Why do my beta cuck boyfriend refuse to acknowledge my future Chad's baby?

where_muh_good_mens · 2018-09-01T04:52:53+00:00

Redacted: Dual Mating Strategy

Emphasise OP:

The thing is that depending on the law where you live it may be possible for you to marry Jay, and to disappoint FWB and not to have him involved

Will definitely be looking into this because that would be so much better.

And also:

Your boyfriend also need to pull his head out if his ass and realize that this is a situation he can not hide from.

I’m trying so hard to make him understand how much stress this is putting me under. It’s to the point where it’ll almost be easier to just leave him.

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We’re not currently living together so it’s easy to keep him at arm’s length.

What is happening is that her FWB is the better man. She was being emotionally coddled by her current BF, but "miscommunication" usually means she was hard to get along with. In other comments, it says she has a career and makes good money, so "single motherhood would not be a problem" (lol). Anyways, she wants to keep her emotional tampon (BF) around to take care of her and the Bull's kid.

These kinds of situations usually find sympathy among people and those relationships subs because from the surface, it just appears to be an honest fling, where the primary couple mutually agreed to break up. Everyone has free will, right? Well, technically yes, but she also had feelings for her current BF, and she got drunk to have sex with the Alpha, so it wasn't just a consensual adult fling, it was her finding some other qualities in another man that her current BF doesn't have. The drinking was just to reduce her inhibitions enough to enact on those feelings. She doesn't want the kid to be her current BF genes, because she thinks he is emotionally attached to her, and its just revolting.

He is static that I’m having “his” baby.

Do you see her intentions, "his" in quotes? She really wants it to be the other mans baby, she says so herself, "I can do this on my own. I wish he would take a hike. I keep him at arms length. My FWB would 100% take care of the baby." Her contradictions are obvious. She needs this baby to be the real man she desires.

But, be careful about how you see the current BF; this part explains everything:

I told him about the one night stand and he refuses to talk about it. Every time I try to talk about the baby possibly not being his, he shuts me down and says he doesn’t want to know anything I did while we were apart.

That dude is playing A-Game psycho mind tricks on this bitch. Isn't he all for her and 'loves' her soo much, and wants to take care of the baby, and just has shut in feelings for her 'wild adventure apart'? No. This guy needs this bitch to be on board with raising this child, because he knows if she thinks he isn't going to stick around, then that will seriously jeopardize his ability to influence his kid and raise him the right way. But, if this kid is some other dudes, he is high-tailing it out of there faster than a suped-up camero on the auto-bond. This guy knows whats up. His bitch is a fucking cheating whore who is trying to cuck his ass and he doesn't want any part of it. Instead, he just reserves all his anger for the decision that is going to be made once he finds out. He is just keeping her in the dark about this, that is all. She is out there playing checkers with his mind, and he just moved Bishop to her King, forcing her to move Queen directly in sight of his pawn. The only problem is she has all the cards right now, until the decision is made, but his pieces are all set, waiting for her move. Brilliant. Bravo Jay, bravo.

LawyerInTheMaking · 2018-09-01T06:57:53+00:00

> I found out I was pregnant soon after and started panicking because me and Jay had unprotected sex the same day we broke up so it was only a few days in between the two.

and

> Jay came back into my life 3 weeks ago and we both realized we love each other too much to not give it another try.

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This is female love, fellas. Doesnt matter how long she has been with you, 5 minutes with Cad is worth more than love and commitment from you.

Ultramegasaurus · 2018-09-01T08:19:13+00:00

This is cuckold culture.

CcyCV · 2018-09-05T15:22:58+00:00

This is a stupid bitch! She’s having commitment thrown at her from both men and she’s complaining... would consider it laudable if it wasn’t so funny

escalover · 2018-09-01T12:32:07+00:00

Oh my God, what a fucking dumpheap of a human life.

"We were trying for a baby, and we were having unprotected sex. One day we'd just finished up a romp between the sheets but our communication skills, lol, we broke up and he moved to the city. That very same day, lol, go figure! I ran into an old FWB and had another romp between the sheets with him while my now-ex's semen was still coagulating around my cervix. LOL I got pregnant, ha haha! IDK what do now, guys please help."

kevin32 · 2018-09-01T08:14:00+00:00

Was anyone else having a problem reading the archived link with the black marks splotched across the page?

