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Where did I mess up?

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September 1, 2014
8 upvotes
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Title Where did I mess up?
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Upvotes 8
Comments 10
Date September 1, 2014 1:56 AM UTC
(11 years ago)
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[–]JJBonesaw6 points7 points8 points 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

She wants you to chase. Hold your frame. If she's interested she will come back

[–]MrArtfulDodger11 points12 points13 points 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Ditch the emoticons. That's how women text.

[–]1 Endorsed Contributormordanus3 points4 points5 points 11 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

It sounds like you were one of her orbiters or something and she is amazed that you would forget who she is. Just hold frame and don't get wrapped up into her bullshit. Either she comes crawling back with a better attitude or she leaves you alone and that's a win/win

[–]waffleman76 points7 points8 points 11 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

Spot on. I was a orbiter a year and a half ago until I stopped giving her attention and she all of a sudden got interested in me .

[–]1 Endorsed Contributormordanus6 points7 points8 points 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Remember why they are called orbiters. In her mind she is the sun and the whole reason for bringing light into your life. You just showed her that she isn't that important to you and it shocked her system. It honestly sounds like she was just about to waste more of your time by using you as an emotional tampon and you denied her the emotional validation that she was craving. I think you might have been too beta in her eyes to have much of a shot but maybe this might turn it around

[–]Senior ContributorSkorchZang2 points3 points4 points 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

They always come crawling back. Stay cheery.

[–]uninemo2 points 11 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link

Is it just me, or is "punk" always a clear sign of a novice shit-test?

Its like, its not harsh enough like a "dick" or "asshole" would be, which are sometimes just better shit-tests. I've always taken it as the female version of a light neg.

[–]nataliieportman0 points1 point2 points 11 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

I don't know the context of this but I've had tons of short conversations that end like this. Next. Lol at her still replying to you, immature girl looking to fill time by seeking validation.

[–]waffleman71 point2 points3 points 11 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

Yeah that what I was thinking , I didn't say anything to offend her , that's her problem .

[–]nataliieportman3 points4 points5 points 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

I literally just went through this. So many girls think being a sassy cunt is okay and you needs to accept it in their eyes. When you don't buy into their BS they get all pissy.

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