I know a lot people struggle to be alpha of your group in friends or work. I have created a list of milestones you must follow to level up in your groups and be more socially wise.

• Have a hobby that you can proudly tell in your group, excel in that hobby to a certain degree that if a noive asks you something about that you can answer the basics.  • Always have a lever or benefit that only you can offer to them and they have to rely on you  • Always have 1,2 things aleast in which they can't defeat you. This way they will somehow have to respect you 

• every once in a while, bring a small surprise in someone's life in your group

• Always have more knowledge then them in critical matters.   • Try to be the person that lighten ups the room when they enter it 

• Workout, groom, read, eat healthy, and dress well to have a positive self image. Also do that skincare routine, it's for your own good

• Try to earn more, it shows growth in life and allow open gates for you to experience better lifestyle

• Add something valuable to their life that they don't have yet  • Don't be shy to speak your mind and if someone mocks you, respond creatively or maturely. Don't let your image tarnish and don't be too available that they take you for granted 

• Open with them, share things about your day, all them things about their day, and try to remember that as well so that you know them better as a person

• Find 2,3 things that they actually value about themselves  • Don't stop yourself to ask yourself weird questions here and there (not too weird question plz), like "what would be the first thing you'll do if you reach Jurassic time?" 

This will show a particular thinking pattern of them, like is it emotional or logical or realistic.

•Be someone that they can't ignore

These are just some of the points. I'm not way an expert, I'm just learning like you guys. So do add more points to this list if you have any.