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Sure. Biological imperative screams for babies, so it's gotta be structured to be a sure thing. And it's worked pretty well — there is a fuckton of people bumbling around these days. You have to wonder at what point the bartender finally says "sorry ladies — I think you've had enough."
/r/TheRedPill10/12/15 03:16 AM
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Happened to me. After I told my coworker directly that I wasn't interested, I started keeping timestamped a log of every additional interaction we had, and explained the situation to my gay male supervisor. Working out okay so far. We're nearly back to "business friendly".
/r/TheRedPill05/12/15 08:25 AM
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It's easy to go through a phase where we try to suppress the emotions we show — which becomes far less necessary as we become more at peace with ourselves and the world around us. I'm not there yet, but I'm getting closer.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/15 11:32 PM
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Just explaining why SHOW NO EMOTION may sometimes be given out as advice. Just don't give a fuck is equally poor advice to give a person who gives a whole lot of fucks, and they bleed through in every social interaction. I believe that you should always show genuine emotion, and that genuine emotion should come from your inner storehouse of happiness and contentment. Oh? You don't have an inner storehouse of happiness and contentment? Just don't give a fuck, bro! It's pretty nice!
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/15 03:36 AM
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Come up with a second and third act and buy a ticket to LA!
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/15 10:55 PM
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Well, consider an idealized man who is calm, relaxed, yet assured in every situation. Things go to pieces, but he never does. He always has his shit together. Let's say that this person just has a worldview that lets him take everything in stride, and he radiates confidence and goodwill in every situation. I would submit that such a person wouldn't be burying his true feelings — he'd just have a broad enough outlook to not become distraught at life's ups and downs. For most people who aren't Zen…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/15 10:52 PM
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That's what you say. Another man says that religion brings solace, wealth brings freedom, and sex can be had for the asking. Can both of you be right? Can both of you be wrong?
/r/askTRP04/11/15 10:40 AM
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Drive and ambition are definitely important to SMV. But there's nothing inherently good about raising one's SMV, or getting lots of chances for sex. It's merely one system that you can choose to take part in, with risks and rewards and difficulties and successes and failures. But sex can no more give your life meaning than the pursuit of wealth, or power, or following this religion or that religion. Understanding that you alone assign meaning to systems, activities, and relationships will give y…
/r/askTRP04/11/15 10:17 AM
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You don't have a purpose because there is no purpose to have. If this upsets you, it's because you were expecting things to be some other way. The problem lies in your expectations. Don't blame your life for failing to live up to some arbitrary standard of meaning that you assigned it. And you're sick of meditating? If you don't like meditating, then you're not meditating — you're sitting around with your eyes closed, focusing on your aversion to sitting around with your eyes closed. Sounds reee…
/r/askTRP04/11/15 09:22 AM
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There was a good post on TRP about meditation: http://www.reddit.com/r/TheRedPill/comments/3qgene/the_infinite_mindset_a_guide_to_mindfulness_and/ Highly recommended. The depression you're feeling sounds very similar to what I used to deal with — the lack of purpose, the feeling of meaninglessness. What got me out? The understanding that my anger and sense of betrayal had more to do with my expectations. It was all supposed to be different! Not like this! There was gonna be something, and now th…
/r/askTRP30/10/15 06:45 AM
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Incredible experience. Will be interested to hear your thoughts. I'll continue to do them. I will say that Goenka's lectures come from a Buddhist perspective — you need to decide for yourself how much of that you want to swallow. The meditation technique itself is beyond reproach, though, in my opinion.
/r/TheRedPill28/10/15 12:57 AM
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Yeah, done three of the Goenka Vipassana retreats. As hard of a challenge as most people will face in their lifetimes, and well worth the effort. Have also dabbled in several other meditation styles, but Vipassana works best for me.
/r/TheRedPill28/10/15 12:21 AM
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Meditation works. If you haven't bothered to check out your mind and how it functions, you are not truly in control of yourself. Why do you want what you want? Why do you do what you do? Who is pulling your strings? Meditation can help answer these questions and more. I tend to favor meditation that avoids any type of chant or mantra (Vipassana, Zen) over those that do (TM, Headspace app, any of the many, many cults that use meditation as a rite) as I prefer to merely focus on what is happening …
/r/TheRedPill27/10/15 11:24 PM
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Sure. Exercise will give you more clarity and energy for things like healthy eating. If you can't lift right away, just do little manageable things. Take short walks until you can take long walks, then go for short runs. Then get to the gym. Also: let go of your rage, fear, and guilt about the uncontrollable things. Remember, every situation is either outside your direct control (earthquakes, ISIS, meteor showers, most news communicated via mass communication, dem feminists!) or inside your cont…
/r/TheRedPill29/01/15 08:13 AM
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Ah. But let's say you are Drago from Game of Thrones. You are strong. You smell like salt and sun. You always do as you say. You never lie. You follow through on your commitments. You deliver on your promises. How often do you have to raise your fists to get what is important to you? How often do you need to get angry?
/r/TheRedPill20/01/15 04:29 AM
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Ah. But the cave people have no words with which to speak. So there was a breakdown in communicative honesty between men and women before there were even words with which to speak between men and women.
/r/TheRedPill20/01/15 01:17 AM
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"Ok" Then just let it be for a while. Women flake a lot, especially in early days of getting to know each other — especially if you haven't met face to face yet. Especially if they're pretty and have other options. The cute ones have an army of deep-pocketed gentlesir jagoffs offering steak dinners, plus their pick of alpha types at least as cool as you. Unless you've had a bunch of dates and gotten physical, you're just some cell phone guy. She had a better offer from Chad (or sometimes a legit…
/r/askTRP16/01/15 11:19 PM
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Who cares what TRP thinks about male feminists. This is straight from my new rainbow-haired 21-year-old Tumblr pixie who considers feminism to be an important part of her identity: HER: Most of my friends identify as feminists...so...uh, do you... ME: Nah. I can only guess at the female experience and what feminism means to a woman. But I'm sure that 99% of male feminists are trying to feminism their way into some girl's jeans. HER: HAHAHAHAHAHAHA totally! arm squeeze She's fun. I like her.
/r/TheRedPill15/01/15 11:23 AM
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zen gong If you wanted it, and she did it, you didn't make her. You charmed her. zen gong
/r/TheRedPill14/01/15 12:40 PM
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Roger that. Seems like we both know what we're talking about.
/r/TheRedPill14/01/15 03:23 AM
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Never go Truth Bomb when you can go Blarney, my friend.
/r/TheRedPill14/01/15 03:19 AM
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Oh, I get that. Was just wondering where in a romance you'd get dialogue ideas for that.
/r/TheRedPill14/01/15 03:08 AM
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You know what those Australian metalheads would say... You've been...THUNDERCOCKED
/r/TheRedPill14/01/15 01:14 AM
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THAT IS HOW STRONG CHAD'S FRAME IS
/r/TheRedPill13/01/15 02:51 PM
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I actually avoided this sort of situation for years just by doing my job and keeping to myself. But yeah — if you say single past a certain age, the ones that are desperate enough start climbing the walls.
/r/TheRedPill13/01/15 12:12 PM
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For the sake of argument, I assume that Chad (pbuh) is able to negotiate these situations with a 100% success rate. He doesn't get false rape allegations, because he leaves every girl satisfied, has evidence of such, and leaves them with the possibility of future satisfaction. That's ridiculous, of course. Chad Thundercock can't possibly exist. But some say, on a clear and quiet night when the moon is full, you can hear him, laughing his rich, thunderous, baritone laugh as he joyfully pounds the…
/r/TheRedPill13/01/15 10:49 AM
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She changed her name to start with TIT after changing her major to Women's Studies
/r/TheRedPill13/01/15 09:03 AM
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To: Titania From: CHAD sex 7/10 pancakes 6/10 Good aftercare doesn't have to be some long drawn-out thing. It just needs to convey that it was a good decision, and there's a possibility of more adventure in the future.
/r/TheRedPill13/01/15 09:01 AM
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Like dying of cancer? Or drowning in a lake with a pocketful of stones? Or sinking beneath the ocean? That's how good relationships end in romantic movies. "Chick flicks" aren't about how to break up effectively with girls that want to stay together. They're tingle generators. You have to eliminate the tingles if you want to break things off smoothly.
/r/TheRedPill13/01/15 08:53 AM
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Well, why is that ? We must, of course, consider factors. One is that, Alphas are naturally dominance, while betabucks are sitting honestyle people You understand ? But I dont expect you to downvote away. ... ...Like that, right? More or less? Do you type each of these or is there a generator you can use?
/r/TheRedPill13/01/15 08:45 AM
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Actually, wait. "Selfish lover?" Dude. Next time just tell her that you're deeply insecure about the fact that you'll never be good enough for her. Maybe cry a bit. EDIT: Whoops! Tell her that YOU feel that YOU will never feel good enough for HER. Corrected.
/r/TheRedPill13/01/15 07:34 AM
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Don't try to figure him out. He's the wind, baby.
/r/TheRedPill13/01/15 07:19 AM
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I'm still trying to work out if you're TRP's Ted Baxter or its Andy Kaufman
/r/TheRedPill13/01/15 07:17 AM
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I can't speak to your situation, but here's the lengths I've gone to: I had a co-worker that I had after-work burgers with a few times. One day I wasn't feeling up for it, and I see this really quick flash of anger pass over her face. Fuck. She loves me. From that moment I started a dated, time-stamped record of every single interaction we had from that point. Her drunken pass at me during the Christmas party that I politely declined. The cutesy note in my desk drawer. The time she called me an …
/r/TheRedPill13/01/15 06:28 AM
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Sorry to hear that, man. Understand that I do not think that's your fault. False rape allegations destroy lives. It's awful. I never got my Bateman Badge because I only have 2/3 of the Dark Triad — I got emo kid levels of empathy. But it really works for me. If you know how women feel about something, you can almost always guess what they'll do about it. I believe you: she was bad at sex. But women blame YOU for their feelings when you're with them. Did she just casually bring up Ebola? You bett…
/r/TheRedPill13/01/15 05:57 AM
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Depends on his methylamine supplier.
/r/TheRedPill13/01/15 03:58 AM
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Exactly. And that part is fun — giving her rockstar eyes over eggs, and making jokes about how amazed you are that she still feels the need to swallow more protein. You like sex, yes? And you want to have more of it? And you want her to spread filthy rumors about you to all of her friends? Help her feel like boning you was a good idea. And leave the door open for more in the future. Even if you fade on each other and it doesn't happen again, you'll leave it on the right note.
/r/TheRedPill13/01/15 03:25 AM
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Chad is the Paul Bunyan of TRP. I'll not see his legend diminished.
/r/TheRedPill13/01/15 03:06 AM
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My coworker was complaining about this to me. She wanted her boyfriend to be — as another poster said, fried ice: a guy who could take her like Drago on GoT, but not alllll the time. A submissive manly dominant bitch. Schrodinger's Alpha. Doesn't work. After she's vented about her day, made him doublecheck the honeydo list, and told him to massage her corns, she's expecting him to grow pectorals and a face tat and throw her around on the animal skins? Fat chance.
/r/TheRedPill13/01/15 12:38 AM
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You mean, "Why is it your job to go caveman and give her a break from making decisions? Why isn't it her job to go Amazon cavewoman and give you a break from making decisions?" Something like that? Essentially: it's not. You can find a woman that loves to dominate a guy, and tie him up and peg his pooper, and make him fetch her beers. (And professional dominatrixes are paid well to simulate this kind of relationship.) Back in my prettyboy omega days, I dated a girl like this. Older than me. And …
/r/TheRedPill12/01/15 11:56 PM
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With respect, you have a lot of aspirations, but no real plan to carry it out. I wish you luck — I'm waiting to be proved wrong — but hasn't happened yet.
/r/TheRedPill12/01/15 06:12 PM
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I'm actually very interested in this. Do you have an active sex life? Who with? How frequently? Do you have a SO?
/r/TheRedPill12/01/15 05:11 PM
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Hm. Fair point. I guess it would depend on the country and jurisdiction. Still gonna stick with my original assertion. Could buy someone time to shelter their assets, at least.
/r/TheRedPill12/01/15 04:58 PM
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I'm not sure what you mean by deserve. Can you clarify?
/r/TheRedPill12/01/15 04:55 PM
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My first dates are the same. I mix up the locations to keep from boring myself (and from psychotically taking all women on the same exact date), but I don't spend more money. I'm able to take a girl on a fun and interesting date without spending a lot, and conveying that is a huge turn-on. I actually go more playfully caveman with socially powerful/wealthy/career girls: "Girl, I don't care about your fancy job and wallet and business card — I care about that big ass you got. Get that shit over h…
/r/TheRedPill11/01/15 11:21 PM
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I'm just saying that, as you get out there and date around, there are sometimes limits to the "don't buy her stuff" rule of thumb. If you're dating someone significantly younger than you, or someone far enough below your economic level, it starts to look weird to go Dutch on, say, a basket of onion rings. Just pay the four bucks. But your frame should be I am buying myself some onion rings, and I might have an onion ring or two for a girl that can make me smile. Not perhaps I can onion ring my w…
/r/TheRedPill11/01/15 10:40 PM
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"I have money. These tacos are nothing to me." VS. "Let me buy you things so you'll like me, m'lady."
/r/TheRedPill11/01/15 02:17 PM
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"My cat died so I cut myself," she said. Now the conversation is in the emotional gutter. She feels bad. And you're the dude talking to her. So: YOU = DEAD CAT CUTTING FEELZ When this happens, you have about 5 seconds to start talking about beaches and shopping
/r/TheRedPill11/01/15 01:11 PM
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Because 18-year-olds don't have Chalupa Money
/r/TheRedPill11/01/15 01:07 PM
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Well said. In fact, even if your life's goal is to make yourself a colder, more calculating version of Patrick Bateman, you'd do well to have a big-picture strategy about this stuff. Don't confuse not giving a fuck with not reading the green.
/r/TheRedPill11/01/15 01:45 AM
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I keep reading posts here by dudes still working the creases out of their Dark Triad Pants: about how you don't owe a cuckold anything, and how TRP is amoral and how everyone makes their own choices in life about what is or is not moral and right. And I agree. But think about it: if you know that a given man's SO is cheating (or willing to), then you are in possession of a very valuable piece of information. How valuable? Possibly billions of dollars: http://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/List_of_most_…
/r/TheRedPill10/01/15 11:44 PM
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bump
/r/MarriedRedPill10/01/15 11:13 PM
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There's this book about these three* guys that manipulate an old man's emotions until he feels compelled to give his money away. What was that called... Oh yeah! A Christmas Carol. *Marley makes four, fine.
/r/TheRedPill10/01/15 07:13 AM
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Maybe she's just found some newfound strength in her convictions. And lack of tingles. But also convictions. She might be testing your LTR fitness. Will he stay with me if sex is off the table? Or maybe she isn't into you like she used to be — your SMV is down or hers is up, and her lack of tingles is making it easier to suddenly get religion. You're young. And she and her buddy God have a gun to your crotch now — get married, break up, or cheat. Your call, but realize that you are no longer in …
/r/askTRP10/01/15 06:36 AM
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The same thing every guy on Tinder wants, I guess. You're the first girl to challenge me on it directly, though. Why is that? :P You need to establish up front that you are after a sexual relationship, but that there's something about her specifically that intrigues you. If she's thinking about you in a sexual way at all, she'll flip you some shit back and you can begin the Romantic Text Dance. If she's just looking for orbiters and text validation, her response will reflect that, too. EDIT: Do …
/r/askTRP10/01/15 06:05 AM
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Bob is more of a math kinda guy.
/r/TheRedPill09/01/15 10:36 PM
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I actually had that in for Bob's Question 2 at one point. I changed it, because that is essentially what he asks for Question 3. "I want my wife's desire — what can I do?" That's the right question. Question 2 is almost the right question — but it's asking how to get compliance. And compliance is not that difficult to get, temporarily. But it's very difficult to sustain long-term. A few people have suggested I'm coming down on Dread. I'm not, really. But I think the soft dread of actually being …
/r/TheRedPill09/01/15 02:01 PM
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Creepiness is sexual escalation without to qualification. That's a pretty game-y definition, but it's adequate for understanding what the term means to women. Their hackles are up. Their warning light is flashing. If these things are occurring in a woman's head, she does not consider you dominant in the way we understand that term. It's more of a "this guy has not made me tingle, but he's sexually interested and trying to get in my pants. I need to get out of here." It's the exact same feeling a…
/r/TheRedPill09/01/15 01:16 PM
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I find that it's really a crap shoot. I'm almost never messaged first, but the ones that have done tended to be a bit above average. As far as openers, playful non-sequiturs seem to be good for me (though if you're really jacked you might do well with a more direct approach). During Christmas I was starting snowball fights with little snowman emoji, and then just switching to witty, short responses (no more colorful emoji once we're actually chatting — leave that to the girls). My goal is just t…
/r/TheRedPill09/01/15 07:16 AM
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Cheers. Didn't delete it, it was...spirited away. Not really sure why.
/r/MarriedRedPill09/01/15 04:46 AM
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I think both of your theories hold water, but there could be other reasons. Why isn't the man having real sex instead of watching porn? Why isn't he doing something more productive with his time? I think a lot of the same criticisms of video games apply.
/r/TheRedPill08/01/15 10:04 PM
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I'm really not sure. I feel really, really good about my breakup, hard as it was. I can't imagine what it would have been like if I were married.
/r/TheRedPill08/01/15 08:54 PM
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No doubt. But to sustain those tingles long-term, you need to internalize and turn what you learn into a real part of you. Otherwise it's not sustainable. I think my previous LTR really suffered from my failure to do that properly, and I think it's a danger to be aware of. Am I wrong?
/r/TheRedPill08/01/15 08:49 PM
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They respond really well to good text game. I keep things short, terse, and funny. A little back and forth and it's easy to meet up.
/r/TheRedPill08/01/15 08:41 PM
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This wasn't really so much a criticism of dread per se, though it did use a greatly oversimplified version of it as an example. It was really more an example of poorly-internalized game. My point is that if otherwise effective concepts like Dread are grafted too quickly onto a relationship — by a man pretending suddenly to have an active social life, say — it's not going to fool one's SO forever. To improve that relationship permanently, you need a real shift in SMV, and it takes time and effort…
/r/TheRedPill08/01/15 08:12 PM
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Hey everyone, thanks. Because this is blowing up my inbox, a quick author's commentary: 1) Redpill is amoral; Redpill is not rape. Men do not come to Redpill looking for advice on forcing women into having sex. 2) Redpill is amoral; Redpill is not manipulation. If anything, Redpill shows the limits of Outer Game. Internet advice and scripted PUA routines aren't going to hang together in the long run. At some point, your actual character comes into question. 3) Redpill is amoral but suggests a us…
/r/TheRedPill08/01/15 04:36 PM
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Developing my text game has been more fun and more rewarding than you'd think. My primary goals are to get phone numbers off of Tinder and the like, and the ladies of Tinder and the like love that shit-test filled sexual subtext language of old spy movies. The verbal sparring becomes second nature. Sharpens your ability to beat shit tests, and it gradually becomes fun to boot.
/r/TheRedPill06/01/15 08:54 PM
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Yes. Complete agreement. My texts used to be a rainbow cornucopia of dumbass bullshit. Heart heart smiley sparkle LOL I figured out at some point that I was projecting what I wanted to see from girls — lots of emotion and giggles and hearts. And then I was farting it out at the world. No. Doesn't work. Girls like the same calm, amused stoicism in texts as they do in person. Let them sparkle it up for you.
/r/TheRedPill06/01/15 07:25 PM
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It's a Beta Dream if you're expecting a woman to do this unconditionally because of Twu Wuv™. The woman you just quoted there — the type of woman that understands how men communicate on that primal level — has standards. She isn't going to act that way for just any jerkoff with a cock. She is going to use what she knows to find a proper man who will give her the commitment she craves. I go to RPW, and I see a lot of amazing horses with unicorn horns glued to their heads. But they're holding out …
/r/TheRedPill06/01/15 08:56 AM
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Dude — if you have blowjays on command, you're not "lucky". You are doing something right. In fact, take a picture of yourself right now. If you aren't looking and performing better than that guy in five years, I wouldn't count on that luck holding out.
/r/TheRedPill06/01/15 06:27 AM
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The day they fuck is the day rent stops getting paid on time.
/r/TheRedPill06/01/15 03:16 AM
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Sure. But she won't desire you. And once you've had sex borne of pure desire, you can never go back.
/r/TheRedPill06/01/15 02:24 AM
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Ok! Now it's a delicious Kobe steak, and there's a post-blowjob foot massage. You're still getting ripped off.
/r/TheRedPill06/01/15 02:22 AM
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That's a very good comparison. It isn't about the soup and the blowjob. It's about how much men are willing to do for so little. Play around with the variables of the question — there are thirsty dudes out there that are willing to do even more for even less.
/r/TheRedPill06/01/15 02:21 AM
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No. Men need a place where they can make a declarative statement without hearing a shrill "NOT NECESSARILY!" from some gum-chewing career gal.
/r/TheRedPill06/01/15 02:15 AM
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Look at the bullshit she is trying to pull. Men do the pursuing, so of course she can wait for someone to come to her. But if he wants to Tinder up some strange...well, that's just wrong, for some reason. Dude should kick back on the sofa and wait for the bikini girls to crawl in through the mail slot, I guess.
/r/TheRedPill05/01/15 05:39 PM
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Yes, it would matter. 15 minutes of desire is worth more than 15 minutes of duty. Would it matter to you?
/r/TheRedPill05/01/15 04:46 PM
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Hit the sidebar, man. Until you've had a girl wear a French maid outfit while she cooks for you, you haven't had an erection.
/r/TheRedPill05/01/15 04:13 PM
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Yes. Boilermakers. That can be the only thing on the cocktail menu.
/r/TheRedPill05/01/15 04:10 PM
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Would a hooker want to do those things? Or would she just be doing them for money?
/r/TheRedPill05/01/15 11:36 AM
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Whoa. Just make a business that looks like a slaughterhouse, and put a classy secret bar in back.
/r/TheRedPill05/01/15 11:34 AM
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I thought I was. But seriously — I only know a few dudes who'd say no to that deal, and I didn't bother asking them. They understand women. This is the question I ask clueless guys to try and open their eyes a bit — and it works. Try it yourself. The results might depress you.
/r/TheRedPill05/01/15 09:22 AM
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To reclaim these spaces, just make businesses that make no concessions to women. Beer only. Unisex toilet. Sports on TV, sexy girl posters, a smell of motor oil. They'll toddle back to the Cheesecake Factory soon enough.
/r/TheRedPill05/01/15 08:37 AM
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Well, I'll bet that you could rejigger the question a little. Tell them you heard it on "Dr. Phil or somewhere."
/r/TheRedPill05/01/15 07:20 AM
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Yuuuup. I've had a woman on my Facebook for a while — and man, back in high school, she was really top-tier. Out of my league. A-list. In-crowd. She walked like Rhiannon. And she hadn't really communicated much...until this last Christmas. Suddenly, likes and comments everywhere. Have I been combing my hair different? What's going on? Hm. Lots of holiday pictures of her kid here. And of her, and...let's see, dad must be around here somewhere...hmmm... Ding! Ah. Hubby is MIA. Now, I've always see…
/r/TheRedPill05/01/15 02:47 AM
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Well, maybe go out with your friend and pick up chicks. Practice winging for each other. You're trying to build each other up, remember: "HB, this is Bob. He might look like a gym rat, but his brain saved me thousands of dollars last year. If you're lucky, maybe he'll show you his balcony." NOT "HB, stop talking to ugly broke-ass Bob here. I'm the real deal, gurrrrl." In the first example, you both look like winners who have winners for friends. In the second example, you look like two scrubs fi…
/r/TheRedPill04/01/15 04:56 PM
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Well, gays get a guaranteed jackpot, at the expense of the Thrill of the Hunt. Honestly, the rejections and difficulties I face with women make the successes that much sweeter. In any case, this kind of hypothetical thinking is counterproductive. If I could take a pill that would give me two gas-powered laser dongs, I'd take that pill, too. But I can't.
/r/TheRedPill04/01/15 03:22 PM
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Not really. If a woman wants to have sex with you — if she desires you — you have the upper hand in the relationship. And you get there with a combination of game, social status, looks, lifting, money, power, connections...all things that are within your power to improve. A year ago I was crying and begging my ex for sex. Today I have women that are excited to sleep with me just so I'll spend a little time with them. And three new dates next week, all with women at least a decade younger than me…
/r/TheRedPill04/01/15 01:50 PM
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Yeah. Women care about different stuff in a mate that guys do. If you're looking for some sort of "fairness" there, it's not going to happen.
/r/TheRedPill04/01/15 01:29 PM
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You don't have to. You can just raise your SMV in other ways, and wait for girls to hit on you. But...now they're talking to you. What do you say? How do you put them at ease? How do you tell the difference between girls hunting for drinks and the ones that want to get in your pants? How do you help your friends get laid? Having some game will help. (As an aside: girls have game. Makeup, fashion, making an effort in bed, back massages, cooking — these make a man's Commitment Boner hard.)
/r/TheRedPill04/01/15 05:49 AM
10

