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The question is - are you good? Is your relationship good? Mods and ME's, you've been here the longest. Are you good? I'm good, just getting started. Sonogram soon and I'll find out if my first child is a boy or a girl. Gave my girl a ring, so now she is my fiance. Just nesting right now and dealing with pregnancy and baby prep. The thing that gets me is - Is it really that bad for you guys? I mean, people kill themselves, or pull a murder-suicide over shit similar to what we see here every week…
/r/askMRP12/10/17 08:04 PM
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She of course flips out and then turns on me saying "Why aren't you more upset"... Your apathy about losing it and not wearing it for over a month seems like a passive-aggressive bullshit metaphor for how much you care about your marriage to her and likely life in general. She sees it, I see it. Losing it is one thing, shit happens, but a 14k gold band costs $100-200, a sporty silicone one is $5, and by being unconcerned about wearing one and not caring to replace it you are making a statement..…
/r/askMRP29/09/17 05:52 PM
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Came across this the other day. I think it ties a lot of things together, it covers a lot of familiar ground with a lot of explanatory power. Apparently there are a few other models of arousal as well that may be applicable. http://www.tandfonline.com/doi/pdf/10.1080/009262300278641 The following are all quotations but will be in normal format for legibility, I urge everyone to check out the article, the figures are especially interesting. After reading, I think it clarifies the MRP recognition …
/r/askMRP21/09/17 06:22 PM
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You and your wife live a risky, sexually adventurous, apparently mutually satisfying lifestyle. Good for you. If you can watch your wife have an orgasm with another man as equally as you can look her in the eye while you give another woman an orgasm... That sounds like a fetish. Which is fine, I'm not kink-shaming you, but you should know better than to assume everyone should share your kink. Your relationship works because you and your wife apparently do share one though, no different than a D/…
/r/MarriedRedPill20/09/17 05:02 PM
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The question was literally about expressing "love" in a RP reality, so I don't feel it went without saying, "love" probably being intrinsic to "humanity." You reminded me of another point: Men love women, women love children, children love puppies I suppose that means it is right and expected for us to love women, as long as we have healthy expectations about their reciprocity.
/r/askMRP14/09/17 03:05 PM
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she feels real love. RP or BP, she does likely feel what she thinks is love right now. It may not be the lofty version of love that your BP self had, but it is likely close. At the very least you should feel comfortable saying she loves how you make her feel, and the way you treat her, and appreciate that a little, because there are women who wouldn't "love" you for it. We know "love" is subjective because for some unhealthy/dysfunctional women "love" is treating them like shit and abusing them,…
/r/askMRP14/09/17 02:42 PM
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Hey man glad to see you are still here and improving and staying accountable to yourself! Literally turns sideways and tries to leg press me. You should be really proud of yourself for not getting too upset about that and handling it how you did. It seems like that may be indicative of a lot of progress and introspection on your part. It certainly sounds like a hell of a frame test, like she is trying to push you to become angry. Is your more calm and masterful demeanor a challenge to her? Histo…
/r/MarriedRedPill12/09/17 06:53 PM
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Just gonna restate some take-aways that are easier said than done--showing insecurity, anxiety, and stress are low value, but hiding it is toxic, so just don't be insecure, anxious, or stressed.
/r/askMRP11/09/17 10:02 PM
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I appreciate all the work you do over at askTRP, so I know that you know your shit, and you've obviously been introspective about this. then had pretty wild sex afterwards. On the surface level, doesn't matter, had sex. The bratty behavior might even be able to be considered foreplay. punctuality...being on time... im extremely stubborn in the sense that i like things to go according to MY plan On a meta level, you were stressed and vulnerable and dependent upon her enabling our plan and she fed…
/r/askMRP11/09/17 09:31 PM
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A few weeks ago, I hired a new employee...So in the last 3 weeks she's doubled down on her boundary...I know I am a pussy for not just taking one of these opportunities to inform her of my most recent hire...I’m wondering if I should just wait Sounds like some passive-aggressive bullshit, and that is how your wife is going to see it since you can't even take responsibility for your own hiring practices. She knows you hid it from her to avoid reprisal, which makes reprisal certain. The ol' "If I …
/r/askMRP11/09/17 08:59 PM
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That's over. I've checked back in...I am working on myself to be better. I think of almost nothing but how can I fix this.... I'm just about at the point of saying that she has to admit that there is more going her than just me and that she has to work on her own problems or I'm done. I'm afraid to do that but I don't see any other way at this point. These two statements are mutually exclusive at worst and cognitive dissonance at best. You can either talk her into acting better so she can make y…
/r/askMRP11/09/17 08:01 PM
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https://www.reddit.com/r/askMRP/comments/620ldc/need_some_advice_on_how_to_respond/dfj23fp/?context=3 Also, I don't think just me being a better man is going to make her face her own deep issues. You can't make her do it, but living in her shitty frame makes it worse. If you were attractive and healthy with a healthy frame, and she lived in yours, things would likely be better. You probably did have a frame and attraction initially (hopefully something made you date/marry her besides savior/mart…
/r/askMRP11/09/17 07:43 PM
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therapy with her Before my divorce my ex and I went to a pretty based therapist for counseling, went together once and then I saw her solo. Anyway, she saw the writing on the wall and said something to me I haven't forgotten. Don't you think she wants an equal?" Now, we here at MRP know that she would prefer someone with a higher SMV/MMV, but I understand if a counselor can't say that. Anyway, I wasn't her equal. I wasn't as committed to bettering my career, I wasn't owning shit around the house…
/r/askMRP11/09/17 05:23 PM
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Yeah, missed a comma or two there. You can chat up 10 women in an afternoon just going about your life, practicing and calibrating, with zero consequences, but you might only get a couple chances to chat up your wife in an evening before you get shut down somehow or a spergy attempt backfires and you have to live with it instead of just being able to walk away.
/r/MarriedRedPill11/09/17 02:11 PM
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Enter the world as a sociologist studying the people you meet. This isn't bad advice for the spectrum people among us and dovetails nicely with: Cynical Implentation MRP for Engineers To learn and calibrate you need to watch and practice. You need to do this outside of your house where you might feel the stakes are too high and don't have as many opportunities for game.
/r/MarriedRedPill10/09/17 09:22 PM
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Thanks for the advice, and I'm on the same page. The last two weeks have been dry though, and the encounter or two before that didn't involve PIV, and I don't expect much improvement until after week 12 later this month, or maybe even until she sees it on the ultrasound. This is likely the longest stretch I've had since well before my divorce several years ago, I'm still being me though.
/r/askMRP09/09/17 02:07 AM
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I was glad to read this. You seemed damn close to this place two months ago. I hope you have really forgiven yourself, and know that all your actions led you to where you are now, the previous step enabling the one to follow, even if it was a step backwards or to the side, you crossed the chasm.
/r/MarriedRedPill08/09/17 09:18 PM
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Just have to keep leading from the front. Previously I was trying to work in something about the usual good advice to "live like you were single (but with a dependent in this case)"...but I like this much more, but with the consideration that your buddy on your six is gut-shot so you're gonna have to drag him along a bit and every-once-in-a-while tell him everything is going to be okay, you're gonna get his ass out of this kill zone and he's gonna make it home and yes of course you swear on your…
/r/askMRP08/09/17 08:35 PM
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My gf and I both notice and appreciate attractive people who look well put together (or attractive people who fucked up today) and we compare notes. Maybe I need a shirt like that guy, maybe she needs to try that hairstyle, maybe his outfit is okay but his shoes are trash, maybe we just like their look. It is MUCH more rare to find a man worth mentioning, (not that many women are either) which to her affirms my value, reinforces her appreciation, and satisfies her hypergamy.
/r/askMRP08/09/17 08:14 PM
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We're now deep in the first trimester. Whenever she's being less than ideal I just remind myself that I put a parasite inside her that I would have to pay two strangers $100,000-$150,000 for an egg and a surrogate to do otherwise, which makes me appreciate her and what is involved a little more and be more patient, besides the shitty stuff like puking all the time, going to the restroom every hour all night, feeling hungover, not enjoying food, none of your clothes fitting right (and having to s…
/r/askMRP08/09/17 07:57 PM
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https://www.reddit.com/r/marriedredpill/comments/478ye2/wife_admitted_she_uses_sex_to_try_and_control_me/d0biqpm/ Decent place to start.
/r/MarriedRedPill08/09/17 06:04 PM
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Some normal excuses that popped into my head: She decided the juice wasn't worth the squeeze at the moment, or you stepped off the gas after the uptick last month and so she decided that was good enough for another six years or so, or with four kids in the house she goes through cycles where she doesn't want to have naughty stuff in the house for them to find, or she goes through cycles where she doesn't like her body. The real answer as far as you are concerned. Purchasing her lingerie is negot…
/r/askMRP08/09/17 04:47 PM
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it's not worth wasting precious screen real estate I submit to the nature of this sub; if a post is harmful, valueless, or stupid, then it should be deleted; if it is validation seeking then it should be deleted. What does or doesn't get BP panties rustled shouldn't be a consideration though, nor if it is myth, if there is a good lesson to be learned. Is Skittles Guy a myth? Is a "Pook" a real creature? Does OP exist? Does it matter? There are a lot of solid metaphor posts here with warnings and…
/r/MarriedRedPill08/09/17 04:02 PM
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Someone posted a long mea culpa last night from a throwaway. Again, who it was (or if it was "real") didn't change my point. I'll mention he did say he went rambo but dialed it back, and to his credit, said he was lifting and owning his shit. He claims his woman found his history in the midst of a disagreement and so she snowballed.
/r/MarriedRedPill08/09/17 02:02 PM
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can you actually show me an example of a woman giving a balanced account where she's half bitching/half praising like that? Every woman in the world who thinks about dumping her bf but hamsters herself out of it. Literally every one. r/Relationships is probably full of them. God he's such an asshole and XYZ, but I love him, and he got me that bag of skittles one time. Throw in almost every woman who decides to respond "yes" to a 2AM text, dating, engagement, or marriage.
/r/MarriedRedPill07/09/17 08:23 PM
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why would I take anything this woman says as anything but hamstering? You shouldn't, and my post works just as well with that consideration. Her hamster should work FOR YOU, not AGAINST YOU. Gosh, this place is full of shitty people talking about shitty stuff, and I don't like what he has been sharing here very much, but Stephen sure has been happier the past six months, and now that I think about it, I have been too. He's lost weight and put on muscle, he does more than his fair share around th…
/r/MarriedRedPill07/09/17 07:53 PM
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What part is dumb? Filter it through her and then back to him.... One night he kind of hinted that he wanted sex, but it was vague so I flat out asked him. His response, "Only if you're into it. No sex is better than bad sex" "I was gaming and being subtle and used innuendo but was getting some push back and wasn't down for the starfish she was going to hand out, OI, DNGAF." Started dressing up and insisting on leaving the house for weird reasons "I started displaying high value and had shit to …
/r/MarriedRedPill07/09/17 07:36 PM
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I've said it before multiple times, the wave of shit talking that commences is fun to ride for us both, and I'm not counting the bedroom-moments when she has her leash and collar on.
/r/MarriedRedPill07/09/17 05:45 PM
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This was in 1986 and she finished her last one at about 7am today. I'm so sorry to hear that OP, at least she died doing what she loved. Sounds like you had a good one, may she rest in peace.
/r/MarriedRedPill06/09/17 02:17 PM
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I operate at dread level 8 all the time. Agreed, "Level 8" (talking to women in public) is just being a normal, healthy, functioning, attractive person.
/r/MarriedRedPill05/09/17 08:45 PM
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primary caregiver for my children... no income due to shelving my career to build hers...full time househusband the last four years while creating and running my wife's (successful) business for her from home...bullshit verified by professionals. Dude, minus your drama bullshit (ER suicide visit, DUI, smashing the house) where you fucked yourself, you have a locked and loaded divorce with alimony, child support, the house, the business (hell it is YOUR business), half the shit, back "pay" for th…
/r/askMRP05/09/17 07:40 PM
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One of the MRP basics is, after an affair, even if you think you want it to work out, file for divorce. This triggers her respect and genuine loss aversion. If she wants to do the 180, this is how you get it. Not filing for divorce and pussyfooting around is a DLV and you are worse off than when the affair started. You don't have to go through with it, but either you get genuine remorse and improvement, or she shows you how ready to leave she is. Both good things. That is my take from a previous…
/r/askMRP05/09/17 06:09 PM
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The rest of the night was off and it kind of killed my mindset going into the following day.....Right now I'd be thinking about how flawless my wedding was, instead of thinking about the shitty speech whenever I recall the weekend. You can't seriously be that fragile? Moral of the story - it's a long, long road out of fantasy land and into manhood. Be conscious of frame as often as you can. Hope someone can take something from this. Fuck your moral though. New morals: Always comparing yourself t…
/r/MarriedRedPill01/09/17 10:01 PM
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The rest of the night was off and it kind of killed my mindset going into the following day.....Right now I'd be thinking about how flawless my wedding was, instead of thinking about the shitty speech whenever I recall the weekend. You can't seriously be that fragile? Moral of the story - it's a long, long road out of fantasy land and into manhood. Be conscious of frame as often as you can. Hope someone can take something from this. Fuck your moral though. New morals: Always comparing yourself t…
/r/TheRedPill01/09/17 07:38 PM
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Two points to remember: Doesn't matter, had good sex Yeah, we get into each other's heads here at MRP, but the ultimate goal is to get out of them. To have the value and frame and attractiveness and harmony of mind/body/purpose to NOT fuck around with mind games or have to live in our own heads. I don't call upon the proverbial "Chad" very much; but he doesn't give a fuck. He doesn't need to weasel, he doesn't need to second guess or ruminate, he doesn't care about your chess game because he's g…
/r/askMRP01/09/17 02:58 PM
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Did someone say "score?" https://www.reddit.com/r/askMRP/comments/4clb60/had_a_fight_last_night_help_me_parse_it/ https://www.reddit.com/r/askMRP/comments/4g4tcm/finding_the_right_balance/d2gstqp/
/r/askMRP01/09/17 02:25 PM
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Is this me actually being a dick about the situation or her reaction to my weak/nonexistent frame That is really fucking self-aware statement and you should be proud of that. The second instance is correct. You had something that you wanted to happen, and asked mommy-wife to make it happen, e.g. handle the timing/logistics/planning, which she rightly balked at. Don't you know how hard I work, and I don't have time or inclination to think about timing and traffic patterns and blah blah blah ya kn…
/r/askMRP01/09/17 01:25 PM
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Everything Is good besides the little stupid shit she wants to make an issue of. To some extent, this never stops, and you don't want it to, it means she doesn't care or have the emotional energy to invest in you. Obviously big or serious things need to be addressed, but when it is truly stupid little shit, have fun. What changes is that it no longer negatively affects you, and you see it as an opportunity to play with her and tease her, emotional waves to ride on, opportunities to banter and ha…
/r/askMRP31/08/17 07:26 PM
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H 5'11", W 259.6. Good chance this is like 85% of your problem bro. Don't go Rambo expecting her to appreciate and respect you, or hop on your dick, until you can see it yourself. Knowing what you know, once you're 200lbs it is likely shit is just going to start falling into place for you. At 2lbs a week that is 30 weeks. RemindMe! March 29, 2018 "ask u/Crossed_the_Rubicon how good it feels to be getting blow jobs again"
/r/askMRP31/08/17 06:18 PM
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We sprinkle lentils and quinoa into lots of shit, there is no avoiding it in my house, it is in the fucking mashed potatoes. I cook an 8-10oz filet mignon pretty often and my gf splits it with me. If your wife is so hardcore she turns down a filet then god bless you. Premium beef jerky is the same way, if some is around after a workout it gets demolished. Your local luxury grocer has frozen sushi grade tuna.. Take it home and slice it up. Don't know anyone that can turn that down either. I can't…
/r/MarriedRedPill31/08/17 05:57 PM
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I see you had some optimism a month ago with your first post. But this "victim puke" doesn't even warrant the motivational ass-kicking that you wanted to elicit and that you hoped would influence you to take your journey seriously and make the changes you needed in your life. Looking back, has that ever work on you? Why did you think it would now? I'm not angry, or disappointed in you, and certainly not hopeful. Your post just portrays apathy, and so I'm apathetic. This morning I got fired If th…
/r/askMRP31/08/17 04:36 PM
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Be safe, be blessed, find a Waffle House.
/r/MarriedRedPill31/08/17 04:33 AM
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realistically, I'm with her maybe 6-7 nights a month....We already spend most of our time apart...We don't share finances, we don't live together, over the last [11] months or so she has mostly stopped initiating sex That doesn't sound like my version of an "LTR", that sounds like a #1 plate or friend with benefits that eventually ran out of steam, and a 40 year old unmarried woman with kids knows the damn score, stop fucking a guy, and he should leave; you didn't, so she finally had to kill the…
/r/askMRP31/08/17 01:14 AM
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I met my future wife when she was still in high school...Fiance is away for 3 years...I've fucked her over a couple times...Our sex life has died out https://therationalmale.com/2011/09/23/wait-for-it/ https://therationalmale.com/2015/03/24/betas-in-waiting/ https://therationalmale.com/2013/12/03/saving-the-best/ https://therationalmale.com/2012/05/11/coquetry/ too busy to give me much attention...addicted to social media and too busy for me...what is love worth? https://therationalmale.com/2011…
/r/askMRP30/08/17 06:59 PM
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We haven't had sex since a miscarriage, which was a few weeks ago A dead baby (fetus, clump of cells, whatever) fell out of your wife's vagina. She likely had to have a D&C, which is literally the same thing they do during an abortion. That can fuck people up. If she hasn't had a meltdown yet then that means it is likely yet to come. Until then (and likely after) expect shutting down, emotional distance, avoidance etc...sex with you made a "baby", and that "baby" "died", and she's likely going t…
/r/askMRP30/08/17 02:53 PM
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taken in hand I remember coming across that and googling it during my pill integration phase. Interesting how similar a few of the accounts are to some of what we see here at MRP considering the original website is from the early 2000s. I liked the spanking part (and have always spanked as foreplay occasionally, and use leashes and collars occasionally). So if you wanted to try getting into some of that, that is the safest place to start I would think; spanking as foreplay, then once you are att…
/r/MarriedRedPill29/08/17 05:52 PM
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HELIOC or cash-out refinance the house to buy the time from her, at least on paper for the calulator. $20-40K lump sum for a locked 50/50 for 7 years. If the house appreciates that much you technically break even. When the seven years are up one of your children will have aged out of CS and another will only be five years away. Just spit balling.
/r/askMRP29/08/17 03:15 PM
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It is calculated on overnights per year right? So they are figuring (2 nights extra per month X 12 = 24) which takes you from an unpenalized CS payment to a penalized payment ($800). Give her more of what she wants during the school year within reason, in return she gives you enough summer and holiday overnights to compensate the calculator. That is how many people seem to do it.
/r/askMRP29/08/17 01:53 PM
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The biggest difference between these women and western women are three things: 1) They have a strong desire to find “their Right Man”. Educated, smart, attractive women with careers find life is not meaningful without husband and family. 2) What they require from a man is reliability, respectfulness and willingness to provide for a family. They want to be treated respectfully and well, but they definitely want to be treated like a woman. 3) They have no ambivalence whatsoever about being appeali…
/r/MarriedRedPill28/08/17 10:19 PM
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Pre-MRP: Shit tests bring you into her frame, she always gets what she wants, you always capitulate, likely some of her only feelings during the day are righteous indignation and superiority, reinforced by her treatment and shit testing you. Early MRP: STFU makes her go cold turkey from drama, you are no longer falling to her frame as much, her righteous indignation and superiority feel more tentative--if not more furious, less likely to always be getting what she wants. She is likely not happy …
/r/askMRP28/08/17 02:46 PM
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My sister is married to a woman. Lesbian bed death is real. Stigma, fear, and anxiety surrounding bisexual women is real. My sister is valuable, takes zero (0) shit, her frame is impenetrable, and she acts like me and her other brothers, which is likely part of why she still has a great sex life with her partner. If you act like platonic best friends forever, you're going to be best friends, great. Unfortunately, women feel weird about their best friends sitting on their face. If you embody the …
/r/askMRP28/08/17 01:36 PM
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I've read Tomassi You sure? https://therationalmale.com/2014/03/16/preventative-medicine-part-i/ I should also add here that, there are incidents of women who, for some condition or circumstance opt out of their party years. Either their socioeconomic situation prevents it, or an early, unplanned pregnancy, or for religious convictions, but whatever the reason they move past this phase without a sense of having capitalized on it. In some respects this may seem to be a better choice than riding t…
/r/MarriedRedPill25/08/17 09:07 PM
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You can fight hypergamy, you can hedge your bets, but it still won't keep you safe. You say you've read Rollo, remember "making up for missing out?" That 21 year old virgin is going to be a 30 year old hottie with a man in his 40s, and she's only had ONE (1) dick in her life, and you can't be sure she won't start resenting you and bail, especially if she wants kids and you don't want anymore, or you ever let yourself slip. If it was just something on your bucket list I'd say go for it, but you m…
/r/MarriedRedPill25/08/17 08:50 PM
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What happens when you get there? Now you have two adults, two cars, and one baby...how did you improve the situation? Your wife knows she'll be fine, that is why MIL is doing the texting: Wife: Mom! I will be fine! MIL: Oh Nonsense, you shouldn't be driving this much, make your husband come get you, that is what they are for, here, I'll text him.
/r/askMRP25/08/17 12:59 AM
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You're welcome; cheers.
/r/MarriedRedPill24/08/17 04:16 PM
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You're worried about her fucking a fun, flirty guy with a hobby; who isn't insecure and bitter and who doesn't resent her. That guy should be you.
