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[–]laffytaggy 5 points6 points7 points (1 child) | Copy Link
[–]NiBBasBeCrazy 5 points6 points7 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[–]SuitablePerformance325 points [recovered] (7 children) | Copy Link
He's already asking you to plan shit? Girl. This is the time he's supposed to be impressing you, and this is what he comes up with? He's got his best behaviour on right now and he's till looks like a damn clown. Drop his ass, don't employ scarcity mindset with men and, don't justify behaviour for literal strangers. You're looking for quality, not to waste your time on another typical lvm.
[–]laffytaggy 11 points12 points13 points (6 children) | Copy Link
[–]SuitablePerformance313 points [recovered] (5 children) | Copy Link
I wouldn't accept activity dates anyway. They use them as a bonding tactic, when you go through something with someone even a date you emotionally attach with them. Dinner dates are easier for women to vet men and it's harder for them to put on an act.
[–]laffytaggy 6 points7 points8 points (4 children) | Copy Link
[–]SuitablePerformance38 points [recovered] (3 children) | Copy Link
He should ask your preference, especially if you have food intolerance and other things. He should of all the planning and show initiative but asking you what type of food you like is par for the course. His plans should be with you in mind afterall.
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[–]SuitablePerformance32 points [recovered] (1 child) | Copy Link
Food and places to go are nowhere near the same league. He's pushing off the planning onto you, completely different. I'd give the handbook another read.
[–]laffytaggy 0 points1 point2 points (0 children) | Copy Link