When a man feels incomplete he seeks out a woman who has everything he doesn’t so he can benefit from her. Is this a toxic trait? Like seeing a strong intellectual woman and thinking i want that woman to be the mother of my kids. Doesn’t it feel kind of objectifying? Like him viewing the future mother of his kids through the lense of how useful she might be not finding someone to be your equal partner? Or is it, before i pour my love and protection onto a woman, i want to know she’s HV and capable of raising my kids?