/r/MarriedRedPill22/08/17 06:52 PM
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You know she is still likely to go right? The main point is for her to not think she has a bitter insecure man at home brooding while she is gone and who will be resentful and passive-aggressive for a week when she gets back, thus preemptively ruining the trip and make her feel like not going, which would be a pyrrhic and likely counterproductive victory. You could set an ultimatum and forbid her, but again, likely not for the best in the long term if you want to keep her, and you likely are not…
/r/askMRP22/08/17 06:20 PM
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So, tips: she very casually mentions that in a 3 weeks she is taking the afternoon off of work to go on a 4 hour kayaking trip and wanted to practice It hasn't happened yet. Women plan all sorts of shit that doesn't happen. Go do something else that evening without her (don't be a dick and pick something she's talked about wanting to do with you before.) These dudes are also likely nerdy, ugly, weird, whatever, which is why the girls decided they'd have more fun in the same kayak (lets assume sh…
/r/askMRP22/08/17 04:00 PM
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Some of my thoughts: Way more than before but still only 1-2 times a week. Sex was never my main objective, I wanted a better life. Rejection is basically zero and starfish is gone. A woman who has made these gains, and who is in this place, is expecting to feel good, not anxious, about her relationship. "I don't want to talk about it." This is code for "when I don't want to talk about something, you are supposed to drop whatever you're thinking about, or at least do exactly what I would want yo…
/r/MarriedRedPill22/08/17 02:38 PM
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I retract it, do whatever you want, just don't over invest in the idea that this is a flawless plan that will prevent hypergamy and you won't have to work as hard or ever be hurt.
/r/MarriedRedPill20/08/17 04:48 PM
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The mechanics of private marriage were not the problem. That's likely true. My gf is pregnant right now, and we are going to wear rings as well. Maybe we'll have a ceremony one day, maybe we'll eventually go to the courthouse, but the point is to provide the form, function, and appearance of a nuclear family for our children. Rings are pretty too though, and do have significance, so I shouldn't knock a guy for wanting to put one on, under whatever circumstance he feels is right.
/r/MarriedRedPill20/08/17 04:24 PM
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Yep, OP is just playing house to try to "tame" his woman's hypergamy with another invisible, ultimately meaningless, layer of "commitment." I’m not having children Easy to say, much more difficult to accomplish. There was a guy who posted on TRP like his shit didn't stink about a year ago, did the same thing, privatized marriage, took every precaution, made this bitch jump through every hoop, so when she cheated on him and he took off his ring, I think it ironically hurt him MORE, because he was…
/r/MarriedRedPill20/08/17 03:54 PM
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My father, and his father, and likely his father believed thoroughly in: Life sucks, and then you die. I never heard "just be yourself," but I heard "death and taxes" numerous times. I love my father, and maybe he modeled masculinity for me or something, but maybe that is what some percentage of disillusioned, fatherless men are missing a little...realistic expectations, that life is hard and unfair, that empathy and respect can't always be expected, that if you want something you have to earn i…
/r/TheRedPill18/08/17 07:48 PM
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No. Her reward is spending good times with you doing shit YOU want to do. i.e...You have your frame, she decides to enter it, she is rewarded..positive feedback. Paraphrasing some BPP and Jackten here: Every day is a new day, a reset, you play your nice card first, erase the scoreboard, because once the scoreboard is gone, it is easier and more fun to play.
/r/askMRP18/08/17 02:54 PM
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To take it a step further, we need to identify more small things in our day that we can do to perfection, things we're particular about, things we like "just so," things we have a preference about, things our partners can do our way to add value "because that is how I like it." We got here by taking it easy and going with the flow and not having convictions about things. Have those convictions, act on them daily, let your convictions overflow into those around you, let them pick up on them and m…
/r/MarriedRedPill17/08/17 07:38 PM
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Shit I'm always late to the party
/r/MarriedRedPill17/08/17 07:27 PM
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I think this is fine, but it is dynamite, and there are few legitimate uses for dynamite, the rest are needlessly dangerous or frivolous, though the potential for "fun" (in a dark triad kinda way) is undeniable. Kinda like his last post, if your wife just needed a little push to GTFO, you don't want give her one, so you need to be attractive and valuable and liked to pull this off...i.e. worth mate guarding. I do this to a lesser degree. If she's going out of town I'll do a fist pump and feign e…
/r/MarriedRedPill17/08/17 07:25 PM
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I am familiar with a lot of occupations, medical and academic/educational and financial in particular, but those are the only ones I could think of that have a days on/off work environment. Well, linemen as well, and the national guard might apply, but I only know one lineman (apparently the post-storm sex is amazing, they don't spend much time together in general though either, always see them alone/apart) and I know no one in the guard. Anyway, that list only seems weird due to the filter appl…
/r/askMRP17/08/17 03:28 PM
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I was 22 she was 25 No valuable man with a good self-worth and a lot of options locks down a woman older than himself as soon as he can drink, sorry man, doesn't happen. It takes some sort of oneitis, nice-guy, savior, or scarcity mentality to do that. This ego your projecting and talking about her being a 9 back then is just you protecting yourself. You were a punk kid and you've paid for it ever since. Shed that and grow. away for a week for work and then have a week off Week-on, week-off is e…
/r/askMRP17/08/17 02:52 PM
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https://www.reddit.com/r/askMRP/comments/6qsorg/podcasts/
/r/askMRP17/08/17 02:16 PM
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I see you've posted in deadbedrooms. I imagine you've tried talking during the past ten years, how has that worked out? Why would it go different now that you think you've learned a few new words? Maybe try being a better person first this time, owning your shit, being valuable, being proud of what looks back at you from the mirror. You're trying to take a shortcut, and people don't see the value in that. To ask her what she feels, what she is interested in at this point in the marriage. YOU. FU…
/r/askMRP17/08/17 04:49 AM
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4 fucking days ago u/matrixtospartanatLV replied to you with a comment that gave me fucking chill bumps considering his short journey so far. All the active mods and handful of Red Berets replied as well. Now you're not being treated well? Because someone made a comment about your dog? Be better OP, I think you can.
/r/askMRP17/08/17 04:25 AM
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If you weren't already on third base this interaction would not have gotten you to home plate, but you are, so it did. She playfully probed/teased you for insecurity and doubt, she expected and wanted you to pass, and you did, but not well enough for a Same-Night-Lay or other normal pleasant or fun experience because you took her seriously and shut her down instead of taking it lightly and playing with her. "I've got more power than you?" Really? More like "Power into my panties now please!" But…
/r/askMRP16/08/17 07:17 PM
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Great stuff in here, hope this thread stays up. I'm proud to be associated with you men.
/r/askMRP15/08/17 10:44 PM
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OP, you should be damn proud of yourself. Your GUT is leading you in the right direction here (saying no) and you are listening to it. You are ahead of the game man. Many men are so far along they don't have a gut instinct anymore, or have tuned it out, or have killed it from swallowing their bile so often, or they are so twisted their gut leads them in the wrong direction. But you have a good one, and can hear it, and heed it. Imagine what can happen once you know you are valuable, once you hav…
/r/askMRP14/08/17 10:14 PM
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I can't help but feel there is a sizable group of adherents who have deluded themselves TRP is a toolbox for a better life, instructions about how sexuality works, but your reality isn't everyone else's, your project isn't the same as their project. Plus, you don't necessarily need to read the instructions to use a saw, or know how to calculate torque to use a socket wrench. Some people just need a flat head screwdriver, and they didn't even need the toolbox for that, a butter knife would have w…
/r/MarriedRedPill14/08/17 07:05 PM
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Surely you aren't that witless OP? That's right baby, I can't resist your feminine charms You're seducing me right now too right? Pretty sure I'm feeling something. Seduce me anytime Sometimes when the wind blows right I get "seduced" too. If by "seduced" you meant you bent that ass over and showed me that hot pussy to get my cock hard then yes you did. How are you going to seduce me tonight babe? If you're a little butthurt that by "seduced" she really meant "consented" then get over it, valida…
/r/askMRP14/08/17 05:35 PM
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Agreed, they both should be examined if one is, but if she is for sure ovulating they aren't going to do much on her end until more time passes and they offer IUI. If he has nearly moderate sperm count they aren't going to do much for him either really except wait and IUI. I would mainly want to confirm that she is having a good ovulation and all her hormone levels are normal during the process considering these can be handled with medications, after that the problem doesn't matter because IUI w…
/r/askMRP14/08/17 04:40 PM
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There is whole DIY world of at home at-home insemination apparently. Something else to look at is a Diva Cup, it covers the cervix so you can just fill it with sperm, tuck it in there, rinse, repeat. Apparently The Stork device is supposed to be single use.
/r/askMRP14/08/17 04:13 PM
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Medically, there isn't really a problem until you've gone a year of unprotected sex without conceiving. 86-90% of couples do successfully conceive in this time frame. You sound like you and your wife are in a good place, I don't see any reason to doubt her just genuinely wanting to be there for support. If she wanted to come along I would welcome her help in "producing a sample" at the office. If she wasn't down for that though I'd probably leave her at home. Personally, I'd take the pressure of…
/r/askMRP14/08/17 03:42 PM
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this bitch will get you to pound a couple more out of her probably. That's the plan, I want three, but if we can hit both genders in two I'll be content. I didn't get sperm-jacked bro, I knew she was ovulating and shot my load anyway because I knew what would happen and that is what I wanted. For me, that is a pretty big deal. I didn't make it well into my 30s, having sex thousands of times, without kids, by being careless, by being off my game. In fact, If you book-end this comment with my only…
/r/MarriedRedPill13/08/17 04:28 PM
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So were you just going along aimless in life and ended up in a relationship accidentally? If you have any RP background then you should have: Mastered the single life Great. So letting someone into your life who wants to be there and add value to it is easy as shit after that. Are you telling me you have years worth of TRP knowledge and lifestyle, yet accidentally ended up in a relationship where the woman runs your life and doesn't fuck you, and now you are having to dig yourself out? Really?
/r/askMRP08/08/17 09:09 PM
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EMT might be something to consider I would never recommend someone be an EMT. Never, not worth it, nope. Though I guess scraping people off the pavement and falling through the floor of shitty housing and manhandling obese people out of their bedrooms for the first time this decade might be more appealing than turning over old people and wiping their asses to some people. I agree on the bootstrapping though. 2-year nursing isn't even a thing anymore AFAIK It is an RN degree, which is still usefu…
/r/askMRP08/08/17 03:22 PM
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Man, the entire world is pissed off at the film industry for they way they treat the FX houses. You are as responsible of today's movies as much as anyone, yet get little compensation and little appreciation. So yeah man, that sucks. RE: Medical field. I come from a family of doctors, know doctors, grew up around hospitals. I'm going to let you in on: SUPER EASY LIFE MODE™ If you already have some gen-ed prereqs then great, the process will be shorter in some spots. 1) Get your CNA in one of sev…
/r/askMRP08/08/17 02:59 PM
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My gf and I are pregnant and ecstatic! I'm mid-30s and finally going to be a dad, assuming everything goes right for the next nine months. Two years together, she moved in with me this year, and this month we decided to have a baby. She has had a miscarriage before though so she has some worries, but my masterful, calm and happy demeanor has helped keep her head in the right place and she is happy to be on this journey with me. Granted, I think worries are natural and good as long as you can the…
/r/MarriedRedPill08/08/17 02:09 PM
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I don't know. Maybe a lot of it is unavoidable due to familiarity and desensitization? I know PUA/RP theory is that men need variety. But I think in a lot of cases resentment, baggage, performance anxiety, history of rejection/emasculation etc...play a large part too. I think it is weird how supposedly we can sexualize or objectify our partners, and yet not get a boner when they get out of the shower. What is the continuum? What mindset is needed? Is it mostly the hopeful expectations or novelty…
/r/MarriedRedPill07/08/17 01:40 PM
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That would have been ideal, and would have gotten him closer to youscum's comment.
/r/askMRP04/08/17 08:21 PM
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http://www.sofyclub.com/in/en/library/basic/images/library_basic_010_img_001.gif There's a difference between discharge and lubrication from getting horny. Implying I don't know that. Implying there isn't more of it, and it doesn't happen easier around ovulation.
/r/askMRP04/08/17 05:25 PM
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I've hidden this well the past year, but I've really been your gf this whole time, and I'm worried about all these trips you are making us take instead of finishing your thesis and getting a job. Those student loans don't last forever and you have to pay them back. Also, how am I supposed to lounge around and enjoy myself in a cabin knowing that all the shit we took is going to sit around in the floor all next week. Plus, maybe if I'm not there this weekend you'll have to take care of everything…
/r/askMRP04/08/17 05:16 PM
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I don't think this thing hinges on the jerk off AA, which wouldn't be bad, except it probably wasn't AA to her, she probably thinks you do sit around all day and jerk off. I've been working from home/coffee shops for the past three months finishing up my masters thesis She can't see your intellectual labor and thus doesn't value it. I mean, she might in an abstract sense, but not in anyway that gets you treated better or gets your dick sucked. Let's talk about the things you did: job searching a…
/r/askMRP04/08/17 04:49 PM
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women love desperation. Yes, sick, dysfunctional women with issues who need to control and domineer a man do. A desperate man does not earn attraction and desire, and it takes a pretty twisted sister to enter into a relationship without those conditions being met. Maybe "the wall" has enough impetus, but a healthy women with any options still couldn't do it, which is why relationships under those circumstances are dysfunctional. A healthy relationship is two people with options both agreeing tha…
/r/askMRP04/08/17 03:37 PM
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RP is only successful when applied to women who respond to RP tactics...If you find a woman who responds to purple pill tactics, or love languages or whatever - apply that method instead and you'll have more luck. You're either buying into some parody of what the RP is actually about, or paying too much attention to people "complaining about bad marriages" and forming your praxis from that. There is only one word for people who don't want a self-actualized partner, and the word is "dysfunctional…
/r/askMRP04/08/17 02:46 PM
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When I'm full of resentment and butthurt, or in my own head, I can't even get my dick hard, and if I can't get my dick hard I definitely don't feel like having sex. Sometimes being a man is weird.
/r/askMRP04/08/17 02:21 PM
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You've cheated on her in the past though, and had the potential to recently... Are you just not attracted to her right now? Resent her too much? Her attitude (which you have posted about recently) make you feel like less of man and thus not very sexual?
/r/askMRP04/08/17 02:11 PM
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She's upset from some bullshit at work. You go into fix-it mode because you think that if she's in a bad mood you are not getting any tonight. You probably get her more worked up and now she is either pissed off at you for trying to logic away her feelings or unpolarized by your gay-best-friend routine. Good job. Much better to do a little active and positive listening as you be your normal awesome self and pull her into your frame instead of diving into hers and trying to fix it.
/r/askMRP03/08/17 04:59 PM
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Bland, Pinterest wall-art level quotes and advice; same stuff posted to every motivational/self-improvement sub; links to OP's YouTube channel; 99.99% post karma and no comment karma. You are not a member of this community or any other. You are a moocher trying to monetize our members. I might have watched the video if it wasn't filmed so shakily and right in your mole covered face. Tripod Backup A couple hundred dollars to remove those moles would boost your SMV 2 points. Yes, this is a reflect…
/r/TheRedPill03/08/17 04:25 PM
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Fine OP, lets take this all the way then. She is "masculine" and will never be the woman you want to be married to. Will never treat you the way you want to be treated. Great. What now? You okay with that?
/r/askMRP03/08/17 02:57 PM
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A friend group of single women want their group to stay single for drinks and brunches, commiserating about the dating life, day trips to places etc.... A friend group of women in relationships want their group to stay in relationships. Neither have much use for the odd outlier who isn't living their lifestyle. My married bros back in the day sat around in one of our garages, grilled, played xbox and drank beer and played with kids while our wives drank wine in the kitchen. We didn't have any us…
/r/MarriedRedPill03/08/17 02:11 PM
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I'm glad you're leaving, couldn't happen to a better guy. Don't come sneaking back around with an alt either, and no lurking! I look forward to this day myself. Enjoy it man.
/r/MarriedRedPill01/08/17 08:17 PM
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With the majority of people being overweight, being fit is the new privilege, an upper class available to anyone who wants to be a part of it. A six pack or a nice ass is worth just as many likes as a Bugatti or stacks of cash on Instagram and FB, but only a couple hundred people a year can get a Bugatti.
/r/TheRedPill01/08/17 03:31 PM
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Being afraid of your own taste (especially during ovulation when it tastes so good) is a self-esteem, shame, sex-positive/body-positive thing IMO. Hot sex with lots of attraction helps too. I dated a girl like that and by the time we broke up she was tasting herself while she masturbated because it made her extra aroused. That said, everyone is different, always be consensual, you do you.
/r/askMRP01/08/17 02:13 PM
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We. found. love. right. where. we. are. But yeah, good observation. If I do it and she starts interjecting I get more and more ridiculous until she is wondering why the fuck she is commenting on whether or not I make a sex doll out of a punching bag and the always warm and fresh Mrs. Smiths pumpkin pie. Wonder if I have time to go to that place. Female opinion Yeah but I have to be in Vegas to accept my award for "Best Extra in a Bukkake Video" at 7PM sharp. And the invite says "Sexy Black Tie" …
/r/askMRP01/08/17 02:02 PM
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almost her time for her period Just for posterity, women usually discharge the most around ovulation. If I get my girl hot and bothered around then her panties look like they got slimed 90s Nickelodeon style and dry up hard and crusty like a cum rag.
/r/askMRP01/08/17 01:44 PM
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Great post. You took a difficult concept for the emerging confident cocky/funny man to internalize it made super easy to grasp and follow. Just want to add one more because we can't say it enough I love you I know Can't blame you I love me too I'm easy to love You just love this dick
/r/MarriedRedPill01/08/17 01:18 PM
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force multiplier Great usage.
/r/MarriedRedPill31/07/17 06:03 PM
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I get riding them hard and putting them up wet. I get owning the pussy. I get trying to break the pussy. I get hunger. I still think it is counterproductive for us to talk about sex like we need to be putting on a show though. Once something is a performance, then performance anxiety, disappointment, and anger are ever present dangers. So my comment was more for the 13,900 guys who read but don't comment than the guys here talking about their happy sex lives. I mention it, because I know I was g…
/r/MarriedRedPill31/07/17 04:55 PM
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Others may disagree, but I think this is a dangerous mentality. It seems to promote a scarcity mindset. It implies the man needs to be REALLY invested in the initiation and sex. How can you handle a "not tonight dear...," when you are gearing up for the LAST fuck of your life? I'll tell you how, shittily. When you're pounding it home and send your cock into her taint at the speed and trajectory used to send Marty back to the future, how can you handle that? Not with the good humor and patience n…
/r/MarriedRedPill31/07/17 01:37 PM
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Get on myfitnesspal and some workout app and run a challenge. Keep each other accountable for calories and lifting/exercise goals, If he trails off you get to tell you wife you tried to work out together but he didn't keep at it. Tell her there is no magic formula, but for you working out made you feel better and do better, and live better, and sadly her friend wasn't up for it. Whatever you do don't be responsible for the guys marriage. Don't feel bad if his wife schedules her trysts while he i…
/r/askMRP28/07/17 05:55 PM
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This is the only safe way I could see doing this. (Besides an anonymous Ironwood email or something). Ask him to work out with you. Ups his SMV, gets him out of the house. Honestly that is probably 70% of what he needs. Plus it helps OP too. He'll either puss out or become a decent acquaintance. I still would never come right out about TRP to someone that was "my wife's best friend." But I could drop some advice. You need a haircut man, women hate sloppy dudes. Ditch those Crocs man, Jesus. She …
/r/askMRP28/07/17 05:34 PM
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If you agree to the petition/complaint, and both parties sign a settlement agreement, and everything related to your case is public record online, and then the judge signs the agreement into decree, where do you get fucked? Plus you have a cashed check and proof of conflict of interest if shit goes south. It is HER lawyer filing, the judge isn't going to throw it out for extortion or duress. You honor, I typed this settlement agreement up for my client, and both parties signed it, and then I fil…
/r/askMRP28/07/17 04:28 PM
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I didn't look that far into it but I'm glad you did because this is an awesome comment. Of the traits measured, it looks like the sum of ST traits can overpower the LT traits though, especially during ovulation, which we know happens. What is really interesting though is what we know from MRP. A warm, faithful, good father, can get his wife back or keep her home by putting on a little muscle and being more attractive, putting some of those points back in his column. Add in a some slight arroganc…
/r/TheRedPill28/07/17 02:33 PM
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Go to a decent part of town (not the richest, think middle-middle class) with a list of lawyers. Make a list of the nicest offices from 1 to 10. Pick #3 on the list. Used Jaguar S-type, Cadillac sedan, or newer (not new) model American truck is worth an extra point. Old diesel Mercedes is worth two points. Bonus point for attending the law school of your largest public state university. If you are rich disregard my advice, but you can't be or you would personally know a divorce lawyer or two. I …
/r/askMRP28/07/17 02:15 PM
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There is a mountain of data and anecdotal evidence that women like intelligent long term partners, but either ignore or shun this trait when rating short term partners or ranking attractiveness during ovulation. So assuming all things being equal, an intelligent man would fair no better, if not statistically slightly worse, than a man of average intelligence for a same night lay, but would be more likely to attract and maintain an LTR. Since this is real life though, they are BOTH almost certain…
/r/TheRedPill27/07/17 07:43 PM
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Looks a lot like yesterday's CH post https://heartiste.wordpress.com/2017/07/26/women-want-arrogant-and-confrontational-men/ An important note is that when you see the actual data on graphs, many times it looks pretty distributed...meaning that there is a lot of individuality. It takes regression to find a pattern, and a lot of those lines are pretty flat, but get enough data and it is statistically significant. Take intelligence, the analysis seems to show that my intelligence would prevent me …
/r/TheRedPill27/07/17 07:15 PM
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Wasn't it more of a case where you could have cheated but didn't push it? A lot men are like: I would never cheat on my wife! Well no shit, they would never get an opportunity. You had the opportunity, but didn't, that is worth twice as much. And women are aware of that on some level, the loyalty of a lazy fat fuck is worthless, the loyalty of a man with options is actually worth something, if not a little anxiety inducing sometimes. You fight that anxiety with value and comfort.
/r/askMRP27/07/17 04:42 PM
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She knows you juice, she knows you're insecure and jealous, she knows other women would fuck you. I don't know what is new here other than you hang out on the "sexist" part of the internet?
/r/askMRP27/07/17 04:11 PM
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She's an on-again, off-again gf that has tolerated cheating, drug addiction, insecurity, mate guarding, not moving in together etc... Your SMV is high, and she tolerates your shit, good. She probably won't leave over this either. And even if she does, like stoney said, so what? It happened, you can't get on your knees and beg her to stay, if she leaves you'll move on and replace her.
