In this post I will explain by example/field rerort what it is like to have high value, but I will tag it as Red Pill Theory since I'll be explaining some things that rely to theory in their core.

In order for you to understand what value upholds, we also will analyze what having zero or little value means.

Let's also take into consideration that for some people your value is already high, whereas for others it might not be the highest and we will see what you can do to for that (Take a mental note that not everybody likes us in the end of the day)

To begin, I'd like to make an introduction. I've been here since 2017. Back then, I was very active in these forums. You can check out some of my most upvoted posts about: Frame. Game. Friendships advice. This post is going to be old school TRP, but it is only here to help you differentiate what makes you high value from what is taking all or some value out of you. I haven't been much active since Covid-quarantine and then military happened for me, but I'm still here. I had to face some health problems too but everything is alright now and I'm back on track, had some losses but I'm rebuilding and I'm still with the guys in here who struggle. What matters is what we make of our time here and anywhere for that matter.

First, I need to decode the term value. Value, regarding the context might mean slightly different things but it's all based on the same core, how much of something be it power, looks, abundance, independence you can maximize and on another part it's about how much of something "Suitable" you can create for a person of interest. Be it in business, by offering contribution to a project for your colleagues? Be it with a woman, how much excitement can you create in her and have her take her panties off for you? You get the point. It's what you can offer to the table and how intense you can make it. To what extent. Life is all about intensity sometimes. My best friend being a natural chad, getting himself into situations with models and stuff taught me this by example. He's an intense, charming and masculine guy who approaches people speaking genuinely what he has on his mind with a noble tone, and this captivates them instead of sending them away. This means that a person can make others feel comfortable because he's feeling comfortable in his own skin, feeling noble, thus offering value to his surroundings. This is a form of value too, frame. It's not only important to have a strong frame, but to have a frame in which you feel comfortable in your own skin and talking to other people.

So, forward to my field report. On friday the 28th of October I was with some of my friends at their place drinking and smoking some bowls, after I was crashed and they couldn't decide if they wanted to come hit the bars for a drink with me I left. I went home and took a nap since I had gotten bit wasted, by the evening I woke up and decided to start my night with a joint and a relaxing walk to take off all the tension. I found a dark place and sat there, five minutes later a chick starts walking past in the dark alley in front of me, I thought to my self: "Who in their right minds is so fucked up to even walk at this secluded place at night? I for one am not.. she's a cop, I'm busted."

Thankfully she wasn't a cop haha, she happened to be a hot 7/10 chick I knew from work. She used to come to my workshop often in the summer and she showed interest. At that time I was inside my own head facing some problems and I had almost given up on the grind, I had only got so focused on my work that I left other parts of my life untreated.. Anyway she still kept coming (Notice how Value is still high to her even if she noticed I'm not rich on social circles or muscles right now) and we had even said we'd go for a coffee. I never made it since I was about to travel to a faraway island for vacations soon lol, so I ditched her. Fast forward to October, back to this night, I said to her "hey" she heyed back. Then I recognized her. Conversation goes as this:

Me: What is a girl doing here alone at night?

Her:What are you doing here? I was going to my boyfriend.. he's down there not far from here.

Me:Cool, since you're here and making your-self comfortable it means you have some time to kill..

Her:Yeah sure.

I ended up asking her if she's in an open relationship with that aforementioned guy, she replied that yeah they are. I joked about it being open only on her part and that he doesn't know shit, and she laughed saying nah we're cool cus he's leaving in 2 weeks. Then I said "So he wouldn't be mad if I kissed you? I don't give a fuck anyway \Smile*"* And I make the move, she was so wet when I fingered her I wouldn't believe it myself. After all these months I was flaking her and being polite to avoid her? I must have tremendous value in her eyes to make her insist this much and then cheat her boyfriend since I later found out she lied about it being open. The dude was really leaving but I have my reasons to believe it was not an open relationship.

On the other hand, there are other girls who used to want to date me or dated me and nowadays they just want my attention, whenever I give a bit of it *poof* they're gone. So I spared myself the trouble and muted all their stories and posts, never made contact again.

