Their was a time (and thankfully because of archives, we can still look back at that time) that the RP community, and this sub as a whole, had useful information that men could use to elevate their life and dating prospects; now many RPers are debating marriage odds with Only Fans models, defending podcasters who have no idea they exit, and debating gender dynamics with (and to the annoyance of) every person they meet. We've strayed away from the real problem and concept:

WOMEN ARE NOT THE ENEMY, SOCIAL AWKWARD MEN ARE

The reason why so many RPers are stuck and essentially being labeled as incels both on and offline, is because redpill is solely teaching a mindset- a GREAT mindset at that! But the issue at hand is that mindset and intelligence are two different things, and many RPers are NOT socially intelligent.

Women are correct when they say you're creepy, weird, or awkward because you actually are. You're not socially intelligent, and they can feel it, they can sense it...above anything else, women are intuitive creatures that can feel everything. What they say is not necessarily always inherently "right", but it's correct because it's how they feel, and how they feel is...correct.

Think of redpill as the keys to a motorcycle. Motorcyles are fast, edgy, and arousing, but they can also be EXTREMELY dangerous. Driven too fast or out of control, and motorcycles can cause serious and long-term damage, even death. The best way to mitigate this risk is to become the best driver one can be. Essentially, we need to improve our social intelligence, ability to read social cues, and understanding of social cues in order to truly reap the benefits of redpill.

How do I improve my social intelligence?

Let's be real here-most of us are in this sub because our life is lacking in one way or another. A lot of us are on the spectrum, socially awkard, or simply unattractive/overweight.

Before social intelligence is even worked on, anyone that's truly RP needs to make sure their appearance is in the process of being maxxed.

Gym at least 3X a week trying to become physique. Secondly, hop on a skincare routine. Acne happens in our teen years, but the sooner you can hop on a skincare routine the better. Some of us have blackheads and scarring, so save your coins up and see a dermatolgist- same thing goes for haircuts- I'd say at least every two weeks. In terms of style, I understand that baggy, vibrant clothes are in style right now, and some girls like guys who wear loud colors, "fashion girls", but I personally feel like dark, fitted, (even skinny fit clothing if your buff) is the best bet for you. It screams masculinity.

Therapy- Not understanding social cues is the hallmark of autism, but many people without autism have issues understanding social cues due to processing issues, anxiety, women don't care what it is, they just wanted it fixed. An occupational therapist can work with you on how you process information, how you understanding social cues, and your brain functions as a whole. It's like a workout for your brain.

Speech therapy is actually slept on due to the fact that many men get rejected simply due to their voice. Their voice might drag like a gay guy, or sound too high pitched and/or raspy. A speech therapist can actively work with you on changing these habits and reaching your goal (a deep voice with a lot bass- chicks love this)

Sleeper- Acting Classes

Acting classes can be a great way to get out of your comfort zone, and actively practice social cues. It's also a great way to meet liberal, theatre chicks. A lot of aspiring actresses are really hot.

Psychiatry- Some of us have issues, related to attention, impulsivity, or even hallucinations, that are so severe, medication is needed. While I am a fan of alternative medicine, if your mental issue is affecting your work or even freedom, please do not hesitate to take some medication.

Read/Study/Watch Psychology-

The Rational Male and The Art of Seduction are just two of many great resources out there to understand gender dynamics and how to game your relationships/ potentials. There's also some great books out there on pick up artistry along with general social skills to improve all types of relationships.

I think that all of us can benefit from studying the greats. I like to watch the Sopranos and analyze how Tony Soprano speaks to people, the gentle yet affirmative nature with women, and the commanding demeanor with men.

Meditate

Above anything else, only YOU know the feedback you're receiving, and ONLY YOU can truly figure out what's needed to calibrate your results. If 5 girls called you creepy, are they really all Western World bozos, or did you not realize that "smile" was an awkward, "leave me alone" smile and not a "hey take my pants off" smile. If people say your'e annoying, have you thought to yourself, "hey maybe I did bring up the new Halo update a little too much last night".

RP content is amazing, but understand that you need to come to the RP party prepared, with a gift for the birthday girl: savvy social skills and a six (NOT SKINNY) pack.