/r/askMRP27/07/17 03:22 PM
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You sound like you don't want to be with her, yet you still date her and fuck her and act like her emotional tampon while living in this bullshit state of monogamous separation, which is likely one-sided by the way, she didn't leave without a backup plan. She is winning. She left you, yet you are still up her ass. I can't imagine the cognitive dissonance it is taking to spin this as a win for you. Cut the woman off, get on with your life, coparent your kid, get some plates, find a nice 20-someth…
/r/askMRP27/07/17 03:12 PM
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Being 100% shallow here. Because it makes the easily noticed muscle groups big and hard really fast, which gets you the best SMV bang for your buck and time. There are a lot other reasons, some of which may or may not apply, but like I said, I'm being shallow. Bulking/cutting is armchair bullshit right now until you start to plateau because those noob gains are super easy. If you can pinch an inch you are "bulked" enough to start. Lift, eat right post-work-out, run a calorie deficit, enjoy the t…
/r/askMRP27/07/17 01:47 PM
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"Let's just cuddle" and "just the tip" and "netflix and chill" are cliche because every 17 year old knows about them and occasionally they work. Some men forgot, some never learned. When I was on tinder it was "no expectations." For married men it is "no funny business, I mean it!" You missed a common RP term, but danced around it, anti-slut-defense. (ASD). I'm not the type of girl to have a quickie upstairs with the kids home, but I didn't "plan" on it, it "just happened," so I'm still not that…
/r/askMRP26/07/17 09:44 PM
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We all eke out our amusement where we can I guess.
/r/askMRP26/07/17 04:59 PM
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Some canon for you OP (read all the jackten comments) https://www.reddit.com/r/marriedredpill/comments/4do5hu/fitting_the_bill_for_my_wifes_birthday/ i.e. Do what you want, make sure you can accomplish it flawlessly without appearing "amateur hour," make sure your wife has no responsibilities for the selection, implementation, and outcome, and make sure you have no expectations about the reward for a job well done, because women smell that shit a mile away and it ruins the whole thing.
/r/askMRP26/07/17 03:30 PM
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Yes Sir? Anal does take time for me, because the girl has to be emotionally ready for an 8X8 plastic tarp and gallon of lube in the den. My size and penchant for petite women means anal just isn't something my partners and I can accomplish enjoyably without being blackout drunk or high (both not recommended for anal sex). Cute sparkly little butt plugs work great though.
/r/askMRP26/07/17 03:26 PM
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Thanks! And to answer your question I find it to be a hard balance to be attractive alpha without become too "worshiping" with acts of kindness, Considering we're in similar places, I'm just showing appreciation. She wants to show bonding, care-taking, attachment, intimacy, compliance, value...it is validation seeking, like us betas used to do. Except we don't resent her for it, we love them and appreciate them for it. We WANT that behavior. And it doesn't require reciprocity or deferral, it jus…
/r/askMRP25/07/17 08:29 PM
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When we’re out with friends she usually big ups our relationship and me… she may joke around in a self deprecating way, but normally doesn’t put me down in any way. I don’t get a lot of shit tests generally. So this is the only friend more driven/successful than you and that she thinks is on her level and that is why this the only time she has behaved like this? My gf is the same way. Talks us up all the time, because the better WE seem or I seem, the better SHE seems. Except around my cousin an…
/r/askMRP25/07/17 08:07 PM
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Fitness tests don't have to be "at your expense" or show someone is not "on your team." Getting them is an opportunity to play, to pass, to win. Especially relatively harmless ones. You remember being a kid? You go play with a group of kids and someone says "hey pussy!" You get butthurt and go cry alone, no ball, no team, no friends. What is the correct answer? "Your mom's pussy, I'm playing first base." Now you have a ball, team, and friends. And they WANTED you to pass, they were a player shor…
/r/askMRP25/07/17 06:54 PM
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That is really unfortunate man. I'm glad you both made it through and want to try again. I certainly understand your sentiment. All too often in the manosphere a pregnancy is a horrible thing, because the relationship or man is in a bad place, but it feels so great to be in a good place and want a child and a family. That is where my gf and I are right now as well. We recently stopped using condoms and are both acting like every money shot is a baby in the oven. You and I both know that isn't al…
/r/askMRP25/07/17 06:02 PM
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A socially intelligent extrovert (like your LTR) knows from experience that male bonding often revolves around giving each other shit and banter. I think she was setting you up... Me: (uncomfortably laugh it off) ...and then you wiffed the softball for some reason like insecurity, or maybe that is not you and friend's dynamic, but she didn't know that At least that is me giving her the benefit of a doubt. You addressed it this morning, and she was a little defensive but seems to have taken it we…
/r/askMRP25/07/17 05:26 PM
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Congrats on your life OP! Amazing how things can change in 10 months. You're due for a baby in a couple months right? So don't worry, the game is going to change. You will reciprocate and show support by being an amazing father and partner. You're a great man, soon you will have to be great at a lot of other things, and your edge will inevitably soften a little around your newborn, and that is okay at that time I think. Too often the woman has the baby, so she is the ruler of the baby domain, an…
/r/askMRP25/07/17 05:11 PM
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I don't do pregnant women, so the last few years have been once a month duty. OP a year ago.
/r/MarriedRedPill24/07/17 04:16 PM
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A) It is a sub that centers around the exact same stuff we do, the same posts sometimes, so it is essentially a sub about what I'm interested it or at least tangential to it. B) The satirical tone and mockery is lighthearted catharsis compared to the often serious attitude here at askMRP/MPR. After all, we're building men, marriages are at stake. Rarely do I feel like I can make a quick, easy, flippant comment. Usually it takes empathy, history research, and mental effort. So to be able to make …
/r/MarriedRedPill21/07/17 07:32 PM
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I can't decide it that was supposed to mean I'm less or more amusing than a mgtow. My vanity obviously says more, but my reading comprehension says less. Regardless, I'm happy to be in your feed and I feel pretty good about myself.
/r/MarriedRedPill21/07/17 06:57 PM
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no difference...but there is Right, and bitter people think those difference make women less than, when different is good! The most basic case, incels/foreveralones/young virgins have never had access to a vagina, so they hate vaginas, and make comments that basically degrade women for having one. No bro, women=good, vagina=good. Different, but good. Central to the pushback from women on "equality" is the notion that if men and women are "different," then they can't be "equal." And to be fair, w…
/r/MarriedRedPill21/07/17 05:50 PM
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It's amazing how if, you remove the branding and lingo, how palatable this whole thing is. Agreed. The issue is there are a lot of bitter (divorced/virgin/incel/dumped/badluck) people who can't talk/discuss this shit without letting their bitterness come through, so it sounds like they hate women or look down on them (excluding dyed-in-the-wool misogynists.) No bro, I love and appreciate women, the world would suck without them. They are just another sex, and we're trying to teach you about them…
/r/MarriedRedPill21/07/17 03:35 PM
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2nd wave MGTOW I spent some time back in the hood this week and that was a surprise to me. So many asktrp posters and trp commentators have some mgtow in their history (though one can hardly call yesterday "history"). I was also surprised when TRP had to issue the "doesn't fuck rule." God, to be 18 again and have the ignorance to theorycraft sexual dynamics with barely a gf to your name. I remember being 9ish and wondering which hole to stick it in, and reasoning that it must be the reciprocal o…
/r/MarriedRedPill21/07/17 03:01 PM
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couples I have helped toward reconciling (9 to date), 7 of them had filed first. Of those 7, only 1 was the woman filing first....of divorces that actually go through, it's closer to 75% where the woman files first I'd mine that for some truth and a post.
/r/MarriedRedPill20/07/17 09:13 PM
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women are somehow less curious and hence end up avoiding STEM Well, that is easy, it is patently false. If you had of said "computer science" or "engineering" then it would be accurate. It is also specious to base it on "curiosity" versus "from childhood males show a propensity towards interacting with objects, while girls show a propensity towards interacting with living things/people." Computer sci and engineering being decidedly in the "objects" category.
/r/askTRP20/07/17 08:55 PM
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Great list!
/r/askMRP20/07/17 08:03 PM
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I certainly understand, I myself am never explaining OKcupid data again.
/r/askTRP20/07/17 07:59 PM
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You seem smart enough to pick tenant and pull it apart yourself. Pick one, have a go.
/r/askTRP20/07/17 07:47 PM
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I'm pretty open minded, but you have the least RP, most fucked up posting history I have ever seen. I would pity your gf, but if you are this sick then she likely is too. I'm sure you heard TRP is about manipulating women so you came here looking for advice. Fuck off.
/r/askTRP20/07/17 07:44 PM
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I just wanted to understand others' perspectives better A lot of men do "get over it," though rarely will they not harbor a grudge until their dying day. When we get men who took a woman back years ago, we largely urge them, as you said, to get over their egos and move on. It raises your suspicion, it lowers her MMV in your case going forward, and maybe leaving should be on a finer trigger in the future, but you previously took her back and made this current life together so you are in a positio…
/r/MarriedRedPill20/07/17 06:41 PM
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Agreed. I urge OP to visit the purplepilldebate sub, where RP theory is argued all day every day by capable people on both sides.
/r/askTRP20/07/17 05:40 PM
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The biggest thing is that a lot of RP tenets, while discernible and anecdotally plausible, are based on evolutionary psychology, which is an immature academic field with a lot of criticism still finding its place, methodology, testability etc...with some sociology/psychology/statistics thrown is as well, all of which are combative fields in their own rights. This makes RP easily arguable, because in academia there is rarely a true consensus, so whatever "science" or "proof" is at the core of a r…
/r/askTRP20/07/17 05:28 PM
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the affair is making her feel sexual again and she hamsters it as: "Now I want sex all the time and it's igniting things with my husband again too! That is patently not how it works One of the most stereotypical signs she is cheating is the "blowjob out of nowhere," and it has nothing to with her sexuality. The only way to get the life and sex we want is genuine desire. NOT because: She needs to alleviate her guilty conscience Projecting her cheating on to her husband so she hysterically bonds T…
/r/MarriedRedPill20/07/17 04:04 PM
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I've a lot of chest hair and and quiet hairy legs "I've never really liked chest hair before, but I love running my hands through yours" - My new gf and all the other women I gamed after my divorce Get over it. Your confidence and game will make women rationalize or ignore [whatever] about you if they want to be with you.
/r/askTRP20/07/17 03:25 PM
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http://theredpillroom.blogspot.com/2012/05/dude-got-minute.html
/r/askMRP20/07/17 01:52 PM
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And to have Jackten devote so much intellectual and emotional energy to someone specifically over several threads...comments that have reached many men, but to not even have them penetrate the intended target. Fuck me that is special ed levels of density on shanter's part.
/r/askMRP19/07/17 09:15 PM
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I remember sitting up late one night while my (ex)wife was asleep, after a rejection. I was sobbing. And I said to myself, "I guess this is my life now, this is how I have to live." And I was fully intent on continuing living it in that fashion, I had never known anyone close who had gotten a divorce, as amazing as that sounds, people just didn't do it. I am so thankful my wife made me pull the trigger, or pulled it herself, whatever--or who knows if I would still be stuck there, when I would ha…
/r/askMRP19/07/17 08:26 PM
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Man, the casual shanter saga was one of the first ones I dug into. I made me really fucking sad when I saw that he posted a couple months ago still acting like he was in the same place as he was 2 years ago. God damn bro.
/r/askMRP19/07/17 07:02 PM
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Agreed. I was raised with beautiful, strong, successful, driven, intelligent women, and just can't be really attracted to less. The mistake I formerly made, was thinking that they wanted equal power and responsibility in our lifestyle and wouldn't resent me for forcing it upon them. Crazy right? Nope. They wanted me to have my shit on lock, and provide a safe, comfortable, exciting, sexy, attractive life that they could join and be a part of. OP isn't doing that, he wants someone else to gladly …
/r/askMRP19/07/17 05:51 PM
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No kids, thirty, an n-count of less than five, and a job, you could be a complete pussy magnet Ask me how I know this is the truth. I wanted to be back in a relationship pretty quickly though, and all those high-value women in their mid-late 20s were eager to please.
/r/askMRP19/07/17 04:49 PM
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Been there bro, it sucked for a couple weeks. From college to 30s, no kids. Same deal. Thankfully I had enough pride and common sense to immediately know it was over, and the abundance to know I could replace her with better. We were divorced easily and amicably the day after the minimum waiting period was over. You need to know that too. You've been replaced. You don't have to deal with this shit. You have no reason to stay. Grieve your relationship a little, but know that it only gets better f…
/r/askMRP19/07/17 04:34 PM
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Agreed. My gf is smoking hot, petite, slender...dudes check her out, she gets DMs, when I step away at a club dudes try to push up on it. I can't stop the game, I'm just secure in the fact that she wants to be on my team, and until she stops draining my balls or gives me a reason to think otherwise, that is what I assume. I work like I stated in the post...She wanted me to come. Kept saying she wishes I'd call off and go. OP, you didn't state that, you said it was her and two gfs, and later disc…
/r/askMRP19/07/17 04:11 PM
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Why aren't you going? Oh right, this is a girls trip. Why is he going then? Oh right, he is a controlling insecure asshole that your wife dislikes. That is your line, AMOG him a little before your wife leaves; Sucks that Cindy is in a relationship with an insecure, controlling asshole who inserts himself into a girls trip to keep an eye on her. Sucks you are going to have to deal with that, hopefully he'll behave, don't let it ruin your trip baby, have a good time. Then forget about it. If she w…
/r/askMRP19/07/17 03:10 PM
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Dude is just too lazy or insecure to keep up his house and raise his sons without mommy there to help and approve of him. This whole thing is about his butthurt at her not being there enough to do the work he is too lazy/insecure to do himself. Then he says he is hiring out this work, showing he is incapable, DLV. If I were his wife I'd be disappointed/upset too.
/r/askMRP19/07/17 02:53 PM
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Presuppositional apologetics...offensive weapon of atheist worldviews That seems optimistic. The problem is that it "presupposes" that The Bible is the word of God and that both participants are engendered toward "faith." If both parties use that axiom then you are not arguing with an atheist. All apologetics are circular in this regard and eventual boil down to "faith," an ill-reasoned Pascal's Wager, or if the person is a little more well-read, an appeal to a fine-tuned universe or similar ID …
/r/RPChristians18/07/17 06:54 PM
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So many people have half-empty cups, and they spoon more out to keep other's cups topped off, and derive validation from that. Fuck that shit, when my cup is full and running over I can keep a lot more cups topped off. It's a damn champagne fountain in anythinginc land, only works when I'm the top glass and staying full though.
/r/askMRP18/07/17 04:46 PM
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ESL...imgur pic Get a tan bro. That is +10 to attractiveness easy mode.
/r/MarriedRedPill18/07/17 02:54 PM
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escalators I like to block her from getting on them, and count the steps out loud, 1, 2, 3...and then grab her and put her on the escalator when it is "all clear" or "safe." Then I pretend they are parallel bars and try to do a routine the whole trip. I just did this yesterday I've honestly never mentioned this before because I was sure it would dox me since my girl humblebrags on social media every other time I do it. I still took great pains to not mention any of my favorites. Turns out player…
/r/MarriedRedPill18/07/17 02:48 PM
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She has a new job in the works...Instead, she's blowing up about little shit, stupid shit, yelling about nothing, and generally being bitchy. Been there, done that with ex. She resented "making moves" while her husband isn't. Never mind that these moves were natural progressions for her and got her in better places and I helped her make them. Granted, I was going okay..but I wasn't progressing career-wise like she was. It seemed stagnant to her. Don't be stagnant.
/r/MarriedRedPill18/07/17 02:39 PM
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pregnant woman. Agreed, if we go by evolutionary psychology, when they are pregnant is when they desire some beta enablement.
/r/MarriedRedPill18/07/17 02:31 PM
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Finances are pretty tight right now. No beer and tobacco helps that out, keep it up. So, this week I did initiate twice and had sex twice. That's some good reinforcement. cocky and funny...quiet, reflective and moping. My dichotomy as well (I would say "pensive", anyway). DNGAF and OI is what keeps me more on the C/F side. Why am I being quiet? Nothing "good" to say? Worried about something? Being boring? Stop giving a fuck. Occasionally I'll try to say the most stupid, random things to break ou…
/r/MarriedRedPill18/07/17 02:27 PM
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You got some great advice from some good men in your thread 5 months ago, then shut up and went to work on yourself and started reaping the rewards. I had to log in to upvote this, great work. She acts like a carefree little girl now that her man has taken the reins. This might be my favorite part of MRP, I enjoy women, and I enjoy my gf ACTING like one, even better that she loves acting like she is MY woman. Mine does this little prance when she is happy, and it just melts my heart.
/r/MarriedRedPill18/07/17 03:29 AM
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So I realized a couple weeks back that my wife is a crazy bitch. I was seriously considering divorce because of her insanity, manipulation, and emotional abuse. Step One is being pleasant and decent company. If she is neither of those then you are off doing your own thing and improving.
/r/askMRP17/07/17 09:14 PM
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I just want to see her pulling her slack instead of being a teenager in the house. What does she need to do that you can't? Give up that resentment, butthurt, and entitlement and you might like fucking her more.
/r/askMRP17/07/17 08:39 PM
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Do you even want to be married to me any more? I feel like I'm losing you." "I've never felt more distance between us. I, I, I...comfort test. holding her tightly and telling her I love her, it's all ok, and I'm not going anywhere. That is a good start, but maybe it is time for some long-term vision. I run a multi-million dollar business and crush it at work Imagine you started making moves that your employees interpreted as positioning the company to be bought out. Some platitudes aren't going …
/r/askMRP17/07/17 08:33 PM
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Feminism has led them to believe that homemaker is not a legitimate career choice If you know your feminism, especially third wave, you would know you have the argument won already. "Women can be/do whatever they want," this includes riding the CC so men can boost their notch count, or being a virgin until marriage, or living the SAHM/housewife lifestyle. According to feminism, if a woman CHOOSES it, then it is beyond reproach, even if that is staying at home and having babies. In recent years w…
/r/RPChristians17/07/17 06:12 PM
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RP advice on DB/LL/etc. forums and refer people over for more If you can give similar advice without tipping them off or using buzzwords it can go well sometimes. Open referrals can be deleted or downvoted, but a mention after the post is off the first page will usually stay. Many noobs mention a PM tipped them off. We've gone around and around before about the biggest difference between here and there is the difference between a "support" sub, and a "self-improvement" sub. They usually don't wa…
/r/askMRP17/07/17 05:11 PM
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Widespread "married for love" is a recent phenomenon, when you "marry for love" you have to maintain attraction. Many men are not prepared for this. https://www.psychologytoday.com/blog/contemplating-divorce/201311/3-reasons-why-you-shouldnt-marry-love-alone
/r/askMRP17/07/17 05:02 PM
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4 or 5 times in the last few weeks...gentlemen don't kiss and tell In retrospect, she just had a baby three weeks ago, so you got her to break her 6-week recovery rule multiple times?
/r/MarriedRedPill17/07/17 03:36 PM
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He's saying be wary of dick pics. Don't send anything via text you couldn't own if the screenshot goes viral, especially your flaccid micropenis hanging out from your belly with a face in the pic. Hard body, nice cock, fine, send it, but be damn sure you send it to who you intend to, and then delete it from your camera roll, deleted pics, and text history.
/r/askMRP17/07/17 03:09 PM
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Women initially like plausible deniability for their ASD and to avoid potential awkwardness, we don't need it. You don't give them plausible deniability with "jokes," that is pathetic, you use subtlety, subcoms, and innuendo.
/r/MarriedRedPill17/07/17 02:27 PM
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ME: [Pulled some weeds. Didn't mention it to her. She noticed anyway.] HER: I saw you pulled the weeds. That really helped me out. Thanks! There are men here who haven't had a word of affirmation in years and here is your sweet little wife. ("mid-2016 to the present all major/heated arguments stopped") Bet you just need a hard body and decent frame and to take the pussy and it is yours. ME: I didn't do it to help you. I saw weeds. I pulled them. HER: What do you mean you didn't do it to help me?…
/r/MarriedRedPill17/07/17 02:15 PM
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Are there women who don't give shit tests? When they completely stop shit testing it is because they have given up on you and accepted your mediocrity and disappointment, they don't have the emotional investment it would require to shit test. Be ready for the walk-away-wife or branch-swing. Attractive men still get shit tests, but ideally it is more playful (and/or the man makes it playful) or more about gauging his "fitness." When a man is winning the game though it is easy to not realize you a…
/r/askMRP14/07/17 10:37 PM
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I really like this train of thought, but wouldn't she have to be truly ugly or unbearable (or the guys be super beta) for a group of guys to ignore a woman literally thrust upon them in a social setting? An average, attractive, or interesting woman I would engage for her own merits whether I liked/respected her husband or not. An uninteresting bore or ugly woman would be engaged for the sake of my friend.
/r/askMRP14/07/17 10:04 PM
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A hot woman has never been wrong before, so it must just be a miscommunication ya know?
/r/MarriedRedPill14/07/17 09:03 PM
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“The results reveal that having a physically attractive husband may have negative consequences for wives, especially if those wives are not particularly attractive,” Yeah, it's called loss aversion or dread. The study advanced existing research from the Meltzer lab that found marriages tend to be more successful and satisfying when wives are more attractive than their husbands. It examined 113 newlywed couples — married less than four months, average age late 20s, living in the Dallas area — who…
/r/MarriedRedPill14/07/17 08:54 PM
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made it through undergrad psychology without cutting her hair and getting facial piercings/gauges She knows whats up.
/r/MarriedRedPill14/07/17 08:42 PM
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How do you reconcile being alive right now instead of already being a martyr? I see you have a computer so you haven't given everything to the poor? Obviously there are theological precedents for both living, and not living an ascetic lifestyle, and you have either synthesized this or dealt with the cognitive dissonance. Being RP is no different. We get to holiness through divesting ourselves of ego. RP 101 is "killing your ego" too. We don't go maximizing our sexual urges. It doesn't please God…
/r/RPChristians14/07/17 08:25 PM
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Noted, and I appreciate the correction, I haven't reread it in several years. wouldn't you conquer other areas nearby that do have resources? I think you try, but obviously fail or you are eradicated...or those efforts are hampered by geography/environment and stalemates are reached. And the fact that you have tribes nearby means that you are involved in a Red Queen arms race a la Europe and New Guinea from time immemorial or there would have been a resolution already.
/r/TheRedPill14/07/17 05:15 PM
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It is the fact that others try to force their views on us and tell us we have no right to disagree and live OUR lives the way we see fit. So Christians do feel victimized. Over a cake of all things. We all have Religious Freedom to practice religion how we want, but nobody can be discriminatory in a business, or agency, licensed or run by the government, not God, without repercussions. Find a hotel that won't let you spend the night there because of your religion, you won't be victimized, you'll…
/r/RPChristians14/07/17 04:42 PM
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Please read Guns, Germs and Steel.
