I think we sometimes forget how important having abundance actually is. How many solutions it really brings us. It is the solution to so many problems, that when the idea crossed my mind after answering several askTRP questions, I knew I should make a post explaining why I thought so.

Girl problems; abundance.

Hate your job; abundance.

Friends acting like dicks; abundance.

Don't like the opportunity's life has brought you; abundance.

Abundance solves every single one of these problems. It isn't until people realize that abundance is what they're lacking for their particular issue, that they can see how important it is. It is like this idea shuts off in their thinking, and they cannot see it is the problem.

People seize up when you give them one or two options to solve a problem. They do because they've come to a fork in the road, and they can see one of two choices must be made. This scares people, it makes them wonder if they're going to make the right decision. And, they only have 1/2/3 options to choose from, so what the hell are they to do when they dislike all of their options? That's right, they need to sacrifice their self respect or happiness and make a choice.

Having this mindset is the first step, practicing and acting on it is the next. Abundance actually entirely does away with passive aggressiveness, it does away with anger... you can look at a situation and say, "Well, fuck you then, I'll just go do this then." Because abundance brings you those options in every facet of your life.

And abundance allows for this attitude. It allows you to build a immense amount of self respect. If you don't like the way one particular situation is evolving, you can walk away, with an undamaged ego. Abundance is the first real step to becoming alpha... because all these parts of your personality are evolving in tandem.

The thing about abundance is, you have to go searching for it in most cases. You don't like your job, well start searching for more... before you know it, you'll have a wealth of opportunity. Same goes for women...

The real issue lies with people not wanting to do the work ahead of time to gain the option for abundance. They need to work from ground zero, up, and make changes so that the abundance itself is apparent and availible to them when they go searching for options. Of course you don't deserve abundance with women if you look like a bag of dicks, nor do you deserve it if you have no credentials which would require you to have access to multiple positions in a career field.

The idea is so simple, and right in front of your face. Take actions, become deserving, or remain option-less.