A lot of creative types (and for that matter, drug dealers and hoods and gangsters) are "outside the system." They give the appearance of being above the fray, playing by their own rules. Stick with me, kid — we'll be having crazy adventures while these nerds are fiddling with Excel or sucking up to the boss. I cannot be tamed by a paycheck and a time clock. It's nonsense, of course, but girls love it. Everything becomes an amusing joke...and we all know about amused mastery. I'm the creative ty…
/r/TheRedPill03/01/15 09:28 AM
1

I work with a group of retirees once a month — kind of a group meet and greet. Their perspectives — both men and women — are really clear and refreshing. I'd recommend this to anyone. It's interesting, and a nice bit of concrete community service that is genuinely appreciated.
/r/TheRedPill03/01/15 05:19 AM
1

Well, now you know. Make up for lost time.
/r/TheRedPill02/01/15 01:12 PM
1

Exactly. Last time I went out alone (girl flaked on me) I made a couple new friends by saying sup to some army dudes and laughing about how empty the club was, and then we went around talking to girls. Ended up with both new friends and new phone numbers.
/r/TheRedPill02/01/15 12:46 PM
1

Well, just start small. Get a couple of phone numbers off Tinder. Get to second base with an HB6. Ask a girl out for coffee and have another plan in case she flakes. I don't know if you NEED validation from women, but you seem to be giving them a high importance in your life — perhaps TOO high for you to actually get physical. That's an issue. I'll probably never play ice hockey — not that interested. But if I were afraid of it because I didn't want to fall down or get injured, I'd need to conqu…
/r/askTRP02/01/15 12:38 PM
9

Take care of your teeth. Brush, floss, whiten. The condition of your teeth has all kinds of social and class implications.
/r/askTRP02/01/15 10:27 AM
1

Yeah, could be. I get some of that too, but I just delete them. It's worth a little time wading through the nonsense. Hopefully their filtering will get better. I just copy/paste my good opener on the rest. Also recommend you get an awesome pic (jacked/fun/active) and reinstall. Gives you another try at the ladies.
/r/TheRedPill02/01/15 10:24 AM
2

You sure? I've had luck with Tinder after only a couple weeks. Lots of phone numbers, a date with an f-close. I have an auto-liker, which likes all the girls in my area. When I get a match, I throw out a non-sequitur to punch my way through the noise of choads saying "hi" or "suck my balls". After that, you just flirt back and forth until you get a number, then keep flirting and set a date. Don't take it too seriously. But it's great fun and good text game practice. And if you like girls under 2…
/r/TheRedPill02/01/15 06:20 AM
1

That's great stuff, OP. That's exactly the attitude to have. On NYE I ended up going to some trashy, packed club because we were going to "get in free no problem" according to my friend. Turns out the guy he knew who could get us in wasn't there. $80 out of pocket and a million miles from a better option. Screwed our game faces on anyway — got my 12PM make-out, two phone numbers, and a two-hour grind session on a HB9 at least a decade younger than me. Expensive night. Bad music. Good fun.
/r/TheRedPill02/01/15 06:08 AM
13

Ha! And then: "Well, say SOMETHING. God!" "Fine, I can be quiet too. Fine." thirty seconds pass "You are acting JUST like a child." twenty seconds pass "Ok, I'm sorry. I've just had a lot of stress at work. And then with the new wallpaper and everything..."
/r/TheRedPill02/01/15 04:09 AM
1

Totally. I have a fat friend, maybe a 4 in the face, Middle Eastern. Not typical Hollywood material. His girlfriend is a dancer — drop-dead gorgeous. How'd they meet? He said "nice ass" to her at a beach party, and when she got mad he laughed at her. He's a great DJ, super-solid guy with a massive circle of friends, and the kind of guy you know would have your back in a tight spot. Everybody loves that guy. They're extreme examples, but do you think Steve Aoki has trouble getting laid? Or DJ Kru…
/r/TheRedPill01/01/15 07:16 AM
4

I have an Asian friend who does great with women (and life in general). Very RP. He said what got him started in a positive direction was three things: 1) Use preselection. I saw him with a string of hot-but-quirky white girls. Turns out he was going to anime conventions and spitting game there. He had his pick of the top 1%. He doesn't game exclusively nerds anymore, but that got the ball rolling and helped him avoid scarcity mentality. 2) He DJs. We all know that's great social game, but his p…
/r/TheRedPill31/12/14 11:56 AM
3

It's amazing how women are able to boot up the male Empathy Drive at the drop of a hat, but so rarely feel that empathy themselves. Men assume that women will feel it in a reciprocal way, and it just isn't true. Male empathy is a valuable tool that women use to get what they want. They aren't encumbered by it the way we are.
/r/TheRedPill28/12/14 01:23 AM
14

That's fantastic. Makes me want to carry a headband in my pocket so I can give her the full effect.
/r/TheRedPill28/12/14 01:11 AM
0

Yep. When I started working out in the morning it made my LTR start not even a week after.
/r/askTRP28/12/14 12:35 AM
2

Great idea. I just started a diary with a different-but-similar situation — a crazy co-worker that has a pretty serious crush on me. If I reject her outright she might flip out, and no way I'm shitting where I eat, so it's delicate. I record every interaction we have in my phone, just so there's a paper trail in case she melts down. Different situation, sure, but when dealing with Crazy™ it's good to have a record of what actually happened.
/r/TheRedPill27/12/14 06:14 AM
3

I agree that you don't have an obligation to be Captain-Save-A-Bro. Biology is amoral. Let that chump twist in the wind if you want. Whatever. However, if someone told me about my cheating woman — especially if I could avoid a disastrous marriage — I would feel a very large debt toward that man. It would be (as many divorced men can confirm) like saving my life. Plenty of men would feel the same. And men understand debts and reciprocation. Would not a lifetime of appreciation from a single, free…
/r/TheRedPill25/12/14 01:34 PM
22

It solves two problems: 1) Guys want to see a smoking hot chick. 2) Girls want to see a powerful chick. 2a) Well, actually, girls want to see themselves. That's why Twilight/50 Shades/Pride & Prejudice have completely nondescript, vaguely sarcastic leads — it's easier for the gals to identify with. But then we lose the male audience. So it's gonna be Power Chick again and again and again.
/r/TheRedPill25/12/14 12:53 AM
1

You know what? Actually, even if you don't do jack shit beyond basing your major life decisions around Redpill knowledge, you'll still be coming out ahead. MGTOW is better than clueless betabucks.
/r/TheRedPill24/12/14 06:28 PM
2

I tend to attract a lot of crazy. I thought those people were "interesting" back in the day. Now I see them in a different light. No more playing Jesus for the emotionally unstable for me, thanks.
/r/TheRedPill24/12/14 09:20 AM
3

You're not. You're screening all the women for feminist tendencies.
/r/TheRedPill24/12/14 08:30 AM
2

This is interesting. Draco is a coward. Rich, handsome, but childish and whiny. Weak. My guess is that he seems easy to control for women. He gives off that kind of vibe — like you could just pretend to like him and suck him off a few times, and soon he'd be holding your purse while you shop for poodle collars.
/r/TheRedPill24/12/14 06:38 AM
1

They say that the cure is GFTOW, but that's hard. The bond is so strong that it feels like cheating for a while after you've broken up.
/r/TheRedPill24/12/14 06:26 AM
1

Treat 'em mean, keep 'em keen. You have to suffer her sad face to keep her interested. She has to know you are busy/have options.
/r/askTRP23/12/14 08:39 AM
2

More and more often they want to spend time as Woo Girls at some point, then rustle up some BB before 30. The Wall is still conceptually earlier (they call girls over 25 a Christmas Cake — nobody wants it after the 25th). There are plenty of girls who are ready to become housewives early, but there's another problem: Japan's economy sucks. As Japan's lifetime employment system evaporates, girls are finding fewer betas to marry them, and guys are saying "fuck it, I'll just work and buy animu and …
/r/askTRP23/12/14 08:37 AM
94

Yeah, what a slut she is for someone else. 99% sure he'll miss 100% of the lesson, though
/r/TheRedPill23/12/14 08:21 AM
2

I remember my first since my ex. Huge step forward, congrats.
/r/TheRedPill23/12/14 08:11 AM
2

So it all worked out. Sounds like an adventure.
/r/TheRedPill23/12/14 07:41 AM
1

I've had women straight up ignore me. Like, I repeated myself, thinking they were hard of hearing. Ow. Remember, when women suffer some cracks in their egos they have to paste it up with some quick validation. Maybe Chad just traded them up for a 19-year-old snow bunny. Maybe he refused to even consider marriage because she's plate number sixteen. What better way to get back to feeling good than by swatting down some perfectly good dudes in front of her friends? All part of the club scene. As an…
/r/TheRedPill22/12/14 04:19 AM
1

