So i met this girl on a train a while ago. We had quite a nice chat and banter because out train stand in the middle of nowhere for about a hour. During the conversation we came up with the topic of going out. She sad she rarely goes out and drink but would like to from time to time.

I suggested we could go out sometimes and do so. We exchanged ig talked for a while until we arrived. She gave me her insta so i added her first and she accepted me in the evening. So far so good.

We talked a bit over the phone asking how each other trips were etc. I was busy, she was busy because we both were on vacation so it happend that we both sometimes anwserd a day or 2 later.

She told me about a card game she played while she was on vacation and suggested we could play it aswell while having some drinks.

I told her id like to but id like to but im on 2 festivals the next weekends and ill msg her after. One of it had to cancel because my grandpa got realy sick and i got to my mom to help her since she was super buisy with work and i had still 1 week of from work. When stuff got resolved i drove back to the town im living in i knew she had a appointment on the day before in that same city so i thought i just ask if she is still in town. (She lives roughly 1,5 hours away from it in a smaller town) apparently it was only a visit with a doctor and she left early because she had a party from her company the next day.

But she said i could hit her up anytimes spontaneous because she doesn’t live far away and shes fast in my town.

The next day she send me a picture of the location (it was a boot pretty fancy) we shitchatted a bit and she said that she thinks it would be funny if i were there. I told her sure im an awsome accompaniment. She said she can imagine that and she is looking forward to it when the time comes. I told her to enjoy the night for now and we catch up later.

The next day i asked if shes free next Sunday since i finally got my schedule clear. However, no response. I asked her on a Sunday. We both answered sometimes 1-2 days later when we talked in person she was never on her phone not even before we talked and i dont like to chat that much aswell so i thought id be normal. However, i didnt got a anwser until Tuesday so i double texted her which i normally don’t do. She answered intermittently and told me she was busy (probably bs). I texted her and asked if everything is ok and i can understand if shes busy. She apologized and told me she had a family gathering which she had to help her mom with preparing and was sorry for not answering early. I told her i dont mind it but if its about making plans i need to know in advance so i can plan my weekends. She told me the next week her brother has birthday and after that her schedule would clear up. I told her ok we msg then. On the birthday party she posted a private story with a drink in her hand looking stunning.

I replied to the story: „ cheers, looks like you have fun :) Its time we have a drink together.“

She told me: „yeah its fun indeed but im walking home soon. Yes, its definitely about time!!!“

I msged: „ahh your brother lives close to you? What your up to next weekend?

My dad comes back from vacation so i my grandpa is tanking care of“

She left me on read since then, that was on Saturday. Like i said, we both answered sometimes 1-2 days later sometimes in a matter of minutes/hours. So i wasnt worried until yesterday (wendsday) How i should i approach this? I already made plans now for the weekend anyways because she didnt respond. Normally id say shes just not into me and move on but since she was asking questions, suggested activities etc. the situation feels a bit off. Maybe her ex came back into the picture or she met another dude shes more into or something bad happened or whatever.

Normally id just remove her and try to find someone that’s more engaging in meeting up. You guys think i should do so? Is she just searching for intention? Her ig is private and she just has 100 follower and she seemed more of a shy person. So thats kinda off if you ask me. I wouldn’t like to double text her again 2 strikes is normally out. She liked every story i posted since whe met but I haven’t posted anything since i asked her out.

Whats your guys advice?

Tldr: met a girl in person, had a good chat. Seemed interested suggesting date ideas, flirting etc. but left me on read when asking her out, what should i do?