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[–]Modified_Hackware 7 points8 points9 points 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Do nothing that isn't productive.
Browing TRP on Reddit productive for you? Right on.
Not productive? Log off.
[–]Endorsed ContributorFLFTW16 2 points3 points4 points 11 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
I think passion and love are two different things. Be passionate about your hobbies, be passionate about your sports team or political party. Passion is like flame that you just want to spread around. You want to share your hobbies with others, you want to campaign for your political party. You want to cheer for your sport team. Passion is good, and it's different from love.
Love is a quiet, content appreciation for people. Love your friends. Love your parents. Love your children. Love your girlfriend or spouse. Love doesn't mean agreement, or even approval, or one-sided self-sacrifice. Love isn't unconditional. I'd say it's contented belonging, appreciation.
This is not to criticise a mongamous lifelong relationship. Far from it. But if you are a man and that is the only thing your life is about then I think you will be very lucky if it works out in the long run. There are bigger things in the world.
I totally agree. Most of your energy should be re-invested back into your own well-being. Lift for yourself. Nurture your passions and hobbies for yourself. Develop for own sense of style and persona for yourself. Love yourself first; we should be so brimming with contentment, passion, and vitality for living that people naturally want to be around us to receive some of that abundance. Your woman will want some of that abundant sexiness and charm, employers want that abundant problem-solving and positive attitude, your kids if you have any, will want that abundance of fun loving and curiosity.
I am an advocate for monogamy, in the same way I am an advocate for long term friendship. Do you make new friends every year and never talk to the old ones? That's a good way to feel lonely and adrift. If you live in a big city where people constantly move in and out, you know this. People come and go so frequently friendships and relationships are like a revolving door. It leaves people feeling like an empty shell, like they are just temporarily filling a role until its their turn to shuffle off into the dark night. Exit stage left. One of the most common regrets of old, dying men is that they didn't keep in touch with old friends. Men without long term friends have more stress, are more socially isolated, and die earlier. The same for men who do not engage in monogamy. An endless string of partners, or staying alone, is not the natural order of things in my opinion.
[–]lazypengu1n 2 points3 points4 points 11 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
if you feel like you've made it, then stick around and help the newcomers figure their shit out. hell, make a post going more in depth into your journey, the facets and nuances that really changed your personality and outlook on life. your story may be similar to another's, and may help. that's what i feel a community like this is about, and this subreddit needs it recently.
if not and you're more for every man for himself which i get, then best of luck out there.
[–]Mightaswellmakeone 0 points1 point2 points 11 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
With the way you wrote your post, it sounds like you've spent your time reading TRP while avoiding interaction and avoiding real change. I hope I just misread it.
Reading ideas about how to live your life, without actually living your life and actively learning what works for you, doesn't solve anything. It's just another form of fantasizing.
[–]4io8 0 points0 points0 points 11 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link
Life has not been in a good place for doing anything for a while. Its now settled down and I have some control. Time to make use of it.
[–]Mightaswellmakeone 0 points1 point2 points 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Then please don't think you've figured out a puzzle or that things make sense now. You haven't done anything and at this point it's only fantasy.
I'm not saying that's a bad thing or that you should stay. But, it's as if you claimed to have figured out baseball, when you've only read books, and never even put on a glove yet.
[–]2RedPillSafe 0 points1 point2 points 11 years ago* (0 children) | Copy Link
Once you get the basics there is a sort of end point to Red Pill as far as sexual strategy.
Objective thinking (at the heart of Red Pill) can be applied to everything, but you tend to actually cross out of here and into /r/DarkEnlightenment if it leads you to political and philosophical matters.
I agree that man is a natural romantic... why waste it in a woman?
Congratulations, you are another Red Pill graduate. (without assuming student debt)
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[–]tracer123 1 point2 points3 points 11 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Are you so shallow that you're getting butthurt over this post? There's value in his words about trp end game that's why I upvote.
[–]Dopamine37 -1 points0 points1 point 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
So Long and Thanks for all the Fish
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