By this contrast you can see that value is sometimes subjective. These girls preffered me more muscular, in my own mind. Thus now that I am not at my prime top shape etc. they just play with me for attention. Whereas the other girl didn't give a flying fuck, and so other girls didn't too.

Now THIS about " appearing high value to most " is something that can be shifted to your advantage and I am talking from experience and testimonies too. In life as a man heavy muscle and frame will get you very far but it can do better with other stapples complimenting them, in order to appear FULL value to the majority of people you want to approach. You don't only need to look shredded, you need to know how to talk to people. You have to dress in a good fashion sense, have a nice useful car and a enough money to pay the bills and live a comfortable life. If you love animals, you can have a nice loyal dog to spend your days with a companion but it will also add value. You will appear as a guy who loves animals and many many chicks dig that. See what I'm saying? In order to appear high value to 90% of the girls out there you have to rock on many aspects of your life, from how you walk and talk to what you wear and do for a living. Status, fame, social circles, appearance and then dgaf attitude. You have to stand up for your opinions in crisis and be able to fight back. People will respect you if they test you and you stand up. Moving away from people who start displaying cues like trying to control you or use you to spend their time, or when people are not recognizing you and your efforts towards them so much, is a great strategy to set boundaries and hold your value. Surround yourself with high status people and with people you can communicate well and be supportive of each other. Try to find people with similar visions to yours. As with everything so with value, high value most certainly will create some envy from people too, like I said you can't be like by everyone and honestly fuck them, there will be people who will try to bring you down with them. Fuck them and keep going.

In plain words what I am trying to show you is how you can up your value in order to reach all types of chicks if that's your end goal. Chicks who dig status and men with money (Some call them golddiggers, me too, if you can exploit them and pump and dump points for not falling into the trap of being seduced and commiting) , chicks who dig shredded dudes, chicks who dig EQ and character in dudes, and chicks who dig 2 or 3 of these simultaneously in a man. Usually 9s 10s, or entitled bitches(Avoid these, same with girls with psychological issues) Vet them first, don't just date anyone. We want to make you be able to date more people, but it's up to you to be selective from there on.

Remember these laws of power from the sidebar and take note how they helped me in the field report up there:

Law #16

Use absence to increase respect and honor.

Too much circulation makes the price go down: The more you are seen and heard from, the more common you appear. If you are already established in a group, temporary withdrawal from it will make you more talked about, even more admired. You must learn when to leave. Create value through scarcity.

Great one in my opinion. Speaks for itself.

Law #20

Do not commit to anyone.

It is the fool who always rushes to take sides. Do not commit to any side or cause but yourself. By maintaining your independence, you become the master of others - playing people against one another, making them pursue you.

I would add in this that not commiting to anyone makes you independent and free. In time, you should learn to be comfortable being alone. My best friend also taught me this, he has no stable classic group of friends as society determines. He has 3 close buddies, and he has met countless people in his life due to his work having to do with tourism and chicks. While not commiting, you also save your self from all the emotional damage of missing people when they're gone.

Law 43

**Work on the hearts and minds of others."

Coercion creates a reaction that will eventually work against you. You must seduce others into wanting to move in your direction. A person you have seduced becomes your loyal pawn. And the way to seduce others is to operate on their individual psychologies and weaknesses. Soften up the resistant by working on their emotions, playing on what they hold dear and what they fear. Ignore the hearts and minds of others and they will grow to hate you.

Find what others like and make them think things are revolving around that from time to time. Same with enemies, if you find yourself in a situation you can't avoid, with people who are cornering you strike on their fears and have leverage. Always have the power to walk away without fearing of consequences. This raises value.

At the end of the day just do things that are, you, try to make a life you want to live. Not a life others want to live, this is what most dudes do and look try-hard. Do you and make it beautiful, when you invest enough in yourself you will be happier and people will notice that and want to be around you. It's all about what first impressions you make, and how you maintain it. Embrace your nature and don't go against it, pick up lifting and martial arts but also have a relaxing hobby to ease your mind. I prefer art for this and I create abstract acrylic and oil paintings, I also do photography and travel. You are valuable when you are feeling abundance.