I’ve been talking to this guy super casually for a couple months (we’re both busy people so we just talk when we can/feel like it). He works in the medical field so he mentioned at the very beginning that he didn’t feel comfortable going on a date until he got the vaccine.

Now here we are, and our first date is tomorrow. I’m so nervous. I haven’t been on a first date in so long, and my last “relationship” was one where i hate to admit it, but I was desperate for his attention and not being a high value woman. Now I’ve taken several months to heal and work on myself before I seriously got back on the dating wagon, and I feel like I’ve been doing well with our interactions so far. but i’m still very nervous about the actual date.

I don’t know what to talk about! I don’t have an issue talking to people when I get past the anxiety of meeting someone new, but I’m worried I’ll get too in my head and not have anything to talk about, or get the nervous chatters and overdo it and babble.

I tried googling conversation starters for first dates but they give the worst answers. I don’t want to come off too strong by asking anything personal, but I don’t want to be all “sooo whats your favorite color?” Lol. Help!