Thanks for posting u/NeedSomeMilk. When archiving links of reddit pages, replace the "www" with "old" so that the page is readable. (Example)

talk_show_ghost · 2018-09-01T10:06:59+00:00

What a dumb bitch. How can you just let yourself be led around through life by your impulses like that? Her “dumb mistake” means another innocent kid in the middle of a shit situation, probably without a father.

houseoftolstoy · 2018-09-01T17:19:04+00:00

Some very bad signs that she is a terrible woman:

-Not knowing who the father is of the baby -Being irresponsible and having drunken sex spontaneously outside of a committed relationship -Having an FWB in the first place at any point in life

A side note regarding the last point, I would never be involved with a woman who was previously had a FWB. That just tells me she would not be the type that would take commitment seriously. I would never commit to a woman who made it easier for previous guys to get sex from her. Same goes for a woman who has had one night stands. Since I don't have to worry about that sort of thing anymore, that is my advice for men who still want committed relationships even in spite of all the crap involved with modern relationships.

Westernhagen · 2018-09-01T19:18:00+00:00

Love this comment:

You need to tell jay that right now the focus is on the child and you need him to buck up and be mature about the situation.

(and other people telling her to tell him to "step up")

"Maturity" is getting cucked, wifing up a cheating whore, and paying for some other man's orgasm. Yay maturity!

She says,

He definitely wants to be in the child’s life whether it’s his baby or not

This mentality is totally incomprehensible to me.

Harry_Teak · 2018-09-01T21:06:45+00:00

The drama in this sordid tale is generated by the most unbelievable aspect of it. The Chad picks up and hoses down a former plate, finds out he may have impregnated her, and is suddenly quite eager to be a "part of the child's life?" While this reaction isn't impossible, it's certainly highly improbable.

Make the two guys vampires, she could release this as Twilight fanfic.

ocaptainmyadversary · 2018-09-02T05:25:02+00:00

They were trying for a baby on the same day they broke up? Dafuq?

VanityKings · 2018-09-01T22:24:03+00:00

Don't blame the slut for doing what sluts do.
The beta cuck loser is the dumbfuck in this situation; a girl WILLINGLY TELLS HIM she slutted it up and the child may not be his and he is wilfully pretending as if nothing is happening and decided to stay with the slut.
I hope the child is the FWBs, we don't need more bitch men raising future bitch children.

hollybegin · 2018-09-02T04:54:17+00:00

I found out I was pregnant soon after and started panicking because me and Jay had unprotected sex the same day we broke up so it was only a few days in between the two.

There's nothing more that needed to be said. Of course, not her fault, she was "super drunk".

It is becoming more and more obvious by the hour now that we need to stay as far away as possible from those overly corrupted creatures.

KoloGupta · 2018-09-02T06:09:29+00:00

He is static that I'm having "his" baby.

Men get static all the time. Taking on other dudes' kids brings happiness to our lives. Happiness is the most important thing in our lives.

Semi-competent grammar is a lot to ask for these days, but ....wow.

With the FWB, it was a drunken mistake.

There are too many "drunk" excuses for harlotry. The Holy Wine washes their sins away. Do they really all get plastered before jumping on random dick?? Seems more like they throw back two $15 glasses of wine, then the hamster instructs them that they're drunk.

It Just happened. We men suffer from the same ailment all the time. It's quite a nuisance when we're trying to enjoy a quiet drink at the bar, and some pesky random puss just happens to land on us.

I love how the immature "Jay" refuses to talk about the baby and is unwilling to grow up. His Peter Pan ass needs to man up and be a father to "his kid".

CiceroVoltaire · 2018-09-02T18:17:29+00:00

today's lesson: freedom and responsibility.

she may have learned actions have consequences, she admits it was a "drunken mistake"

Jay should have done the FWB too/instead.

TheImpossible1 · 2018-09-03T03:13:51+00:00

I'm disgusted.

I'm also sickened by those offering her advice on how to get him to stay.

Title	Why do my beta cuck boyfriend refuse to acknowledge my future Chad's baby?
Author	NeedSomeMilk
Upvotes	55
Comments	22
Date	September 1, 2018 3:44 AM UTC (7 years ago)
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