Oh, no doubt. But a lot of news were using as a standard opener on everyone. That's my point.
/r/TheRedPill22/12/14 03:23 AM
7

They can, if they have separate and clearly-defined roles. Even if you were "submissive" and got some ball-buster to hold your leash for you, she'd soon grow tired of you sexually. Dominant women like overpowering strong men, not weak ones. And once they become weak, hypergamy kicks in. Even if they stick around, it's a recipe for a dead bedroom.
/r/TheRedPill22/12/14 02:14 AM
58

Negs have a bad rep (mostly from SJWs) because low-confidence dudes tried negging every girl. That HB 6.5 drinking her latte at Starbucks? "Hope that's unsweetened, honey — gotta watch those carbs." If you don't live in a world where every dude is trying to get in your pants by telling you how HOTT you are 24/7, it's just weird. The Neg was developed for taking supermodels down a notch in loud, high-pressure environments. There's no reason to incinerate a woman who might be open to a confident s…
/r/TheRedPill22/12/14 01:58 AM
6

I've lived in the Big Three asian countries, and they all have this crazy belief in what is "normal". A normal Chinese does not do this. A normal Japanese behaves like this. There is no "normal" any more. There is only what works. But that is difficult to accept in Asia. Success is punished the same as failure, if it's the "wrong" kind of success — if you broke the rules to win. But TRP doesn't care. And neither should you. I will agree that if an Asian girl slept around and then got a case of s…
/r/TheRedPill21/12/14 11:07 AM
13

Whites avoiding sex with girls of your race is not going to get you laid. And no, I don't view other races sleeping with "my" race's women as being a race traitor. They know game, they apply it, they get laid. Well done, Chad Blackcock. You are angry, and it shows. And if I can see it in how you write, women can definitely see it in how you act. You're pedestalizing these women and blaming them for their biological desires. When you have developed into the man you can become, their actions will …
/r/TheRedPill21/12/14 06:48 AM
1

Those ladies can be a lot of fun. They pay for stuff and sex is usually great. Just make sure you wrap it up and keep things casual.
/r/TheRedPill21/12/14 06:31 AM
0

Why not give him a heads up just to keep the air clear? I mean, I wouldn't mind. But I'd appreciate being asked for my opinion. Shows that you don't wanna go behind anyone's back.
/r/TheRedPill21/12/14 03:56 AM
1

Women become wrecks without validation. It's why they post things like: "ARRRRRGH! There are SOME days when all the chocolate in the WORLD can't cheer you up." — feeling depressed And then the responses: "Cheer up love u!" "Sending you hugs, girl!" "Aw! Call me girl and we'll work it out over pumpkin spiced Uggs." Or whatever. Remember, when women fail in their intentions, they have to spend energy making themselves feel better. That's all this is. Too much would mean bailing, but I wouldn't wan…
/r/askTRP21/12/14 03:01 AM
13

Absolutely. Not even women can speak truth to power about this. Remember all the heat the (very female) author of Gone Girl got? http://www.theguardian.com/film/2014/oct/07/gone-girl-backlash-david-fincher-misogynist-feminist
/r/TheRedPill20/12/14 02:37 AM
3

Canada's is hilarious. And high-five to the Ukrainian who got paid $30 to call her a fatty.
/r/TheRedPill19/12/14 11:07 PM
0

Wrong. Lack of fatherly attention, most likely. Intelligence doesn't enter into it.
/r/TheRedPill19/12/14 12:44 PM
2

My dad said, when I was wavering back and forth between breaking up with my dead bedroom fiancé: "Son, I used to work with an old guy. And he said to me, 'You know, I'm something of an expert on marriage. Because I've been married three times myself. And let me tell you something, once they get married they stop fucking, and they start eating.'"
/r/TheRedPill19/12/14 12:42 PM
2

Right on. And some places won't even LOOK at your resume unless you're currently employed. Take a sick day, get your head on straight, and look for a job you don't hate.
/r/askTRP19/12/14 08:34 AM
5

Amazing. Flash-forward twenty years and we'll be sending carrier pigeons (ONLY for logistics). The pendulum keeps swinging, doesn't it?
/r/TheRedPill19/12/14 12:48 AM
2

Really? The lack of autonomy wouldn't bother you? You wouldn't cheat? She wouldn't? I'm honestly interested. How do you think that dynamic would work? I guess if you amped up everything else — become a physical Adonis, chopping wood and grilling steaks, and hire a maid to do the femmy chores, you could pull it off. Manage shit while the lady brings home the cash. Huh. That's what a pimp does. I guess I answered my own question. But as they say, pimpin' ain't easy.
/r/TheRedPill18/12/14 03:49 AM
1

Thank you. This is deeper than I thought at first glance. I don't have a sister, so the dynamics of that type of relationship are out of my depth. But she sounds a lot like a sister to me. Relatives — siblings, cousins, whatever — feel sexual attraction for each other all the time. But you put that attraction in a box, double lock it, and bury it in the basement. Another poster said it, and I agree: she's a sister in everything but name. Relatives have to deal with feelings of jealousy and prote…
/r/askTRP18/12/14 03:39 AM
2

Well, I've actually been in your situation, more or less. Liked a younger girl, failed to escalate. I knew the romance door was closed when she told me that she loved me "like a brother". It was hard to accept that, though. She found a guy that I hated because I thought he wasn't good enough for her, or some other fedora-wearing crap. But once I had found other girls and focused on myself, I could look at it rationally. I realized that he was great. Stable family, funny, well-off, kind. They're …
/r/askTRP18/12/14 12:28 AM
3

Sounds like you've got the feelz real bad. I've been there. Nobody but you can say if this relationship is providing value to you or not. But if you're honest, do you really think you're going to someday flip the switch and make this a sexual relationship? Have you made out? Fingered each other? How did the stories of her sleeping with someone make you feel? The only female friendships I've been able to maintain are ones without sexual attraction. You're obviously attracted. What happens when th…
/r/askTRP17/12/14 11:34 PM
2

Give it a little time. I don't want to rehash what's already been said — here's the redditlog of the original thread: http://www.redditlog.com/snapshots/1385677
/r/askTRP17/12/14 11:19 PM
3

What if this were a 17-year-old boy? Would you take him on bowling excursions? Would you pay for his shit because he's your little bro and you're "naturally" expected to? Man. If that were me, that would have to be one interesting fucking kid! Of course you wouldn't. You already said that you would "date" (bone) her if she were older. Except...would you? Could you? Or would you just buy her shit and listen while she tells you about the guys she sleeps with? Because those days are coming, my frie…
/r/askTRP17/12/14 11:04 PM
1

There was just a great example posted here with Tom Cruise: https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=AP_aom1IgqI Watch it once with the sound off — look at the dynamics of the situation. Notice how an alpha is still able to demonstrate confidence and control without being the center of attention. Cruise's charisma comes from how engaged he is with the group. He isn't supplicating and kissing ass. He isn't noisily demanding to be the center of attention, either. He's a quiet, intense, strong presence — and …
/r/askTRP17/12/14 10:51 PM
9

Yeah, poorly written. I agree with a few points. She largely misses the male perspective, but that's understandable. One bright spot — she mentions a feminist who recommends marrying down, as women are so successful that they have no other choice. It's amazing how off-base this is. While there are probably some dudes that are willing to be permanent homemakers while their wife works (side note: that's a dead bedroom, 99% guaranteed), that pool is fucking small. Why would you spend your hours ten…
/r/TheRedPill17/12/14 10:07 AM
2

Notice just how much empathy we have for the girl here. Sure, she deserves her lot. But I feel bad for her — for this Internet person I've never met and who is obviously horrible. Empathy. I hope I never lose it, but I'm going to do my damnedest to keep it under control.
/r/TheRedPill17/12/14 09:12 AM
1

Wow. Is that like a canary dying in a mine? She doesn't like being called Pumpkin any more? whoakeanu.png
/r/TheRedPill16/12/14 01:28 PM
1

Fire up Airbnb. Find a cool place. Take her along on a James Bond-style adventure that you plan as your sidekick.
/r/TheRedPill16/12/14 11:15 AM
4

She says "do me". It's a double entendre that could mean "do an impression of me" or "fuck me." That's why there's such a big laugh right after. She knows what she said — everyone does — but there's plausible deniability.
/r/TheRedPill16/12/14 10:02 AM
3

You didn't see the arm squeeze? Or hear her say "do me"?
/r/TheRedPill16/12/14 01:09 AM
1

It's very clever. Men can watch and have empathy for how they've "trapped" a woman, but women don't want to think about that — they want to feel that he does what he does because of how goddamn special she is. The video works for both genders, but most women would miss the message if it were the man in that cage.
/r/TheRedPill16/12/14 12:42 AM
1

I wouldn't say that. "I'm not vetoing you!" she'd say. "I just thought we could make the choice togeeeeeeeether." Don't get pulled into an argument about joint decision making and togetherness and how much you care about her low-carb diet. It's a test of your resolve, not your food preferences. It isn't about chicken at all — it's about manipulation. And you have to be able to recognize it as such.
/r/TheRedPill16/12/14 12:34 AM
3

It can be about chicken and lasagna: Her: Chicken or lasagna? Him: Lasagna sounds good to me. Her: Um...ok, but I'm low-carb this month. WHAT DO YOU DO!? A. grin "I said it sounds good to me, not you. Let me know when you're ready to watch me eat it." B. "Oh...uh, ok then. Chicken. Chicken is fine. Whatever you want."
/r/TheRedPill15/12/14 04:15 PM
4

Don't take the comments as gospel. It's just people trying to make sense of the sidebar. Sluts are fun. They give up sex easily. They know Crazy Porn Moves from riding all that cock. They are worldly from their years of Woo Girl Beach travel. They're a laugh. However, they're trading the benefits of a stable home, children, and Alpha provider for the sugar rush of discos and cocaine. Even then, they'll still be able to lock down some sap, most of them. They'll miss the lights and the VIP room an…
/r/TheRedPill14/12/14 01:18 AM
2

This is a great example of how to sugarcoat the Pill to make it easy to swallow.
/r/TheRedPill12/12/14 10:31 PM
1

First, girls will often assume you are an age that they want you to be. I sometimes get girls to guess my age. Younger ones, who like me, will often guess closer to their own age. When they're wrong, it doesn't seem to matter. Totally. The last college girl who was into me asked my age, and I was honest — thirty-five. Her: "Oh, really!?" Me: "Yup." Pause. squeak squeak Her: "Well...you still look young. No problem, I think..."
/r/TheRedPill12/12/14 06:53 AM
3

Well, if you're asking for exclusivity and commitment and honesty, then you aren't just saying that you aren't into a threeway. You are saying you will go to your grave without experiencing a threeway with anyone. That is hard to swallow for a guy. Of course, that is exactly the kind of sacrifice guys make all the time, but that doesn't make it easy. It's far from a perfect analogy, but let's say that you talked about kids a lot, and he seemed open to the idea. Then, once you've gotten married, …
/r/RedPillWomen09/12/14 09:31 AM
1

Same thing happened to me. She was open to lots of sexual exploration and there were tons of promises at first, and little by little allllll of it disappeared. I found myself engaged to a person that I almost didn't recognize — and certainly not someone I'd have started dating in the first place. I broke it off, painfully. I'm not saying that it wasn't also my fault — I let my frame drop. But she wasn't merely hurt by the breakup — she was genuinely surprised. She just wasn't the person I fell i…
/r/RedPillWomen09/12/14 09:20 AM
8

Well, the Commitment Sharks over at r/redpillwomen know how to lock down a man better than we do. Ask them. Amazing sex and feminine wiles have been keeping dudes around since time immemorial. But Rick — how do we keep him around? Fact is, he might not want to be a kept man. That's what makes him so damn attractive. Those other guys that hit on you — the ones that aren't sexy, sexy Rick — well, I'm sure plenty of them would be happy to marry you! But...ew, gross, right? Rick is at a place in his…
/r/askTRP07/12/14 02:56 AM
1

You can't extrapolate from just one video and one couple's bizarre relationship. Well — sure, you can, but who cares? If this is a new trend, and the Female Imperative is subjugating men into becoming a bunch of demasculinized ladyboys, you win by going to the gym and growing a mustache. If it's a one-off YouTube goof to generate clicks and validation, then it'll be forgotten in a week. Enjoy the decline.
/r/TheRedPill05/12/14 04:08 PM
-1

Ohhhh shit! If the current line of succession is declared invalid, we'll have to go through every twig of the family tree to find a rightful heir! We could be looking at a King Ralph situation!
/r/TheRedPill04/12/14 08:35 AM
7

Sure, why not. No point in arguing which flavor of lazy tastes best. Get to the gym, errybody errywhere
/r/TheRedPill28/11/14 10:37 AM
25

It's the difference between being a magician and being in the audience. A magician understands that he is not really summoning doves and rabbits from the ethereal plane. There is no magic. That doesn't mean that there isn't something very interesting happening onstage. But once you know how the tricks work, you'll never be amazed in the way you used to be.
/r/TheRedPill28/11/14 09:18 AM
4

Nah. Skinnyfat is way worse than fit and jacked, but fat looks sloppy and suggests a lack of self-restraint. At least skinnyfats know when to put the goddamn fork down.
/r/TheRedPill28/11/14 05:01 AM
24

Oftentimes when you sharpen one skill you dull another. My friend is a financial genius who is skinnyfat and awful with women. A sharp enough lady could probably take him for a ride, sad to say.
/r/TheRedPill28/11/14 12:44 AM
2

Go for it. Get her number and pick up where you left off.
/r/askTRP17/11/14 12:24 AM
8

She sounds like a RPW. Maybe she's gunning for more commitment and wants to keep her partner count low/zero. It's smart on her part. Commendable, even. You, on the other hand, don't have the a) game to make her break her rules, b) an offer of marriage that would let her sleep with you and get what she wants, or c) the wherewithal to find one of the millions of girls out there who are more than willing to ride the carousel with you. So. Keep her as a casual plate for the BJs, or next her.
/r/askTRP16/11/14 11:23 AM
1

Stoicism doesn't enter into it. Guys that command large amounts of money find it easier to get laid because obtaining and commanding resources are alpha traits. This is not exactly new information! I can understand feelings of jealousy, kinda — but that's supposed to motivate you to get some resources of your own. Who exactly are you mad at, and why?
/r/TheRedPill06/11/14 11:27 AM
4

Maybe you can recover a bit over time, sorta. But you know how awful that had to have made you sound. Next time: amused mastery, agree and amplify. "Oh! another PUA routine! Do you know any more, dude? These are great!"
/r/askTRP04/11/14 01:16 PM
8

Dunno. Why do you care so much?
/r/TheRedPill04/11/14 10:27 AM
1

TRP isn't role-play. This is role-life. If you've got feelings of guilt and shame, they may come from you pretending that your BF is some shit-hot alpha for the purposes of sex, but then you go back to "normal". It's all a sham. You can't really take a supporting role if you don't trust your man to steer the ship. Is he showing you that he's worthy of his role as leader in your day-to-day? Or is he all hat and no cattle?
/r/askTRP04/11/14 10:12 AM
1

They are balls-to-the-walls. No shit. They have a great ability to perform like hardass men when it suits them, and soften up into a matriarchal figure when it suits them. Met a few, very impressed.
/r/TheRedPill12/09/14 10:39 AM
0

I would say yes just for the pre-Mars sex.
/r/TheRedPill12/09/14 10:30 AM
1

Men are entitled to exactly as much sex as they are entitled to. That's a function of a lot of things — physical fitness, financial success, game, social proof. By virtue of being born, a man is entitled to No Sex. A man with a well-worn gym card with a BMW and six figures with the charisma and confidence to project it...well, the Universe will show him exactly what he's entitled to. A dangerous man is a man who thinks his actions have no effect on the outcome of his life. He has a goal, he does…
/r/TheRedPill11/09/14 05:52 AM
1

I liked the cave rave where you can see Morpheus's belly
/r/TheRedPill02/09/14 10:19 AM
3

How do you cut them off? In a snippy way? How's your amused mastery? Are you teasing back playfully?
/r/TheRedPill02/09/14 10:16 AM
2

The Betaization Curve? http://www.personalpowermeditation.com/forum/social-dynamics/the-betaization-process/
/r/askTRP02/09/14 08:25 AM
4

One of the hardest lessons for some men to learn is that you can't sacrifice and supplicate and slave your way into earning a woman's desire. She will not notice your valiant efforts to woo her and suddenly get horny. She won't appreciate how you gave up your dreams and freedom to be with her. Ah, well. Hope springs eternal, but this guy is pretty far gone.
/r/askTRP02/09/14 08:21 AM
5

