I'm sharing my field insight and giving my personal experience with my bar game, so I encourage you to critique as you please.

Lately, I've been going out to the bars in town for about 2 weeks to work on my game and make new friends. Last night I hit up a new bar I haven't been to and its on the most popular street for college kids like myself. I walked in and chatted up the bartender a bit and noticed they had an NES on the table some dude was playing. I found out from the bartender that they have a console game event that goes on every Tuesday and they sometimes have a SSB tournament if there's enough people. I stayed for a bit, realized shit was slow and I'm wasting daylight not chatting up women so I decided to leave for another bar that I hit up often now.

I get to the next bar and when I showed up I saw 3 girls and two older guys playing 8-ball/pool. I knew the older guys as they were regulars and chatted them up for a bit and played a single round. After about 10 min I decided to chat up the group of girls and start my game. Two of the three girls were (man)lesbians with a single feminine girl and I start by asking "Hey, are you guys down to play? Or is this a private party?"

They beat around the bush but I understood they weren't interested in playing a single round with me. I figured I fucked up my intro by asking instead of saying "I've got next game". Women can instantly sniff beta and signs of weakness. They start a new round and after the first pool break I began my flirt by saying, "wow you guys suck", telling my buddy "they aren't good at all" and also stating one of the girls was better than the other. Then the most alpha of the girls starts slap assing the fem displaying her dominance to me. After a couple of more negs from me the alpha girl grabs the fem and starts making out in further demonstrating dominance and trying to tell me to fuck off. I kept being persistent though cause shit was hot and personally I don't believe in lesbians. I was DTF all 3 but they weren't having any of that. Then the fem girl turns with disgust and says to me "who the fuck are you, nobody wants you here, fuck off". I replied with a smirk and said "Wow, chill, you're so feisty." with a smirk on my face. After that I knew I needed to ignore them and go back to playing pool on the other table.

Giving mixed signals, not being 100% in your confidence and not controlling the conversation is what ruined this attempt. I had felt tired and somewhat depressed going into this convo and they sniffed that out. I did catch the fem one smiling at me about an hour or two later and in return, gave her a stare down of "I enjoyed this" with a smirk. https://i.imgur.com/Paj1ihB.jpg

Another key thing I noticied is to maintain eye contact until they look away, after that don't look at them again unless they start conversation with you. This is important because you're sexually objectifying her and showing interest, but then taking it away by not looking again. Like giving candy to a child and then yanking it right out of their hands for not being good enough.

So now onto the chad story. I went to the video game bar and started chatting up the other gamers there, finding out what games they mainly play and such. I played smash 4 with some skilled guys for about an hour when I noticed chad walked in with his buddies. He immediately goes up to someone he knows and starts talking about how he just had sex with his girl and shit like that. This blonde girl then walks up and wanted to play smash with the guys I was playing with. It was 1v1 and my opponent had dipped to the bathroom to allow her to play. I wanted to seem uninterested for the most part but would ask her questions like "do you play smash? General type questions without any sexual intent as she wasn't that attractive, like maybe a 5 or a 6. I wanted to practice though as my inner game is shite. I start shit talking saying, "Wow you're not good at this game are you?" , "damn you suck" shit like that. I'm not skilled at smash 4 but I was able to beat her and decided to use the restroom as well, so I dipp out and chad & friends pick up the controller to play with her.

I come back and sit in the seat behind them just watching the game. Chad's getting his ass kicked and starts saying "Yeah I suck at this game" just self depreciative shit to imply he doesn't play video games. Chad played one match and decided to quit, as he's getting up I shouted "damn giving up already?" My only intent was to play smash 4 and hand his ass but he decided to fuck with me instead. He walks by and shuffles my hair and walks off. Initially I was shocked that this mother fucker decided to disrespect me. Three seconds later I walk up to him and say "You don't fucking do that" while giving him a death stare. Foolishly I expected him to back down and apologize. But this is chad. Chad doesn't back down. He flips the script on me and says "You approached me, and that girl over there has a boyfriend". I looked over to realize she in-fact, did have a boyfriend but I went silent at this moment and became observant while staring him down.

Internally I was thinking about how I wanted to fuck up his hair and beat the shit out of him in that moment. I was so full of drunken rage but I held back. I started going over the possible outcomes of saying shit like, "yeah she's a total 5 and I have standards unlike you". I knew if I said anything more or if I decided to fuck up his hair, it would have escalated into a bar fight.

The main reason why I didn't hit that fucker right then and there was I didn't want to get kicked out of the bar and banned; regulars in this bar worked at other stores and I'm sure word would have spread. I was at the bar alone and this guy is more built than I am but we're about the same height, and he had his buddies with him who were bigger and taller he was. I doubted myself in this moment but held the stare until his GF walked me off and asked who I was with. I told her I was alone and she said "He's actually a really great guy". I was shocked at first she would make an excuse and so I replied with " I think you're confused". I instantly realized that was the wrong shit to say, and she knew exactly what was going on. It was I who didn't fully grasp why she moved me instead of him. This whole confrontation had only proved he was the Alpha and I was just a punk that wasn't willing to go full on and back my shit up. I was so mad the rest of the fucking night that I didn't just deck him right then and there. I spent the rest of the evening drinking water and sobering up, just glaring at him hoping he'd decide to pull some shit again so I'd have another reason to start the fight. The only thing he did was occasionally glance to see if I was still looking and kept calling me a douchebag to his GF for the rest of the night which made me feel better knowing I got to him a bit. In my eyes I, it was receiving a complement.

But this is an example of what chads actually are, they are outgoing, they talk to anyone they want to, they don't fear social rejection or give a fuck because they are the "life and blood" of the group. He doesn't bend to anyone, people bend to him.