Betas and AFCs don’t get laid that often. And when they do, it’s often from their significant others as a “mercy kill” or a way to keep them happy and orbiting. Guy’s getting a little cranky? Have sex with him. Fixes all of your their problems.

This post isn’t about the orbiters who’ve found a girl nice enough to pity fuck them every now and again. This is about the guys who aren’t getting laid. The ones who’ve done everything they were told by women growing up to attempt to get a nice girl, and it’s not working at all. They hold doors open, buy them flowers on Valentine’s Day, Facebook-stalk the girl to make sure they get them the perfect surprise present. And all you get is a half-assed “thank you” or “you shouldn’t have”. Is that really what you were hoping to get? No. Anyone who thrives doing things or spending money on people (outside of holidays, where you don’t want to be the dick who didn’t bring anything for Secret Santa) just to see the happiness on their face is a liar. You want a kiss. You want to go ‘round the bases because you’ve shown you care about her. But it isn’t happening. What’s going on?

I was watching some Red Pill in Comedy links the other day and I watch a video of Dave Chappelle’s stand-up, talking about how women say that chivalry is dead. The joke goes, “Chivalry is dead. [women applaud] And women killed it. [men applaud]” And while it was meant to entertain, there’s some truth in that. Chivalry is dead, in that women expect it. If women didn’t expect it, they wouldn’t be complaining that it was gone, right? You’re expected to hold doors open, you’re expected to lay your coat in the mud so she doesn’t get her shoes dirty, and you’re expected to defend her when she’s picked a fight that she can’t win. Now, why aren’t women rewarding us for giving what they expect?

No one rewards people for doing what they expect. I don’t get a daily pat on my back from my boss saying “Thanks for coming into work today”, or from local law enforcement saying “Thanks for parking correctly on the street.” It’s expected of me. I’m supposed to go to work and I’m expected to not park like an asshole. I don’t get rewarded for doing those things. I get punished for NOT doing those things. Don’t go into work? Fired. Park like an asshole? Ticket. Don’t be chivalrous? Get bitched out by women. I don’t see not being punished as a reward. Do you?

So, let’s recap. Women expect chivalry, and nobody rewards anyone for doing something they expect. So, you can naturally see that women won’t reward you for doing anything chivalrous. But, you can really see respect as a reward, can’t you? People acknowledging your authority and wishes can be a reward. So, let’s take for the sake of argument that respect is an award. Hell, even George Carlin stated that “children earn respect for their parents based on the parents’ performance.” Parents do a good job, child respects them. It’s a reward. So, by using transitive logic, you can replace “Women don’t reward men for being chivalrous” for “Women don’t respect men for being chivalrous.” So, let’s take this newfound logic and plug it in to established TRP logic.

Women are attracted to status. That’s why you can see a fat rich man with a skinny blonde. Sure, they’re really attracted to the money but they have to put up with the man. Looks help, I’m not throwing that out, but status is the real key. High status = high attraction. But, if you think about it, men with high status usually have a high amount of respect for themselves and other people respect them. No woman wants to be with the CEO who lets his subordinates shit all over his reputation. He’ll be seen as weak, and unwanting. If you do something without any indication from the other person that the action will be repaid for, you have no respect in the eyes of a woman. If you are chivalrous and do whatever other people want you to do with no payback coming your way, you are seen as low value. No one respects you, you have no status.

So, coming to all of this condensed to one clause:

Women don’t give a fuck about chivalrous men, but will fuck inchivalrous men.

And for anyone quote fishing, by “inchivalrous”, I don’t mean the opposite of chivalry (misogyny). I’m talking about a lack of chivalry. Don’t hold doors open, don’t Facebook-stalk to show you care. Treat her like you would any human being. I mean, that’s what feminists want anyway, right?