I don't think this will fly. Hollywood and advertising industries have too much clout. Attractiveness is too subjective to be codified in law. Pray that I'm right — otherwise, next time you go to the gym you could be saying hello to your 600-pound personal trainer.
/r/TheRedPill02/09/14 06:25 AM
1

Not just a hero...but the greatest hero in human history.
/r/TheRedPill02/09/14 05:01 AM
3

Well, it needs to be hard, but it doesn't need to be long (as the bishop said to the duchess)
/r/askTRP02/09/14 12:58 AM
3

Breaking up is really difficult. You've pair-bonded. You're chemically addicted. The logical part of yourself is screaming at you to wise up before it's too late, and you really ought to listen.
/r/askTRP01/09/14 09:58 AM
3

Hm. I'm guessing you don't hang out with groups of guys very much? Because the dynamics of those friendships are really different, in my experience. Anyway! Gotta wrap this up for now. Good luck with your stuff.
/r/TheRedPill31/08/14 10:43 AM
1

Well, with respect, you may not have the life experience to see your role in the direction your relationship took. I imagine that the abuse didn't start immediately, or you wouldn't have stuck it out for so many years. I hope you take another stab at an LTR sometime, and I hope you've learned something to help you in your next try. Anything you'd do different, looking back? As far as your success with women, sexual and platonic: you've told us that you're a young, naturally athletic dude known t…
/r/TheRedPill31/08/14 10:19 AM
1

That makes sense, if you kept those separate. And more power to you for managing it. Can I ask how long your longest monogamous relationship was? And any theories as to what led to the abuse? What would it take for you to think about committing again? You don't have to share if you don't want to, but it's helping me get a picture of how you relate to women.
/r/TheRedPill31/08/14 09:35 AM
1

Interesting. Are these groups of women friends? Or one-on-one? In my college days, I went through quite a long period where I was hanging out with four girls regularly. Two were platonic friends, two I was sexually involved with. I made it clear up front that I was in no way interested in commitment or anything serious from any of them. It was fine for a while, but the two I was sleeping with eventually got pissy at each other, and then me, which made the platonic friends uncomfortable, and...bl…
/r/TheRedPill31/08/14 09:18 AM
1

Well, that's great. It's not something I've been able to sustain without jealousies springing up and spoiling the friendships, but maybe you're better at managing that sort of thing than I am.
/r/TheRedPill31/08/14 08:40 AM
1

I think the key (and you said it yourself) is that you are friends with girls that you aren't attracted to and do not have sex with. I've never been as close as I have been with my best male friends, though. They're more like good acquaintances.
/r/TheRedPill31/08/14 08:10 AM
5

Could it come from the fact that a lot of guys are "all hat and no cattle"? That TRP helps some guys project a sexier image than they can sustain long-term? I wonder if a lot of false rape allegations stem from buyer's remorse and embarrassment at having been "tricked", even when there was no actual lying involved. If TRP and game helps guys project a hotter, more alpha version of themselves, wouldn't that be hateful to a woman who spread her legs based on that? Then again, doesn't explain away …
/r/TheRedPill31/08/14 06:59 AM
27

Well, men want sex, primarily. The quality and ease go up the hotter you are, generally speaking. Women want white carbohydrates and sweatpants, primarily (see also: Lesbian Bed Death). There's little need to stay trim for another roundy-poundy if all you're going to do is cuddle in your reinforced bed.
/r/TheRedPill31/08/14 06:43 AM
13

Well, by her logic, it also proves that supermodels actually don't exist in real life, at all.
/r/TheRedPill31/08/14 06:36 AM
2

Living with a few cool roommates beats living with your parents. Economize and make it work.
/r/askTRP30/08/14 01:50 PM
4

You're not her doctor. And if you spend your life trying to be you'll end up as depressed and miserable as she is. Break up with her. If she threatens suicide, it would be a nice gesture to contact her parents or an ambulance.
/r/TheRedPill30/08/14 01:12 PM
5

Read more. It'll build your vocabulary, open you up to new ideas, make you more worldly. Don't put too much stock into what some girl says, though. Could just be her bratty way of shit-testing you. But if your looks and actions are really incongruous, yeah, it'll show. You want to have that genuineness that comes with being comfortable in your own skin.
/r/askTRP30/08/14 11:56 AM
4

$12.99, 128 pages! That's a hell of a pamphlet.
/r/TheRedPill30/08/14 11:46 AM
11

The pickiness you are describing is nothing but a psychological hangover that will fade as patriarchy is dismantled. Nice! Well, time for a few more beers and some XBox, then. I knew if I waited long enough, the girls would start getting wet at the idea of having their very own house husband. Just a matter of time.
/r/TheRedPill30/08/14 11:29 AM
3

ADHD drugs are stimulants. They will help you get shit done — studying, organization. When you want to be all zany and creative, you don't take them. When you want to be hyperfocused and productive on just one thing, you do. Put another way: do you think that all those famous comics and musicians and finance guys are on coke all the time because they just like being high? No. They like being productive. If you're going to be on crank, it's much safer to get it from your doctor. Recommended.
/r/TheRedPill30/08/14 05:23 AM
2

This would work in a lot of contexts: "Do you think she's pretty?" "Would you like me more if I lost weight?" I like how Tony recognizes that the message is dripping with subtext, and refuses to get drawn in. In a lot of other ways the guy's a mess, but this he handles well.
/r/askTRP29/08/14 10:57 AM
5

You said you were a) too poor for gas and b) not coming. What kind of response were you hoping for?
/r/TheRedPill29/08/14 10:37 AM
1

Good. And improving. I'm seeing his perspective more, and getting into the manly hobbies he was always trying to get me to show an interest in.
/r/TheRedPill29/08/14 08:26 AM
9

You might be doing a lot of body language/gestures you aren't aware of. Posture, lack of eye contact, that thing where you stare at cleavage until you're caught, then turn away in shame and misery...mumbling...hovering for long unsexy minutes around the girl you want to talk to, but not actually making the move... Not saying you do these things, but there's a lot that you might not notice that others pick up on. Most women will probably just ignore you, but it can make some angry enough to open …
/r/askTRP29/08/14 08:05 AM
11

Duh. No good deed goes unpunished. Perfect example of how supplicating behavior gets you jack shit, though: Nerd Betaowski: Our new anti-rape nail polish will make us the heroes of all women! Excelsior! Nerd Betanderson: Indeed, good Sir! Maybe I'll give a bottle to that girl in my Gender Concepts class. Our Best Friendsaversary is coming up! Nerd Betaowski: Smooth. This is what? Year Six for you two? Nerd Betanderson: Year Seven. I think she might want more, though. She kind of grazed my elbow …
/r/TheRedPill29/08/14 07:47 AM
1

Off the top of my head, I... • Work on my side business • Write • Exercise • Language study • Keep my apartment looking good • Hang out with friends • Read • Make music • Listen to music • Hit up museums • Cook a bit And I like an episode of Archer now and again, too. I don't really have "free" time, as such. If you have a lot of time on your hands, you don't have a plan. That should be Step Zero.
/r/TheRedPill29/08/14 06:49 AM
1

It takes practice like anything else. I'd advise getting good with the condoms though. It takes practice to get one on without losing your boner.
/r/askTRP28/08/14 11:13 AM
1

Think how she must feel — to be a mother, deprived of her son!
/r/TheRedPill28/08/14 09:00 AM
1

It's funny — pre-TRP, the response would have surprised me. But when I saw my bespectacled beta chum cheerfully link this on FB, I knew what the party line was going to be from the feminists. This is a logic-based solution that puts the responsibility for personal protection in (or on) the hands of the individual. And that is just never going to fly. But as long as we're in an inventing mood... How about a Predator-esque jumpsuit, that when viewed by a Sexy Alpha, looks like a thong bikini, and …
/r/TheRedPill28/08/14 05:16 AM
1

Do whatever you want. Experiment. Form your own theories, and test them against what you learn here. See what happens. I don't have any contempt for those who live as they wish. But I do have contempt for willful ignorance, in myself and others. Do with that as you will. TRP has a lot to do with sexual strategy, and if a lifetime of sex borne of female desire is important to you, TRP will help. If begrudging, occasional sex borne of obligation is good enough for you, then Beta Bux might be good …
/r/askTRP28/08/14 03:40 AM
2

I have this clock called Nanda Clocky that drives itself around making a horrible racket: http://imgur.com/DnvggGX
/r/TheRedPill23/08/14 05:38 PM
1

Lol. Stay away from that Christian Grey, ladies! He may be a dominant, athletic, handsome billionaire, but he's just no good for you. Ignore those flames of desire rising inside, lest they consume you! He cannot be tamed. Are these articles written by the 50 Shades PR team or what?
/r/TheRedPill23/08/14 05:22 AM
22

Was in the lunchroom of my school, when this hot goth chick comes up to me, smirks, and handcuffs herself to me. I smirk back. "Joke's on you — these are trick handcuffs. And it just so happens I know how to remove them." click I undo the catch, hand the cuffs back, and go back to my sandwich.
/r/TheRedPill21/08/14 03:53 AM
4

Don't give away your money? That's a jailin'.
/r/TheRedPill20/08/14 04:46 AM
34

That is a seriously whiny response — shows his pissed you are, which will make her feel nice and important and validated. Nah — just say "busy now" and radio silence. Her imagination will do the rest.
/r/TheRedPill20/08/14 04:34 AM
1

For RPers, knowledge of The Wall isn't about schadenfreude — or at least, it shouldn't be. It's about understanding how motivations change for aging women as their options narrow. Is that candy rave chick from college dating some egg-shaped insurance salesman these days? Is that former riot grrrl who blew all those roadies now walking arm-in-arm with some dentist named Eugene? Is the woman you met on eHarmony into your sexy alpha traits, or the fact that you've paid off your house? Understand wh…
/r/askTRP20/08/14 04:00 AM
54

Much like Groucho, she doesn't want to be a part of any club that would have her as a member.
/r/TheRedPill20/08/14 03:42 AM
3

She was obviously taking a poo while the fry jockeys were getting your stuff together. Relax.
/r/askTRP17/08/14 02:04 PM
7

There's already a subreddit just for you: /r/alttrp
/r/TheRedPill17/08/14 01:20 PM
1

Well — you want to improve. That's something. Hold onto that until your efforts bring results.
/r/askTRP16/08/14 02:09 PM
1

As someone who has been in a long-distance relationship: there's no such thing. http://therationalmale.com/2011/09/20/letting-go-of-invisible-friend/
/r/askTRP16/08/14 02:08 PM
2

Exactly. Have a coffee, and as you leave offer your arm. If she takes it, she's into you physically.
/r/TheRedPill16/08/14 12:25 PM
1

I'd very much need to reciprocate those things — I'd be failing her as a man if I didn't. I take responsibility for the failures in my past relationships. I wasn't leading properly, and then wondering where the respect and tingles had gone. Sad to realize . . . but there's hope for the future. pssst here tranny tranny tranny
/r/askTRP16/08/14 04:52 AM
1

Make money at something you're better at than the people around you. Even if it's a dollar. Then figure out how to multiply it — turn it into a product, sell it over and over.
/r/askTRP16/08/14 03:50 AM
5

A. Don't put too much stock in an online quiz. B. Work out, make money, sidebar C. Get a passport. It's a really big world out there.
/r/TheRedPill16/08/14 02:11 AM
2

I think they generally don't have the ability to try out material in their heads before they speak — to test it out on that imaginary audience men can conjure in their imaginations. I think it comes back to their overall lack of empathy. It's really hard for them to understand how others are likely to react to something they say. Every once in a while you get a Betty White or a Lucille Ball, but it's really rare. Classic article on the subject: http://www.vanityfair.com/culture/features/2007/01/…
/r/TheRedPill16/08/14 01:46 AM
14

Someone who encourages me to achieve my dreams, rather than try to get me to change them to satisfy an ever-evolving list of requirements. Someone who supports me, rather than trying to "improve" me. Someone who doesn't see getting fat in sweatpants as an inevitability. Someone who desires me, and does what is necessary to be desired. Someone who loves being a woman and all that that entails. Basically a tranny
/r/askTRP15/08/14 09:54 PM
1

Well, there you go, I guess. But proceed with caution. I certainly wouldn't consider being exclusive, but that's me.
/r/TheRedPill15/08/14 07:33 PM
1

So she's not suggesting one with you?
/r/TheRedPill15/08/14 07:26 PM
5

Okay. Well then, that's that — you've got your answer. Downgrade her. Sounds like you're in pretty deep with the oneitis here. But better to find this out now than after a marriage and kids.
/r/TheRedPill15/08/14 07:19 PM
2

It would for me. RP godfather Patrice O'Neil was willing to run trains on his threeway-friendly GF, but he was able to organize and manage that shit. I wouldn't consider this person more than a plate. As far as the actual MFM threeway goes — well, do you want to, or not?
/r/TheRedPill15/08/14 07:09 PM
2

Well, a job has a really strict carrot stick dynamic. If you show up and do your job, your salary will help you buy the things you want. If you don't show up, you'll lose your job and get kicked out of your apartment. In your personal life there's no immediate penalty for skipping the gym, and benefits can take a long time to manifest themselves in a way you'll notice. When you start a new improvement plan, stick with it for at least 10 scheduled repetitions or two weeks by any means necessary —…
/r/TheRedPill15/08/14 06:19 PM
1

Whoops. Cool, roger that.
/r/askTRP15/08/14 12:33 PM
5

I've actually been with one or two funny girls — and they stand out, it's so rare. Compare that to the millions of times men have made you laugh throughout your lifetime...
/r/TheRedPill15/08/14 02:30 AM
1

Rescan, plz
/r/askTRP15/08/14 01:54 AM
23

I locked myself in an abandoned refrigerator. No girls here, no gym, no whey, difficult to breathe. TRP doesn't work here. I say this as a warning to others.
/r/TheRedPill14/08/14 09:13 AM
146

Well, great. Then, by extension, she can't make you feel happy or loved either. So don't get married.
/r/TheRedPill13/08/14 06:02 PM
1

http://www.shrink4men.com is RP-sidebar-approved and offers consultation services. As for me, my shrink's advice was pretty BP overall, but he did recommend that I get on ADD meds and try and make more money. My side business profits went up like 800%. I mean, I dunno if it requires a phd to give someone some crank and tell them to get to work, but it's hard to argue with results. And it's helpful to talk to someone outside your circle of friends and family.
/r/TheRedPill13/08/14 01:47 AM
1

That's probably a really good idea.
/r/TheRedPill12/08/14 10:06 AM
13

Ha! Hans Bjorne presents KLUB interlocking dancewear Seriously, though — with a little effort she could have gotten in for free. That's not a hideous cheeto addict in that photo.
/r/TheRedPill10/08/14 08:32 PM
27

YOU EXPECT THEM TO PAY 14 dollars EACH!? gasp
/r/TheRedPill10/08/14 08:26 PM
1

Get some gear. Collar, leash, ball gag — tons of girls like that stuff, especially from a dude who dominates in the bedroom.
/r/TheRedPill10/08/14 01:18 PM
44

You fucked your boss, who told her husband about you. Dude, you seem like you're happy with your life, and I respect your accomplishments. But you can't out-Alpha a shotgun to the face from a gone-postal cuckold with nothing to lose. Watch yourself out there.
/r/TheRedPill10/08/14 01:13 PM
1

Well, if it's any consolation, she was doing all those things because you were an alpha, and she was trying to lock you down. Believe me, I was there. The random gifts, the amazing wild creative sex, the naughty costumes she'd wear to surprise me — it all dried up once that ring was on her finger. Well before, actually. You miss the good times, bro. And they're not coming back. Not like they were, not with that girl. You might be able to get her back with full-on beta commitment, but it'll be li…
/r/TheRedPill10/08/14 09:10 AM
4

No! Not at all. I have a Russian acquaintance who is bald as a thumb. He is also wealthy, in great shape, well-connected, and alpha as fuck. He's still got 99 problems, but...yeah.
/r/TheRedPill10/08/14 08:00 AM
14

That's another thing — I kinda want to date the girls that will want to date the future version of me that has his shit together. I don't hate myself now or anything — I just don't see the point of going out there and trying to pump randos just to prove that I still have some baseline of sexual attractiveness. It's there, I'm sure, I'm good...and I'll be back on the pussy wagon at some point. But I have some shit that's more important to me right now.
/r/TheRedPill08/08/14 08:09 PM
2

Yeah. Actually, that's a good point. Sexual opportunities, networking opportunities, career advancement, marriage and dating — location and career choices are going to bring totally different results to one gender or the other.
/r/TheRedPill08/08/14 05:27 PM
29

Well, as a recently broken-up dude, it's been weird. I've been single for a couple months, and I just haven't put myself out there yet. I'm making more money, reconnecting with friends, getting back into my hobbies...but spinning plates just seems like a hassle. The girls are out there, and there have been opportunities for sex. But while sex was so important when I was in the LTR, now it's taken a backseat to the all the freedom and opportunities being single can bring. I'm happier — but gettin…
/r/TheRedPill08/08/14 05:22 PM
1

