Maybe this entire SR applies only to heterosexuals because I'm a characteristically feminine gay male(it's not an affectation, leave me alone) and all I want is someone I can spend the rest of my life with. I paint my nails. I'm wearing eye liner right now. I watch the Golden Girls. I cook gorgeous meals for my SO. Sometimes I clean house in stilettos I bought one halloween when I went as the mad bride from Lucia di Lammermoor. In the summer I have my vegetable garden. I own a chihuahua. I'm more effeminate than my female friends.

I'm not baby crazy. Do not want. But I like other people's children. And if I did want kids I wouldn't dream of anything other than adoption. It seems amoral for me to adopt considering, you know, homeless kids. Also, donate your corpse to science people. But that's none of my business.

I don't care if my honey has money. I supported him when he was laid off from SureWest. Thanks Obama. And I want him to be himself, too. Not try to live by some jock-y man cult rules on the internet that make love and relationships seem like some kind of terrifying game. Okay, I've spent all of ten minutes here but the message seems immediately apparent. Maybe none of this applies to me because I'm not part of the heterosexual dating pool or, whatever. There could be something to the "woman have more power than men" thing, I have no idea, but god damn. I'm girly as fuck. You may as well consider me a woman and my family is filled with grandparents, parents, siblings and those weird cousins in Oklahoma who all married for love, unless it's not even legal because they're gay. Thanks Missouri.

I don't understand everything implied by this SR and some of it's posts but I'm glad I don't have to deal with your mastering the game, sexual strategy, weirdness.(Schedules of Mating?) Is it really this hard for heterosexual men to find a lover? I hate typing the following two words, gold diggers, really some kind of pandemic? I've never met one but I've seen them on TV. Maybe I'd have to go "up in da club" to see one in person, but I'm not going to do that. I will never go up in da club

I think I'm done ranting now, sorry. I don't really have a question. Maybe try dating more MtF transexuals? Maybe you'll like them better because they'll be more pleasant and appreciative of your affection, and take their woman-ness less for granted, since they had to work for it, or something like that. Or they could be huge cunts idk. Btw, I identify as transgendered, but I'm not a MtF or considering transitioning. But if I did I'd bang so many straight men ^than ^^before. You guys are such sluts. No offense. And good luck on your quest to whatever about women problems. Sorry you read all this.

TLDR; Transgendered female confused, frightened, even shocked by apparent dissonance and enmity apparent in the heterosexual dating world.