TRP help me, what should I do?

rickaboy · 2013-05-22T19:35:13+00:00

Hi mate.

Sounds as though you're a long way from where you'd like to be. That's the bad news.

The good news is, you're VERY young, and have a long time to sort yourself out and you will be happy. If you read the SMV charts. Guys don't peak until they get to their 30s. So for you, the best thing is to put yourself in position so that by the time you are that age, you'll be ready to go.

Give yourself goals of where you'd like to be when you're 25, and start working toward them.

Read starting strength and start lifting. Think about how strong you want to be when your 25.
Think about what job you'd like to have when you're 25 and start working toward it.
Learn to socialize with other men. Try a few team sports and pick one you really want to get good at. Decide how good you want to be by the time you're 25 and practice at it like a motherfucker !!!

Don't worry about women. Worry about you. The women will come in time.

Ill_mumble_that · 2013-05-22T20:02:20+00:00

Step 1. Don't give a fuck about women Avoid them (sexually/romantically). They are nothing but a waste of your fucking time until you are older. Unless they are willing to suck your cock and then get lost, they are of no value to you at 20 years old in today's society. Just straight up ask them if they want to give you a blowjob, and if they say no then discard any sexual interest in them -it is not worth your time trying to convince a teenage-20something girl to have "feelings" or sex with you.

Step 2. Master the arts, skills, and everything else Learn 5 languages. Learn calculus, read at least 10 novels from the best writers history has to offer. Learn jiu jitsu, boxing, & muay thai. Learn programming. Learn to cook. Lean to sail. Learn to horseback ride. Learn, learn, and don't stop learning. Do you even lift?

Step 3. Have friendly conversation with every single person you come across. There should be no silent interactions. You are a man. A man should never be afraid to speak because of social anxiety. Having a meaningful conversation with someone you don't give a fuck about is one of the foremost traits of someone that doesn't give a fuck.

Step 4. Acquire wealth Wealth can be defined as either money or power. Power is a huge network of influence and social connections with other people and is often more useful than money. Go for both.

Step 5. Create a network of real friends This is pretty much the same as step 4, but it needed extra emphasis. Join a team, get involved with a non-profit, whatever it takes. Get out of the house and go socialize with other human beings. Send letters of admiration to people that are experts in the field you want to work in. Create a LinkedIn account and get connections that will endorse your skills. Find references. I could go on and on. 1 Rule about this though: Don't have sex with your female friends, ever; don't even consider it. You're also better off focusing on guy friends because of this.

Step 6. Sit back and watch as the females flock to you faster than you can push them away.

dropit_sphere · 2013-05-22T19:43:35+00:00

Focus on the weight for now. Godspeed.

kukul · 2013-05-22T20:19:11+00:00

I strongly object to the "the women will come" sentiment. They will, assuming he does improve himself sufficently, but the best time to practice game is now. It's just important to have reasonable expectations, but who knows, maybe he'll get laid with a cute girl he'll meet at a bus stop, tomorrow.

[deleted] · 2013-05-23T11:30:33+00:00

[I theorise that when you completely ignore females only one of two things happen; either you're a complete ghost to them or they always wanna get with you, no in between]

I have experienced something like that. I think it's because unless you look really seriously attractive or your confidence fills a whole room or you are the local boss or anything, if you are more like one of the many, so unless you are special, they will feel no particular reason to approach you.

So basically the idea of ignoring in game is not the total cold dead don't - notice ignoring. You still have to make approaches yourself and take the initiative. It's something more sophisticated and versatile. It's more like strategic ignoring after a first date for example. Or when she pulls a test. It's not like not even looking at girls and they will come themselves. Some can pull that off, but only the really powerful ones.

RedSunBlue · 2013-05-23T07:53:03+00:00

Lift weights
Eat well
Dress well
Read books
Befriend men (preferably womanizers)
Talk to women
Ask questions

These steps do not need to be carried out sequentially. In fact, you should be engaging all these areas on a daily basis.

Read books regarding areas of your life where you feel you are ill-equipped. For a man with admittedly poor social skills such as yourself, I recommend Dale Carnegie's classic "How to Win Friends and Influence People".

ProtectTheCommunity · 2013-05-23T16:20:19+00:00

Thanks for the responses guys. I want to add that yes I do lift and my lifts are going up [although at a much slower rate than normal since I'm cutting atm]. I have started working to improve myself in every way possible. I'm currently in university with good grades reading mathematics so hopefully once I graduate I'm in a good position to get a decent paying job [In the UK mathematic graduates are highly sought]. So what I can gather at this moment in time I should just worry about sorting myself out and then worry about getting chicks? To be honest I'm not even that desperate I just want to socialise and experience a bit of life since I've been quite secluded from everyone since I can remember.

Title	TRP help me, what should I do?
Author	ProtectTheCommunity
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Date	May 22, 2013 7:23 PM UTC (13 years ago)
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