It never came up, actually. It just didn't go well (believe me, you want to get comfortable with condoms before the actual moment). I technically got in there for a bit, but I spent so much time getting the jimmy hat on that I lost my erection. We'd both had a lot to drink, so we kind of just laughed it off, fooled around a bit, and fell asleep. and that's how I met your mother
/r/TheRedPill08/08/14 05:10 PM
5

Maybe I'll write a book about the fun and painless experience of natural childbirth!
/r/TheRedPill08/08/14 04:58 PM
6

Well, creepy guys don't count. Or weirdo omegas. Or those MRA guys, or the MGTOWs. I think that Self-Made Man book resonated because when that lesbian made herself look like a man, she did so as a Ray Romano-esque beta with a crappy high-pressure sales job: http://imgur.com/Pd6RmUD Of course, if this Fiction Queen were a man, she'd be awesome. It would be so easy.
/r/TheRedPill08/08/14 02:24 PM
17

Hm. Well, ok — to be fair, maybe she's saying that, all things being equal, it's easier to be a man given a comparable level of career success. Like, we're supposed to compare Natey-boy to a wall-smashing female writer in her early 30's with education and a Brooklyn apartment of her own. If Nate reads TRP, then — fuck, sure. He's hitting his professional peak, no biological clock ticking in his ears, he can cheerfully reck all the hot waitresses and baristas he can charm off Tinder, and he doesn…
/r/TheRedPill08/08/14 02:15 PM
61

My protagonist, Nate, is a well-educated writer in his early 30s. He lives in Brooklyn. Shit — why not make Nate a genius billionaire swimsuit model in his early 20s who lives in Ibiza. Then we'll see how super duper easy it is to be a man.
/r/TheRedPill08/08/14 01:48 PM
2

You know, this is a great attitude. Once you've got a fuck-or-walk mindset, it makes a ton of sense just to have your tastes and stick to them. Maybe 2016 is The Year Of Bolt-Ons. Maybe 2017 is Only Pigtailed Asians Or Pound Sand, Honey. My last LTR knew what I liked, but once she had her hooks in suddenly she couldn't be bothered. You had a much better approach to getting what you wanted. Well done.
/r/TheRedPill07/08/14 05:31 PM
1

Great post, and great point. Of course, all positive male traits, alpha and beta, are relative to one's surroundings. If you're the only kid in your class to have a car, it doesn't matter how big a piece of shit it is. If you've got your own place and your friends all live with their parents, it doesn't matter if you've got a fourth-floor walk-up with bad A/C. I think the teacher/student dynamic is a really extreme case. If they met at a club, he'd be the creepy old guy hitting on teen chicks. B…
/r/askTRP07/08/14 05:14 PM
10

You know, I've come around on my thinking here to see things from my ex's point of view. Ours was the usual deal: hot frequent sex in the beginning, getting transactional and more vanilla and less frequent over the course of our 5-year relationship. Had no idea why. After a month of no sex and no intimacy, I broke down in tears: Me: A bloo BLOO bloo! Why don't you wanna sex no more baby BLOO-hoo Her: Uh...oh. Um. Yeah. No, uh. I do. Me: snifffffff Really? So... (looking down hopefully at penis) …
/r/TheRedPill07/08/14 03:36 PM
39

Look, man — all of these signs should say "I'd Do The Helicopter Dick." Full stop. Any other choice is tainted by a vagcentric view of the universe.
/r/TheRedPill07/08/14 12:59 PM
1

Heh. Okay just so you know, I was in exactly the same position as you. I decided that I would get married to a girl who is probably a five. Because I was thinking it's all about personality, right? And that special connection, and looks aren't that important... Blah blah blah. The fact is if you make long-term plans around this girl, she will view herself as being much more attractive than she is, and she will act accordingly. So you are going to have to deal with the same sort of shit tests and…
/r/TheRedPill07/08/14 05:53 AM
1

Older guys often have access to jobs and cars and money and freedom that younger dudes don't — yet. Even if he's a loser by the standards of his peers, he might look pretty cool to some college chick if he has his own place and a ride. I'm not going to give you some bullshit like don't worry it'll happen be patient, though. Because if you don't make it happen, it won't. Plenty of dudes in their 20s and 30s and 40s and beyond never do shit with their lives. My uncle lived with my great-grandma un…
/r/askTRP07/08/14 03:45 AM
1

Ran into exactly the same thing. And when I was in an LTR, I was the asshole who withdrew from my friends to be with her more (sad but true). Fact is, people are going to flow in and out of your life. But if you develop your social skills, you'll always have friends around who are up for stuff.
/r/askTRP07/08/14 03:17 AM
1

Well, I dunno. Checking out should be your last possible option. Seriously — get pilled up before you off yourself. I get Ritalin, which helps me concentrate, so my side business is more successful, so I have more money for protein and weights, so I look better, so I get laid more. It's a chemical crutch, which bums me out a bit...but it's better than just dicking around in a fog until I get so depressed I start thinking about punching out. If you're really up against the wall, take every option…
/r/askTRP06/08/14 07:10 PM
126

Post title should have been, "By what foolsense could she have thought her vile machinations would come to fruition?"
/r/TheRedPill06/08/14 02:18 AM
1

Tell her you trust her 66 percent, not 65. I think that could make all the difference.
/r/TheRedPill05/08/14 07:27 PM
0

I'm sure that some woman would sleep with you. Maybe your standards are higher than your SMV would realistically match? If that's the case, go about making what you think you deserve match what you actually deserve.
/r/askTRP05/08/14 06:48 PM
2

If you're not adverse to making money, you should just write a 700 page 50SoG fanfic where it's all vampires
/r/TheRedPill05/08/14 10:26 AM
2

Ohhhhh man. Does she do that fun thing where she posts useless vague dramatic wah-wah Facebook messages like: "Sometimes you find out people are different than you thought they were. Need hugs." AND/OR: "Wondering why some people think it's OKAY to LIE to a FRIEND." I don't know if it's NEXT time for you. Only you can answer that. But how many years of your life do you think you can put up with that sort of thing?
/r/askTRP04/08/14 06:16 PM
1

And for some women it never fucking ends. My grandmother, 75 years old at the time, went to Reno with my father to gamble at the nickel slots. My dad needed to take out his contact lenses, but didn't have a case — so he improvised, using a water glass and a bottle cap. "Careful not to tip these," he says. "My contacts are in there." Guess what gets dumped out "by accident" during a midnight toilet visit...
/r/TheRedPill04/08/14 05:23 PM
15

I honestly don't know. I want to have sex. A lot of it, with a wide variety of women. My biology wants it, which makes me want it. When I meet a nice girl who hasn't yet been made cynical and hard by the cock carousel, I wonder if it's the right thing to do, to be the one helping to send her down that path. When I meet one that has already had some experience, I wonder if putting up with her neuroses and cynicism are worth getting laid. The one thing about swallowing the pill — you can't cough i…
/r/askTRP03/08/14 03:37 PM
1

Well, you don't seem to be in an advice-taking mood. But remember this: you only miss the good times you had with her. The bullshit doesn't seem bad because you're removed from it.
/r/askTRP03/08/14 07:22 AM
2

Sounds like you're not in an LTR with a reliable leader/provider. If you were, you wouldn't feel like you had to do all these things to support yourself — you could just trust him to provide. You have some choices to make.
/r/askTRP03/08/14 05:12 AM
1

I'm no expert. But if you're exercising and lifting, carbs are good. If you're cutting or not that active, cutting carbs will help you lose the gut. http://forum.bodybuilding.com/showthread.php?t=691144 I got a lot out of The Four Hour Body. I need more muscles, but I've got a nice trim build thanks to that book.
/r/TheRedPill01/08/14 04:12 PM
2

Diet is so important. Cutting carbs will help you lose fat — but carbs are important for building muscle. Lots of guys dirty bulk, gain muscle and fat, then go low carb to lose the gut. My skinnyfat friend went hard on the lifting, but didn't change his low-calorie diet. Started looking all muscle and bone, like a marathon runner. Ate more, and now he's in good shape.
/r/TheRedPill01/08/14 11:56 AM
3

If you have a billion dollars you can make anybody shut up. Heh — that is really redpill.
/r/TheRedPill01/08/14 08:22 AM
4

He just needs to communicate more. If there's one thing that will definitely solve this problem, it's words. Perfect example of why they're always trying to corner you with an uncomfortable/batshit conversation — it then becomes about emotional manipulation, rather than the facts at hand.
/r/TheRedPill31/07/14 03:10 AM
1

Eugenics. Dude, really? Fact is, evolution doesn't know what is going to be useful to itself down the line, or what will happen to the organisms once they're born. Some of the world-class athletes will get injured and be forced to become pathetic shoe salesmen. Some of the sickliest, wheelchair-bound droolers will end up brilliant physicists. Anything can happen in this day and age. Honestly, do whatever you want — but if fucking is important to you, raise that SMV and sharpen your game.
/r/TheRedPill29/07/14 09:57 AM
1

It's improved it. I understand more about why she acts the way she does, and I know how to respond in a way that makes our relationship stronger. Less squabbling.
/r/askTRP28/07/14 01:25 PM
4

Video games are a junk food version of masculinity — heroism, clear objectives, protection of others. Selling the Xbox is like telling the wife to give up Facebook and Pinterest.
/r/TheRedPill25/07/14 03:09 AM
7

I read as much of 50S as I could stand. A couple takeaways: 100% red pill confirmation in every page. It is LONG. You might think you could write better, and you most certainly could, for a few dozen pages. As someone who has written a bit, I'm impressed at the length alone. Want to be a romance writer? Details, details, details. Every bristly hair on the hero's knuckles, the way the chrome on his Bentley gleams, the way the dew twinkles off his shaft when he drives one down the fairway of his p…
/r/TheRedPill25/07/14 12:38 AM
1

Hongdae (Hongik University) has all the good (by Seoul standards) clubs and bars and young people. Check out club M2
/r/TheRedPill24/07/14 12:04 PM
1

Absolutely. Are you sure that this guy doesn't think of this gal as LTR material? If he doesn't, what's wrong with giving her a spin?
/r/TheRedPill24/07/14 10:48 AM
1

It's amazing how wide the chasm can be between a guy with book smarts and a guy with street smarts.
/r/TheRedPill24/07/14 10:46 AM
2

Women are getting smarter, but men aren’t getting more supportive. Jeez, all those women sure were dumb in the bad old days! They didn't have Tumblr or anything. Men! God, those shits! They haven't done enough. Sometimes they marry a domestic-minded woman and have a happy, traditional household, the assholes. Sometimes they aren't successful enough, limiting women's hypergamy. Sometimes they don't feel like cooking and cleaning everyday for one handjob a year. Dicks.
/r/TheRedPill24/07/14 10:39 AM
17

Well, which would you rather deal with long-term: a RPW girl who tries to help you maintain frame, support you in tough times, trusts you to lead and make decisions, takes care of her health, and just generally uses her femininity to give you strength, rather than sap it from you? That...or a girl who thinks those traits are hilarious?
/r/askTRP24/07/14 08:59 AM
7

Great film, and teaches you how to win a girl's everlasting love: Fuck her well Save her life Disappear forever
/r/TheRedPill24/07/14 04:50 AM
9

So you exercised, ate better, made money, dressed better, drew boundaries, hit on hotties, and now your life is better? Ridiculous!
/r/askTRP24/07/14 03:36 AM
1

Why not do the number one thing everyone recommends around here, and lift? Get a kettlebell, get some protein, take some fish oil. Might give you a new perspective on exactly what you want your life to look like — and if not, you'll be in better shape.
/r/askTRP23/07/14 05:00 AM
1

Totally. And remember — you won't be keeping this person in a vacuum. Eddie said it best: https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=ts4sEBb2K3s
/r/TheRedPill23/07/14 04:05 AM
2

Dat anger! I mean, we see a guy with better clothes, better body, better car...sure, there's a twinge of motivational jealousy. "Step it up," he seems to say. But we don't scream at womankind for liking him, demanding that they hold all men to an equal standard of desirability.
/r/TheRedPill22/07/14 09:39 AM
2

George? George Costanza, is that you!? http://youtu.be/-skZx5liyaM
/r/askTRP21/07/14 02:41 PM
1

Good on you. Remember the 3-second rule. Talk to everyone.
/r/askTRP21/07/14 01:54 AM
1

Going out alone isn't as easy, because you don't have any social proof (or bros egging you on to talk to chicks). You can solve this by talking with other dudes, though, then using their group as your new base.
/r/askTRP20/07/14 02:10 PM
2

You need a plan, bro. What can you do that she can't? Besides lifting. Are you into music, entrepreneurship, painting, scrimshaw? There's gotta be something you have a passion for. Pursue that. The energy you put into it will excite her.
/r/askTRP18/07/14 10:03 AM
1

So that we don't get the sex somewhere else, from someone we end up falling in love with, leaving our previous sex-free relationship high and dry.
/r/askTRP18/07/14 09:15 AM
5

Totally. I feel fortunate that my last LTR went all starfish-sex on me before we got married. It could have been way, way worse.
/r/askTRP18/07/14 08:17 AM
1

Playful non-sequitur. Keeps things light. Lets her know you're not affected by her whining.
/r/askTRP18/07/14 02:25 AM
1

http://i.imgur.com/uWR3YXz.png Works every time.
/r/askTRP18/07/14 12:43 AM
1

Send her the birthday cake cat, turn off your phone, and go lift something heavy
/r/askTRP18/07/14 12:22 AM
29

The writer mentions her love for sedentary hobbies, which might be due to her advanced age: http://i.imgur.com/SzzWaPc.png She's what — 50? None of the swole gym thugs she despises would look at her cross-eyed at this point. Maybe just a teeny-tiny bit of this was motivated by feelings of jealousy and inadequacy, hm?
/r/TheRedPill18/07/14 12:05 AM
3

Or because she has a shit list of her own, with a wish list of crap she wants you to do to "improve". Cosmo-level nonsense trap. Her "suggestions" for you will be a bunch of respect-destroying hoops for you to jump through, and any you make in her direction will be taken as mean-spirited attacks. Ignore, hold frame. If she persists, next.
/r/askTRP17/07/14 03:32 PM
2

Christ. Are you going to end up giving this girl a degree, a kid, citizenship, and divorce bucks?
/r/askTRP17/07/14 02:26 PM
2

I have women friends that I'm not interested in physically — coworkers and music fest friends. Some are single, some aren't. They tell me about cool parties and hook me up with tickets and stuff. That isn't this. Duder was trying to get himself a GF the wrong way, and she was trying to use him despite her lack of interest. That's not a friend — that's a user.
/r/askTRP17/07/14 12:17 PM
2

I'd look for someone with plenty of beta and enough alpha to get your drawers moist. Help him keep those alpha traits that turn you on by trusting him to lead, not nagging, and staying feminine. And check out redpillwomen.
/r/askTRP17/07/14 11:27 AM
-6

Helping out around the house is a slippery slope, trust me. You do anything three times in a row, and it's now your job forever. You'll take on extra task after extra task, thinking that each one will be the one that gives her "enough" time. You'll be doing everything, she'll be depressed, on her ass, and wrist deep in Chunky Monkey. She has plenty of time. Draw the lines now and hold them.
/r/askTRP17/07/14 11:21 AM
5

Married Man Sex Life Primer might help. Also, if you know about hypergamy, you'll know that her finances being greater than yours will make it difficult for her to look up to you. Are you a Man With A Mission?
/r/askTRP17/07/14 09:37 AM
3

The Dilemma. It's...well, it's kind of a hot mess.
/r/askTRP17/07/14 09:33 AM
2

Don't let her sex you into a discount. Plate her if you want, but make sure you're getting what you agreed to, and that it's a fair price.
/r/askTRP17/07/14 09:25 AM
13

DON'T KNOW WHAT CHA GOT, 'TILL IT'S GONNNNNNNNNNE epic hair metal guitar solo
/r/TheRedPill17/07/14 03:36 AM
9

Exactly. That is precisely what I wanted to say. You've hit the nail on the head, by Jove.
/r/TheRedPill16/07/14 10:56 AM
1

You could teach English abroad for a couple years in Korea. Have some adventure, clear that debt right up.
/r/TheRedPill16/07/14 10:46 AM
12

Brevity is the soul of wit. Don't forget the truth of those words — they are as true now as when they were first spoken. I'm reminded of my days as a youth, running through the fields, thinking about the interesting things I'd just learned...
/r/TheRedPill16/07/14 10:32 AM
3

Dunno. If the (protected!) sex is worth it, spin away. You know this person isn't wife or mother material. Enjoy it if you want. If you don't, don't.
/r/askTRP16/07/14 06:42 AM
1

