I thought I should ask this here as well because although this girl is a plate, i am seriously considering her for LTR material because she's good, she never denies sex, she cooks cleans and treats me like a king when I visit her.

She is away from me for a few weeks with her family. She texts a lot, i don't respond much, then she turns it sexual about how she's touching herself and thinking of all the things i do to her and what not.

Frankly personally I find these texts kinda lame, I want the real thing, and while she's trying to drag me to tell her sex stuff, or what we used to call "cybersex" years ago, I just tell her she'll find out what I'll do the next time I meet her.

I also don't want to video skype or such, who has time for that shit. It's either real or not to me. No time for blue balls. I am also extremely busy.

Is this the right way to deal with it? she's been trying to initiate this stuff three nights in a row. She's going nuts. I somewhat worry that she might get fed up and think I wont satisfy her? is she used to betas hungry for sex talk on text?

Am I shooting myself in the foot here by not being graphically sexual on text? I just don't see the point!!!