/r/TheRedPill14/07/17 03:48 PM
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Agreed, if hypergamy isn't real then the "RP" needs to be taken off this sub's name. But since it is there, and we assume hypergamy is real, if you are fat and unattractive but still want compliance and submission, you are expecting your wife's upbringing, faith, and godliness to override her hypergamy, biology, and attraction...and maybe it will, but it won't be genuine desire, it'll be fake, and maybe twice a month "Lay back and think of Jesus" is good enough for you, but I want enthusiastic c…
/r/RPChristians14/07/17 03:23 PM
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I personally don't see why we need to worry about it here. I think there does need to be a discussion about something that I think is ingrained in a lot of Christians (people really). And that is the idea that I can't be content as long as someone else is DOING IT WRONG!?! Black Muslim in the white house. Progressive encroachment. Christian America Under Fire! Somewhere in America right now there is penis in a man's rear! Can you believe someone is working for Salvation instead of being Saved th…
/r/RPChristians14/07/17 03:08 PM
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I'm almost always "gaming" and even if logistics are bad I'm known for offering a quicky in the bushes or changing room or fucking that constipation out of her or sexing away her headache, but I'm expecting a "no," setting it up even so we can be amusing and she gets to say "OMG you are sooo bad!" and I get to smirk and say "you know it babe," or she gets to roll her eyes and say "OMG is sex aallll you think about?" and I get to stare at her while slowly reach for her breasts while saying "boooo…
/r/askMRP13/07/17 10:05 PM
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A-, no current weight.
/r/askMRP13/07/17 08:37 PM
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Remember when you were young and made out in your bedroom with your parents next door? Remember in college when you fucked with your roommate "asleep" across the room? Remember fucking in your car in the driveway when you were dating? Girls are still like that. They make excuses to not fuck dudes they don't want to, while going along with every plausible scenario where they get to fuck someone they do want to. If your girl is making excuses: Be more attractive Be more valuable Give her more feel…
/r/askMRP13/07/17 08:34 PM
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their wives If they are as cucked as you probably were when you found this place they are probably "being careful" about being seen as "too friendly" with your young hottie. Or they are just shitty people I guess. Happens with my gf all the time. Wives will be hovering and I swear the dudes are just catching glimpses out of the sides of their eyes occasionally and pretending like they don't hear her. Even without wives around she can still be intimidating sometimes. My brothers and my cousins an…
/r/askMRP13/07/17 08:15 PM
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I was honestly hoping it would take longer than 5 days to go from RP relationships to "God hates homos." I get wanting to grow a sub, but mods need keep this place on point instead of just being a platform for individual's random theological opinions. Do you NEED to have r/RPFreeWillBaptist and r/RPReformedPresbyterian and be assured that someone shares your exact stance on salvation before you can talk about relationships, sex, and self improvement together?
/r/RPChristians13/07/17 06:19 PM
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I think the spectrum part got lost. We are used to seeing the less functional wives, where-in a man's journey VERY MUCH becomes about unmeshing from his wife and learning to function on his own, and we usually watch the man grow and eventually make a much-needed escape from those relationships, ideally safely and with his children in tow. Like you said, "all women are crazy." And we know MRP handles that pretty well. But once a women becomes diagnosably, statistically significant crazy, then it …
/r/MarriedRedPill12/07/17 08:48 PM
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Tracking her cycle is okay, so studying her personality traits should be too right? What is "dark triad?" What is "cynical implementation?" What is "game?" What is "don't be autistic?" Obviously, you can't plan on controlling anyone. But people do slightly modify their behavior to get the outcomes they want, again, bogey just wrote about dark triad and being Machiavellian. Obviously a lot of men do this: try to label their women with something to put the blame on the woman, avoid blame themselve…
/r/MarriedRedPill12/07/17 04:46 PM
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there is a difference between icons of masculinity, like the OP was asking about, and personal role models of the same, or in other words becoming yourself. Agreed, those two men are not my role models, I just like their attitude and since they are well known we can use them as a common basis of comparison. My role models are my dad/mom/brother/sister/cousin. 3-dimensional people similar to myself who synergistically make each other better people. You and /u/simbarlion also just lined out why "t…
/r/MarriedRedPill12/07/17 03:11 PM
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https://www.reddit.com/r/marriedredpill/comments/4fv3rb/be_married_like_its_your_job_career_betabux_get/ One of the comments by jackten in there talks about "mayor game." It comes off as a little bit of wet dream, but that is similar to what I have always aimed for myself. Always comfortable. Always at ease. Always charming. Always dressed well. Always attractive. Always ready with a solution or to network to find a solution. Usually something witty to say. Ready to troll a little or be goofy to…
/r/MarriedRedPill12/07/17 05:56 AM
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No problem, and go make a post somewhere about Mike and get some shit out. Maybe talk to a grief specialist if you need to.
/r/askMRP11/07/17 09:57 PM
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the service of our best friend, which is Friday.... I told her I love her and we will go out on Friday. Actually, you didn't think this through did you...better plan to take her out Wednesday or Thursday so you look like you have your shit together. You already missed the anniversary due to the tragedy, don't make your date a funeral and a dinner. You are going to want to eat after the service anyway, so don't combine them.
/r/askMRP11/07/17 09:43 PM
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Dude, you got a good post history with progress and her entering your frame and having good behavior for months. Take her at her word on it and forget it. Have a good time Friday. I have a feeling that she will always hold this against me. More likely she would be pissed/upset/sad/guilty that your anniversary date is now the day Mike hung himself. Like having your birthday on 9/11. You can fix that and assure her otherwise. And not to demean or be opportunistic about your friend's death and the …
/r/askMRP11/07/17 09:38 PM
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Thank you for making me check and see that I've already responded to this asshole twice.
/r/askMRP11/07/17 09:19 PM
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If I'm hungry and my cock is hard it is a lot more difficult for her to resist and not get caught up in the moment than if I'm just pawing around trying to get something started. This reminds me I've always wanted to take this train of thought somewhere: Success ratios of initiating with an obvious hard cock versus being flaccid and needing some kissing/titties/wet vagina to get hard. Assuming decent logistics, I bet I'm over 90% from a fresh set with an erection, morning wood not included. Resp…
/r/MarriedRedPill11/07/17 09:09 PM
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Remember when you were young and made out in your bedroom with your parents next door? Remember in college when you fucked with your roommate "asleep" across the room? Remember fucking in your car in the driveway when you were dating? Girls are still like that. They make excuses to not fuck dudes they don't want to, while going along with every plausible scenario where they get to fuck someone they do want to. If your girl is making excuses: Be more attractive Be more valuable Give her more feel…
/r/MarriedRedPill11/07/17 09:02 PM
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“Love you more!” “Lol” I'm legit cringing for this dude yet your insecurity makes you feel threatened by him. And he won't be your downfall, your insecurity will. If you can't come at her from a place of "Jesus, this guy is hilarious and pathetic, why are you trying to be nice to him" instead of butthurt and insecurity then you have no business confronting it. If she cheated 2 years ago, you're past that (or are you?) and how she acts towards you daily is what matters now. Girls are nice to peop…
/r/askMRP11/07/17 06:45 PM
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Had a slow start, but over the past 12 months, relationship has really improved. Affection from wife towards me has returned to almost pre-dead bedroom level...our relationship and family life have really improved. She’s more affectionate with me. Makes comments about my body and physical improvements I’ve made. Dude, you are winning the game you set out to win, don't switch up the play now. The ground game is working but you want to mix in a 60 yard pass because, well, we're dudes, and I get th…
/r/askMRP11/07/17 05:26 PM
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It's not like she is awful, she is just giving me attitude and it seems like I honestly deserved it. Fine man, but you're doing better now, so get over your victimhood and move on and see if she can move on with you.
/r/askMRP11/07/17 04:47 PM
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better surroundings [where] I can gauge her actual behavior. If someone is not a good partner in a one bedroom apartment on $700 a month they don't get the opportunity to move to the 'burbs with me when my career takes off, why do they even make it to next month? (Granted you are the fuck-up here, and you'll likely fuck up again, so maybe you need a lower value girl with a higher tolerance for your bullshit.)
/r/askMRP11/07/17 04:22 PM
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Around that time when we moved and I swallowed the pill,...Dressed way better, shirts and good watches etc. I’ve kept a lot of the Beta qualities, love letters, buying gifts etc, but increased alpha a bit. Sex and compliments increased, mainly i think because i pulled back on initiations and acted as if i DNGAF. She even started initiating. I was reading this thinking where is the problem? Sounds good man! Came after a few days worth of small/trivial power struggles in a row which she pretty muc…
/r/askMRP11/07/17 04:17 PM
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She is bitchier and belligerent to some extent...should I consider getting married to her? When you have a decent life that she can be a part of with a good attitude then fine, whatever, but you sound far away from that place. You are just projecting and deferring to some potential ideal future instead of concentrating on your shitty present. Don't feel too bad, everyone dealing with poverty and hardship does it a little.
/r/askMRP11/07/17 03:56 PM
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If you are trying to improve your marriage and are committed to its survival you need to ignore those threats and not take them seriously. You are improving, you know you are working on things, you know you need to lose 20 pounds, you know you need a better job. You just need TIME to become attractive and get your shit in order and TIME for your wife to notice. You sit down and take her seriously you're going to end up planning the separation/divorce, working out your choreplay and wife-service …
/r/MarriedRedPill11/07/17 02:53 PM
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there's also the option: "Someone who wants it so bad that they're willing to fight for it because they know it's right, even when it's not easy and they feel like things aren't working." As long as one doesn't expect to be appreciated for their efforts or have those efforts reciprocated by their spouse and can sustain those efforts under their own willpower or maybe via "the power of Christ compels me," which on a long enough time frame begins to look a lot like "service, suffering and martyrdo…
/r/MarriedRedPill11/07/17 06:00 AM
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do something to paint himself in the corner? A pretty common idea is: I'll show her, I'll own my shit so hard that she will realize that the only thing she has to offer me is her vagina, and then she'll have to offer it up. This might work, but probably not how you want: Ownership is just plain attractive and will get you laid occasionally If your significant other internalizes the toxic mindset you probably manifest in your daily life then they might come to manifest that too. Equating their se…
/r/MarriedRedPill10/07/17 09:58 PM
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non Christian perspective I'm not a scholar, but I do have many years of study and apologetics. Catholics are not "Christians" according to many "Christians" though. However, I do think that all rational effort to save the marriage should first be applied, including to a degree greater than MRP would otherwise encourage. I think we very much endeavor to save the marriage, and often a large part of that is the "outcome independence" of knowing you can leave. The "abundance mentality" of knowing t…
/r/MarriedRedPill10/07/17 06:30 PM
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A single man should always wear condoms due to STDs and not letting a woman be responsible for preventing him from having a kid with her. I just read this so I'm going to copy it instead of phrasing it myself regarding men in relationships: If I "love" my wife, my desired outcome is also aligned with her best interests. It is usually in my partner's best interest to NOT be on hormonal birth control. (Barring medical reasons that would make it in her best interest.) IUDs are the best female optio…
/r/askMRP10/07/17 04:36 PM
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Burden of performance. Sword of Damocles. Heavy is the crown. I just want to know if I'm all alone in feeling that this really just doesn't seem worth the effort for a bit of pussy? "Pussy" is "worth" approximately four cocktails and an appetizer at the most, often much less. You better find something worth doing for yourself or the darkness is only going to grow. If you want to be a fat, lazy, fuck then go ahead. I bet once you are then you find out your activities are worth a lot more to you. …
/r/MarriedRedPill10/07/17 04:13 PM
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The [faulty] "ditch and replace" mentality... just means Christians will run on 80% efficiency instead of 100%. I think a really important aspect of MRP is enabling men to get a divorce when the time comes (or has already come in many instances). If that missing 20% is the part where you know you can leave, and under what circumstances, then you are doing a lot of men a disservice. Christian Headship/Compliance can't cover that base unfortunately. Guilt, shame, fear, stigma, insecurity, martyrdo…
/r/MarriedRedPill10/07/17 03:53 PM
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Adding to the Madonna/whore complex... I've had erectile issues and trouble getting to to orgasm. When you can't get it up for an objectively hotter woman you either have a fetish or an insecurity.
/r/askMRP10/07/17 02:30 PM
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At the end of the day it becomes less important if she is worth it, but it will sting like crazy if you are in a deadbedroom Truth, that is why the MRP recommends not talking about it or worrying about it. It conveys scarcity, insecurity, and lack of abundance. If she was valuable in your life and on your cock frequently, N would not be much of an issue. When you are not getting her best though, all that insecurity really starts to gnaw on you. It is not her fault though, she wants to fuck, and …
/r/askMRP10/07/17 02:14 PM
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Do you want the help? Like a drunk person wants his buddy to help find his keys and start his car for him so he can drive home. Real friends hide your keys and throw your ass in the back seat, even though you hate them for it. Great comment.
/r/MarriedRedPill30/06/17 05:39 PM
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Pro-tip: those "Hey Girl" memes are pretty useful
/r/MarriedRedPill30/06/17 03:12 PM
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In all my MRPdom, this is the first time I've seen anyone let their bitterness get in the way of cybersex. Three dudes a week in here are bitter that their girl doesn't send nudez and your girl here asking you to get your dick out so ya'll can get off together instead of her rubbing one out alone in that tiny foreign bathtub surrounded by travel sized toiletries. So, any advice on how to handle this? Meditate on how often you let YOUR feelings and bitterness and resentment get in your own way. M…
/r/askMRP30/06/17 02:31 PM
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https://www.reddit.com/r/marriedredpill/comments/6juo20/own_your_shit_to_avoid_her_negative_emotional/ Great recent post. You are her bf, so unfortunately you are held to a higher standard than "abs, hard dick, responds to 1AM texts." You also have to have your shit together. Evidence of not having your shit together is therefore unattractive. Things that show a girl a dude has his shit together when she comes over: Framed art/photos Toilet lid down Laundry done Dishes done Clean towels in the b…
/r/askMRP29/06/17 08:42 PM
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We were both sitting down and I was on Reddit. There is your problem. Nothing is more unattractive than a man's face softly illuminated by a backlit screen. She is quite literally asking you to be more attractive RIGHT NOW. Now, historically, many men have countered this by doing their unattractive things out of sight...in a "man cave," the garage, the "study," their buddy's house, a bar, the strip club, whatever...but you have the audacity to do it right in front of her. So you are going to cat…
/r/askMRP29/06/17 08:00 PM
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raised by her grandmother Likely, she has no context for a functional family. What a good partner, wife and mother looks like. Ideally, a guy would pick a better woman to have kids with. Less ideally you either have to train/teach/influence her, or cut your losses and move on. Considering that is the only dynamic she knows, she may very well be unconsciously (or consciously if she is trash) creating a self-fulfilling prophecy of single motherhood. You can only hope that she can be made aware of …
/r/askMRP29/06/17 07:27 PM
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Here is the thing, you can and should do whatever the fuck you want, but once you start relying on Kickstarter or Steam you become subject guidelines, censorship, and decorum. Google quickly showed me that Kickstarter pulled a card game a few years ago that included "tentacle rape", they don't allow "offensive" or "pornographic" things to be funded there. Now, Penny Arcade do their own thing, and are not subject to anyone, but even they had their own debacle with the "dickwolves" drama. And if I…
/r/askMRP29/06/17 06:02 PM
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We live in a three bedroom home we purchased in 2014 Her parents still live locally We both have established careers...really good benefits From my years studying dysfunction, I would say this is not. I would think that when she sees her friend's baby she feels secure in the knowledge that she could have one with you if she chooses to. And that is what is important. (Outside of any normal fears or concerns you or I are not aware of at the moment, pregnancy/babies can be scary yo). She drove me e…
/r/askTRP29/06/17 04:46 PM
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She's very wary of having our life completely upended. Just be sure you are doing all you can to enable the potential for children because this is potentially a slippery slope to... Well, it was never the right time with you, so I wasted my childbearing years with you. One bedroom apartment? Can't have kids. Can't afford a safe family car? Can't have kids. No family health insurance? Can't have kids. No savings? Can't have kids? Live across the country from her supportive family? Can't have kids…
/r/askTRP29/06/17 04:07 PM
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"Swallow the pill" or not, but you're here, you've read the sidebar. So you would be a fool to not learn something. For you, the lucky dude doing everything right (which was also me from 21-30). Do not get lazy Do not take anything for granted Do not put on extra weight Do not stop improving Always own your shit or handle your business Do not stop gaming/flirting with your wife Appreciate your wife and what you have. Beware the early 30s. Thirty can be a difficult year. All your friends have kid…
/r/askTRP29/06/17 03:20 PM
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https://www.reddit.com/r/askMRP/comments/6jkcbp/where_to_go_on_from_here/ She doesn't want therapy and she says the can only heal when she is apart from me.
/r/askMRP26/06/17 03:00 PM
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paralysis by analysis Good call, Rumination: https://www.psychologytoday.com/blog/depression-management-techniques/201604/rumination-problem-in-anxiety-and-depression
/r/MarriedRedPill21/06/17 03:40 PM
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If you are legit depressed then you need to talk to someone about it. Therapist, psychologist, psychiatrist... Likely, it is just loneliness, ennui (boredom), and/or the lack of validation that a woman provides you (That's why guys go into monk mode right? To "dry out" on external validation until they meet some goals and become a little more self-actualized?) If monk mode WORKED and you reached a few goals (fitness/career usually right?) and became more self-actualized then wherefore the depres…
/r/MarriedRedPill21/06/17 03:38 PM
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Maybe with his depression he accepted all the blame and by having to be his caregiver she never got to grieve. Maybe they are really going to have to go back and revisit that time and then move forward from there. It is certainly possible for the tragedy to being them together or tear them apart. My experience was that my wife went somewhat bonkers blaming herself and her body for failing us. My gf had a miscarriage before I met her and I've been on this battle front a lot.
/r/askMRP20/06/17 05:16 PM
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MVP
/r/askMRP20/06/17 05:03 PM
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options to explore if she can't cope with another pregnancy [with him] or child [with him]. That is pretty exclusionary in the progeny department. You think adopting a toddler on contingency basis might get things back to normal? Fine, maybe. She cared for him when he needed it and currently sees their relationship as dominated by her caring for him. That's a quality woman. And she escapes the shadow of this dynamic with ren-fairs and sleepovers and OP just needs to improve, game, and deal as th…
/r/askMRP20/06/17 04:46 PM
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Remindme! in 14 days about u/shiponfire getting divorced today!
/r/askMRP20/06/17 03:46 PM
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this feels like walking out on her What a Messiah you are, surely she appreciates your sacrifice and loves and respects and fucks you for it right? You don't have the power, you are just bringing the situation to a head. Due to her behavior, YOU DO NOT HAVE A CHOICE! Because you can not live like this, and she knows it. You HAVE to get the papers. SHE has to decide to sign the papers or not. SHE has to decide to act better or not. SHE has the power.
/r/askMRP20/06/17 03:31 PM
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We have talked another child but she also says she would always be in fear of complications. Then you have a dead-end relationship right? You want kids, and I'm sure she low-key wants another kid...but you can't have them together. I mean, you can take that bet if you want...just get her pregnant right? Pretty easy to do. Maybe every thing will be better once she sees her (likely) healthy beautiful new baby. Or maybe it is the beginning years of anxiety and helicopter parenting and depression an…
/r/askMRP20/06/17 03:17 PM
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Ah white night in shining armor. Chump. Great comment. My girl would be a lot more than "passive aggressive" if she thought I was orbiting some chick, it would be a full-scale repulsive loss of attraction at my pathetic beta bucks behavior.
/r/askMRP20/06/17 03:08 PM
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Your relationship is built on fear, bullshit, and boundaries instead of respect and attraction and fear of losing you. Pre pill made an agreement with SO to share all contact with other sex friends and orbiters and now whenever I need to contact any of my friends and she knows I want to contact them or agree to Skype dates to catch up and shit. She gets all passive aggressive and uninterested and withdrawn. Tell her you were being an anxious bitch when you made that rule, and you thank her for f…
/r/askMRP20/06/17 02:50 PM
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Things are fucked up since our daughter died 2 years ago. I am so sorry man. Relationships rarely survive that. There is too much pain and grief. We usually say "fuck other women" is a shit test (she thinks you are too unattractive to get laid and too codependent to divorce her) , but I maybe she is waiting for you to kill the puppy (divorce her). Are you still in the same house? Is the child's room still a shrine? Have you ever talked about having another child? Without some real and effective …
/r/askMRP20/06/17 02:26 PM
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http://personality-testing.info/tests/SD3/results.php?s=1.5,2,1 What trait is noticing the URL can be manipulated to give you whatever results you want but not caring enough to bother being deceitful?
/r/MarriedRedPill19/06/17 08:46 PM
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they don't bother living in the downtown core. You haven't gentrified the place yet? What's taking so long?
/r/askMRP19/06/17 07:41 PM
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he's instantly assumed gay. Whenever my bros and I used get that, somebody is going to fuck that girl. I mean, have you seen the cock on this man? And he is soo sensitive and cuddly. Let him cook you a meal and see if you can resist his charms. He has this thing he does.... It is basically an invitation to play each other up, pay attention to her, and take her home. If it comes from a dude it is either a fitness test, AA/shit talk to pass, and/or he hasn't embraced a healthy masculinity and is p…
/r/askMRP19/06/17 07:35 PM
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😕 Ahhh, my computer shows that to be a box, but google tells me it is the unicode for confused face.
/r/askMRP19/06/17 06:56 PM
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I'm sure a lot of the RP men you know either have to keep security clearances or actually are LE. Plus how you gonna buy that sweet 556? Fuck paying a private seller $200 more than retail after he's put 100 rounds through it. We want more RP/male teachers and school admins? Background check & fingerprint required. My privilege is so high I have no fucks to give about being "in the system."
/r/askMRP19/06/17 06:08 PM
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Yeah, beyond being cognizant of the ovulation window (to be safe and wear a condom) I don't bother. My girl is worst the week before her period, but since she's trying to be good she always warns me.
/r/askMRP19/06/17 05:53 PM
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IME it is not the kids, the kids are usually very thankful and appreciative (if not without difficulties sometimes) and that part is "easy" and gratifying...it is the system, and seeing all the bad parents, and seeing the kids get sent back to them, or watching them end up in their elderly grandparents custody, or a group home, or run away, or do something stupid/desperate and end up in juvenile detention.
