What is love?

northern_yeti · 2017-04-09T09:11:24+00:00

Blatantly ignoring red flags will never end well, especially in the beginning. What a giant waste of time and money. You done fucked up, but you learned something.

RandyRagnar · 2017-04-09T07:45:50+00:00

Bro dump her she is clearly a liar and a deceiver. No good ill come from her adulterous ways

Bandos15 · 2017-04-09T08:52:48+00:00

Almost all women have a backup plan

abolishpmo · 2017-04-09T14:44:43+00:00

Baby don't hurt me...

On topic: Just fucking dump her man, she's just wasting your time, money and effort

MattyAnon · 2017-04-09T15:10:08+00:00

When and if I ever bring up a problem wet face in our relationship it tends to end with unanswered questions and denials.

The cold hard truth is that women are not monogamous, their "love" is fleeting at best, and given any chance at all will enact a beta-bucks and alpha-fucks lifestyle. Locking down their support and fucking other men.

She will lie, misdirect, blame, deny and wear you down until you give in and let her do as she will. Responsibility avoidance is inherent in their nature.

Women have temporary feelings of strong attraction and an expectation of the future.... they call this love. But it is not love in the male sense of the word. There is no support for you, there is no sacrifice.

I just want to be normal

You are normal, your relationship is normal. Most long term relationships are fucked up.

Sorry to tell you, but your LTR does not love you. It sounds like she barely even cares for you. The love you want... the relationship you have tried to build.... does not exist.

Read the sidebar some more. The good news is you are not unusual. The bad news is there is no solution that will let you find happiness in the arms of a woman.

Pitchfork51 · 2017-04-09T09:34:33+00:00

You've reminded me of my irrational love for Ja rule songs.

mesershmit · 2017-04-09T15:09:54+00:00

....baby dont hurt me.

I think you are roasted.Seek help this instant.

ozaku7 · 2017-04-09T15:49:54+00:00

The first problem was a simple "kiss" between her and a mutual friend. Which wouldn't have been a big deal had she told me.

It would be a big issue with me.

She finally said her side of the story and claimed she was innocent v and it was only a peck on the cheek but never really admitted to being in the wrong.

Women will never admit being wrong. They will go to lengths to protect their ego without even any real arguments. As soon as the argument well dries up, they will continue reusing their arguments in slightly different sentences until you get tired and forfeit, to which they win.

Working hard and sending money when I could to help her move as well. She was very distant and never really kept in touch unless I got angry as to why she wouldn't keep in touch in a more frequent basis.

She lost interest, contacting you seemed to be more of a chore.

Once again i felt distant from her as she wouldn't return texts and calls until later in the day even when she had says off.

Get the hint.

Only to find out less than a month, being here she was flirting with a co worker and actively looking to cheat on me.

There's the hint.

According to her and the texts she left on her phone for me to read.

Cherrypicking the messages by deleting the wrong ones maybe? Honestly, I would do that.

She constantly lied and said everything was great between us for 9 years but always had some kind of plan or relationship on the side that she hoped I would never find or about.

Brangswinging.

newName543456 · 2017-04-09T16:32:45+00:00

She was very distant and never really kept in touch unless I got angry as to why she wouldn't keep in touch in a more frequent basis.

"Say, if your girl starts actin' up

Then you take her friend."

Out of all songs pick more RP ones.

Quoted is exactly why you need abundance mentality, pal. You don't worry if she kissed someone, you get some kisses yourself and don't care. She doesn't keep in touch? You get in touch with someone else. Obviously you demote that one in the process too as these are signs of low interest anyway.

nicetimeisback · 2017-04-09T11:21:05+00:00

Pal, let's talk about love and relationships.

It's fake, all relationships are in truth open relationships, your woman have slept with many men while she is with you, and guess what? It's ok.

It's what women do, they sleep with men.

You don't need to dump her, but please forget about this love fantasy, she's just a plate and you too should flirt and fuck other women.

Title	What is love?
Author	yes_hello88
Upvotes	2
Comments	11
Date	April 9, 2017 7:43 AM UTC (9 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/TheRedPill
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