Hello! I am a 19 year old girl who never had a boyfriend. It's hard to date men and trust them, naturally. But the thing is that whenever I try to date, men/LVM will always try to talk me into doing sexual stuff. I ,of course immediately leave but it's hard to shake off the fact that men/LVM see me as blank canvas of thier desires. They try to mold me into something they'll like. Another example is that a 35 year old dude told me to work on my stomach and build an ass. I was so irrationally offended and blocked him. Some men will try to manipulate me into a relationship and then they'll try to mold me. It's sickening and exhausting. I only want to be intimate with a guy who truly loves me. So ladies please give me tricks and tips on how to avoid men who'll try to mold me or see me as a "blank canvas"