/r/askMRP19/06/17 03:49 PM
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"Why haven't you finished yet!".... "not being good enough" Just like every noob in here, your partner is getting validation from your orgasm, she wants your cum. She cums, your don't, that increases dread, anxiety, self-consciousness, and the hamster starts running, just like every noob here. Next time finish on her face, tell her "you belong to me," and watch her purr contently and sleep like a baby.
/r/askMRP19/06/17 03:37 PM
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Apparently, it is the most thankless, depressing, mentally and emotionally draining, and time consuming thing one could do though, especially in a state with shitty child services or in a bad judge's district. I don't know anyone that didn't burn out. Unfortunately, that just underscores the need for volunteers.
/r/askMRP19/06/17 03:29 PM
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Adding: Big Brothers/Big Sisters. Court Appointed Special Advocates (CASA) Boys and Girls Clubs
/r/askMRP19/06/17 03:22 PM
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Stoney loves to point out a buried lead, but looks like I beat him to this one! Good stuff Great stuff Top percentile man shit Amazing man shit Okay, now I'm jelly shit I forgot to add that she frequently displays a shitty attitude, even beyond the shit tests. She has a short temper and is hostile. If our conversation is about anything other than kids/logistics it usually degrades into an unpleasant exchange. Well fuck me sideways. You're wife has a shitty attitude, and she is your mirror, ipso …
/r/askMRP16/06/17 07:57 PM
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She has been talking more and more about wanting to rock climb more often. 2-3x a week. Talking, doesn't mean shit. Ideally, to her, it is an activity she does WITH YOU, and so she is saying she wants to spend more time WITH YOU. You can't though, so she probably won't do shit and you're worried over nothing because you are insecure. Is she looking to spend more time WITH YOU or does she want opportunities to spend time AWAY from you? That is what you should be wondering. What if she DOES start …
/r/askTRP16/06/17 03:55 PM
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If we have sex 3-4 days/nights in a row, I can last forever by the day 4. Does masturbating to keep the streak alive work? If not, I wonder if you used a fleshlight or similar, with no porn, would that make a difference instead of the usual deathgrip cum-race to the kinkiest shit on the internet. That presentation just seems so very psychological to me bro. When did it start? You have guilt about masturbating and sex growing up? Always rush to finish so nobody discovered you? clench You learned …
/r/askMRP16/06/17 01:03 PM
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It always ends up being this. When you are upset something didn't go how you wanted or because you did something you didn't want to do, it is usually educational to dig around for a covert contract you had.
/r/askMRP15/06/17 07:26 PM
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awesome encouragement I think so too, just remember progress isn't a straight line, you're gonna get kicked in the nuts again, but you can handle it.
/r/askMRP15/06/17 07:22 PM
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Congratulations man.
/r/askMRP15/06/17 06:11 PM
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Great post and I just want to really emphasize something: as we are getting in the car she walks up (did not go for a run, just stood in the driveway) "I'm coming with you guys" She came and I made the best of it As Firetempered said, this is a great confirmation. This is exactly why you have been improving and holding frame for. I'm coming with you You want your wife to say this about EVERYTHING. You're improving and building a frame and a life, and she wants to come with with you. I'm moving f…
/r/askMRP15/06/17 06:02 PM
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Yeah, you feel like you didn't get her genuine desire that night, and feel like you tolerated it because you were thirsty and then felt obligated to perform even though you were not into it. Your gf fucked you when she wasn't really into it and was not butthurt this morning and isn't having an emotional crisis about it right now. You are just upset with yourself. Or at least you should be, do not be upset with her for not providing you the validation you need by being the guy that she can't resi…
/r/askMRP15/06/17 05:34 PM
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Me 43m her 40f, daughter 11, together 15 years. She is from the Philippines and I the USA. We courted about 90 days before we got married on her fiancee visa. I bet you are fat and low value and have felt, due to "saving her," that you are entitled to her pussy for 15 years. She never loved you or was attracted to you and has felt trapped in some shit hole town in Kansas to a guy who would rather "save" someone than be high value enough to earn some attraction. She has also been verbally and phy…
/r/MarriedRedPill15/06/17 04:22 PM
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high stress environments and high pressure demands Right, OP mentions "high gravity" scenarios. These should be autopilot. I'm trying to be a nice guy and carry in the groceries and she's on me when I come in the door bitching for me to do something else blah blah OK, yeah...that can be confusing, deer in headlights...but... Kid's sick Family died Upset you're gone for work a lot Shit like this is difficult, but I feel like my role as a husband/bf is well defined. Supportive, cathartic, empathet…
/r/askMRP15/06/17 03:53 PM
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Marrying a hot young woman without a lot of previous partners is an ideal endgame for a lot of men. You just got there earlier in your life and have the knowledge of how to not fuck it up. I'm happy for you to have the opportunities you do. That said: I have the right to change my mind and explore that potential if I want to. This is absolutely true. Just be sure you are not chasing validation and gratification or manifesting bitterness towards your wife for not being attracted to you during you…
/r/MarriedRedPill14/06/17 08:56 PM
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women talk Mine didn't, well, she did when she still cared. Which is when MRP catches a lot of guys thankfully. You're an asshole, you're a narcissist, do what I say because I know better and stop doing evil things. This is when they still care and have hope things will get better. Potentially, this dies down along with the flame and after that you are in danger of the "walkaway wife." The miscalculation is thinking it came from nowhere when she has been done for awhile. My ex (and myself) were …
/r/MarriedRedPill14/06/17 06:49 PM
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Archived: https://www.reddit.com/r/TheBluePill/comments/4jgm1v/not_satire_the_shes_not_haaaappyy_meme/
/r/MarriedRedPill14/06/17 06:11 PM
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walkaway wife syndrome That was a really important term for me during my divorce and I had completely forgotten about it. Thank you.
/r/MarriedRedPill14/06/17 05:14 PM
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Great point, and we often see here the extreme practice of the wife literally going to bed with the kids to completely cut off the husband.
/r/askMRP14/06/17 04:52 PM
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I appreciate that. In retrospect, everything was just a trickle of warm piss on a dumpster fire.
/r/MarriedRedPill14/06/17 04:50 PM
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children ages 4-12 Bedtime is 8PM, aim for 9 in the summer. That leaves the adult several hours to be adults, pretty important for both of you as an individual and a couple. If your kids stay up late you are hurting everyone involved. You've handled your shit today, run some game this evening, Put the kids to bed Then either give the wife some decompress time, or go build some rapport over a glass of wine, or start to get frisky, or whatever, depends on the circumstance and your read of the even…
/r/askMRP14/06/17 04:35 PM
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primary school, secondary school Agreed, you can't talk about ADD/ADHD without talking about the shift in schools from nearly 2 hours of recess a day to a thirty minute break from sitting and behaving in a desk for seven hours.
/r/TheRedPill13/06/17 06:14 PM
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The stuff I've seen is that they do just as well (statistically average obviously). It is theorized that one of the most important aspects is being able to model a healthy, stable, long-term relationship, which same sex couples can do, but a single parent struggles with.
/r/TheRedPill13/06/17 06:08 PM
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I know The Atlantic doesn't get a lot of love sometimes, but this is a good article (written by a woman) that is parallel to OP. https://www.theatlantic.com/business/archive/2017/03/manufacturing-marriage-family/518280/ Children are much more likely to grow up in poverty in households headed by single mothers. In past times of economic hardship, birth rates plummeted because women didn’t want to marry and have babies with men who didn’t have jobs. Women also faced a huge amount of stigma if they…
/r/TheRedPill13/06/17 06:04 PM
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how do you know when your frame is where it should be Pre-Frame, unattractive: You're an asshole Storms off into another room, silent treatment, threatens divorce if you are low enough Beginner Frame, semi-attractive: You're an asshole Rolls her eyes, sighs heavily, continues with whatever, lets you do whatever Good Frame, attractive: You're an asshole Twinkle in her eye, laughs with you, sees your point, agrees with you later, probably getting laid tonight Alpha Maximus Tier You're an asshole C…
/r/askMRP12/06/17 09:29 PM
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So I never actually told her about it, in fact, she was the one who originally told me about it. Wait, so you were never RP, you were just NoFap, (2 years ago) but your wife presumed you were RP and put you on "probation?" She may be horrible person, or you might be completely worthless, maybe some of both, no way to know from what is here. A small positive note, generally, if she will fight with you or shit test you, you aren't dead to her yet, and if you aren't dead to her, then there is some …
/r/askMRP12/06/17 08:52 PM
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Broken Record game so strong I had to convert all my vinyl to FLAC.
/r/MarriedRedPill12/06/17 07:28 PM
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we have been in some fights over the last few years You're letting what she says during a fight bust your frame. You've built one over the past two years, right? She lives in it most of the time, right? That is what matters. When two people engaged in a power struggle have a fight, one of them has to win, and one has to lose. Your wife doesn't want to lose, so she goes for the nuts. Ideally, your relationship isn't a power struggle, she's living in your frame, the scoreboard is gone, and you can…
/r/askMRP12/06/17 07:10 PM
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Two-ply toilet paper - You are worth it Two seat convertible - Every time you drive it is a mini-vacation. It is so choice. If you have the means, I highly recommend picking one up. Teeth whitening - Easy SMV/Self-esteem upgrade. You could be a hobo, but if your teeth are white everyone assumes you are a middle-class guy just slumming it for the day. A clean bill of health - Go to the fucking doctor! Get a physical. Get that [whatever] checked out. Good for your well-being, good for your life. N…
/r/askMRP09/06/17 05:08 PM
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https://www.reddit.com/r/TheRedPill/comments/5lfp4y/how_to_have_an_easy_ltr/ That is a hell of screening process and most men are way too needy to be that strict and inevitably look past a lot of your points. But I assume that you and your GF are actually living this life you proposed, right? And you are considering trading that out for someone who already struck out? Sunk Cost? lose out on a lot of money, time, assistance and care for me and my kids. Hearing you talk about your lifestyle, I ima…
/r/MarriedRedPill09/06/17 02:28 PM
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WMP was the (now self-deleted) user "whinemoreplease." The post in question: https://www.reddit.com/r/marriedredpill/comments/4cwweo/why_defaulting_to_a_negative_view_on_women_eg/ Man, that post is full of good users I haven't seen in awhile, but there are a lot of good users here now too, progress is the nature of this sub I guess.
/r/askMRP08/06/17 09:30 PM
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I'm asked for a favor. A simple question like; -could you do/fix x? ...What I usually ends up doing is thinking three-four seconds and saying something like "I've got it" or "I'll handle it"....A few second later the wife does it herself instead. With an attitude that radiates contempt. She's been the family boss and used to delegating to all her children, including you, and now you are being the petulant child not immediately responding to directions. About six month since I stumbled on TRP...o…
/r/askMRP08/06/17 09:04 PM
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we could talk when she comes home again. That sounds good, now you just have to be prepared for the coming storm. Do you have the value for her to miss you if you withdraw from her when she behaves like this? Or is she just going to have another sleep-over and not even notice you are gone?
/r/askMRP08/06/17 08:41 PM
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Remember how she got you to go get her cigarettes? https://www.reddit.com/r/askMRP/comments/6egvni/fr_a_hole_day_shittest/ It works on you, so she is going to keep doing that shit. Whether or not you are worth being married to if you stop being her cigarette bitch, I don't know.
/r/askMRP08/06/17 08:28 PM
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Flawless Victory.
/r/askMRP08/06/17 06:51 PM
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Trying to go from 40% to 15% bf is a big deal. Going back to school is a big deal. Paycheck to Paycheck is a big deal. I had to sit down with my wife and explain what was going on as I was getting constant shit. Telling her about them later, she kept cutting me off. Finally late last night I victim puked on her, and broke down crying. All this talking. Talk here bro, tell us. She's just as worried about all this shit as you are. And here you are telling her about it 5 weeks in. She is scared, an…
/r/askMRP08/06/17 06:46 PM
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I didn't mean to imply that someone literally sees zombies or something, only that someone thinks/feels they are in dire circumstances.
/r/MarriedRedPill08/06/17 06:26 PM
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When you see the [deleted] you know somebody hit too close to home.
/r/askMRP08/06/17 05:09 PM
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He made his choice He didn't have a choice. He had a disease. Every waking moment dedicated to one thought: How do I make this stop? "This" being pain, circumstance, human condition. The human condition that people without pain, desperation, and faulty brain chemistry desperately cling to. We can all wrap our heads around some fantasy scenario: When you are being overrun by zombies you have to save the last bullet for yourself. Right? We ALL get that. For suicides, it is the same thing. The zomb…
/r/MarriedRedPill08/06/17 05:04 PM
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She is accusing you of cheating because you are home all the time and thus have the opportunity. https://www.reddit.com/r/AMA/comments/6eu6ak/stay_at_home_dad_ama/ I respect childcare and stay-at-home-dads...but does your wife? Does she expect more shit done at the end of the day? Does society say she is supposed to be fair and equal and thus can't say shit about a man staying home instead of working...so she finds something tangential that she can needle you about until you get a job that occup…
/r/askMRP08/06/17 03:51 PM
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The panties are just a metaphor/construct for all the ways his wife shows her lack of attraction to him and exemplify all the ways he is not good enough to get her best. It is his ego protecting itself. Bro needs to kill that ego and look at all the ways he can actually improve and all the real ways that his wife is being irredeemably shitty to him instead of concentrating on something as simplistic as underwear that she could potentially change at whim to signal to him that he is worthy and she…
/r/askMRP07/06/17 08:38 PM
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They are my folks and I believe that despite being weird, they are due some respect for raising me half-decent. Your wife doesn't value you enough to tolerate your parents, and your mother doesn't respect you enough to tolerate your wife. They have no motivation to be civil to each other via you, and apparently lack the normal politeness, courtesy, and respect most people try to show to others, especially family. In a normal, happy marriage or nuclear family I would say that your mom needs to be…
/r/askMRP07/06/17 04:42 PM
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Everything in bold is right off the NIMH page and is equivalent to something within MRP. I didn't realize there was that much overlap with traditional therapies until today.
/r/askMRP07/06/17 01:53 AM
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I started off writing a long response to it but I deleted it. That's part of how I knew I was getting better, I was deleting more bullshit than I felt like hitting "send" on. Maybe someday I won't even have anything to say anymore, I'll just be happily living my life. Cheers man.
/r/askMRP06/06/17 07:03 PM
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Narcissistic and borderline disordered individuals often have significant ambivalence about getting truly well, as it represents a crisis of identity, and their resistance is palpable to the trained clinician. A dysfunctional identity feels familiar to the NPD/BPD client, and it's far more comfortable to retain, than exploring a healthy and wholesome new one. This is my friend to a "T." Maybe for you, the potentially transformative nature of "swallowing the pill" will allow you to be able to acc…
/r/askMRP06/06/17 05:30 PM
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http://www.sharischreiber.com/articles.html This website gets posted sometimes to call attention to a guy's troubled wife and how he is broken too, enmeshment, codependency etc... I'm wondering if you would mind skimming this one about "borderline men": http://www.sharischreiber.com/casanova.html And letting us know if anything sounds familiar? Keeping in mind it was probably written to help women deal with someone toxic, versus the writer's usual work of helping men deal with toxic women. She w…
/r/askMRP06/06/17 05:08 PM
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Congratulations! You are so manipulative. You are manipulating me. "You are right, watch me manipulate your pants off." She rolled her eyes and I started laughing. Then massage, then clothes off, etc. By the end she was orgasming and thanking me. Elite.
/r/MarriedRedPill06/06/17 03:57 PM
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Raised by narcissists Raised by borderlines Childhood trauma Online gaming escapism Depression/anhedonia Borderline Personality Disorder, ADHD Cut drinking in half and it still "may be too much" Anger Therapist, but female and haven't been in a couple months Redneck Riviera, beekeeping, woodworking...that's some good stuff though. You sound a lot like a friend of mine. He is fragile, made of glass, he can stand up, pose, and looks fine on a shelf, but tap him just a little anywhere and he shatte…
/r/askMRP06/06/17 03:41 PM
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The 5'8" blonde in the floral maxi dress with the Michael Kors watch sitting in the northwest corner of the patio eating tapas and sharing a pitcher of sangria with her mom? No, I absolutely did NOT see her. I find the dichotomy between confirming that I was looking and then vehemently denying it generates a great mix of feelz, facial expressions, and saucy banter. GF knows I only notice people if they are put together well so we usually notice the same people at the same time anyway and no deni…
/r/askMRP05/06/17 03:04 PM
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I can't tell if this is supposed to be satirical irony or not, Poe's Law and all, but all your deadbedroom posts are spot on.
/r/MarriedRedPill02/06/17 09:08 PM
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Oldie but a goodie, haven't seen it in awhile.
/r/askMRP02/06/17 03:39 PM
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I just don't find her opinions on things particularly interesting Sounds like something I would say about a plate who wasn't down to fuck enough. As a pompous insufferable intelligentsia, I get wanting deep conversation from an academic/interesting partner. I also know the fallacy of trying to find a mate this way. If she is attracted to you, and you are attracted to her, you can have deep, interesting conversations; and the banter will be great. Almost any woman can kick almost any man's ass on…
/r/askMRP31/05/17 05:27 PM
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You started dating her or married her with the tits she already had, then they got saggy having your kids. She has her own money, she can do what she wants. I know many flat chested women who got a pair on their own just so clothes would fit right. If you buy them they are gifts, and as such you can't say shit about them or where they go after you make the gift and it should be easy money. I know a guy who buys EVERY new gf a new pair tits just like he gets aftermarket wheels for his new truck e…
/r/askMRP30/05/17 09:59 PM
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To answer your question: You may also start on Day 2 to 5 of your period...NuvaRing is used in a 4-week cycle. Keep NuvaRing in your vagina for 3 weeks (21 days) and then remove it for a 1-week (7-day) break. In your case, her body doesn't matter, what matters is her Nuva cycle. Chart here: https://dailymed.nlm.nih.gov/dailymed/archives/fdaDrugInfo.cfm?archiveid=13949 The chart halfway down corresponds to her etonogestrel and EE levels the ring is giving her. Etonogestrel being a progestin (synt…
/r/askMRP30/05/17 05:08 PM
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You can be a pilot, an astronaut, a Navy SEAL, a bodybuilder, and you can do it all from the comfort of your basement; thank you internet. Social media and the internet have eroded the terms "average" and "mediocre." They aren't acceptable anymore. We have helicopter parents and stressed kids because children can't be "average." We have social media ostentatiousness because your life has to generate likes. We have catfishers and poseurs because the average person's life doesn't generate enough v…
/r/MarriedRedPill23/05/17 02:19 PM
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SJWs, blooper, liberal regressives, lefties and manginas is that these people will not listen. I agree arguing on the internet accomplishes little, but you labeled too many people the enemy. Lets talk particularly about 3rd wave feminism, the wave that came back full circle and says a woman can be a SAHM if she wants, can slut it up and give you easy notches if she wants, can be a prostitute if she wants, can be a virgin until marriage if she wants, can work a job and have a dual income family i…
/r/MarriedRedPill19/05/17 02:22 PM
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I want to point out the most pedestrian thing first: A fat or out-of-shape guy shouldn't go out and by a new wardrobe (#5) if he is committing to losing an inch of waist a month. I mean, with a marriage on the line maybe the money is justified, but not everyone has the money. So wardrobe can't be an entry-level thing for them. A slim or skinny-fat guy could go out and buy new clothes Day 1 and they might serve until his biceps or traps are stacked. So right away we have the first barrier to 1-si…
/r/askMRP18/05/17 09:35 PM
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To an extent this is correct. If this post is legit and she has been patiently reading up on the pill and watching from the shadows while he works MRP and she hasn't left him yet then she isn't totally repulsed. Woman love feigned outrage and pity parties, which is what the post on TBP could be construed as. She HAS to throw the fit, she HAS to be upset, but then if he has some frame and DNGAF then he gets to stick around and finish the round, and those little tremors might build into a full blo…
/r/askMRP18/05/17 04:57 PM
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I have a successful career and have the highest education possible in my county. I have a strong frame and I am aware of that. I am very socially active. My wife, less. I can feel your cognitive dissonance from here. No woman would cheat on a guy like me, so she must have had a really fucking good reason It takes one to all of these to cheat depending on the woman: The ramifications of potentially getting caught cheating and its likelihood were not enough to dissuade her She had the opportunity …
/r/MarriedRedPill17/05/17 05:57 PM
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I opened every thread on the first page of MRP and searched for "dread." In only ONE comment did someone suggest the 12 Levels of Dread. The concept of a woman "dreading to lose" you was mentioned several (3) other times. I am the only person to say "12 levels of dread"... in reference to a poster who has no MRP knowledge and just went and cheated on his wife. It is actually the link in my above comment. Did the same thing here at askMRP. BPP mentions the concept of dread in one comment 3 OPs me…
/r/askMRP17/05/17 04:46 PM
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My husband is abusing me unhappy with the amount of sex we're having to the point it is making him bitter, commented on my weight, and is reading the red pill. No need to strawman up some scenario, the poster lays it out pretty clear.
/r/askMRP17/05/17 01:14 PM
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First, BPP is the ninth link on the sidebar and one of twenty in the wiki, it is part of MRP, but not the entirety of MRP. I'm not sure if this is meant to be a rebuttal or not so I'm just going to ask at what point should your wife have noticed, and what should she have commented on? According to many successful field reports we have here the first "what is going on" comments are usually along the lines of: You've been working out a lot recently You're looking better/good You've been more respo…
/r/askMRP16/05/17 09:38 PM
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Everyone watching your journey from the outside should simply see a man starting to take better care of himself, being more charismatic, and working to be a better leader. Thank you very much for making that super concise and easy to remember.
/r/askMRP16/05/17 06:49 PM
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Elite.
/r/askMRP16/05/17 04:25 PM
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Cake Day: I guess that means it has been 1 year in this shit hole with all you other fine gentlemen. Here's to looking forward to the day none of us bother to come here again. Cheers.
/r/MarriedRedPill16/05/17 04:22 PM
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Cliche` as fuck bro. Read some Rational Male. Three you need now: https://therationalmale.com/2011/09/06/the-medium-is-the-message/ https://therationalmale.com/2014/11/02/alpha-tells/ https://therationalmale.com/2014/11/11/beta-tells/ https://therationalmale.com/2013/12/03/saving-the-best/ Read ASAP: https://therationalmale.com/the-best-of-rational-male-year-one/ https://therationalmale.com/the-best-of-rational-male-year-one/year-two/ https://therationalmale.com/the-best-of-rational-male-year-on…
/r/MarriedRedPill16/05/17 04:17 PM
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No problem, one thing: maybe even watch the odd porno, Being ashamed of masturbation and porn is a red-flag in my book; you have shame issues bro? Knowing what porn you both watch can be pretty relationship building, especially if you do it together occasionally.
