Women expect your absolute commitment, always. Whether you're in the mood or not. You however, may not expect sex ever. If she isn't in the moooooood, it's your fault and your responsibility to rectify. Then they wonder where are all the good men who will stay committed through the deadbedroom? 🤔

RolandDelacroix · 2020-03-01T21:13:41+00:00

Most men 'arent in the mood' to work 60 hours a week at a pressure cooker. They would much rather live in a small studio apt with minimal furniture and peaceful silence, holding a job that just covers their needs for little effort. Yet here we are.

Cristoff13 · 2020-03-01T19:38:01+00:00

Your orgasm is your responsibility. Her orgasm is your responsibility too. She's just a passive object apparently.

SoakMyBigCork · 2020-03-01T23:20:55+00:00

Reminds me of an old Joke:

Husband and wife are getting all snugly in bed. The passion is heating up.

But then the wife stops and says, "I don' t feel like it. I just want you to hold me."

The husband says " WHAT???" The wife explains that he must not be in tune with her emotional needs as a woman.

The husband realizes that nothing is going to happen tonight and he might as well deal with it.

So the next day the husband takes her shopping at a big dept. store. He walks around and had her try on three very expensive outfits. And then tells his wife, We 'll take all three of them. Then goes over and gets matching shoes worth $200 each.

And then goes to the jewelry Dept. and gets a set of diamond earrings. The wife is so excited (she thinks her husband has flipped out, but she does not care). She goes for the tennis bracelet.

The husband says "but you don 't even play tennis, but OK if you like it then lets get it.'

The wife is jumping up and down. So excited she cannot even believe what is going on. She says " I am ready to go, lets go to the cash register. "

The husband says, " no no no, honey we're not going to buy all this stuff." The wife face goes blank.

" No honey - I just want you to HOLD this stuff for a while."

Her face gets really red she is about to explode and then the husband says " You must not be in tune with my financial needs as a MAN!"

sleepyweaselisawake · 2020-03-01T21:00:37+00:00

"Do women truly enjoy sex in the modern era or are all the old stereotypes really true?"

They do, but not in the way men enjoy sex. Women chase their fantasies and become bitter when reality finally hits home.

50 Shades of Grey became a bestseller because it embodied the ultimate female sex fantasy. A millionaire Thunder Chad unleashes all kinds of sexual holy hell on a woman who has all of the depraved fantasies she never knew she had fulfilled.

It's the perfect allegory for how women view sex. They want men who know how to read every subtle hint and cue without having to make an effort. Like every other aspect of their lives they're passive participants who complain when they don't get their way.

loneliness-inc · 2020-03-01T18:29:20+00:00

Alright guys, I know this is a bit fringe. However, 1. It's the weekend and 2. The topic of female sexual desire is an important one.

The harpies in this article argue and bicker over female sexuality. Do women truly enjoy sex in the modern era or are all the old stereotypes really true? There are certain underlying things that they all agree on.

That female sexual desire is fickle and unpredictable.
That she's always within her rights to be as she is. Whether she's a sex crazed nymphomaniac or an absolute ice queen, it's your job to facilitate her desires and to be happy with what you get from her. You must meet her high demands if they're high and you must be content with the low volume when it's low.
If she isn't interested in sex or if the sex isn't so enjoyable for her, it's your responsibility to rectify.
She's a human being and you're a human doing.
You must always do what she expects from you, whether you're in the mood or not. She should never have to tolerate sex she isn't in the mooooooooooood for, just to keep you happy or to keep you from straying. You ought to be happy and never think of straying even if she cuts off sex completely.

Here's some additional reading.

The nature of responsibility.

Her impossible standards.

The story of the mythical HL woman who just yearns for her husband to touch her.

The warm home analogy.

Good men are not interested in drama, bullshit and mixed messages.

The common story of the dirty thirties, forties and fifties.

The juice isn't worth the squeeze.

Human beings and human doings.

The "horny" women of r/deadbedrooms who wish their husbands wanted them.

Honest_Solution · 2020-03-01T18:29:02+00:00

Women expect your 100% full commitment when they see you as “just a friend” or “like family”. Looking at, talking to, or going out with girls that are interested in you be dammed. Your job is to provide favors and be the pretend boyfriend to make guest appearances around town and at family gatherings, but no pussy for you. You won’t have time to go meet women that ARE into you because friendzone Fiona will keep you so busy doing shit for her while she takes cock from every drug selling Tyrone and Chad within a 50 mile radius.

