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Why should I learn 'game'?

purgatoryguy
January 4, 2015
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Title Why should I learn 'game'?
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purgatoryguy
Upvotes 0
Comments 45
Date January 4, 2015 2:22 AM UTC
(11 years ago)
Subreddit Posted in /r/TheRedPill
Original Link https://old.reddit.com/r/TheRedPill/comments/2r9fve/why_should_i_learn_game/
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[–]2comment8 points9 points10 points 11 years ago (5 children) | Copy Link

If life is so fair, why do roses have thorns?

Answer: Life is not fair.

Damn, I feel like I'm walking into kindergarten here. Look, it's all supply and demand. Look up sex ratio for one.. Another is that sperm is cheap, eggs are expensive. The village lost a battle and most of its warriors, 1 man can impregate 100 women easy. But 100 men with 1 woman? Dead society.

So you try opt out? You're like one of those 99 dead warriors. Disposable and don't matter. The women moved on, they don't need you. Women are the reproduction roadblock, and by briffault's law, they set the conditions for mating.

How fucking sheltered does someone have to be to not absorb this shit by 12 years old? If not explicitly, at least implicitly.

[–]bobbatosakosanose0 points1 point2 points 11 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

Well you are talking in strictly biological terms. Someone like tom leykis is a failure compared to my divorced friend who is paying child support. We don't exist in the natural world. So it really is what you make of it. Single mothers are winners biologically too.

[–]2comment1 point2 points3 points 11 years ago* (0 children) | Copy Link

I would be, since I'm speaking in the context of OP saying stuff like this:

That doesn't answer why girls don't need to learn 'game' to seduce me rather than me having to learn all this shit to seduce them...

[–]purgatoryguy[S] -2 points-1 points0 points 11 years ago* (1 child) | Copy Link

Look up sex ratio for one.

So pussy is worth more than dick? Why? Last time I checked there were more women on this planet then men...

It's only worth less cos guys hand it to girls on a silver platter all the while girls do nothing in return.

[–][deleted] 8 points9 points10 points 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

what the fuck happened to this place?

[–]2jagrmeister7212 points3 points4 points 11 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

You don't need to learn Game.

Forget about it. You're probably having as much sex as you want right now. You're probably perceived exactly as you want to be today, desired and respected from women.

Be on your way.

[–]purgatoryguy[S] -3 points-2 points-1 points 11 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

No I'm not getting laid that much but I'm not willing to put in the hours just to fuck girls when they should be trying to fuck me.

[–]purgatoryguy[S] -1 points0 points1 point 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

also yeah most girls bore the fuck out of me so I'm not motivated to chase girls at all unless I already really like her.

[–]Azothlike1 point2 points3 points 11 years ago (5 children) | Copy Link

Girls do need to learn game.

The difference is, you need to learn game to get sex. Girls need to learn game to get commitment.

I'm sorry if you thought the world was equal and fair. Men want sex more than women. If you don't rise above in your pursuit of it, you will be outcompeted.

[–][deleted] -1 points-1 points-1 points 11 years ago | Copy Link

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[–]tits_out_forTheBoys1 point2 points3 points 11 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link

Men have 10-25X the levels of testosterone as women. Testosterone is the sex drive hormone. You do the math.

[–]purgatoryguy[S] -3 points-2 points-1 points 11 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

Jeez you guys are clueless. No wonder there are so many 40 year old virgins out there.

[–]Azothlike1 point2 points3 points 11 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

I'm sorry that you have no idea what you're talking about.

Every objective study and social experiment ever done has shown that men want sex more than women.

[–]purgatoryguy[S] -2 points-1 points0 points 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

haha, no women want sex just as much as guys...individuals of both gender vary but the only difference with female sex drive is they get it offered more than guys so are never desperate to fuck.

[–]JayViceroy1 point2 points3 points 11 years ago (6 children) | Copy Link

At what point do these posts get deleted and the mods send a message to OPs like this and just say study the sidebar (not just one day read everything at once) before posting?

[–]purgatoryguy[S] -2 points-1 points0 points 11 years ago (5 children) | Copy Link

Why delete it since I clearly have a point...? I swear guys have been shafted in the evolutionary game. So many men are going without any action because of bullshit pro-female rules hardwired into social dynamics.

Stuff like 'game' prove that women have won.

[–]Azothlike2 points3 points4 points 11 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

Because you don't have a point, and you don't understand the basics of biological gender differences and supply and demand.

You're just shitting up our sub with your ignorance and pre-confirmed wrong ideas.

[–]purgatoryguy[S] -1 points0 points1 point 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Wrong to you maybe... but trust me you're in plato's cave and going nowhere.

[–]JayViceroy0 points1 point2 points 11 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

I'm sorry but no you do not have a point. You learn game because you are a man that wants to attract women. That's the name of the game. TRP is around to give you a playbook to better yourself and make you more successful in life. Go lift, eat right and change your mind. If you want to check out of chasing women that's also an option by MGTOW. Women are the gatekeepers of sex and that will not be changing anytime soon.

[–]purgatoryguy[S] 0 points1 point2 points 11 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

I agree there's no point going MGTOW unless you want to sacrifice your genes for the cause... although women are NOT the gatekeepers to sex. You'd know this if a woman ever chased you... it's just that usually their sexual value is artificially higher than men's because men chase way too much.

[–]JayViceroy0 points1 point2 points 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

No disrespect but you have a lot more to learn and accept.