/r/askMRP15/05/17 11:27 PM
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I think it's an invasion of privacy. I don't give a shit about my phone and don't have a password, but if that is your conviction then stand by it. It is a shit test, you can cave or hold frame. If it is not your conviction then tell her your damn password like it isn't a big deal because it it not. That said, if she has trust issues or is just snoopy then that's probably going to bite you in the ass eventually. The standard shit test responses are AA, like: I just don't want you to see my tinde…
/r/askMRP15/05/17 10:54 PM
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to deny that it has merit or real- observable benefits without due diligence is just ignorant. I do not doubt in the slightest that mysticism and spirituality can have real psychological, mental, and physical benefits for the people who believe in those things. For instance, just knowing that other people are praying for them increases the speed and extent of patient recovery after hospitalization. That is why I didn't deny anything, I offered a few opinions, two facts, and asked two questions. …
/r/MarriedRedPill15/05/17 09:36 PM
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Gonna try to make something out of this: Most men new to MRP have to cultivate abundance and outcome independence and DNGAF. Some men end up there legitimately. Something to consider with this FR in regards to BPP 12 Levels of Dread: The 12 Levels of Dread approximate a man needing to get laid and getting fed up with his wife and disinterested in the relationship. Unless you are a nice guy without options who thinks divorce is off the table and embedded in your wife's frame this is exactly what …
/r/MarriedRedPill15/05/17 09:20 PM
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I had to get used to sex without ejaculation, I imagine all the women did too. Your cum is a reward for their job well done. I've never been with a decent woman that didn't "need" my cum to feel satisfied with the sex. Any long term ramifications of preventing women from "stealing your energy" by not giving them your cum? After ejaculation, our bodies expend so much energy rebuilding our seed-life force. I appreciate your mysticism, but the sperm regeneration cycle takes 40-70 days and depletes …
/r/MarriedRedPill15/05/17 06:53 PM
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Eat below your BMR if you want to lose weight. BMR MAINTAINS your current weight. coma calorie rate That may be true, but most modern humans are not far enough from sedentary and unconscious to worry about it. Multiplying yours by the "sedentary" amount of 1.2 is 2400 calories. If you could do 1500-1600 successfully previously I would. You're a truck with a fuel trailer. 100 pounds of fat at 3,500 calories per pound means you have 350,000 spare calories to burn on your gut and ass. It takes ~200…
/r/askMRP15/05/17 04:36 PM
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I'm also 42% body fat and ~100lbs overweight. Every day at that weight is killing you and lowers your life expectancy. You can build muscle and burn fat at the same time...but I think it would be much more beneficial for you to lose the weight ASAP with pure calorie deficits and walking instead of adding the "muscle gained" variable to your arithmetic. Your body is literally almost 50% fat. You're main concern should be getting it to 18-20% fat. Skinny-fat people have to do this by lifting, you …
/r/askMRP15/05/17 04:12 PM
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Time to dump both the car and the anger. Exactly, but keep the shifter or hood emblem if you think you might want to remember where you've been. I took control, busted my ass like never before, and grew the business It would be a cool desk accessory with a hell of a good story attached...assuming you can tell the story without bitterness or resentment in your voice. The ending is you finally let go of all the resentment from your prior failures (the car), but kept this hood emblem to remind you …
/r/askMRP15/05/17 01:37 PM
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0 points I'm sorry man, I already gave you my 1000-word insightful effort a month ago and I already spent my 1000-word insightful post for today so I just had to go straight for your nuts this time. https://www.reddit.com/r/askMRP/comments/620ldc/need_some_advice_on_how_to_respond/dfj23fp/
/r/askMRP12/05/17 09:04 PM
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what is the point Life is meaningless and when we die it is just like before we were born, your wife has PTSD and you should sacrifice your remaining consciousness to enabling her shitty attempts at coping. In appreciation for doing this she will obviously keep your balls well drained and work tirelessly to make you the happiest man alive. Right? I don't even know why you are here. You enable her and put her life and happiness ahead of your own, and in return she is super appreciative and shows …
/r/askMRP12/05/17 08:38 PM
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We use do use the words "entitlement" and "solipsism" which may cover most of that ground, but covert contracts come from a different place...anxiety, desire to please, uncertainty, low self esteem, manipulation, conflict-averse, passiveness etc... And that's what I got from OP, his girl maybe has some low self esteem, is uncertain of his commitment to her, feels anxiety, and wants to manipulate him into being verbal or showing his genuine desire toward her to alleviate her anxiety. All this cou…
/r/askMRP12/05/17 06:00 PM
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did you even notice i was wearing lingerie She had a scenario in her head, and it didn't play out right, so she is just as butthurt as every new MRP dude when their covert contracts don't pan out either. how should i handle today? You should know this feel and so navigating this should be pretty easy. You would want validation without it seeming like she was just trying to just placate you. blah blah escalation go to bed You were supposed to notice that she was trying, and then take her savagely…
/r/askMRP12/05/17 03:24 PM
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I certainly have spectrum (asperger's in the old DSM) tendencies that have taken maturity and a lot of effort to correct in my daily life. I'm so good at spending time in my own head that I end up getting into everyone else's too (and see my old self in so many posts here) and since I'm a verbose fuck we end up with comments like this since there is not a very strong filter between the brain and the written word. I'm here to help, and I appreciate you reading back through all of my comments, if …
/r/askMRP12/05/17 03:36 AM
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for being despicable parents and doing what they did They will always be looking out for her more than you, can't blame them. Get over it. Once your wife was living with them talking about divorce their concern for you and marital propriety was out the window. Now mother in law demands an apology. You don't lose anything by telling your MIL: It is unfortunate that Step-Dad-in-Law and I made a scene at your birthday party. Some things were said in anger that shouldn't have been. That night should…
/r/askMRP11/05/17 04:03 PM
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Google "coital alignment technique" The first result on google images is perfect. You're grinding her clit and rubbing perfectly inside her, but not thrusting a lot, she cums faster while you cum slower. Also for me anything where I'm standing or kneeling makes me last longer. I literally can't cum standing up. Her on her back, legs up on the air and pushed back towards her works great too, again grinding the clit/vagina while rubbing inside her without a lot of ejaculation-inducing thrusting. M…
/r/askMRP11/05/17 03:51 PM
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I have a brother married to a man and sister married to a woman, you think the gay rubbed off on me too?
/r/askMRP11/05/17 02:55 PM
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i was starting to wonder about you... That's how I reel'em in. Edit: Damn, TBP diggin back deep for that goodness today. Should I take a bow?
/r/askMRP11/05/17 02:24 PM
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you are building muscle mass [under] fat and yes you are getting bigger but you are still kind of a fat ass Yes, if you are over 20% body fat the most important thing to do is get those pounds off. You can lift while doing this, but honestly, I think most people fuck it up because they can't "eat for ma gainz" and stay with a calorie budget too. Their transformation takes twice as long instead of quickly getting the weight loss SMV boost and then working on the muscle SMV boost. I think most peo…
/r/askMRP10/05/17 09:03 PM
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Ya know, when my mommy chastises me or acts without knowing all the facts I get really defensive and try to explain because I would hate for my mommy to not understand or be upset with me. I still get put in timeout anyway though because I back talked her or wasn't doing exactly what she had in mind or hadn't already done something anyway. When someone besides my mom or my boss chastises me or acts without knowing all the facts, lol. I am not giving up on the idea that it's possible to have an e…
/r/askMRP10/05/17 04:45 PM
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Does anyone have any experience or advice on how i might proceed? Literally this entire sub. Nobody can synthesize, incorporate, and internalize the sidebar for you. When we dated and first married, she was a dirty birdy and we were humping at least once a day. No shit, she was attracted to you, and how else was she supposed to make you attracted to her? After our first child (now 9 years old) the lovin fell off big time. Per the usual. It has gotten to where almost any sexual interaction is tra…
/r/MarriedRedPill10/05/17 04:08 PM
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Yesterday I texted for logistics, letting her know I was making plans for this week with friend X. I asked if she'd be down to have him over the house after the kids were asleep, maybe play a board game. She has been reluctant to have people over in the past, because she feels self conscious about our house. You texted her to ask her permission, she doesn't want him to come over, but doesn't want to start any shit, so figures if she doesn't respond you'll just puss out, and/or she knows how pass…
/r/MarriedRedPill10/05/17 03:48 PM
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https://www.reddit.com/r/asktrp/comments/67ko1g/getting_over_a_ltr/ https://www.reddit.com/r/asktrp/comments/6948bt/i_need_advice_i_swallowed_the_redpill_how_to_deal/ https://www.reddit.com/r/askMRP/comments/66qzo7/marriage_ultimatum/ Yeah.
/r/askMRP08/05/17 10:15 PM
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We both mutually agreed on a child support amount which was in my favor obviously. Are you on the birth certificate? When the chips are down, agreements don't mean shit. Google "[your state] child support chart" and then scroll down until you see your income so you know you are what you are on the hook for. Despite what you agreed, pay this amount. Right now she is SOoo over you that even taking your money makes her feel dirty, this will slowly fade as she realizes she doesn't have to struggle a…
/r/askMRP08/05/17 09:43 PM
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She left with my daughter and went to her moms house. 1 month after she leaves me and gets another man. Disqualification from LTR, cohabitation, and marriage. Done. Final answer. You will be civil to her, pay any child support potentially mandated in the future, and be a good co-parent to your daughter. Improve yourself, get another gf. I would have thought that even the most inconsiderate of shit-bag parents could wait longer than a month to begin the parade of new boyfriends through your daugh…
/r/askMRP08/05/17 09:20 PM
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So what is your problem.
/r/askTRP04/05/17 09:24 PM
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This; she fucks to see you again. She keeps fucking so she gets a chance to show you more of herself. As you find out more about her you decide if she is LTR material or stays a plate. https://therationalmale.com/2011/09/23/wait-for-it/
/r/askTRP04/05/17 09:20 PM
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You were told this same shit two months ago, what have you done since then? What have you done for yourself?
/r/askTRP04/05/17 09:12 PM
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Are all women whores? No, but many women can potentially act like a "whore" for the right guy. My question is how do i handle all of this? Be valuable, screen well. Women will lie, steal, and kill for a man who satisfies their hypergamy. You are probably of middling value and instead of screening your LTRs you take what dregs you can get. I have ADD, OCD, PTSD, Depression, Anxiety, Brain Fog and fuck knows what else...I'm stuck on a constant loop of procrastination. I'm ruining my life. I tried …
/r/askTRP04/05/17 09:09 PM
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If she is looking for a reason to dump you she has it. Seems like she isn't though, so just continue as normal, AA, AM, cocky/funny, are your friends.
/r/askMRP04/05/17 08:23 PM
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Most men want to feel like rapists in bed I mean, I don't want to feel like that, I want to feel like a sex god, which potentially includes consensual BDSM actions, which someone might describe as "rapey" if they were being careless with their wording or someone was particularity vanilla. most women want to feel like they're getting raped I feel like OP was paraphrasing the consensus (dating back at least to Masters-Johnson) that a large percentage of women self-report occasionally having rape f…
/r/TheRedPill04/05/17 07:28 PM
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I feel like I'm definitely gonna bust my nut extremely quick. You are 16, pull the condom off, wipe off your dick, start making out and heavy petting again, and you'll be ready to go again in 10 minutes or less. The term for this is "refractory period." Don't make a big deal out of it and it won't be. You were made to go again (and even again at this age), in the movies everyone is too embarrassed or ashamed to get going again, but it doesn't have to be that way in real life. Ideally it is a gir…
/r/askTRP04/05/17 04:29 PM
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XTCMDMAECSTACY FYI: You can't get an erection or orgasm on ecstasy, so leave that out of the equation. I don't know! I'm 16! Maturing and navigating your sexuality is something that can take time and introspection. Don't rush it, don't do anything you are not comfortable with, don't do anything that doesn't feel right. Don't feel culturally pressured to lose your virginity, this is easier when you don't give it any mythical importance. I try to hold her hand quickly after I meet her Don't put on…
/r/askTRP04/05/17 04:01 PM
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For posterity: Best condoms: http://www.trojanbrands.com/en/condoms/TROJAN-SUPRA-BARESKIN-Lubricated-Condoms Pro: No latex smell or taste, super thin and strong, no latex irritation, cum every time. Cons: $2 or more each, except at Target where it is $8 per 6 pack. Do not bother with Durex or Skyn brand nonlatex. Reference: 15 years of BC-free sex, thousands of condoms, and no children.
/r/askMRP04/05/17 03:40 PM
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Where do you guys find value in your relationships? https://www.reddit.com/r/marriedredpill/comments/68xtvb/if_you_put_her_on_a_pedestal_then_she_has_no/ You are valuable, and the woman may be valuable, but if she isn't trying to please you or add value then there isn't any value to the relationship between the two of you
/r/askMRP04/05/17 03:14 PM
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I don't have anything to say to this. Perfection.
/r/MarriedRedPill03/05/17 10:03 PM
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The "solution" to that situation is to be supportive and appreciative. Exact same message as FKAMC right? I'm kinda shocked at how different the relationship feels when she does this. Why, you've both read FKAMC? Why does it matter which book she prefers. My marriage is better. I'm feeling good. I'm hopeful...Her behavior has changed. Calmer, more smiles, less talk back, more sex, more asking me how we are going to do things, generally more respect. As stoney likes to say: Fix yourself, it is th…
/r/askMRP03/05/17 02:00 AM
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Protip: You ever do the light, sensual touch thing in bed to try to initiate or turn your girl on? Works like a charm all the time right? Yeah, I know. Try this: She's laying on her stomach, or you turn her there, and then give her butt some hard pats. Different right? It is not your usual "bomb-defusing" routine. Increase the strength, increase the frequency, vary the location (not small of the back and careful on upper thighs). Pull the covers back, spank some. PJs down, spank a little. Spank …
/r/MarriedRedPill02/05/17 09:14 PM
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many of the guys that land in TRP or MRP come from families of divorce I grew up in a stable, supportive nuclear family, you are over-generalizing. My parents never showed any affection to each other but were very affectionate to their kids. Great people, great parents, great partners, but I never saw a healthy and sexual relationship modeled at home. Which, after not living in poverty, is the most important thing you do for your kids. Now, that didn't fuck me up or anything except for maybe giv…
/r/MarriedRedPill02/05/17 05:26 PM
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she is free to go dancing/clubbing with their gfs (like every 3 months normally). So, she is going to do this like 4 times within the next year? Get over it, get out of her frame, you could become a god-made-flesh before she goes clubbing the forth time asshole. But that is too hard so you want to just use mind games or ultimatums to keep her from going out with her friends? You could find a nice homebody girl too, but this girl is special I bet. 1: If your gf only clubs when The Fed issues thei…
/r/askMRP02/05/17 03:55 PM
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Simpsons did it http://imgur.com/gallery/mSHi8
/r/askMRP02/05/17 03:12 PM
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I can't think of any place with a shitty board and a good idea I can agree with. Without a good sub as ambassador, its difficult to call anything good. How narcissistic do you have to be to be to think that every sub on reddit needs to be petitioning for the pleasure of your esteemed patronage? I don't think my lifestyle is RP....I don't use RP tactics and I am still able to do well with women. I have two friends. Joey, is a gifted artist, he's been drawing his whole life, he can turn a blank ca…
/r/askMRP02/05/17 03:10 PM
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Then tell me when someone should... Nobody here can tell you what\when\where YOU should do anything. In general, the opinion is that marriage is a bad deal for men but if you really want kids then go ahead. But you can have kids without getting married... Then go ahead, 40% of kids are born outside of marriage, why am I deciding your life for you? I'm a sign, not a cop. The downside is that without being married you have few parental rights by default and parent almost solely at the mother's dis…
/r/askMRP02/05/17 02:19 PM
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I think its fun to meet and do intimate things with girl that aren't just sex. Everyone without a social disorder would agree with that. It doesn't work for most men. Look at the numbers in RP. Most men in TRP sub are literally children or scorned boyfriends trying to get their shit straightened out, with a bunch of far alt-right sociopaths mixed in. I didn't realize there was a thread where everyone counts up their notches? the haves and the have nots. That's life. RP isn't just about getting s…
/r/askMRP01/05/17 10:53 PM
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OP plus this followup is a great combo and very introspective. The fact that we stopped maturing is what led to our eventual relationship problems. The RP answer is to always be improving.
/r/MarriedRedPill01/05/17 10:03 PM
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NMMNG and WISNIFG are great primers for MRP because they teach this. It OKAY to have conflict! You CAN disagree! You CAN banter! You CAN say "no." In fact you HAVE to or you are, by default, getting run over, being passive, and engaging in covert contracts, and that is NOT attractive. What turns adversity into tingle generating run of the mill conflict or disagreement (just part of captainship) is where MRP comes in...erasing scoreboard, benevolence, no butthurt, value, frame, and OI.
/r/MarriedRedPill01/05/17 09:48 PM
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I cannot imagine any RP married man doing better than a single RP man (if you can show me, please feel free to). Are we just talking about notches per time period? Before my deadbedroom set in on my last marriage, I remember chatting with a single friend about all his recent hookups. We were both in our late 20s talking about sex/dating after college. By his count he had hooked up with "twenty-something girls" for a total of "like, 200 times" that year. I fucked every day, usually morning and ev…
/r/askMRP01/05/17 09:19 PM
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She went a couple of days without wine, but bought a bottle on the weekend. I told her that was unacceptable and I'd be taking $20 out of the grocery budget every time she did that. A little too micro-managing for me for 2 months after 18 years. I'm giving my wife $400 per week for food now. That's good. But if your family eats good, then let her have a bottle of wine here and there. If she's feeding you ramen noodles and blowing the rest on wine then yeah, deal with that, but $2000 a year is $4…
/r/askMRP01/05/17 07:24 PM
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I'm lifting, working the sidebar, and agree with a good chunk of what you guys say....Am I wasting all of our time? Uhm, you're going to have to answer that for yourself. But I married my high school sweetheart Doesn't matter who the fuck she is, she's worthless if she doesn't add value, make your life better, and fuck you. You're here, so something must be missing. Also I made a monogamous commitment for life. Great! Your martyr complex doesn't have to affect the outcome. The simple truth is th…
/r/askMRP01/05/17 05:47 PM
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You can't dictate what they do in their free time. Impossible. What you can do is eat into their free time and boredom. If my gf picks her up phone when I'm around and don't want her on it I start trolling her, or talking to her, or teasing her, or sitting on her..something. It sucks though because then I have to be engaging with her, weird I know...actually engage my girlfriend. It really sucks because if I'm engaging her, I'm not getting to do what I want to do...unless, follow me here...I lik…
/r/askMRP27/04/17 03:49 PM
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learn self-defense etc You should be doing this regardless to get out of the house and do something social and strength building, join a class though, don't read a book. I am French. Yeah so you've had some shit go down recently, and migrants, and elections. As an American used to angst, the sexiest, and healthiest thing you can do is get over your anxiety and not worry about it. Outcome Independence, Do Not Give a Fuck. Your girlfriend is looking at you..and if you are anxious and trying to "pr…
/r/askMRP27/04/17 03:35 PM
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but she was the one that benefited from that and not me When she crossed normal relationship boundaries (and probably physically cheated) you got to move on with you life effortlessly. It still benefited you even though you had a scarcity mentality for a couple days. After 12 years it is ok to mourn.
/r/askMRP25/04/17 02:15 PM
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call me a faggot if I said that. So thaaat's why your dad thinks I don't love you...I must be gay...how is his gaydar that good? You just got out of a shitty comfort test and get to start playful bantering. Win. Her hamster buys your vulnerability game. Her hamster wants to buy it and now you know you just need to sell it a little harder She thinks you are teasing her, not taking her serious, and you banter a little. All wins. My girl is a "feminist" so I love it when she (or any woman) says any…
/r/askMRP25/04/17 02:02 PM
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my dad said he can't see how much you love me in the way you look [at me] Dads never like bad boys like me baby Agreed, amplified. She will be even more pissed Great, blow that shit up, have crazy sex later. What kind of conversation are you having where you are trying to convince her how much you love her? She needs to be convincing you. If was just an big comfort test then hold her tight, and say "I love you, and I want to show you, help me learn how." If you have been super aloof recently the…
/r/askMRP24/04/17 07:10 PM
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she overspent her account (separate accounts) and it took money out of our main account to cover for it...which overdrew that.....opened a separate account altogether for her pay (2 days a week part time)....She put it on her credit card anyway. Is this the way it will be for the next 8-12 months? As you become the de facto leader of your family you can begin to rein that in. She currently does exactly what she wants and you have always enabled that. It sounds like you will eventually have to re…
/r/askMRP24/04/17 06:46 PM
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Married 17 years and 5 kids. Well, she's probably not moving out on you, so that's a plus. Means you have time to do this right OP. About one month into MRP. Not much (outside of your attitude) is supposed to happen in a month unless you are going rambo. You seem to be on track with the STFU and not DEERing instead of talks and ultimatums. Looks good. slapping her in the butt or any part of her body is unacceptable and is the same as hitting and will not be tolerated. That milestone week when a …
/r/askMRP24/04/17 02:19 PM
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change my mind about marriage, kids and living together and getting rid of my apt (when we first got together told her I would never do either and we agreed that it was ok at the time) or she is out. Just for posterity (because OP has been a "Lurker for quite some time" and yet still doesn't use any MRP terms and the copy and paste removed the previous formatting) let it be known that a decent woman will not live this way indefinitely. You were living a no-strings-attached, easy-trade-in lifesty…
/r/askMRP24/04/17 01:37 AM
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property division, custody and support issues don't turn on her fault. This depends heavily on what state OP resides in and/or which judge the case gets. OP says he lives in fault state, so fault can probably influence everything but child support guidelines. I guarantee you she'll be in court claiming you forced her to sign that agreement under duress. I agree she has a case for signing under duress without counsel. But for all we know, doing this would only provide OP an opportunity to show he…
/r/askMRP21/04/17 09:04 PM
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Mainly because my need for validation from her goes unfulfilled....she has anxiety https://www.reddit.com/r/askMRP/comments/620ldc/need_some_advice_on_how_to_respond/dfj23fp/?context=3 I kinda go off here, but it might be applicable. Granted, I was pretty RP and then found her this way, you have 20 years of history to overcome. I ignore most of this because "actions" over "words". Agreed, but you can't tell her "I've got this babe" if she never tells you anything she's worried about. I've tried …
/r/askMRP21/04/17 08:01 PM
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It would be pretty easy for me to say: You can't fix her, you can only fix yourself and she'll improve or you'll leave her behind. And that might be true, maybe you could get to a point where living with a functioning alcohol dependent isn't worth it or she decides to dry out and work on her issues. You don't owe her an attempt to help, and she'll probably resent or hate you for it anyway for trying to "force" her. Removing it from your house could eventually make her choose her family or booze.…
/r/askMRP21/04/17 05:33 PM
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It all hurts way to much for me to be proud of myself, but I believe I've held frame, owned my shit, and effectively managed it all for now. I know that feeling. It fades remarkably fast. Nothing left to do but finalized that divorce, be a good dad, be a good coparent, and enjoy the rest of your life OP, the world is yours.
