I have a knack for attracting and dating narcissists. They usually start out love bombing and I want to make sure that's not what's happening with this new guy. He "surprised me" by being in town (he gave me 2 days notice, he lives 6 hours away). Our 2nd date was last night and he picked me up. We had dinner then planned to go to the beach afterwards. We get to the beach and he whips out a couple of card games, wine, 2 diff types of liquor, soda, water and a dozen cupcakes. Then when he was driving me home, he starts telling me he wants to build towards a relationship with me and was like, "Are you in? Are you sure?" Jeeezus, this is literally the 2nd time we've ever met. This is too much, right?