DangZagnut · 2020-03-01T18:21:44+00:00

Women want 110% of your money, and 0% of anything else.

They don’t demand you fuck them in a divorce, just your money.

If you’re stupid enough to get married for sex, enjoy sleeping alone in the bed you made.

the_cheddar_man · 2020-03-01T18:40:57+00:00

I don't want to live on this planet anymore, fuck this shit im out... imm head out

ZlayerXZ · 2020-03-01T18:31:24+00:00

And then, the “Good Men”tm was overwhelmed by a wave of goodness and kindness too good and too kind for this world, and in a last act of massive cuckery went away, too good to fuck, too good to reproduce, so he died and that’s where all the good men are? They are Death. Case closed.

Velvet_Hammer_ · 2020-03-01T22:19:26+00:00

She doesn't want to have sex with the BB she had to "settle for" in marriage. If Brad Pitt walked in the room, every single one of those complaining women would be doing bedroom gymnastics reminiscent of their college days. "God, this walking wallet I had to marry actually thinks I'm attracted to him! Sheesh!"

SeekingLevelFive · 2020-03-01T21:43:32+00:00

They are just as sexual as men. Just as men will ALWAYS be in the mood to have sex...with somebody they're attracted to physically, the same applies to the woman.

She's ALWAYS in the mood for sex...with an Alpha or Chad.

She's fickle in her sexual desires with anyone else.

mr_kuk · 2020-03-01T21:24:01+00:00

We're actually going against nature to want to have somebody that we love and have great sex with.

We think love and sex are great bedfellows, they're not... Sex and love on the carousel are mortal enemies. Bitch can't imagine an existence outside the carousel.

Dropping chemicals she can't spell or know the correct abbreviation for, now that's my kind of expert, the expert who expresses her feelz over realz! #EXPERT Tehe!

Testosterone is responsible for your sex drive, that's why you have the Madonna-whore thing of you know... they have this woman that they love on a pedestal but won't fancy her and then have sex with somebody else... that they don't love.

One of the bitches said "wow" and she actually beat me to, but my wow has a dropped jaw as well and I'm still flabbergasted. This ~~dumb bitch~~ expert sees the behavior of Chads and applies it to all men. No man ever has sex with a woman he loves, which is her experience of love and sex after god knows how many years on the carousel.

Tracy Cox is not half bad looking and she is... now promise no to laugh... no not a slut, I mean yes a slut but she is also... A SEX EXPERT! Take a look at her blog and even with how she has aged, would you not smash? I'm asking your dick, not your rational brain.

Tracey currently lives in Notting Hill, London and is married with a step-daughter.

Not for long, it's just his turn. She can squeeze in a couple more rides before they throw her off.

She claims that sex mother nature turns off sex after a while in a relationship and then does a 180 and gives us "Great sex starts at 50". So, the catch 22 of the slut life is: either you get married, watch your sex-drive die... get murdered by mother nature... or remain an eternal slut and have great sex well into your 50s.

But... logically... your eggs have all dropped and you've passed menopause. I mean, menopause, if anything, is mother nature's definitive murder of your sex-drive. Mother nature is condemning you to not have anymore sex. Most women experience menopause before or around 50 where mother nature dictates that your vagina is useless, this is based on your own logic, Tracey.

But I digress. My logic is worse than rape. I guess I just hate all women and long for the good old days of patriarchy. WHY MUST I BE BIOLOGICALLY AND IRREPARABLY PROGRAMMED TO BE A MISOGYNIST?

RRFdev · 2020-03-02T02:39:22+00:00

This is the reason I refuse to get married. Ever.

True story. I attended a mixer dating event once, where they had an activity where one person writes a question (anonymously) and the other random person has to answer it.

I wrote on a card. "Is sex important in a married relationship?" And some typical past her prime career lady who was randomly picked to answer the question replied that she's too old to seek relationships for sex now, all the while as she gives a passionate speech about money, safety, security and stupid shit like that.

