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Huffnagle · 2014-07-03T03:07:51+00:00

Who cares? Get her out as cheaply as possible! Don't look back

[deleted] · 2014-07-03T04:40:16+00:00

Should I tell her to come and pack them herself and tell her that I'm glad that she signed because she doesn't deserve me?

No. Just pack her stuff and give it to her. You don't need to say any of that stuff. It just makes you look pathetic, like you're trying to validate yourself. Just give her her stuff so she can go. If she tries to start any sort of argument once she arrives, answer everything she says with one word. Then move on.

CrimsonCapsule · 2014-07-03T03:51:19+00:00

Doesn't matter at this point. Get her stuff out of there as quickly/cheaply/easily/legally as you can.

Personally, I wouldn't want my ex traipsing around my place to look for "her" things.

pupplenupple · 2014-07-03T06:34:29+00:00

Pack her stuff, if you have her pack it she'll pack some of your stuff too for sure. She'll probably want to check over the house to see that none of her stuff is left behind.

Don't go making any sort of fuss or trying to make any sort of point. She's going/gone. You stay stuck in the past or you move on. Making trouble just to make a point while she's trying to get her shit together to do the practical stuff of moving out is counterproductive. What do you care whether you make your point to her? You should be thinking about the future.

Title	stuck
Author	Kratos76
Upvotes	1
Comments	4
Date	July 3, 2014 2:59 AM UTC (12 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/askTRP
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