/r/askMRP21/04/17 05:08 PM
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Great post OP, you seem to have come a long way and deserve a lot of credit https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/CAGE_questionnaire The CAGE questionnaire asks the following questions: Have you ever felt you needed to Cut down on your drinking? Have people Annoyed you by criticizing your drinking? Have you ever felt Guilty about drinking? Have you ever felt you needed a drink first thing in the morning (Eye-opener) to steady your nerves or to get rid of a hangover? Two "yes" responses indicate that the…
/r/askMRP21/04/17 04:37 PM
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I think a sub called say r/MRPintro would be great to filter out the puke that floods this sub. Solution looking for a problem. A few puke/intro question posts get moved from MRP to AMRP every week, no biggie. A lot of first posts happen in OYS, great, indeed it is encouraged. Then if you feel you need more attention than an OYS post gets then ask away at AMRP. I think puke is great here though, it is what we do. Both subs can go a day or two without a new post so it is not like we are overrun. …
/r/askMRP21/04/17 03:34 PM
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my LTR and one of the girls, we will call her "Samantha," in our group of friends have been posting petty cryptic memes on facebook about eachother and LTR was wasting alot of time obsessing over it. She needed that drama bro, some women are like that. If she didn't need it, she wouldn't have perpetuated it. My girl is hot, and I'm hot, and we have an enviable lifestyle, and she posts lots of liberal stuff, and has a large, shitty family, so she gets some shade occasionally, no response from her…
/r/askMRP20/04/17 06:09 PM
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You're going to "bother with girls" because you are human...it just is likely not to amount to anything until residency. I know three or four female doctors in my cohort with MD husbands, and they stay home with young children so I can't say that won't happen. They are smart, and they want the best for their kids, and being a SAHM for a few years is what they want, and the couple's lifestyle allows that to comfortably happen. Note, I didn't say two doctors won't work, their divorce stats are pre…
/r/askMRP18/04/17 06:35 AM
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At some point I want to get married. At that time, how can I find a woman worth marrying? You're steeped in The Red Pill, AND YET, at some point you're going to fuck some woman, get involved with that woman, and you will think to yourself: Holy FUCK! I have GOT to lock this bitch down and put my babies inside her! And you are going to be looking for red flags, for some reason to NOT marry her, and they just won't be there, and your friends want you to married, and your two families want you to g…
/r/askMRP18/04/17 05:56 AM
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my wife, after meeting this younger chick that she is sure wants me, told me she would not get pissed if i picked up a side piece...we actually have a pretty good vacation paid for for 8 days in june right now. It's too late, you've already taken the bait you thirsty fuck. Should have AA'd this immediately too. you can have a side piece if I get boobs (to get new men with) and a vacation (filled with exotic dick) Ah thanks baby, I knew you would understand, we've been on the DL for months, guess…
/r/askMRP17/04/17 10:47 PM
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You had to make a new account to tell us your five sentence fantasy? Am I supposed to comment on it? so many guys complain about? Men complain about the lack of enthusiastic consent and participation. It sounds like your woman has a better attitude than what some could paraphrase as "active disinterest" in the sexual process. My girl has been raped, so when she goes starfish on me it is because she has shut down and dissociated, that hasn't happened in a long time though. That's a full stop in m…
/r/askMRP17/04/17 08:17 PM
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What will I miss out on if I skip "rational male year one"? If you just recently started reading new posts I do not blame you very much. That said, the Rollo of RM1 circa 2011: https://therationalmale.com/the-best-of-rational-male-year-one/ and to a lesser extent: https://therationalmale.com/the-best-of-rational-male-year-one/year-two/ That is basically the foundation of TRP, you're just gleaning second hand until you read those.
/r/askMRP17/04/17 03:55 PM
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I think masturbation guilt puts us in a nasty spot where rather than "wanting" sex with our wives we end up "needing" sex. So you can masturbate and feel like shit or get rejected and feel like shit. So you end up feeling like shit all the time. Making masturbation a positive sexual outlet helps a lot. Great point. "masturbation guilt" I grew up super Catholic and even went to a male-only preparatory academy, and still do not know anybody that dealt with it. The Catholic monks there told us mast…
/r/askMRP17/04/17 03:13 PM
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that is, without pornography or fantasy. The moral of the story is you should be able to get your dick hard because touching it FEELS good, and should be able to cum from the feeling of stroking your cock...versus cumming from how hot the porn on the screen is or how dirty your fantasy is. Maybe not every time or even most times, but losing that ability shows a disconnect I think. I think there is a lot of merit to that; I can't speak to toxicity and shame, but from my readings I have come acros…
/r/askMRP17/04/17 02:17 PM
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The most bad-ass looking man I know in person lost an eye in college, he could have gotten a false eye but said fuck that shit and daily rocks an assortment of custom eye patches from stainless steel to stained glass. It's like picking out his tie for the day. Bad news, if you look like a D&D LARPer every one thinks it is a stupid costume. She insisted that we still have the party. I whined like a bitch about it for a bit and then STFU. It doesn't really hurt, just cosmetic temporarily. Weak sau…
/r/askMRP17/04/17 02:07 PM
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this process you are beginning can very well separate you two. There is a good chance that the only reason you two are together is because you've been folding and bending at every turn. The good news for OP is that when someone escalates this fast and threatens nukes early and often, and the other side doesn't flinch, they either have to capitulate or glass the planet. And the process of living with that threat both desensitizes your flinch response, and makes you apathetic about being nuked... …
/r/askMRP13/04/17 02:37 PM
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Context is...anything. Everything. Miles ahead of nothing. Yes, to you, I, et al., OP's context sucked prior to the smoking gun and would be enough, but to OP, the context was just his life until recently. A slowly boiled frog maybe. Thankfully at some point in his journey OP became aware of his context and wanted to change it, and this awareness lead to the journey of the smoking gun. I don't think this is uncommon subtext here: My relationship sucks and I want to have a better life, I would al…
/r/askMRP11/04/17 08:44 PM
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I agree. Some guys start MRP and either get the relationship they wanted, or become the man that can leave just because they want to. Some guys get started on MRP and end up not having time to get there. OP wasn't far enough along, didn't have the value and frame to be able to leave for himself, but he is far enough along to leave for a reason outside of himself that he can justify. This is still miles ahead of where he was a couple years ago.
/r/askMRP11/04/17 08:07 PM
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I'd also like the story set straight in the minds of my boys so that they never think that this was their fault, my fault, or that what their Mom did is ok. Mean mommy leaving daddy uncontested for "irresponsible differences" is better for you than you leaving mommy for any reason I would think. Don't let your ego prevent you from getting what you want. Reasons are not going to matter to children. Don't put this shit on them. Mommy and daddy can't live together anymore, but we both still love yo…
/r/askMRP11/04/17 07:43 PM
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kept legal docs around for nostalgia. The nostalgic part is looking back at that person who thought you would give a shit in the future. You don't. I remember thinking.. Well, maybe my future kids will want to know about my first wife, so I'll keep these pictures and all this stuff Ha, a year later and I don't even care anymore. focused on what you want, instead of hurting the other party Right. I didn't have kids, so I had no reason to ever see the woman again, and I still didn't ambush her and…
/r/askMRP11/04/17 06:07 PM
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Nice puke man, welcome to the club. There is a lot there but a quickie answer to your question: I have gotten several texts from her asking me whats wrong and that I am acting weird. Is he going to divorce me, once he's in control again is he going to treat me like shit, I feel kinda bad for cheating on this guy while he shitty and now he's getting better but can I ever love him the way I did before I cheated on him, because goddamn was he a loser, etc... This is called the hamster, it works for…
/r/askMRP11/04/17 04:10 PM
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was explaining that Dr said I needed a test, so she would have to change her plans to fit. Hey baby, post-surgery check-up coming up She responded along the lines that there was nothing wrong with me, that I had fabricated an illness and I that I kept pushing and pushing till I found something wrong with me. Eh, you know how it is, doctors gotta check me out post-op before they can clear me. she'd forgot the name of the illness, this made me very pissed off. (I tried not to show it). Yeah, it's …
/r/askMRP11/04/17 03:48 PM
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Fighting for custody ends up being who gets more check-marks on this form: http://family.findlaw.com/child-custody/checklist-who-gets-custody.html The judge is also going to sniff out that bitterness towards your wife about getting the kids and keeping them away from her and hold it against you. They want custody to be in the best interest of the kids, and it is in their best interest to be with a parent who will ensure that they get to see both of their parents. The best case scenario is for yo…
/r/askMRP11/04/17 03:24 PM
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OP 20 days ago We both dressed smartly and she wore makeup and high heels, which she almost never does. She looks amazing, lucky me. Today: now 25-30kg overweight (55-66lbs) At least the wife goggles are coming off. That is positive. I'm 33, been married about 6 weeks, together 3½ years. https://www.reddit.com/r/askMRP/comments/60u4zy/owning_my_shit_a_question_of_frames/ That is bad bro. Really bad. There is so much shit there for YOU to fix before worrying about her. Rip those fucking goggles a…
/r/askMRP10/04/17 05:16 PM
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I have come a very long way over two years, but I have a very long way to go. Yep. I have come to a place whereby I take an active interest and even partially lead the future of my kids. I'm pretty underwhelmed by this statement too. You're not in the legal/contractual profession are you? I feel like you're obscuring your truths with legalese. To protect yourself and your fragile ego maybe? Marriage: bullshit bullshit bullshit...I know this needs to change Yep. So what outcomes bother me: My wif…
/r/askMRP10/04/17 02:07 PM
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Interesting story about that. Reddit recently went crazy over this subreddit comparison tool. https://trevor.shinyapps.io/subalgebra/ Some pertinent results: MRP-TRP and/or -askTRP= normal pursuits like aquariums, photography, amateur radio, home brewing, road trips TRP-MRP and TRP-askMRP = criticsofislam, the_donald, niggervideos, conspiracy, fatpeoplehate Interesting stuff, somebody could write a post on the permutations. Some of them end up with a lot of porn, some end up with PPD, mensrights…
/r/MarriedRedPill07/04/17 04:30 PM
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is totally frigid and rejects every form of intimacy, has no feelings for me..."tired of living with a sword hanging over head" "You know what you need to do to keep me here. It is consistent with your wedding vows and our faith. You don't, can't, or won't do it. Each of us has limits on what we will tolerate. Who put the sword there, again?" Exactly what I'm doing is fine with me, and is apparently fine for you Right, that's what you're not ready for. Your statement is designed to start a fight…
/r/askMRP07/04/17 02:51 PM
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Can you do better than this? Worrying about phones and hickeys and late night walks? You don't need to see the pics and texts, you may have not even found anything anyway. You also don't need to live like this. If she hasn't made your life amazing the past two years to make it up to you, then you don't need her and the anxiety that comes with her in your life.
/r/askMRP06/04/17 09:55 PM
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I'll download her phone now. How is this going to work without authorization?
/r/askMRP06/04/17 08:11 PM
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2 years ago wife had a thing with some pilot dad in the neighborhood. https://www.chumplady.com/2013/07/real-remorse-or-genuine-imitation-naugahyde-remorse/ Humility. Cheating is about entitlement. Being truly sorry is about humility. Initiative. Real remorse books its own shrink appointments. Real remorse does the homework. Real remorse does not need to be cajoled, wheedled, or dragged by its ear. Honesty. You can’t cheat on someone without lying to them. Real remorse spits out the truth. All o…
/r/askMRP06/04/17 07:51 PM
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I should be the one to take responsibility and end it. It is already over man: my LTR of 6-years suddenly broke up with me over the phone. Let her go. Do not contact her anymore.
/r/askMRP06/04/17 07:21 PM
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I wrote this out over some days (I have edited it way down) and it's been therapeutic for me. It is. I had pages from the end of my marriage. The day they get deleted is a great day. I'm sharing this so anyone that is going through something similar can know there are others, and it is possible to come out stronger on the other side. Thank you.
/r/MarriedRedPill06/04/17 04:45 PM
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10 days ago. "Nevermind you just sit there on your phone like always I'll do it" spent the next 10 min folding laundry and literally crying how she never does anything or shows me affection or attention. This was the most beta I've ever been. Found this place the next day. 8 days ago If you are going to leave then I'm not going to cry, beg, or plead you to stay anymore." Last night: I told her I wasn't mad and that I was actually pretty happy. Of course she is not going to believe you. Of course…
/r/askMRP06/04/17 04:34 PM
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What jumped out at me after reading mine, yours, u/screechhater, et al. back to back is that we all have so many QUESTIONS. fit, financially sound, I've been reading, getting fit, passing shit tests, etc. I've got a good set of friends, interesting hobbies, I'm happy, I'm free, I'm self sufficient. I'm totally unplugged....I'm not sexually attracted to her anymore and quite frankly I could do way better if I left her. Sounds great right? This should be an upvote, and attaboy, and a "do what you …
/r/askMRP06/04/17 03:14 PM
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late 40s, fit, financially sound, 2 younger children married for 8 years Steve. Steven. Why did you get married after 40? Why did you have kids? What did you like about this woman? Did you ever like her? Was she ever what you wanted? I can't believe a 30s-40s woman has changed much in this time span? I bet she has always been a career-minded woman. And now she has kids. So it is kids and career. Haven't you always just been an accessory? You were adults when you met. She has her life, you have y…
/r/askMRP06/04/17 02:38 PM
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We are each other's first relationship. Of the 6 years, 4 of them have been LDR as we were at College. Neither of you had the balls/confidence/SMV to break up before going off to college. At least you didn't alter your lives for each other. You get to be her long distance back-up and guilt-free yearly fuck-fest. Rational Male has several LDR posts We had an initial agreement to come back and marry each other after college ended Scarcity mentality and lack of abundance. She gets the security of k…
/r/askMRP06/04/17 02:07 PM
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transitioning completely You haven't "transitioned completely," you've just confronted your oneitis and realized that a one-sided relationship where you are putting in all the effort with no reciprocity is a waste of your life. complete annoyance and no desire to see/spend time with them? That is how anyone (except a codependent) would feel about someone who makes no effort to please them or make them happy. That isn't even RP, that is just being normal. if this is just temporary and might rever…
/r/askMRP05/04/17 03:30 PM
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Your journey of self-improvement, self-actualization, and introspection is impressive as fuck man.
/r/askMRP05/04/17 03:04 PM
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In a better (but far from perfect) world, where OP's wife was genuinely remorseful and wanted to do better, but OP couldn't get over it because he was bitter, "getting even" might enable their relationship to heal and go forward. Shitty yes, but that's how the world works sometimes. Just FYI, you can't be RP and be addicted to opiates. Get off that shit bro.
/r/askMRP05/04/17 01:43 PM
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Plates are easy, you'll know you're the shit when it it either starts to work on your wife, or you have the balls to leave her and be happy without her.
/r/askMRP04/04/17 09:13 PM
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I believe red pill can help me but just don't know what the final product will be anymore. You mean besides just using it to enable you to have an awesome life? Self-actualize? Improve yourself? You're just talking about concerning women huh? This is all for them? Well, considering this is Married RP, the consensus would probably be to use your knowledge to attract and vet women, and then ideally keep a woman with which you have determined would be good LTR and possible wife/mother material.
/r/askMRP04/04/17 07:51 PM
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OP has posted a pepe meme before, surely he is woke as fuck
/r/askMRP04/04/17 07:43 PM
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men are encouraged to Spin Plates and, according to Rollo's book, disregard Plates they aren't sleeping with. Your daughters are going to need to fuck to get the kind of man you want for them, and thus the kind of grandchildren you want for yourself. Your sons are going to need to fuck to find the type of woman you want for them, and thus the kind of grandchildren you want for yourself. Or maybe I should say, to help ensure that you are only one of two sets of grandparents in your grandchild's l…
/r/askMRP04/04/17 07:32 PM
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I feel like I previously made a case for leaving your spouse when she could not be your spouse anymore, just like you made a case for going shopping when your jeans can't be considered clothing anymore. I enjoyed your analogy though and would respond with a selvege denim analogy of my own were it not Friday afternoon. very real peril of sentimentality and scarcity mentality. Not to sidetrack, but we also need to decide if your wife can also be your friend. Because maybe we wouldn't be having thi…
/r/MarriedRedPill31/03/17 11:05 PM
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If it deters you from asking your bro how to hook up with his plate then it was super helpful. Sometimes mockery is a good teaching tool.
/r/askTRP31/03/17 07:47 PM
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a big ego isn't useless at all. Oh, it is certainly not useless. It is protecting you from your own crippling insecurity, the "narcissism" is a great defense mechanism too. If I can smell it from here I can only imagine how much it reeks in person. I'd honestly try therapy if I were in your shoes. Your narcissism and insecurity are probably not going to just go away. You might need help confronting this. I would wager it has to do with more than just your teeth considering you know the deadline …
/r/askTRP31/03/17 07:15 PM
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So is there any tactful way to let my buddy know what I want the girl when he's ready to move on, and that I would appreciate any tips to get her, before someone else does? This is the teen rom/com version of how autistic people think dating works. What I've seen work is to bet him that he can't take her to prom, and then right before prom tell her that it was all a bet, she'll be devastated and angry and fall right onto your dick.
/r/askTRP31/03/17 07:04 PM
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Man, I sure do miss existential dread and angst. Want to feel better? Nothing you do matters and we all end up dead. When you die it is exactly like before you were born. Your value on a cosmic, global, and maybe even community scale is functionally equivalent to 0. Does that bum you out? Is that sad? Feeling melancholy? Fucking NO. You are FREE! Liberated! The only value and meaning in this life is what you scrape from between the crevices and what you etch out of the void. With what? Yourself …
/r/askMRP31/03/17 05:06 PM
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The last post I read where a man was so dedicated to letting his wife handle everything and make decisions ended up with him kicking her off the boat mid-trip so he and his kids could enjoy their time together. Assume she doesn't want the responsibility. Assume she resents it. MIL recently had orthopedic surgery, and lives 1.5 hours away. My wife wants to go over to help her for a few days. My kids love the MIL, but my wife cannot decide if bringing them would be a burden or a joy -- for both he…
/r/askMRP31/03/17 04:06 PM
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Do you think I went to far? Did i handle this ok? If you really want to demonstrate the mastery you've gained in a year of MRP, you'll wipe this event from you mind and go on being awesome. Just to Monday morning quarterback for a second: Do you think you love me more now or last year when you started making your changes? Hmmm, I don't know, remind me... Or: Do you think you love me more now or last year when you started making your changes? Hmmm, I need to run some tests before I answer that...…
/r/askMRP31/03/17 03:44 PM
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I mean, 500 points for saying "rekt" is pretty impressive. Truly an inspiration for us all.
/r/MarriedRedPill31/03/17 03:28 PM
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Is that rational though? It is purely rational; borderline autistic. sentimentality The only place I can see sentimentality is...well...I don't actually. Affixing a value to feelings, familiarity, empathy and accomplishment is rational as fuck. the correct comparison is value relative to other abundant options... You don't live your life that way, you're just playing devil's advocate; I appreciate that. What is the intrinsic value of your old dog versus a new puppy? What is the intrinsic value o…
/r/MarriedRedPill31/03/17 03:11 PM
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The only purpose of ANYTHING undergone voluntarily is to enjoy it, derive joy from it somehow, or learn/grow from it. I would argue that marriage, even a "failed" marriage, can still satisfy those perimeters. Adding in kids provides yet another source of joy/learning/growing to offset the "failure." If none of those perimeters are met, then yes, you failed. You are only arguing that by divorcing, you have failed your children. Statistics show that to be generally correct, but I would argue that …
/r/MarriedRedPill30/03/17 11:19 PM
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if she became chronically/terminally ill? Can they still add value to your life? I like to think there is more to happiness and "value added" than cartwheels, cooking, and fucking. Just because somebody can't, or their lifespan is shorter than yours, doesn't that doesn't mean they can't light up your life or still suck your cock. When your dog gets old, and maybe they can't play fetch anymore, or go jogging with you, or gets hit by a car and needs a set of wheels for their back legs, do you just…
/r/MarriedRedPill30/03/17 10:46 PM
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1 month ago The Emotional Rollercoaster by resolutions316 in marriedredpill anythinginc: the silver lining is that OPs frame is getting better. From that to this. Great job OP. Nobody should think this came out of nowhere or OP just willed it to happen. It is right there in his OYS posts from the past few weeks. Work, introspection, feedback, improvement.
/r/MarriedRedPill30/03/17 05:04 PM
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She needs her man to make her wide eyed and giggling. Probably gets it from some medical drama TV show, though. Two dudes have an adorable little niece. Dude 1 loves seeing her. They build pillow forts together. He trolls her constantly. He spins her until she is dizzy. He holds her hand when they cross the street. He tickles her and kisses her on the forehead. He loves hearing her explain the world to him through her eyes. Her eyes are always alight when he's around and he always has a smile on…
/r/MarriedRedPill29/03/17 04:22 PM
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Exactly. Sounds like OP is living more for her (and others) than for himself. How's that working out? At least she fucks you constantly and works to please you and respects you right? I'm so far into this that I just despise being around women Two words, Amused Mastery. Women provide a lot of joy and light in my life. I enjoy them and they enjoy me.
