I went daygaming with my friend yesterday, and I am amazed at this guy. He is a total natural. He is fun and charismatic and free flowing. A great person to have in my life.

Well when he goes out and approaches women, he does it simply to have fun. I've seen him in action and it is incredible. He has a quick wit, sharp intellect, and fast thought process. So women naturally gravitate toward him and his approaches are brilliantly successful.

My biggest observation from him is that he has no objective. When he is talking to a woman, he doesn't care about her number, and he couldn't care less about seeing them again. Rather, he does it just because he finds it fun and hilarious.

Too many of us go into an approach or a date or a Tinder conversation with an objective in mind. We want her number or the lay. But the best, the naturals, do not have objectives when they engage in these activities. Rather, they do it because they love doing it. They enjoy the process. They are not in it for the results, and whether or not they get results 100% of the time doesn't matter.

tl;dr Become free of any goals when engaging with women, do it just to have fun.