That is...so, so brave. Thank you for sharing. I feel as if we are connected by gossamer threads.
/r/TheRedPill16/07/14 02:25 AM
6

It's not silly!! Maybe you need to stand in front of a mirror, pouring warm love upon yourself, the decadent cascade of soft reassurance filling every crevasse, every nook, until you are once again whole.
/r/TheRedPill16/07/14 12:27 AM
6

Get your own place. When you must communicate, hold frame and smile and nod and shrug it off when they try and rope you into their unhealthy lifestyles or make fun of you. They may see your changes as a judgement on them and lash out as a result. Well, fuck 'em.
/r/TheRedPill15/07/14 11:55 PM
2

Teach English overseas. Korea, Japan, China, Poland...plenty of places just require a BA. No foreign language required. Korea will even fly you there and back, at a lot of places, and give you a free apartment. Try googling eslcafe.
/r/askTRP15/07/14 12:37 PM
2

A couple things: • Help him be that alpha you want. The wife on House of Cards. The woman who wants to make a man into that man she can look up to. • When you ask for his suggestions, happily agree when he offers them. When he fucks up — and he will — don't use it as ammo. Expect that it's a momentary lapse, and trust that he'll get it right the next time. Show him that you believe in him. • Not in the mood for sex? He'll really appreciate that blow-or-handjob. Sexual rejection from someone you …
/r/askTRP15/07/14 12:30 PM
2

I'm impressed. Class act. Wish it weren't so impressive when someone meets their responsibilities.
/r/askTRP15/07/14 12:00 PM
12

My grandfather had a 50-something ladyfriend swoop in to save him from his loneliness (and a good portion of his savings). Brought him some casseroles, cleaned up his place, and got him off, I imagine. I ain't even mad. Obviously whatever she gave him was worth his money. Good for them both. This woman had a real chance with this guy. He gave her some concrete advice — a little harsh, yeah, but he didn't just ghost on her. Most dudes would just mumble something about "different life goals" and l…
/r/TheRedPill15/07/14 10:26 AM
1

Hells yeah. Get a couple air horns and some LED spinners on there. Own it.
/r/askTRP13/07/14 03:28 PM
1

She broke your trust before — there's a very good chance that she'll be willing to break it again.
/r/askTRP13/07/14 03:23 PM
3

That's going to be a depressing bike ride. Trust me, spring for the hearse rental.
/r/askTRP13/07/14 03:20 PM
1

Having all your options for sex cut off might make you desperate enough to try any number of depressing and humiliating things.
/r/TheRedPill13/07/14 02:54 PM
1

If you can beat that first successful denial of sex and continue an exciting and fulfilling sexual dynamic, I will bow to your mastery of relationship dynamics and buy you a very stiff drink. I'm sure you'll need one.
/r/TheRedPill13/07/14 02:32 PM
1

Maybe! BTW, that "for some reason" is the key point all romance authors have to gloss over in order to make a protagonist boring enough that their novel-buying hamwhales can put themselves into the stories they swallow. Sad but true.
/r/TheRedPill13/07/14 02:03 PM
4

How new is this relationship? Because I was right there with you. 50/50. Give and take. We turned each other on so much. Be very, very careful. http://www.personalpowermeditation.com/forum/social-dynamics/the-betaization-process/
/r/TheRedPill13/07/14 04:07 AM
0

Bateman broke off his engagement — he was no provider. Can you think of a character that exemplifies both alpha and beta traits?
/r/TheRedPill12/07/14 02:39 PM
1

That is a really excellent point.
/r/askTRP10/07/14 02:19 PM
1

You can't win. I've seen feminists argue that, because fetuses have been implanted in artificial wombs inside trans men before, it's preposterous to say that "women bear children."
/r/askTRP10/07/14 01:28 PM
0

This is interesting. It's certainly unusual, from my perspective. Plenty of men have chosen celibacy because they've found some higher purpose for their lives — scientific inquiry, religion, charity, whatever. That doesn't sound like you. Beyond our biological drives, there isn't a point to life. It's like minecraft, or lego — living life is the point. The fact that you lack purpose is the existential crisis every thinking individual must go through. Seeing a male counselor might help. But I've …
/r/askTRP09/07/14 12:31 PM
5

It's biology. It will work in high school. It will work after. That said, it's hard to have the autonomy you need in high school to act in a RP way all the time. You will have to show blue pill adults "respect" that they sometimes have neither earned nor deserve. That is, unfortunately, good training for the working world. My advice would be to read the sidebar, lift, and develop yourself physically and academically. If something seems easier for you than for your peers, that's your talent — dev…
/r/TheRedPill08/07/14 01:37 PM
1

I think that comedians use their comedy as this kind of invulnerability. Like, because it's a joke, anyone who gets mad is dumb for not getting it, or being too much of a prude. And fair enough. They have a right to say anything, and if they get enough people to laugh they've got a career going. But when you become a spokesman, suddenly those carefree laffs have a pricetag attached, depending on who you piss off. I'd fully respect him if he made his jokes, told Aflac to fuck their duck, and gigg…
/r/TheRedPill08/07/14 10:34 AM
1

If you have the time, would you be willing to explain it to me? I would certainly appreciate it — why, the conversational back-and-forth might to us both a lot of good! Please let me know at your earliest convenience. (Satisfied, lengthbot?)
/r/TheRedPill08/07/14 09:11 AM
5

His main point stands, but for him not to realize that his tsunami jokes would come back to fuck him financially reeks of naïveté. You're shilling for an insurance company with a major presence in Japan, you're taking their money. Say what you want, but just like in any business you are judged on your behavior. Comedy cuts both ways. He's not sorry for his comments? Fine. He should have stuck to his guns and kept his insincere I'm Sorries in the trash. But for him to squeal because they cut off …
/r/TheRedPill08/07/14 12:00 AM
7

It's a consensual abuse of power. Sounds suspiciously close to ravishment. Ban romance novels!
/r/TheRedPill07/07/14 11:45 PM
1

I saw it as an indictment of a man without a creative outlet, huge pressures to conform, and the inability to form human relationships.
/r/TheRedPill06/07/14 10:44 AM
2

This is a bad idea.
/r/askTRP06/07/14 07:50 AM
1

This is really important. She's attracted to what you are and where you're going. That's your mission. If you quit your band and become a desk jockey so that she can have her Netflix and a bunch of Pokemon hunters running around, don't be surprised when the tingles are gone. The fact that your wife and family are your new mission will not matter.
/r/TheRedPill04/07/14 11:12 PM
10

Not at all. She'll land some power beta — a doctor or a lawyer or a CEO, someone who thinks her legend is worth something at that point. She'll have everything a woman thinks she wants...and an exhausted pool boy.
/r/TheRedPill04/07/14 03:05 PM
12

It works with any movie! W: I'm watching Lorenzo's Oil M: I'll blind side you with my cock
/r/TheRedPill04/07/14 04:19 AM
2

Experience with women can really mess with your suspension of disbelief here. I guess in theoretical Prostitutopia everyone just gets their prostidude on, and then they never learn to spot fakery. But if you've ever experienced true desire, it's easy to spot a fake.
/r/TheRedPill03/07/14 04:00 PM
94

Of course she doesn't want to date! She wants serendipitous magic, where the forces of Fate send Mr. Right tangling a dog leash around her ankles at the local park. This is why day game is so effective, BTW. That "it just happened" hamster gets kicked into overdrive.
/r/TheRedPill03/07/14 03:29 PM
2

I'm a great cook. And I know how to clean and do my laundry, because I live by myself and I'm not a slob. The more I did those things for my SO in my last relationship, though, the less respect I got — and the fewer blowjobs. The less desire. The less intimacy. Wish it weren't so. Really do. Wish that seeing me do dishes made her wet — but it didn't. And now I'm gone...and she's trying again. FaceTiming me with full makeup and tits jacked up. Sending all the cute little emoticon nonsense that ha…
/r/TheRedPill03/07/14 02:57 PM
1

Sure, sure. And she should have the power and agency to take responsibility for her own improvement. No doubt. But if people are just yelling shit at her, that's crap. I'd never call out a fat person, because (as Leather pointed out) they could have been 100 pounds fatter a couple months ago. Getting your rocks off by shitting on the weak is a huge show of weakness in and of itself.
/r/TheRedPill03/07/14 12:30 PM
1

Doesn't matter at this point. Get her stuff out of there as quickly/cheaply/easily/legally as you can. Personally, I wouldn't want my ex traipsing around my place to look for "her" things.
/r/askTRP03/07/14 03:51 AM
5

For what possible purpose would you consider doing this?
/r/askTRP02/07/14 01:39 PM
6

Well, just because it's bullshit doesn't mean they don't believe it.
/r/TheRedPill02/07/14 01:29 PM
10

I guess what is so interesting is that these women honestly have no idea why their sexual desire is fading from their husbands. I mean, if I didn't find my SO attractive, I could tell you why.
/r/TheRedPill02/07/14 01:10 PM
7

I always high-five them at the gym. It's great to see people taking responsibility for their own self-improvement. Wouldn't you agree?
/r/TheRedPill02/07/14 12:56 PM
1

I've had girls just buddy up to allllll my friends in an effort to become "more". Then there's a whole lot of fallout for cutting ties. Good insight here.
/r/TheRedPill02/07/14 12:52 PM
6

I have absolutely no idea what this depressed person's drawings have to do with redpill
/r/TheRedPill02/07/14 12:27 PM
45

*Note: this is merely my prediction for how things will, no doubt, go down. Not a direct quote. Some assembly required, hamster not included.
/r/TheRedPill02/07/14 11:25 AM
101

"We were no longer partners. He viewed sexual intimacy as something I owed him — something I completely disagreed with. Sometimes the patriarchy creeps up on you so subtly that you don't notice it's in your house until it's too late." Mark my words — that's how it's going to be.
/r/TheRedPill02/07/14 09:53 AM
2

You're what? 18? Putting Red Pill into action requires autonomy. That comes with education, a job, money, your own apartment, transportation... Once you have those things you'll be able to see things a little more clearly.
/r/TheRedPill01/07/14 12:05 AM
1

While I have no desire for the type of life my father chose — or ended up with, depending on your perspective — I honestly appreciate the sacrifices he made to provide me opportunities. I wouldn't call it guilt, but I do feel some regret that starting a family isn't the ticket to happiness it's billed as.
/r/TheRedPill30/06/14 11:59 PM
1

You know, men do this a lot too — become the same emotional whiny basket cases that they tumblr over after math class. It doesn't work, and they wonder why.
/r/TheRedPill30/06/14 01:45 PM
2

This is one of the major advantages of being a man. We have our rivals, which can quickly become allies. Women are terrible at that shit.
/r/TheRedPill30/06/14 12:27 PM
1

LTR until things get bad, then bail. 6 is probably too many for a ring.
/r/askTRP30/06/14 11:29 AM
3

This is deadly smart advice. And you see it all the time with girls, hauling along some troll they feed with ego-boosting crumbs.
/r/TheRedPill30/06/14 10:02 AM
4

A fat bitch ain't a dude in a Ferrari — penis size be damned. Been in the same situation, some 45+ balding hamwhale with a sidecomb came up and grabbed my phone out of my hands. Had to talk it back out of her tentacles. I'm sure she doesn't get a lot of conversation opportunities.
/r/TheRedPill30/06/14 09:53 AM
-6

Stop hating the game. Your problem is you.
/r/TheRedPill30/06/14 09:39 AM
1

Bitch all you want — to a professional, or any friends you think have the stomach. Just not to her/your kids.
/r/askTRP30/06/14 08:47 AM
1

I know! These assholes, right? A wife should be a person who, no matter what, is ready to sit on your sofa in sweatpants eating ice cream. Can't buy that.
/r/askTRP30/06/14 08:42 AM
2

Ha! Well, part of it still holds.
/r/askTRP30/06/14 08:20 AM
1

That's great! I just need to buy pants with big pockets so I can carry around lots of Denny's menus
/r/trpGAME29/06/14 10:56 AM
1

Cosmo? I'm not sure we advocate sprinkling pepper under noses during sex around here. There's no big secret about men. I think men get into LTRs with the idea that you're trading a life of freedom and casual sex with many partners for stability, family, and sex & support from just one woman. It's getting those last two for a lifetime that are so crucial to our happiness — and the ones that are so elusive.
/r/TheRedPill29/06/14 08:37 AM
8

Lift.
/r/askTRP29/06/14 07:13 AM
1

Red pill isn't a theory about women as such — it's a theory about human interaction and the nature of reality. Beyond that, RP has specific strategies about how to get what you want out of life (especially in the sister subreddits).
/r/TheRedPill29/06/14 06:05 AM
1

In certain cultures and at certain times, I'd give a qualified yes.
/r/TheRedPill28/06/14 04:43 AM
3

My SO was having transactional sex with me at the end — and I could see how much she didn't like it. Not only was it really bad sex compared to what we used to have, but I felt disgusting. Like I was forcing myself on someone. That was the hardest thing, I think — knowing that every time I was doing the "right" thing (cooking, meeting parents, engagement rings) I was actually killing her desire. I just wanted things to be the way they used to be — when she actually wanted to make love to me, and…
/r/TheRedPill28/06/14 12:36 AM
6

People that are truly happy don't have to write text-walls to assure themselves and the world that they are truly happy.
/r/TheRedPill27/06/14 04:17 AM
2

When did men become so afraid to make a commitment, to take the lead, to say what they want, to make long term plans, to set goals, to pursue, to talk about the future? About the same time that commitment became a lifetime-long shit sandwich.
/r/TheRedPill27/06/14 04:15 AM
5

Remember, the prize for gaming this bitch is the chance to hang out with a bitch.
/r/askTRP27/05/14 11:33 AM
6

What's your issue? It's a job?
/r/askTRP23/05/14 10:16 AM
2

Seriously. Go get 'em, tiger.
/r/TheRedPill20/05/14 03:22 PM
1

Wire up a trust before you get declared mentally unfit to manage your affairs
/r/askTRP16/05/14 10:09 AM
3

Applied intelligence is sexy. If you turn your knowledge of computational theory into a successful career, a gym membership, and a BMW, yeah you'll moisten some panties. If you turn your knowledge of computational theory into a conversational bludgeon so you can belittle all the dum-dum idiots you meet every day...well...
/r/trpGAME16/05/14 04:55 AM
5

They should just skip to the jerking and save a few bucks
/r/TheRedPill14/05/14 04:36 PM
2

Don't hang around angry people. Remember, the prize for gaming a bitch into bed is the chance to hang around a bitch. Woo. As for the other one — hey, if you're not feeling it, just chill and have a good time.
/r/askTRP11/05/14 11:57 AM
3

Have a private place where you are Busy With Your Shit. Like a study or a studio. Forbid her to enter. Make it your magic place where you do all your complicated man shit. Nothing kills sex faster than you always being on the same sofa in the same boxers checking your iphone.
/r/askTRP11/05/14 04:55 AM
1

This. If he can blow back into her life in a year as this amazing new man, she'll probably be up for rekindling. 'Course, once he goes to the trouble it'll probably be more hassle than it's worth.
/r/askTRP11/05/14 04:40 AM
1

Yeah. By "pushed" I mean he helped me open and talked me up in front of them. Y'know, winging.
/r/TheRedPill07/05/14 03:04 PM
5

Those bros seem like a bunch of solid dudes. I was out last night and my friend pushed me into a group of three girls. Nice to be given a friendly hand instead of going toe-to-toe with a bunch of thirsty strangers.
/r/TheRedPill06/05/14 01:41 PM
5

There's only what's right for you, man. Having a good education and job prospects may very well help raise your SMV in the future, and give you more options for adventure and personal development. Failing to develop social confidence and the ability to approach and attract women may stunt your growth as a man — and make you a target for a marriage you don't want in the future. Your parents are probably giving you the best they have to work with, given their culture and the way they grew up. But …
/r/askTRP05/05/14 11:45 AM
1

What? No. Electronic music spans all the way from beta-emo-IDM hipster stuff to beach pounding, abs-and-tank-tops EDM bro stuff. And everything in between. To sum up: whether you're trolling or not, watch Spring Breakers.
/r/TheRedPill05/05/14 06:55 AM
2

Diet changes will help with motivation. Get a lot more lean protein and veg, cut the carbs way down, drink lots of water. It's hard to lift or exercise when your diet is making you all sluggish.
/r/askTRP04/05/14 04:21 PM
30

They love that conspiracy building stuff. Nobody knows I'm a dirty little girl who loves sex...except him.
/r/TheRedPill04/05/14 04:17 PM
2

This is a pretty well-reasoned analysis given the available info. Well done
/r/askTRP04/05/14 02:25 PM
4

Don't let it get to you. Emotions were flying all over the place and you just got hit by some of the worst of them. Even though it doesn't work, depressed people do try to make themselves feel better by making other people feel worse. I mentioned in another thread that I actually had a girl come up to me and say "Hi, how are you? Sorry, I have a boyfriend. Shoo" all in one breath. Feels bad, man. But looking back I can see that it was just me getting hit in the head by someone else's problems.
/r/askTRP04/05/14 11:56 AM
4