[–][deleted] 2 points2 points2 points 11 years ago | Copy Link

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[–]bobbatosakosanose0 points1 point2 points 11 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link

That's not game. It doesn't make them attractive at all. Those shit tests vanish if Leonardo DiCaprio talks to her.

[–]abdada0 points1 point2 points 11 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

Except he got dumped by Gisele, didn't he.

[–]getomc1 point2 points3 points 11 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

AWALT

It doesn't matter what your real value is, if you put her on a pedastle, she'll dry the fuck up and no amount of money will change that.

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point2 points 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

You're almost there. Hear me out, though:

Shit tests are a monumentally important part of girl-game. They are applied when the male's value is in doubt. DiCaprio's value would precede him, and hence, never be in doubt.

[–]purgatoryguy[S] -1 points0 points1 point 11 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link

so women's version of game is to test me?? Fuck that... I should be testing those bitches myself.

[–][deleted] 1 point2 points3 points 11 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

That's an okay mindset to have if you can back it up.

The problem a lot of us had before we started reading here was we vastly overestimated our own value, and vastly overestimated our own value to women.

[–]purgatoryguy[S] -2 points-1 points0 points 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

I don't think men are overestimating their own value (no more than women do anyway).

It's just men are selling themselves short because for some reason pussy is apparently worth more than dick... newsflash - pussy isn't worth that much. It's an illusion set by social dynamics and feminism fucking men over.

[–]helpyaboy20 points1 point2 points 11 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

Women have their own version. I'm not exactly sure what it is, but ask any guy with a girlfriend who doesn't know how to control things and be the man and you'll see that they all act the same. Accepting whatever she wants, becoming spineless, etc.

Also, in mainstream dating culture, most women aren't expected to initiate any interactions. There are some cultures where this is reversed or you might get lucky and have a girl come to you first, but 95% of the time, this wont happen. Women have different standards than men too. A guy will at least consider approaching any cute girl, but women look for more than just appearance. Even then, they aren't sure.

[–]purgatoryguy[S] -2 points-1 points0 points 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Girls don't approach men but it's not because they don't want to... it's because women tell each other not to. It's bullshit social engineering by bitches to oppress men sexually.

[–]JohnDavidsonR 0 points1 point2 points 11 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

If you can get laid as much as the common woman, then you don't need to learn game.

[–]purgatoryguy[S] -2 points-1 points0 points 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

I can't. If I was a female version of myself I would have had a lot more action and would probably be married by now.

I'm also a fan of equality so no interest in learning game for the sake of bitches. I shouldn't need to sell myself to them.

[–]Endorsed ContributorCrimsonCapsule0 points1 point2 points 11 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link

You don't have to. You can just raise your SMV in other ways, and wait for girls to hit on you.

But...now they're talking to you. What do you say? How do you put them at ease? How do you tell the difference between girls hunting for drinks and the ones that want to get in your pants? How do you help your friends get laid?

Having some game will help.

(As an aside: girls have game. Makeup, fashion, making an effort in bed, back massages, cooking — these make a man's Commitment Boner hard.)

[–]purgatoryguy[S] 0 points1 point2 points 11 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link

yep this is more like it. Still, I'd be interested in a girl regardless of her job status if she looked good etc.

[–]Endorsed ContributorCrimsonCapsule0 points1 point2 points 11 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

Yeah. Women care about different stuff in a mate that guys do. If you're looking for some sort of "fairness" there, it's not going to happen.

[–]purgatoryguy[S] 0 points1 point2 points 11 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

Maybe not going to happen in my sexual prime but it still doesn't stop it being bullshit... guys wake up.

They're interested in 'strong' men yet they're in the stronger position sexually because of social dynamics. It's total crap.

[–]Endorsed ContributorCrimsonCapsule0 points1 point2 points 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Not really. If a woman wants to have sex with you — if she desires you — you have the upper hand in the relationship. And you get there with a combination of game, social status, looks, lifting, money, power, connections...all things that are within your power to improve.

A year ago I was crying and begging my ex for sex. Today I have women that are excited to sleep with me just so I'll spend a little time with them. And three new dates next week, all with women at least a decade younger than me.

Just takes a little effort on your part. It's only bullshit if you let it be bullshit.

[–]tits_out_forTheBoys0 points1 point2 points 11 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

That's like asking Why should I learn finance?

Game is affecting your everyday life regardless of whether or not you feel the need to learn it.

[–]purgatoryguy[S] 0 points1 point2 points 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

I'll take a few tips and stuff but I don't like that I HAVE to pursue chicks just because she's in my league. It should go both ways.

And I'm not interested in settling for some ugly bitch who comes to me.

[–]bobbatosakosanose0 points1 point2 points 11 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link

LMS. Game is only a part of it son.

[–]purgatoryguy[S] 0 points1 point2 points 11 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

That doesn't answer why girls don't need to learn 'game' to seduce me rather than me having to learn all this shit to seduce them...

[–]Transmigratory0 points1 point2 points 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Because they just need to appeal to your second head; girls just need to look good to do that.

Whereas a dude needs game to break down whatever mental walls their hamster has generated.

[–]LMS_THEORY_0 points1 point2 points 11 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

and a very small part of it at that. With Looks, gym, status, and money, game practically becomes irrelevant as long as you're not a social retard.

[–]purgatoryguy[S] 0 points1 point2 points 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

OK. So hit the gym... I'm probably going to try bulk up then but still don't understand why girls can just sit on their fat asses while I try to better myself with 'game' or going to the gym.

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