A career lady, seeking security, lawl. You'd think women who could take care of themselves wouldn't seek relationships for money. Having money just drives them to enact dual mating strategy even more.

just-one-more-joe · 2020-03-02T00:10:10+00:00

The relationship is only at stake when the woman isn’t happy...this is the way it ALWAYS is until the power shifts. One of the things I love about this sub is the fact that it categorizes women coming to that realization. They write about it so eloquently. But it’s all the same...we dont have power over men anymore and we don’t know what to do now.

tosernameschescksout · 2020-03-02T07:24:18+00:00

I think women's victim complex and lack of responsibility is derived from their terrible lack of autonomy. They don't do things, things happen to them. They aren't an actor, they are acted upon (by her choice).

So what does that say about sex and being in the mood? That can only happen when a guy PUTS her in the mood. She can't be in the mood on her own... of course not, she lacks autonomy. She lacks the bravery and motivation required to do, think, feel, or say anything on her own. How many women have their own opinions? They follow group think instead. What does she want to eat for dinner tonight? She can't even decide that, and will demand that you decide. If you also cannot decide, then she's angry at you (even though she also failed to make a decision). See, you're in the wrong, always. Not her.

Bottom of the line here is that YOU are responsible for putting her in the mood or not. She's always a victim of circumstance. Here come the dead bedrooms, and of course, the men are always to blame for everything.

It's rare to find a woman who isn't offended. It's rarer to find one who doesn't actively blame her offenses on men.

Of course, if by some miracle, a woman is in the mood for sex. She better get it quickly or she'll go fuck someone behind your back. That happened too many times even in relationships that took years to cultivate and become that intimate. If a man isn't in the mood, then she is offended.

Of course, if a woman isn't in the mood... well, that's her right. You're an asshole if you're offended by that. But she can be super offended. She can just cheat on you right there, end the relationship, bitch to all her friends, whatever. There's no rules, no morality, no accountability. Men aren't allowed to not be in the mood, not for any reason. It is inexcusable.

What a win for double standards!

Aldabruzzo · 2020-03-04T14:32:17+00:00

From the article:

A woman has claimed many females tolerate sex to 'keep their relationships' and see it as an 'obligation' to prevent their partners from 'straying.'

In the post, she continued: 'But these women submit, for want of a better word, to their partner for fear they'll stray or see it as their obligation.'

She's right. Most women have sex with their husbands for exactly this reason: Out of duty and obligation. They don't really want sex with their husbands. They do want sex. Very very much. Just not with their husbands.

a second penned: 'Such an outdated view that women dislike sex and just do it to keep men happy. Dated and sexist.' (Emphasis mine)

First of all, that's NOT what the first woman said. No one said women "dislike sex" and do it only "to keep men happy". The assertion was women dislike sex with their husbands and do it only to keep husbands happy. Second of all, as I said up there, the claim is demonstrably false. Women love sex with attractive men. Women have sex with attractive men to make themselves "happy".

The problem here is women marrying men they don't really want and aren't really into, and then refusing those men sex. Well, no. You can't do that. You marry the guy, you fuck him.

Because, you see, the reverse is unacceptable. We can't have men marrying women they don't really want to support, and then not supporting them. Well, no, we men are told. We can't do that. You marry the woman, you support her. And you will be forced to support her on pain of severe financial penalty and perhaps even incarceration.

You have money? We will take it from you. You have savings accounts or checking accounts? We will empty them and give the money to the woman who divorced you. You have a job? We will garnish your wages. You have a car? We will repossess and sell it to pay your financial obligations. You have a house? We'll attach it to judgments against you. A drivers license? We'll suspend it until you pay (never mind that you now can't drive to your job, causing you to lose your job, causing you to fall further and further behind in your obligations.).

And if you don't pay or cannot, you're in violation of court orders and the court will hold you in criminal contempt. The penalty for contempt is incarceration until you comply. So now you're in a catch 22, a no win situation: You are in jail because you did not comply with court orders. But you cannot comply with the order because of your incarceration: You cannot work, because the court put you there for disobeying the order. And because the court put you in jail, you cannot work, and therefore cannot comply with the order. Your only hope is for someone to pay the obligation for you, or take out a high interest loan to pay the obligation so you can get out of jail and hopefully start working again so you can now pay off your high interest loan AND your continuing obligations to the woman who left you.

Godsaves777 · 2020-03-05T05:27:12+00:00

Makes me glad that my girl is always horny. So when I get horny she only lasts about 20 minutes before go time lol idk if all Indian chicks are like that but it would explain why there's so many Indians! 😂

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