This woman at my work has been talking to me. I think she is cute but I'm definitely weary of dating someone at work.

So,when I'm in the office cause I dont want to get "me too'd" I act just friendly and basically not sexual at all.

This girl has asked me to hang out and given me her number. We started talking and she told me she basically thought I was a shy guy that needed a little encouragement. Basically hearing this makes me throw up in my mouth.

These women would rather think that they are too hot or intimidating or that the man is a beta or too shy to get his dick hard and go talk to them and ask them out etc.

It makes me sick when she told me that I explained to her that no, I am extremely careful at work because it is a delicate situation to navigate and I dont want to fuck up my life's work and wellbeing.

It was almost as if she never thought about it that way... So it got my thinking, I bet you that's what the majority of the women( I work in a company that is close to 80% women in their 20s and 30s) think. It really opened my eyes up to the parts of me that i shut off when I'm at work and in the corporate world....

I know all the risks but this post is about solipsism and what women actually delude themselves into believing. I mean think about it. I have a pretty high kill count, if women think I'm a shy guy who needs encouragement just to ask her out.....imagine what she expects out of what she seems a "real man" or like a chad?

Thoughts