I had a femdom gf for a while. It was all messed up, honestly. She'd been abused and stalked in a past relationship, and being the domme was how she could feel "safe". I was a gamma that had just worked up to a beta, but I had some looks going for me and I guess I made a good target for her stresses. It was pretty hot, truth be told, but it really couldn't last. She ultimately didn't want to have to drive the Sex Bus all the time, and I got tired of never being in control. We left each other on …
/r/askTRP28/04/14 02:58 PM
2

Brush up on your day game. Maybe a little online stuff too.
/r/askTRP25/04/14 09:03 PM
1

Yeah, 20's will jump at a successful guy in his 40's. Men age like wine.
/r/TheRedPill25/04/14 02:51 PM
1

Beware pair bonding. If you see a girl more than once a week or so, you're gonna find it harder and harder to say no to more commitment.
/r/TheRedPill25/04/14 11:15 AM
0

Have fun clicking links
/r/TheRedPill25/04/14 07:37 AM
-2

Hey Tenacious D wrote a song about this: http://m.youtube.com/watch?v=kUWLFmOT_kQ
/r/TheRedPill25/04/14 03:53 AM
2

Make him the archnemesis lawyer on Better Call Saul
/r/TheRedPill24/04/14 10:54 AM
7

Smile and scan the horizon. She's busy with your phone — those seconds are flying by for her.
/r/askTRP24/04/14 12:00 AM
8

Nice clarideflection
/r/TheRedPill23/04/14 03:38 PM
1

"Anal?"
/r/askTRP23/04/14 11:16 AM
12

Nice bragzample
/r/TheRedPill23/04/14 10:00 AM
1

A lot of wisdom here. Actually, my LTR has a lot of great points. Hell of a cook. Taste in music and art and food. Can be a demon in the sack. I was willing to overlook the SMV difference — until the sex started to become transactional, that is. Now I'm just not sure. This all has to be working before I walk down any aisles. MMSLP is helping, but honestly knowing what I know now, ten years of spinning plates before settling down sounds mighty attractive.
/r/askTRP23/04/14 04:32 AM
5

I'm dating down and honestly they convince themselves after a while that there is no difference. At first the sex was as hot as you'd think with an 8 banging a 6. After you commit and go exclusive and it's tru luv, they convince themselves that there is no discrepancy, and that their special specialness makes them deserve you. Then it's ice cream and sweatpants for you both.
/r/askTRP23/04/14 04:09 AM
1

Objectively, I'd say my LTR is below me in SMV terms. But when women only see you focusing on them, they feel like they deserve that attention, and that there's no SMV discrepancy. Solipsism at work. Start with soft dread, but dread's the way to go. Check out MMSLP for sure.
/r/TheRedPill22/04/14 04:12 PM
1

Seconded. Really helped us a lot.
/r/TheRedPill22/04/14 04:08 PM
1

I was in line for a pint — no escape from the crazy! I'm ready next time it happens, but if I try girding my psyche for every nutty thing that could come out of a crazy chick's mouth I'll be nuts myself pretty quick
/r/askTRP22/04/14 02:53 PM
2

That's a great response. I was just totally confused at the time. One point for Crazy Lady I guess.
/r/askTRP22/04/14 02:28 PM
3

Oh man! Once I had a girl approach me and say "Hi! How are you? Sorry, I have a boyfriend." Me: "Huh?" Her: "Sorry, I have a boyfriend. Shoo." On reflection, I think she was just out to piss some dudes off that night. Maybe she'd been abused, or raped, or dumped, and throwing shits at randos was her little fist-shake at the universe. Dunno. Maybe you met her sister.
/r/askTRP22/04/14 01:48 PM
2

A BLOO BLOO I got girl problems guys plz help SNIFF PS: I am hard as fuck I will take your girl ain't no thing to me
/r/askTRP21/04/14 11:20 AM
13

This kind of classy interaction makes this sub great
/r/TheRedPill21/04/14 04:22 AM
1

Well, maybe I agree, in a hyper-big-picture "what's the point of doing anything" sense. I dunno. You're the only one who can perceive your own experiences. I guess you'll have to determine the value of experiencing them.
/r/TheRedPill20/04/14 02:32 PM
7

Whenever I rub one out, I stop wanting to go out and start spinning 18-year-old plates, and find myself wanting to marry my LTR and join her rich family that thinks I'm amazing despite being fairly broke. : /
/r/TheRedPill19/04/14 07:55 AM
1

Dread game increases attraction, though. Sure a hard next works, but it's the fallout that op is trying to avoid here
/r/TheRedPill19/04/14 07:50 AM
2

The only thing these conversations are good for is to visit the Hamster Zoo
/r/TheRedPill18/04/14 01:55 PM
2

That's a great attitude. Did you go out solo and beat up the nightlife anyways?
/r/askTRP18/04/14 12:27 PM
1

Legit? Weren't they the ones refusing to delete your profile unless you paid a $19 fee?
/r/TheRedPill18/04/14 03:59 AM
8

Mattress shopping is the best thing about squirty intercourse? What a life you must lead.
/r/TheRedPill18/04/14 02:55 AM
1

I'd be able to stay faithful to her (as I have my current LTR). Would I always have a sex drive that made me desire other women? Sure, as long as my testosterone is flowing.
/r/askTRP17/04/14 11:24 PM
1

All the attractive women, yes, on some level. I'm in an LTR now. Is she the right one, and will she satisfy me until I no longer have a sex drive? Man, who knows. But things were rocky there for a while. Sex was drying up, and I didn't know why. RP and MMSLP has helped, but it's tough to say what the future will bring.
/r/askTRP17/04/14 10:57 PM
1

Sounds really similar to shitting where you eat and dating a co-worker, except with the added risk of a jealous husband killing you and burning your shop to the ground. So ten out of ten for style, but minus several million for good thinking, yeah?
/r/askTRP17/04/14 01:31 PM
2

That's sound advice
/r/askTRP17/04/14 11:14 AM
5

Not quite. Good marriage is good for health. Marital stress, divorce, and the death of a spouse all take major tolls on physical well being.
/r/askTRP17/04/14 11:09 AM
3

I'm hornier in my thirties than I was as a teen.
/r/askTRP17/04/14 11:05 AM
1

Hm. Do you work out? My SO started like a week after I did.
/r/TheRedPill17/04/14 12:49 AM
0

Oop there goes spaghetti
/r/TheRedPill16/04/14 10:33 PM
20

Worked in my last five marriages. Then I married a Heinz executive and he was able to get an annulment. ;_;
/r/TheRedPill16/04/14 08:26 AM
1

I hear you. My father has a lot of RP qualities, but there's a lot we don't see eye-to-eye on. But he's in his 60's too. I don't know if there's much changing to be done. One thing that's helped is just him seeing me eat better and look better and exercise. He seems to get a lot of pleasure knowing that I'm doing well.
/r/TheRedPill16/04/14 02:36 AM
1

Prudence has a real flair for comedy. She suggests this woman go out and get 50 Fucking Shades and hint at her whipped little shit that he should do more...stuff. Like in the book. But I guess not the billionaire stuff. Or the stuff about her being a 21-year-old virgin. You know, the massive power imbalance that makes that book such a panty-moistener for the post-wall set. I guarantee you any S&M, "Man Up" shit he tries on their fart-stained Posturepedic will seem awkward, funny, or gross withou…
/r/TheRedPill16/04/14 02:28 AM
4

Maybe you will! Uh, later. Maybe she just needs a bubble bath and some flowers.
/r/TheRedPill15/04/14 10:19 PM
6

It's a perfect opener! What a goldmine
/r/TheRedPill15/04/14 08:42 PM
3

Dat Skukerman, jeez
/r/TheRedPill15/04/14 01:53 PM
2

See, that's how women are supposed to keep men from wandering. Amazing how well that works.
/r/TheRedPill15/04/14 01:50 PM
1

If they gave a slut testosterone, wouldn't that just make it worse? Wouldn't she go into Maximum Slutterdrive?
/r/TheRedPill15/04/14 01:04 PM
5

Upvoted and pedestaled
/r/TheRedPill15/04/14 08:24 AM
1

I'm just telling you, for what it's worth: women pair bond very closely with the man who takes their virginity. If she's religious, that puts another layer of significance on things. Given all that, and the fact that you're in close quarters at work, means this is not going to be a casual thing. Definitely recommend not shitting where you eat here, man
/r/askTRP14/04/14 02:59 PM
1

If you take her virginity, she'll bond with you in a way that is really meaningful to her. She'll be clingy and underfoot when you're trying to work. And should you break up, you'll still have to see her at your job, and that will be awful. I know, I know. You really want to. But I really recommend you don't date at work.
/r/askTRP14/04/14 02:34 PM
1

If you have sex with a virgin you work with, it's going to make your job impossible, no matter the outcome of your relationship.
/r/askTRP14/04/14 04:31 AM
3

Sweet. ziiiiiiiiiip
/r/TheRedPill14/04/14 03:53 AM
2

You know what? You're 18. And life to go. That's a Skid Row reference that you don't get, because your life has just started. I would KILL to be 18 again and RP aware. Cut any remaining contact, read the sidebar, and lift. This will stop hurting and you'll be a better man for living through it.
/r/askTRP14/04/14 02:30 AM
2

I think as long as the sidebar is rock-solid, it's fine. Sort of inevitable that the old guard internalizes the info and newbies still get off on the earlier stages of RP
/r/TheRedPill14/04/14 01:28 AM
4

I was bagged by a cougar in my early twenties. She paid for everything. It was great — awesome food and hotels, great sex. Would recommend. However. Are you the hot alpha boy-toy, or the potential meal ticket? Check yo assets before you check dat ass.
/r/TheRedPill14/04/14 01:17 AM
2

I think this phenomena was discussed in Dr. Allen's book Dont Stand Too Close To A Naked Man.
/r/TheRedPill14/04/14 01:12 AM
-8

Well, ok. You actually have a fairly good chance of getting herpes this way, and a much smaller chance of something more serious.
/r/TheRedPill14/04/14 01:10 AM
16

They want what all women want. Seems like the main difference is that they're trying to keep some alpha traits in their men by limiting premarital cock rides, helping their men hold frame, cooking, sex, and femininity.
/r/TheRedPill14/04/14 12:56 AM
6

Exactly. An alpha's hard kiss is passionate and forceful. A beta's hard kiss is like a mule eating an apple.
/r/TheRedPill13/04/14 11:01 AM
1

Exactly. What's the endgame? A break-up...and then you see each other every day. A LTR/marriage...and then you see each other EVERY WAKING MOMENT.
/r/askTRP12/04/14 10:57 AM
2

"The cure is Lesbian Dread, Beth!"
/r/TheRedPill12/04/14 10:31 AM
4

"Eureka!! The solution is 1.21 gigasquats!"
/r/TheRedPill12/04/14 10:29 AM
3

It actually feels great to have sex with someone you care about and provide for. I've gamed girls into the sack, and it doesn't really compare. The best sex with my LTR trumps it.
/r/TheRedPill12/04/14 10:28 AM
7

Actually, I think they really believe they do have a headache every night. Or it's Shark Week. Or they have a bug bite, and they've been itching it all day, and how can I feel sexy if I have a bug bite? The excuse becomes the reason. Because the real reason, I don't find you sexually attractive, would put the provider state in jeopardy.
/r/TheRedPill12/04/14 10:26 AM
0

Ah. But increase your devotion to her, and watch the sex take a nosedive. If it hurts you to make her cry, stop fucking other girls — if you want. But I guarantee when she thinks of herself as your only option, the vag will dry up. She has to know you have other sexual options, whether you take advantage of them or not.
/r/askTRP11/04/14 01:56 PM
1

Keto works. You feel full, you are full, the weight comes off. And then a little exercise. Get a pedometer app and do 5,000 steps a day, then up to 10,000 steps. You'll be surprised at the progress. You'll feel great. Focused, less shitty. The cobwebs will clear right up. Give it a shot for a bit and report back.
/r/askTRP11/04/14 01:36 PM
1

Right. But if it weren't this situation, it would be some other situation to test your frame. You can handle it.
/r/askTRP11/04/14 01:23 PM
3

I dunno. If you knew about this kid, you had to know future interaction was a possibility. Draw boundaries on what you're willing to happen, and stick to those. Should be fine.
/r/askTRP11/04/14 12:59 PM
1

I'd agree with you — but yeah, your analysis is on, so nbd
/r/askTRP11/04/14 11:49 AM
1

Is this a Dethklok song
/r/TheRedPill11/04/14 07:36 AM
3

I'd go so far to say that sexual pleasure and conquest are highly linked. The vaginas of a 4 and a 10 probably feel pretty similar, but the validation one feels from bedding each of them is completely different. Also why hiring a prostitute would feel much less satisfying than working on yourself until attractive women are all over you.
/r/TheRedPill11/04/14 05:48 AM
2

Yeah! AYN THAN TAYKE HERRRRR ON THE LAYYYYYYYYKE A BLOO BLOO SNIFFLE SCREAM SOB
/r/TheRedPill11/04/14 04:46 AM
1

Haha! How about "Screaming Infidelities?"
/r/TheRedPill10/04/14 04:41 AM
1

Stop reading these posts. They will upset you, because they deal with truth.
/r/askTRP09/04/14 02:09 PM
2

"Hey Dad thanks for the text. I think the reason you get upset over insignificant bullshit is because you feel you have no control over your life. Think about it. See you at dinner!" That would be seen as a huge show of disrespect by my father, and I'm guessing most men that gave up a life of freedom to give raising a family a shot. Sure it's true, but what of it? Shut the fucking garage door.
/r/askTRP09/04/14 01:48 PM
1

You sound like the kind of person that's always pushing for a special Internet Sarcasm Font
/r/TheRedPill09/04/14 01:16 PM
4

Possibly that's all he has evidence/admission of
/r/TheRedPill09/04/14 06:27 AM
1

Me too. Brought sex back in a major way (and helped me lose my gut, so there's that too).
/r/askTRP09/04/14 12:49 AM
1

What do to after you unplug.
/r/TheRedPill08/04/14 06:54 AM
2

"Been a long road." This means "I have crammed SO MUCH COCK into my vagina that my stretched-out pussy flaps make an audible slapping sound during my frequent trips to the refrigerator."
/r/TheRedPill08/04/14 06:36 AM
24

Go out for a Coke and never come back.
/r/TheRedPill08/04/14 05:33 AM
1

Is that where your satire tummy got full
/r/TheRedPill07/04/14 12:26 PM
-1

Getting laid isn't a reason? But hey, one man's opinion.
/r/askTRP07/04/14 03:27 AM
2

Sounds like you look a little scary, and the ladies are hiding under the wings of their partners. Might want to look a little more smiley.
/r/askTRP07/04/14 01:50 AM
1

Says he would "love to pop the question," not that he proposed. Assuming the Daily Mail is reliable on that, the girl might just have Game. Maybe she wants to see the rock first.
/r/TheRedPill06/04/14 11:36 PM
53

Here's a sample from a TED talk one of the leaders of the fat-acceptance movement did about Fit Mom. Pretty typical: http://m.youtube.com/watch?v=WabT1L-nN-E
/r/TheRedPill06/04/14 01:23 PM
5

If your aunt will come through with that college help, take it. Pay her back if you can, or just treat her with respect and gratitude. Know when to take advantage of help and when to insist on doing everything for yourself. There's a time and place for both.
/r/TheRedPill06/04/14 11:36 AM
21

Language learning. Prepare to feel incompetent and foolish as you make mistake after mistake. Dealing with those feelings of inadequacy and pushing through them will really help build you as a person.
/r/TheRedPill05/04/14 11:30 PM
1

Fair enough. Probably depends on the university, though — and the country it's in.
/r/TheRedPill04/04/14 03:25 AM
2

Care to elaborate?
/r/TheRedPill03/04/14 11:26 PM
2

I dunno. Abbey does a little dread game, asking her to consider what life would be like without her beta. I've seen way worse. If it were Prudence, it would probably run like this: If you feel the need to flirt, it's a sign that your boyfriend isn't giving you all that you deserve in your relationship. Insist on counseling to help you both reach an amicable compromise on how much flirting is appropriate. If he refuses to go, you'll need to consider just what kind of person would refuse to try an…
/r/TheRedPill03/04/14 09:47 AM
1

It brings up an interesting point. Women think men have an unconditional love for women, when the opposite obviously isn't true.
/r/TheRedPill02/04/14 01:54 AM
8

You're probably looking for r/pegging. It's a great sub all about female power relationships. I hear they can be really fulfilling, to a certain type. Go for it.
/r/TheRedPill02/04/14 01:51 AM
6

