Keeping it short. Ranty but necessary

Summary

The type of girl that needs to warm up to you before she fucks you doesn't exist. For fuck's sake just go balls deep at any IOI and learn from my mistakes.

Body

We'll call the first one D and the second one B. Both are girls that I've been trying to "warm" up and move in on, both too late. Starting with D.

D basically has everything except my own D in her. Super sexy 19 year old latina with a face and body that shouldn't even be legal. After moving away to school I end up roomates with one of her friends and over a few weeks I flirt with her on and off. I take notice that anytime we're actually alone together she gets touchy and likes to hover around me. Cool. I go out to shoot hoops the other day and she tags along, which I use as an opportunity for tons of touching and teasing. On the way back I'm totally convinced this shit is in the bag, I could have made out with her on the fucking court. But I don't. We get back she's still at it, I should have closed it right in the kitchen. But I didn't.

"What if this totally backfires and I have to see her all the time until christmas and listen to these chicks talk in spanish about it forever"

"It's weird, she's around my place too much with her friend and it's gonna make everything awkward"

"I'm probably misreading her body language"

Guys the list of rationalizations goes on and on. I procrastinated and pussed out for long enough that yesterday she says to herself "this guy doesn't get it, NEXT". Then proceeds to hook up with a dude she previously met at the bar and brings him around the house.

Now for tonight with B.

I study with B in the same faculty and a handful of us go out for an outdoor dinner by the river. She's a little cutie and I'm certain that she's the innocent young fresh out her parents house type (wrong) and not into spur of the moment casual stuff (super wrong). Things are cool all night, we have a great time out and I convince her to come back with us for a flat party we're going off to. She doesn't live close by but I live right downstairs so I'm thinking logistics are already settled for later. At the party I'm in the zone and she knows it, I move around the room since I know a lot of people and get her in on drinking games and conversations. During it all I'm being physical and trying to escalate slowly because "shes not that type of girl dude". It gets to a point where intuitively I know its time to close on it, I'm getting a green light for everything I'm doing thus far but my hesitation and overthinking comes back again.

"what if this affects my school life with her"? "what if its too much and shes just not like that"?

So I wait and play it safe while I keep partying. I get wrapped up in drinking games and it takes maybe 10 minutes for my sale to get swept and the commission goes with it. Another 5 and I can basically feel the humidity from how wet she it. At this point, there's a mixture of disbelieve and total disgust with myself for overthinking my own sexual instincts. Not too much longer and a few of us leave the party her not included, I'm willing to bet she didn't quite make the commute back home

Lessons Learned

Your attitude determines everything, it's a much different weekend if your inner self is setting you up for success in the first place

For the love of God don't wait around worrying about outside factors if your gut tells you it's game on.

No girl needs time to know you for a hookup. They know what the deal is already.

You're always better swinging for the fences and striking out than to go down looking.

escalating is exponential. Get a graphing calculator if you need a visual