Tinder opener failed ;thoughts?

virusofthemind · 2016-09-25T21:08:13+00:00

Don't neg girls before you know whether or not they're into you. Negs were designed as mechanisms to either bring down a bitch shield or disqualify yourself by disarming them long enough to build attraction. You sounded like you blowing your trumpet through insecurity.

I suspect the girl knew exactly what you were doing. Negs are mainstream now.

read the book: "Models" by Mark Manson for some good advice.

TrumpSEXYMAN · 2016-09-25T21:54:00+00:00

you can't "neg" people online, they don't get the humor or know if it's a joke.

and your opener is stupid quite frankly.

AceBenedict23 · 2016-09-25T23:31:14+00:00

Here's a magical Tinder pick up line that a great RP philosopher once said. I don't remember his name but I don't want to take credit for it either. In my experience it's the easiest way to filter through matches.

RP: "Coffee?"

Straight, to the point, no bullshit. You don't waste time or effort using any stupid lines trying to impress her. She will respect you.

(BTW that neg was cringeworthy friend. Imagine a scenario where you are at a social gathering of your choice and you approach a girl with that line. You would be lucky if she didn't spit in your face.)

Chad might not even be able to pull that one off.

cragfar · 2016-09-25T22:39:49+00:00

Try actually saying that out loud and I think you'd see what's wrong with that opener.

JJMcgray · 2016-09-25T23:33:45+00:00

I think your first problem was trying to apply some sort of formula like it was a math problem.

Just talk man. So long as you don't make any mistakes (basically wind up in the friend zone) don't overthink the rest.

Plus internet hookups are super low IQ. Quantity over quality is your friend since even the fat chicks have dozens of hits. Just go for the goal and move on if she don't bite. If your first post is longer than 4 words then you are putting too much effort into it.

Battle-Scars · 2016-09-25T23:34:15+00:00

You should think about reading the sidebar where it says questions go to asktrp. Wtf?

chatzi09 · 2016-09-26T00:04:41+00:00

So this chick wrote on her profile that she likes to dance, so naturally I opened with the lyrics of safety dance.

mojo_juju · 2016-09-26T02:40:12+00:00

A) Trial and error. Cast many hooks out there-- they won't all get bites. You miss 100% of the shots you don't take. Practice makes perfect homie. This was one person. Try it again, maybe it'll work on the next one. Try it 10 times and it fails every time? Ok, switch it up. Experiment. Learn on your own, and report back.

B) Ask stuff like this at the "Ask ... TRP" subreddit (remove the ... and spaces)

MericanBlue · 2016-09-25T21:00:53+00:00

The secret to talking to women online is to talk to them like you would when face-to-face.

That garbage you communicated to her would never fly in the real world. Be authentic. Be yourself.

Title	Tinder opener failed ;thoughts?
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Date	September 25, 2016 8:47 PM UTC (9 years ago)
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