Honestly, she seems pretty RP, even if it comes late. With a couple cooking classes, a little keto, some blowjay training, and a little Game she could find a great BP to snuggle and watch netflix with.
/r/TheRedPill02/04/14 01:26 AM
1

The Married Man Sex Life Primer 2011. The kindle edition is like ten bucks, and some of the best money you'll ever spend.
/r/TheRedPill02/04/14 01:22 AM
5

Same as it ever was. Interesting how many people used to do therapy due to being single. Bet that a lot of that has been replaced with meds and kittens. As an aside, Dr. Pepper Schwartz is a fantastic name.
/r/TheRedPill02/04/14 01:02 AM
6

Read it again. I get it. Women can react very well to tragedy, showing the appropriate emotions and reactions required — much like the vibrating string. What they have trouble with is empathy, and making personal sacrifices based on how they think others might feel.
/r/TheRedPill02/04/14 12:53 AM
1

How dare you! They also make that "urrrrk urrrrk urrrrk" noise
/r/TheRedPill02/04/14 12:19 AM
2

Realized I should reread it. Free on Kindle, can't beat that: http://www.amazon.com/gp/aw/d/B0084AXZK0?pc_redir=1396039081&robot_redir=1
/r/TheRedPill02/04/14 12:14 AM
38

What!? Her feelings have changed!? Why, this desperate situation can only be solved by a valiant act of sacrifice and compromise on the part of the husband. Sure, she agreed to a "don't ask, don't tell" arrangement. But that was then. When her feelings were different. When the dick was stranger. When the the cock on the carousel was thicker, younger, and more turgid. They should go to a counselor, one that will validate her exciting new feelings and dismiss his mean, nasty inflexibility. If he d…
/r/TheRedPill02/04/14 12:03 AM
16

Well, I can't speak to LTR in this case, but I've totally hit on girls that have seen me as out of their league and start cockblocking themselves. I mean, I thought they had SMV, but they didn't. Had to use a little self-effacing humor to get them to open up. Wondered if this guy might have opened a really wide SMV gap that his wife sees as insurmountable.
/r/TheRedPill01/04/14 02:36 PM
73

"We're no longer on the same page as we once were. Grant has a passion that doesn't include me." Because she doesn't want to participate, despite being invited. Good luck finding a compromise between abs and mac 'n' cheese. It's interesting, though. He's doing Paleo, too — his SMV must be far higher that his wife's by now. I wonder if it's like when you overqualify in pick-up...does she think that he's so far out of her league that she's just given up?
/r/TheRedPill01/04/14 01:55 PM
4

The Princeton Review, old boy
/r/TheRedPill01/04/14 01:03 PM
2

You might have blown it — try and play it off (cat cake emoji?) and steer the convo to safer waters. Or she might just be too sensitive to bother with.
/r/askTRP01/04/14 10:55 AM
1

You can easily over-neg when none are warranted. I wasn't there, but if it wasn't said playfully, sure — you're basically saying that the girl is dumb, or at least poorly read. As for recovery — I dunno. Huge grin, agree and amplify? "I know! Probably the most judgmental thing anybody has ever said, ever. Reminds me of one of the characters in White Teeth...you ever read that one?"
/r/askTRP01/04/14 10:48 AM
1

Kind of in the same boat. She started as a plate, but over 5 years has become my only LTR. We're engaged. I've been getting a lot out of The Married Man Sex Life Primer. You may be able to make your girl into what you need in a LTR, but if you blue pill all over the place, the sex will die. Happened to me. RP is helping, but it remains to be seen how far I'll let this go.
/r/TheRedPill01/04/14 10:04 AM
1

You broke up, right? Move on. Don't torture yourself. And yes to your first question.
/r/askTRP01/04/14 09:56 AM
3

WTF? Is this like a parody of what you think a RP guy is like? Fuckin' Oscar Wilde over here
/r/TheRedPill01/04/14 09:01 AM
6

Project Mayhem! Finally, christ
/r/TheRedPill01/04/14 03:49 AM
7

Tell them there's a sale at Pottery Barn
/r/TheRedPill01/04/14 03:25 AM
2

I guess my point is that a successful LTR is way harder than just spinning a couple plates. Build too much comfort and familiarity and the sex dries up and resentment builds. Fail to build enough comfort and she'll see you as uncatchable and won't view you as LTR material. It seems possible to make it work, but...wow. Hard. The Married Man Sex Life Primer has been a big help. And I'm not even married yet.
/r/TheRedPill01/04/14 03:11 AM
12

Fucked if I know how all of this LTR stuff works. Last Thursday she texted that traffic was bad, so I told her she should take her broomstick next time. RP, right? High five! I had the day off, she worked. I got some of my shit done, then made a casserole from leftovers — like a woman. Motherfucker had rosemary, even. BP. Then I confidently announced that we were getting beers at the bar down the street. She pays, because I got dinner. Girls buying drinks! RP! Then we get back and watch cartoons…
/r/TheRedPill31/03/14 02:17 PM
1

I gotta say that I've seen skills all over the place. Some expected me to do everything while they lay there like a microwaved cantaloupe. Some have been tigresses. Some were initially bad, but trained well.
/r/TheRedPill31/03/14 02:03 PM
1

Nice try, but you're not going to convince us to eat shit by making it look like a hamburger patty
/r/TheRedPill31/03/14 12:22 PM
20

If she truly can't live up to her end of the bargain any longer, she should ask for a clean, no-alimony divorce so she can do what she needs to do. People change their minds, sure. But trying to shift responsibility to the husband is crap.
/r/TheRedPill31/03/14 10:57 AM
78

Typical BS advice. "It’s [not] fair for [her] husband to simply shut [her] down" despite the prior agreement. Recommends that they go see a counselor, so he can have a third party tell him he's unreasonable, too. If he won't go, then he's definitely the bad guy. No honor, of course. Vows and promises mean nothing, only feeeeeeeelings.
/r/TheRedPill31/03/14 05:36 AM
1

Running into this problem now with my LTR. I mean, it's her family's money, and she does have a job, so I think her family did a fair effort at fostering a desire for independence in her. Then again, she gets to live at a reduced rent in one of the properties her mother manages. Still figuring out how to proceed, truth be told. Physical fitness and having enough money of my own helps her (and her family) to respect me. But keeping my SMV high enough above hers for a fulfilling sex life has been …
/r/askTRP31/03/14 04:52 AM
1

You might start looking in places where quality types are more likely to be — church (if you swing that way), rock climbing group, library. Brush up on day game. High-quality LTR-material women will see you as a player if you come off as one. You might have to use a little more self-effacing humor to keep them from cockblocking (or in your case, LTR-blocking) themselves
/r/askTRP31/03/14 04:45 AM
1

Just BS with confidence: http://youtu.be/g031x5y4JmA
/r/TheRedPill31/03/14 04:05 AM
4

Ah yes. He can read PowerTalk, but he cannot write PowerTalk. Women must find him terrifying.
/r/TheRedPill31/03/14 03:58 AM
7

It's hard to counter NAWALT with logic, because it's an emotional argument that resonates so strongly. I mean, OBVIOUSLY all women are different! This one likes hummus and this one plays tennis! The thing is, the fact that superficial differences exist is then extrapolated out beyond all reason to encompass biological actions and responses that are all too predictable. Waste of breath, really.
/r/askTRP31/03/14 02:30 AM
1

You aren't leading. You're giving ultimatums while allowing the status quo to continue. Essentially, that's making threats you don't have the balls to follow through on. You're leaking respect all over the place. If you're going to continue to see this person, it's going to be on her terms — if at all. I'd say next.
/r/askTRP31/03/14 02:11 AM
3

Had a LTR do that vague "you need to contact me before I do something to myself" thing when I broke up with her. Called her parents, calmly informed them that there were hints of suicide in her communication, and hung up. Best thing to do — that's what family is for, not ex-boyfriends.
/r/askTRP31/03/14 02:04 AM
1

Shh! Don't erection-pee all over a perfectly good story. Tales like these take me right back to the schoolyard...
/r/TheRedPill30/03/14 02:05 PM
3

I dunno. I think I can relate. My longest relationships have been with 6s and 7s, my shortest with 8s and 9s. That hot goth girl with the pierced nipples who loved absinthe as much as cock was a huge bitch 99% of the time. The Scandinavian heiress wouldn't stop droning about how much she loved the pony her dad gave her. The German blowjob champeen loved cocaine and dicking, in that order. I guess someday they all might try looking/acting normal enough to try and land a thirsty husband. But man! …
/r/askTRP30/03/14 01:33 PM
1

Well, sure. Be the next Trent Reznor. Problem solved. Amused Mastery works better for the other 99.999999999%, though
/r/TheRedPill30/03/14 04:05 AM
8

Last-Minute Resistance. There's a sidebar and Google and Urban Dictionary, bro
/r/TheRedPill29/03/14 10:58 AM
3

Does she really have low self-esteem? Sounds like she has beta orbiters and alpha cock to me — two things that really boost a girl's opinion of herself. Only one with self-esteem issues is you, unfortunately.
/r/askTRP29/03/14 12:11 AM
3

Confidence comes from passing tests in life — making effort, taking risks and seeing positive results. Start small. Lift, get up a little earlier, trade some vidya time for some solid reading. Those little successes will help give you the confidence you need to pass larger tests.
/r/askTRP28/03/14 01:46 PM
5

I think it's sad. I mean, I could lay a lot of hate on anyone who would pay for or sell a hug, but...man. I'm not the type to knock a cup of pencils out of a blind girl's hand.
/r/TheRedPill28/03/14 03:40 AM
2

No more texts! Let her apologize.
/r/askTRP28/03/14 03:36 AM
2

You know, sex with my SO was amazing when I made it clear there were other women in my life. When I dropped them to focus on her, it became more grudging, infrequent, and less hot all around. If you do get married and remove yourself from contact with other potentials, don't be surprised when the sex dries up.
/r/TheRedPill28/03/14 03:28 AM
1

Mostly BS. I imagine that Penile Rap Radio has some worthy beats, tho
/r/TheRedPill28/03/14 03:13 AM
0

Bag of Skittles
/r/askTRP28/03/14 01:42 AM
8

Hit the rockets on your jetpack.
/r/askTRP27/03/14 01:23 PM
2

No problem. Take a break from girls. Work on yourself. Get up five minutes earlier, eat a broccoli, put the phone in a drawer and take a walk.
/r/askTRP27/03/14 09:03 AM
7

Cheer up! Let a smile be your umbrella
/r/TheRedPill27/03/14 08:58 AM
4

It's not going to happen. She obviously isn't sexually attracted to you.
/r/askTRP27/03/14 08:54 AM
1

Sure, but if you break down your position into emotional morsels they can understand, then the best case scenario is that they understand that you're an emotional wet blanket just like them. A single tumbleweed blows past the vast desert you've just turned her vagina into. Great.
/r/TheRedPill27/03/14 08:53 AM
2

She introduces you because she sees you as an acceptable loser for her loser friends. If she saw you as having SMV she'd be fucking you and doing her best to guard you as closely as possible.
/r/askTRP27/03/14 08:36 AM
25

Can I get some tartar sauce with that NAWALT? Thanks, sweetheart
/r/TheRedPill27/03/14 03:24 AM
1

Like so many things, it is what you make it.
/r/TheRedPill26/03/14 12:41 PM
9

Absolutely. That's the reason I think there's something in our relationship to salvage. RP is helping bring back attraction.
/r/TheRedPill26/03/14 12:12 PM
3

Not worried. Obviously she's curious and wants to poke through your FB. Just ignore it.
/r/TheRedPill26/03/14 10:55 AM
41

Honestly, mine is comforting and supportive when I've had a bad day. Hot meals, back massages, cups of tea... And a dry vag. Hey, not her fault.
/r/TheRedPill26/03/14 09:26 AM
41

Totally. I hear you. I broke down and cried during a tough period with the SO — after we'd gone a month without sex. Think she jumped on the stick? Hell no. Crying is not sexually attractive to women. The "good" reason doesn't matter. Dude is free to cry all he wants. No better time than a death of a loved one. But if crying moistened panties we'd be cutting onions before heading to da club
/r/TheRedPill26/03/14 09:20 AM
8

You lose frame. You show you can't take a joke. You show that you are hypersensitive about your age. Just say "I've seen things a girl your age wouldn't believe..." Then give a half-smile and go jerk off in the walk-in.
/r/TheRedPill26/03/14 02:31 AM
1

Kettlebell swings! Great for hourglass shaping.
/r/RedPillWomen26/03/14 01:14 AM
3

Yup. Sad, but hardly surprising. Alcoholism is part of the attraction. I know my SO wanted to sleep with me way more during my one-bottle-a-night phase.
/r/TheRedPill25/03/14 03:08 PM
1

Huh. Sleeping with other women really helps guys break the previous pair bond.
/r/TheRedPill25/03/14 02:50 PM
1

Sure. The good news is that all of your good points are relative to the woman you're attracting. While you likely couldn't make ALL women feel protected, you could make some woman feel protected. No woman is going to love you for your bad points. But as long as you develop your good ones, you'll be able to build attraction with women.
/r/TheRedPill25/03/14 11:01 AM
1

GFTOM? Interesting. Did it help? Did you feel less connected to the other guy afterwards?
/r/TheRedPill25/03/14 10:53 AM
3

Of course they like you for who you are! They love the way you take care of your body and appearance, your confidence and charm, your sense of humor, how safe and protected you make them feel. They love how making money is effortless and magical to you. They love your drive and your passion and your muscular forearms. That is you, isn't it?
/r/TheRedPill25/03/14 08:52 AM
2

No! No no no. You do not want to go out with someone at your company. What happens when you break up or have a fight? What happens when she gossips about how you cried during Frozen? What happens when you fall in love, get married, and then see each other EVERY MINUTE OF EVERY DAY? There's no good endgame from this one.
/r/askTRP23/03/14 11:32 AM
2

Doesn't seem fair, does it? The more money I made, the less my SO wanted my stick. RP changed the game.
/r/TheRedPill21/03/14 03:42 AM
14

Wait. Did you want to have sex, or not? You complain about her sex drive, and push her off you when you actually have sex? That's not beta or alpha. That's confusing.
/r/TheRedPill20/03/14 08:18 AM
1

Cook a single portion, eat it in front of her, flash the peace sign as you exit
/r/askTRP20/03/14 06:07 AM
18

Even with all the cellulite, most of these non-photoshopped women are definitely less fat and hideous than 2/3 of the American female population. Which isn't saying very much, is it?
/r/TheRedPill19/03/14 01:52 PM
11

Sure, I guess. Would depend on school policy. My workplace has a strict no-dating policy for current students, and frowns on the dating of former students. Remember that word does spread, regardless. Schools are small and incestuous places and I don't shit where I eat.
/r/TheRedPill18/03/14 02:32 PM
24

Deployment can cause huge dread for a SO. I think this is a great way to deal with it. You either look fantastic for the man when he returns, or you're in great shape for the next guy. Self-improvement is selfish behavior that benefits everyone.
/r/TheRedPill18/03/14 10:51 AM
43

I teach. Sometimes girls. Sometimes girls who look at me while touching their necks and giggling and scratching their wrists and touching their hair... Not worth it. When you put your dick in, they talk. Seen it happen. Then you lose your vacation and health care and paycheck. It's a massive ego boost when you make them wet for you, but that's a good place to draw the line. Unless you're on the way out. Good thing to do before you hit the jets on your rocket pack, I guess.
/r/TheRedPill18/03/14 10:45 AM
1

Moonrise Kingdom is a great coming-of-age movie with plenty of RP truth.
/r/TheRedPill18/03/14 06:12 AM
1

Sure, I hear you. My 30+ friend does a lot of rock climbing. He's had good luck with local groups that are specifically geared toward his interests. Are you near a major city?
/r/TheRedPill16/03/14 02:55 AM
1

It wasn't a careless suggestion. I'm not saying you'll be spinning Deadmaus at 80 years old while your knees knock beneath your jorts. DJing can get you contacts and friendships with a ton of interesting-yet-older people. Producers, artists, designers, promoters, bar and club owners and managers, entrepreneurs . . . and any other professional that happens to like music and drinking. It's fine that it's not for you, but I'm well into my 30's with no shortage of good friends who are still up for f…
/r/TheRedPill16/03/14 12:44 AM
-1

Learn to DJ. Become your own center of attention.
/r/TheRedPill15/03/14 01:43 PM
3

Roger that. I was in a similar situation with an ex-plate. Dropped the plate, told the friend. Said I didn't mind but that he needed to know. He didn't love hearing it, but he respected me for telling. They had a few lunches, and that was that.
/r/TheRedPill13/03/14 08:29 AM
35

Melinda should have no trouble finding a fine replacement.
/r/TheRedPill12/03/14 10:20 AM
0

You're right. Maybe if you wash the dishes a little more the burned-out lights will turn back on.
/r/askTRP12/03/14 04:55 AM
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