotes 8
Comments 27
Date May 17, 2013 11:12 AM UTC
(13 years ago)
Subreddit Posted in /r/TheRedPill
Original Link https://old.reddit.com/r/TheRedPill/comments/1eieuz/this_is_what_has_replaced_dating_really/
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Comments

[–]Bobsutan[S] 18 points19 points20 points 13 years ago (18 children) | Copy Link

Man, if only I was young again and knew what I know now! How's that saying go, youth is wasted on the young.

[–]Endorsed Contributor30303030303030 13 points14 points15 points 13 years ago (6 children) | Copy Link

That's the most bitter part of redpill for me. I wasted my youth either in ltr or being "respectful" to girls who basically existed to be fucked. It's so painful to think about what could've been if I knew back then what I know now...

[–]kukul 7 points8 points9 points 13 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

I wasted my youth being too drunk to talk to girls.

Could be worse.

[–]socal83 5 points6 points7 points 13 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

the good thing is access to poon never ends, for you as a man. just don't get married.

[–]3Ill_mumble_that 2 points3 points4 points 13 years ago* (3 children) | Copy Link

I'm young and enjoy banging my GF daily. Much easier than going out and finding strange poon.

However, I'm still contemplating that illusive MFF threesome. Never really thought about it much until now, but I guess it could be good. I just don't want the girl to think its okay to mess around with other guys if she sees me messing around with other girls. I'm planning on eventually having kids with this girl.

[–]thereisnosuchthing 1 point2 points3 points 13 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

It's unfortunate because I wasted my youth looking for the perfect girl, knowing really in the back(and right upfront, don't get me wrong) of my mind that they are really the opposite of perfect, in general - but I only found shit.

Dumb cliche girls wanting to be fucked.

I don't and can't blame 'em though, because that's all girls can find too, mainly, when they look to the guys they'll ever meet. Looked, looked, and looked.

Never thought I'd put up with a totally gamed relationship where I had to pretend all the time - never did - wouldn't bring myself down to that level where some of you guys seem to want to play, still got an okay amount of vagina ..found that really the only way I COULD put up with girls for long periods of time was needing to play the bullshit ridiculous games I couldn't even have previously imagined 'working' on a 2 year old's mind they were that obvious ..but what do you know.

[–]Bobsutan[S] 1 point2 points3 points 13 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

One of my biggest regrets of when i was young and stupid was passing up on a lot of hookups because I was seeing someone, only to eventually get cheated on/branch swung. And then I was too respectful and overly moderated myself thinking women wanted to be wooed and whatnot, when they really wanted to be cavemanned and ravished. That sort of thing. They wanted to get laid too, but I had it in my head they were "sugar and spice and all things nice".

[–]3Ill_mumble_that 0 points1 point2 points 13 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Dumb cliche girls wanting to be fucked.

I don't and can't blame 'em though, because that's all girls can find too, mainly, when they look to the guys they'll ever meet.

This is what happens when you look for a life partner in clubs/bars and other places that people try to hook up. Beaches, etc. In fact, if a girl tells me that she goes to clubs, I run away regardless of where I met her. A worthwhile girl doesn't go out for drinks at clubs, not even with her "girlfriends." That's all bullshit because the real reason groups of girls go out to clubs is to look at guys and see who can get hit on the most.

Most of TRP PUA type guys are just capitulating on the high level of dumbass girls that these clubs and meatmarkets produce.

[–][deleted] 2 points3 points4 points 13 years ago (10 children) | Copy Link

You can teach your son or nephews (with their beta dad's blessing)

[–]Bobsutan[S] 0 points1 point2 points 13 years ago (9 children) | Copy Link

My boy is already learning. He sat in on a few of my presentations a couple years ago (in the back playing his DS) and I'll be sure to do the same this summer when I have him. This time I'm going to front-load my course with more Red Pill material such as Hypergamy, Briffault's Law, Schopenhauer, etc.

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point2 points 13 years ago (8 children) | Copy Link

What course?

[–]Bobsutan[S] 0 points1 point2 points 13 years ago (7 children) | Copy Link

The one I teach. Grew out of pickup and is now a more holistic self-improvement/mentor program for guys new to the red pill way of life who want to get better jobs, women, etc.

[–][deleted] 1 point2 points3 points 13 years ago (6 children) | Copy Link

Link?

[–]Bobsutan[S] 0 points1 point2 points 13 years ago* (5 children) | Copy Link

http://www.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/l5sku/newbies_read_this_attraction_approaching/

http://www.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/lb91f/newbies_read_this_iois_iods_qualification_and_more/

http://www.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/hv570/newbies_read_this_comprehensive_guide_to_game/

The link to the course syllabus and all of the class notes are in there, but these may be of benefit.

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point2 points 13 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link

That's awesome. How are they going?

[–]Bobsutan[S] 0 points1 point2 points 13 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link

Good. Just revamped the class in February and I'm prepping for another one in June. All told, I've trained/mentored about 100 people so far. Most don't stick with it of course, but all I can do is show them the door. It's up to them to want to walk through it.

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point2 points 13 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

That's cool. Have any videos?

[–]Bobsutan1 point 13 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link

Not yet. I'm working on a mini-series for youtube though. We'll see how it pans out this summer.

[–][deleted]2 points 13 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link

I'm curious how you talk to them about women. Do you expose them to the truth or is it sugar-coated. These are the things I think about on a lazy Sunday afternoon.

[–]Raw_God 14 points15 points16 points 13 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Note: this article is almost 10 years old.

[–]Endorsed ContributorrebuildingMyself 9 points10 points11 points 13 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

tl;dr Young women are lowering the value of their golden vaginas. Need to learn how to milk it more.

[–][deleted] 6 points7 points8 points 13 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

You have to read that article from the point of view of a very attractive person.

They mentioned a guy of "average attractivenes" who has this to say about his experience on facethejury.com:

'It's also entertaining in a perverse kind of way. I've had four highly overweight women in their late 20's ask to meet me.''

So the SMP is more or less the same for the beta male teenager as it is for the beta male adult: The only play he has a realistic chance of getting, is from fatties.

[–]URLfixerBot 1 point2 points3 points 13 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

facethejury

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[–]socal83 2 points3 points4 points 13 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

or, as one high-school boy from Rhode Island told me online, when ''we turn 30 and no one hot wants us anymore.''

LOL this guy has it perfectly backwards. he's been listening to his chick friends way too much.

[–][deleted] 13 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

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[–]luxury_banana 0 points1 point2 points 13 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Holy fuck we have a winner.

Not quite.

[–]Fantaisie 0 points1 point2 points 13 years ago* (0 children) | Copy Link

There could be something wrong with the link. I'm getting a blank page.
Scratch that, it works.

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