/r/MarriedRedPill29/03/17 03:51 PM
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I started working out and dressing nicer a while ago so I'm just gonna keep that up and go back to the cocky, hard loving dick I use to be. That is pretty much on point. "I love you but I'm not in love with you anymore." Remember, this gives you carte blanche. You can't be doing anything FOR her anymore. You want to be a hot cocky-funny jerk-boy because that is the YOU that YOU want to be. Your wife is either going to please that guy because he is valuable and attractive and she wants him around…
/r/askMRP29/03/17 03:38 PM
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Hypergamy https://therationalmale.com/2012/05/16/hypergamy-doesnt-care/ No matter what I've done for her in that past, it doesn't matter anymore. When she was more "symptomatic," when she was in a "bad place," when she had "low self esteem", when she "was not comfortable with her body," my frame was a welcome respite. Now that she "is in a better place" thanks to me and my frame, her expectations have increased as well, she has been able to grow as a person and now she wants a frame of her own..…
/r/askMRP29/03/17 03:24 PM
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She was pretty much walking on eggshells and acting like a scared dog. I told her I wasn't upset with her about last night and she said she thought I was. It depends on how awkward/autistic that conversation went. She was pretty much walking on eggshells and acting like a scared dog. Why did you notice? Why didn't you wake up with a smile and smack her ass and start your day? I told her I wasn't upset with her about last night More like: Did you see what I did last night? Huh? You like that? Don…
/r/askMRP29/03/17 02:46 PM
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when you have decided to move in with your LTR/Significant other. When I thought I was ready to up my game, a couple months ago. If I wasn't thirty-something and ready to start a family it would never happen. how it worked out for you. She moved into my house and after a brief honeymoon period is now fighting for control. I'm holding frame and maintaining outcome independence. The goalposts have moved and so my complacence towards self-improvement has come to an end.
/r/askMRP29/03/17 02:03 PM
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she was having an emotional affair and said "I love you but I'm not in love with you anymore." That happened to me a couple years ago. We both wanted a divorce but I still spent a week googling and reading and found The Divorce Busters 180, and then Rational Male, and then MRP. Fastest, easiest divorce in state history probably. You are in good company OP. It kills me knowing that my wife has no interest in me sexually, it makes me depressed and I've told her she just says sorry and then she get…
/r/askMRP28/03/17 09:59 PM
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I have resigned myself to really putting my own ego away and doing everything I can to support her more. It's been tough on me to do that, but for her I will.....I need to tread lightly as my situation is different than many of you guys here. My wife is dealing with some massive PTSD and it affects everything including our relationship. My gf had "PTSD" and "depression" and "anxiety" too. She says it was because of her rape and abusive ex. The more I cared about that shit, the more I lived in he…
/r/askMRP28/03/17 08:28 PM
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I assume she saw I can only hope. Maybe she'll stay out of your way when disciplining instead of wrestling at the wheel. Is this a form of dread game for you? She's going to see me on MRP and read the posts and then she'll act right without me having to do anything Hope it works better than last time.
/r/askMRP24/03/17 11:06 PM
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He has no input from my wife She literally posted that yesterday, and now you today. How is that not input? Maybe I should respond to HER question since she seems more motivated than you. Maybe I would, but I see you made her delete that post today. How did that conversation go? Honey, please don't post on the internet because it reflects poorly on me and I'm too insecure to handle it and too powerless to remedy the situation The only assumption I made was that a guy who posts all the time about…
/r/askMRP24/03/17 10:21 PM
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Great post! As I tried and failed and tried again, for me, it was about becoming more comfortable in my own skin. Self validation seeped into my psyche and I began to feel different. IDGAF helped but it was more than that. I began to GAF about me. I began to look within for who I was and what I wanted. I consciously let go of a "dual" identity that I thought marriage was supposed to be. I wasn't happy and neither was she. I was an autistic retard of a captain and I wouldn't have fucked me either…
/r/askMRP24/03/17 08:34 PM
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Left unsaid: Wife is SAHM if I don't get out the door on time in the morning This whole post is based on the premise that you mess up sometimes, and will continue to mess up. That is not very promising. Let's assume you are going to keep slacking and potentially end up with morning duty. Don't get involved. Kids go to school dirty or without lunches? Not your problem. Your problem is getting to work on time. Or get up earlier so you can handle everything and resent your wife more. 1) Does anyone…
/r/askMRP24/03/17 08:21 PM
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Great comment so I'mma piggy back a new suit Please be navy or grey and not black sweet black blazer Navy or grey would have been a better choice for most instances, It is very easy for black to look like "Baby's first 'nice' clothes from Express at the mall." Good for Friday/Saturday night, but more "Affliction" than "Mayor Game." I got a grey shirt iiiinteresting... My shoes are also black. Please don't be "bicycle toe" or "square toe." Wife started dumping on me. It is your wife's responsibil…
/r/askMRP24/03/17 07:21 PM
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You sound like Cartman. RESPECT MY A-THUR-I-TY! What do we teach? Outcome independence. DNGAF. How do we enforce this? By not being save-a-ho and making everything our problem. When you are handling something then handle it. When she steps in, it is 100% on her, you remove yourself from the situation. If this frazzles her, stresses her, kid ends up covered in shit, whatever, not your problem anymore. Everyone says "Unified front!" But this doesn't have to mean both parents standing in front of a…
/r/askMRP24/03/17 05:12 PM
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Two things Make it seven. Not mentioning the added stress of a second child and buying a new home Asking the same thing 10 months ago, basically answering yourself, and then not dealing with it in the interim. https://www.reddit.com/r/Parenting/comments/4hnqif/how_do_i_get_my_wife_to_stop_undermining_me_in/ 90% chance too involved with PC gaming to improve self and lead family. K/D ratio doesn't impress your wife and does nothing for your family. Telling your wife about MRP and hoping she just m…
/r/askMRP24/03/17 04:13 PM
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Thank you.
/r/askMRP22/03/17 12:11 AM
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My point is that there is no one way to digest red pill. I agree. My point is...10 blind men find an elephant and each begin to touch describing what they feel. Of course each thinks they know what the elephant is and feels like. The point of your post, the way YOU just described TRP, and how it is often discussed here, which I alluded too: all the jackten posts, and all the stream of consciousness, all the metaphors. Doesn't do some men any good. I enjoy a scatter plot and Metaphysics. Your met…
/r/MarriedRedPill20/03/17 07:26 PM
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engineering background So many men new to TRP are aspie as fuck. I appreciate OP's flowcharts and guides. Attempting a synthesis (as [deleted] said, a process manual) of MRP is a daunting task. The reading and frame development is a nebulous cloud representing hundreds of hours of reading and introspection, many of those hours being complex metaphors, stream of consciousness writing, and emotional outpourings. I like Anna Karenina, synthesizing MRP is no problem. What if I preferred code and pro…
/r/MarriedRedPill20/03/17 04:55 PM
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To back this up: https://www.theatlantic.com/business/archive/2016/07/why-are-so-many-millennials-having-children-out-of-wedlock/491753/ 57 percent of parents ages 26 to 31 were having kids outside of marriage. You not need to be married to have kids. Proof, most people are NOT married when they have kids.
/r/askMRP20/03/17 03:13 PM
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Right! I get the feeling SO MANY men, think they can find a "unicorn," or virgin, or "non-western," or traditional, or "religious" woman, or a woman with a Red Pill father/mother dynamic or some shit...and then their work is done, they are now AWALT proof or something. I did get ten+ years out of my exwife, who checked every box but "non-western." I thought I was playing on blue pill easy mode, but the game is still the same. Luckily, I'm attractive, good value, and had some natural game, or I w…
/r/askMRP20/03/17 03:07 PM
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Where I'm stuck is where to go for style choices Until you have enough sense to curate your own style, the safest bet today is to pick up a thick J Crew or Brooks Brothers catalog and mimic that. tuxbell.com This is the curated wisdom of years of 4chans fashion board. The Basics, grooming, stores, and styles section on the left are pretty good. Infograpics sends you to www.young-stalin.com with great info on every topic.
/r/askMRP20/03/17 01:37 PM
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https://therationalmale.com/2016/10/24/please-breakup-with-me/
/r/askMRP17/03/17 07:37 PM
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I'm down with everything you said bro, I feel it. I accept that you are a sexual being, I am too. EXCEPT, this makes me worry for you... and sometimes I just watch [porn] for hours.... So that crosses over into an unhealthy obsession in my opinion. Why do you think you need to watch so much of it to feel gratified? To contrast, I would say most guys get horny, have an opportunity, click around looking for a video they like, watch five minutes of it, cum, and then go about their day. You have tur…
/r/askMRP17/03/17 04:55 PM
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That phenomenon would be if HE cheated....It's like dread turned up so high it's off the scale. When dread is high enough that she fucks you like crazy, we don't use the term "hysterical bonding," we say "working as intended." We use the term "hysterical bonding" we are talking about a woman, usually a cheater, who feels guilty and is projecting and fucks her spouse like crazy to try to make herself feel better about the cheating and assuage any doubts or suspicions he may be having and convince…
/r/MarriedRedPill17/03/17 04:15 PM
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It stings me that I was not RP and that means its my fault. You didn't MAKE her cheat. You didn't MAKE her give in to her biologically compelled duel-mating strategy. You didn't MAKE her violate her vows. I believe there are women out there who are not predisposed to cheating, the fact that you took her from a dude, and a dude took her from you, means she is not one of those women. Men find MRP and get with the program because marriage matters to them. We can't say the same for your wife. Somebo…
/r/MarriedRedPill17/03/17 04:02 PM
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done grieving the loss There is no loss, there is only gain. You found MRP for a reason, most likely a shitty, desperate, googling-at-3AM-for-answers-WHY reason. You felt something in your gut 7 months ago, you knew some shit was off, but you swallowed that bile like a good little beta and went to work trying to fix it. Maybe you never had a chance, maybe if you were RP as fuck 7 months ago you would have been done with her then. But you were not RP as fuck 7 months ago, you were the beta, fat, …
/r/MarriedRedPill17/03/17 02:34 PM
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What does it say about a LTR/wife, who regularly masturbates to porn? Orgasms are not a zero sum game. I'd rather her masturbate than have no libido or be sexually inhibited. My girl will masturbate during the day to get warmed up for me. Sends me pics/vids of her masturbating. It's easy, it's nice, it's fun, there is no expectations or pressure. Is there an itch you're not scratching? My girl only watches BDSM, so I give her BDSM sometimes. Do not shame her, do not act insecure. Act like it is …
/r/askMRP16/03/17 10:48 PM
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Spring break is next week, summer is around the corner. Get her pumped up to go bathing suit shopping with you. She might not even feel comfortable enough with her body to agree to go, channel this into slow/steady diet plans for bathing suit season She goes and after two suits she can't look in the mirror anymore...channel this into slow/steady diet plans for bathing suit season She goes and tries on some suits and is happy with her body...deal with it, girls comfortable with their bodies fuck …
/r/askMRP16/03/17 09:06 PM
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I have recently hit 10% bf I mean, that's a fuck load of dread on a little curvy girl. Back to my first post, it is possible that she's so desperate to catch up to you, the pressure is so great, that she's doing things that hurt her in the long run instead of just being slow and steady about it. I remember when I started and went rambo, I went so hard I fucked myself for a week by cutting too much and 5x5 every day, against every recommendation. 4 days in and I missed work for two days because I…
/r/askMRP16/03/17 08:51 PM
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She's 5'0" Oh so YOU are into petite women too! See, this whole thing is just a misunderstanding then. See, I thought she was a bigger boned or taller girl because you said she was within 10 pounds of her ideal weight, and was 125 pounds now. Now I see that she is 25 pounds away from her "amazing/ideal" weight of ~100 and 10 pounds away from just being healthy and attractive. See, if you had of just made this clear at the beginning I wouldn't have made improper assumptions.
/r/askMRP16/03/17 08:35 PM
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Any recommendations?...Try again. Ok, a three day weekend fueled by sex and vodka or the drug of your choice. That's 5 pounds gone easy for each of you. She's now within five pounds of her ideal weight and your cock is eternally erect for her. Surely she's down for that with you right? Man those where the good old days, haven't had one in awhile myself, make me proud OP.
/r/askMRP16/03/17 08:16 PM
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I fuck/date/LTR/married exclusively size zeroish, 100 pound, 5' tall women. I literally can not tell a difference between when they are 95 and 105 outside of tits/hips/ass. Maybe they have some clothes for the smaller weeks, and some "fat jeans" for the bigger weeks, but otherwise all their clothes still fit the same and they still fuck the same. Actually I think think they fuck better at 105, again, because most of that is hips, tits, and ass. Can't tell the difference between 105 and 115 eithe…
/r/askMRP16/03/17 07:58 PM
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about 10 pounds from amazing Plus or minus ten pounds is pretty trivial on most women, when you're that close to "amazing" it is likely those 10 pounds are mostly hips, tits and ass and a little water. You sure you're not micromanaging and controlling and purposefully not being happy with what you and she have accomplished? No matter how many times I try and tell her to count her calories and track cals in vs. cals out, she just gets all emotional. Yet she'll text me a few days later saying she …
/r/askMRP16/03/17 07:16 PM
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First, I would like to begin by stating: CUUUUUNT Now that is out of the way: things I've said and done You asked her to go to parade. You wouldn't handle the "awkward" canceling of the sitter. Her hamster probably: That fucker knows I wouldn't want to go with him and so he gets a sitter behind my back to try to force me with guilt and planning to go with him, and then makes me clean up his mess by canceling the sitter. Now that is settled get over it. Plan on taking the kids and having a great …
/r/askMRP16/03/17 07:05 PM
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You say that like it is a bad thing Everyone keeps saying that!? When I stop trying to fuck you we're in trouble What can I say, I'm insatiable Story of my life No, sometimes I think about donuts, and then I think about fucking them No, sometimes I like to think about the macroeconomic policies of Oliver Cromwell and why he would want to abolish Christmas No, sometimes I like thinking about puppies and kittens and shuffling off this mortal coil, and when my tainted spirit finds its destination, …
/r/askMRP16/03/17 06:48 PM
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I'm not mapping to make my wife want to fuck me and dread life without me. So you want a divorce now and nothing she can do would change that within six months. EXCEPT_________ Fill in that blank for us, what is she going to do to save this marriage?
/r/askMRP16/03/17 06:14 PM
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I read MMSL in 2012. I lazy assed red pill for 4 years...you have to throw in a losing hand at some point. So let me get this straight, in 2012 you knew that you needed to be attractive and valuable for your wife to genuinely want to fuck you and dread life without you, and yet here we are. This goes beyond not focusing and falls squarely into "human-garbage." I actually hope you don't bitch out in six months and really do divorce her. And frankly I just read on here last week that a guy served …
/r/askMRP16/03/17 05:41 PM
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>The choice If you are fucking done then by all means GTFO, but instead you are setting deadlines and making it about her...letting your wife cut the cord herself by crossing some deadline you have imagined...powerless. He didn't MAKE a choice. He isn't in a place where he CAN. If you are not in a place where you can make "the choice" on your own then you are in no better place than any beta getting left by his wife cause da feeeelz. His new-born feeling of TRP power and value isn't going to be …
/r/askMRP16/03/17 05:28 PM
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half of what the sick person wants is to be treated normally - to remember a life before everyone pitied them. Nope, in this case MS is the pity cherry on top of her learned-helplessness cake with enabler frosting. My wife has been dealing with mental issues.. anxiety, depression, ocd. etc for most of our 17 years. She's been in the hospital for it at least three times. I've put up with a lot of shit over the years... I've been in caretaker mode for so many years...I've had anger and resentment …
/r/askMRP16/03/17 05:06 PM
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What is she capable of doing? What does she put energy into? The baseline is pretty low At least she's showering more often recently. https://www.reddit.com/r/askMRP/comments/5wxnz2/dealing_with_illness_and_difficulty_keeping_focus/
/r/askMRP16/03/17 04:55 PM
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Great comment
/r/askMRP16/03/17 04:38 PM
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All our wives KNOW we want and need sex already. Period. They are not stupid. They just don't want to. Rationally or subconsciously, something prevents them. Our SMV isn't high enough, they don't dread losing us, they aren't attracted to us, they are not "in love" with us, they have some psychological issue or trauma etc... That is why we say it is generally detrimental to talk about it. Most women just need a little "rational" whisper to prevent them from fucking their husband... It's a weeknig…
/r/askMRP16/03/17 04:22 PM
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Probably still over 25% though. I can't blame her for not being DTF at 25%. Sorry. I don't think you are at a place yet where you would THRIVE post-divorce so I don't see why you are longing for it. There are lots of posts in askMRP and MRP from men who have put in the work and naturally arrived at "fuck this shit, I'm out." Go find them, they read a lot different than yours does, and they have 50 comments from men congratulating them because they can recognize the excellence before them and kno…
/r/askMRP16/03/17 03:13 PM
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if a chick is not EAGER to at minimum make out and get hot on the first date... I think this is the greatest take-away from TRP as it concerns dating. Playing by the old set of books and being a "gentleman" while entertaining a woman who waits is setting yourself up for failure. Why settle for a woman who is coy to you instead of a woman who is DTF? Vet all you want afterwards, but the minimum qualification is that they want to fuck you. This is the first and greatest barrier to a beta outlook, …
/r/MarriedRedPill16/03/17 02:25 PM
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Get started like always but when it gets to panties coming off then go get a towel. I pull the tampon out myself when I get there. If there is pushback during escalation: I'm a big boy baby, a little blood doesn't scare me, I'll go get a towel and be right back. Though, if she says it is "heavy flow", like a tampon an hour type flow, then just make out and mutually masturbate. Heavy chunky flow makes every girl I've been with queasy, and both of your whole crotches end up red and you'll need a s…
/r/askMRP15/03/17 09:29 PM
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Her: "You haven't peeled all of them have you?" So you got the hint outside that she was in a mood. Engage child-mode, then she says this in, I'm sure, an accusing tone, that kicks AM into overdrive. Well, I only peeled two but the others eye's were fucking looking at me funny so I had take those bastards out too, no survivors to plot revenge. Hopefully that gets an eye roll and a defusing smile. In your case not. Her: sigh "I wasn't going to use all of them" Well, whatever you don't use I can m…
/r/askMRP15/03/17 02:58 PM
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So your girlfriend (now wife) has PTSD, and you are probably on the autism spectrum. Got it. I have been trying to give her as much help, space, love and support as she needs to feel better and get help for herself. I'm sure that is true gymbal, and marriage would obviously be the best thing you could do right? So much love and support and commitment. That should fix her right? Unfortunately it doesn't. My gf was raped and has some PTSD like shit sometimes, and I'm pretty autistic too sometimes,…
/r/askMRP14/03/17 09:57 PM
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So, you were having lots of sex before you got married right? You didn't plan on the frequency increasing right?
/r/askMRP14/03/17 09:05 PM
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I think companionship and thoughtful actions are underrated in MRP...if you can't spend time with your wife and enjoy each other's company you either aren't doing it right or you chose poorly. On the contrary, I think many men here and in deadbedrooms have trouble exactly BECAUSE their spouse is generally pretty nice and pleasant to be around and they enjoy each other's company. If they were married to a horrible cunt they couldn't stand how the fuck would they have oneitis? Why commit to MRP? W…
/r/askMRP14/03/17 09:02 PM
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Not married but living together What OP failed to mention: >Moved in together 2 weeks ago. You just reset the relationship. You have been on easy mode, welcome to hard mode. Hold frame, have value, be attractive. 30 [me], my gf [33] No comment, but I would love to hear OP expand on this. withdraw all affection and physical contact We generally don't like playing freeze-out here at MRP, preferring outcome independence instead, but if that has been the tone of your entire relationship up until thi…
/r/askMRP14/03/17 08:43 PM
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The neckbeard/autistic engineer and ego protection in this post is killing me. You have low self esteem. Fucking user name checkes out, hiding behind a moat in a castle (and your witty keyboard, the last bastion of your personality) insulating yourself from reality. if only I can find a nice brown girl who has been brainwashed by her backwards culture and guarded by her family, only then do I have a shot at being The One for her. White girls are all sluts (and I don't think that just because non…
/r/askTRP11/03/17 02:49 PM
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And the key thing I'm trying to figure out is if it's temporary...it's tough to say how temporary/permanent that is and how much of it is truly internally driven as opposed to external stimulation. You are giving back into your beta, navel gazing, internal-monologue origins here. It has ALWAYS been temporary, it has ALWAYS been about external stimulation. You had it once when you first got together, but it was temporary, right? We all learned that. Well, you've got it back, and probably better t…
/r/askMRP10/03/17 11:20 PM
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Her ideas are fueled by emotion, not so much logic or reason. Got it backwards this time bro. because of all the remodelling. He means adding altars and secret meeting rooms, no wonder the resell value isn't very high. A founding member of the Ordo Minoratio Redit (Gantt lineage) , Brother Rummah spends his days reading obscure esoteric texts he finds interesting. God damn son, good thing you have nothing to lose. Edit: Well, I didn't dox you in a couple minutes so maybe you're okay, hopefully y…
/r/askMRP10/03/17 04:16 PM
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Be OPs wife husband deeply involved in "the occult," "hinduism," and "freemasonry" watch his grasp on reality slip away he starts performing "magic" and "formulas" and "rituals" be old, want to retire someday Shit, I'm going to have to start planning for the second half of my life on my own If we downsize out of this money-pit, my retirement might be able to keep us from eating catfood Get your head out of your ass Rummuh13. Dedicating time to the crusty-fart version of Dungeons and Dragons and …
/r/askMRP10/03/17 03:55 PM
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This is also not catch and release. Right. she's newly single and back in the dating scene She can easily send this to your wife, and will nuke your shit... She's not looking to just fuck on the sly, you don't need to be single for that, she's looking to home-wreck. I'm sure she has easier and better cock in her friends list, but she needs support and a step-daddy....so she scrolled through her list.. Which one of these sad orbiters looks desperate enough to fall for this shit...oh I know u/Indy…
/r/MarriedRedPill10/03/17 03:31 PM
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Perfect. And looking for a new cuck to help her raise it. To expand on this; It is incredible that OP barely has his shit together enough for one woman and one child, and the thought of adding another woman, another child, and a baby-daddy into the mix is fucking "tempting." TEMPTING! We truly are our own worst enemies in this life.
/r/MarriedRedPill10/03/17 03:17 PM
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sons grow in a feminine-primary social order that openly despises, discriminates and reviles their maleness. Thanks partially to you, I welcome the thought of raising my sons to wield their "maleness" in a female primary, or equalism society. Isn't that going to be part of the message of your masculine-fatherhood blog direction? How valuable unabashedly masculine men are in that society? The oft-mentioned 20%? Assuming they can make it though life without being trivially criminalized, the world …
/r/MarriedRedPill09/03/17 03:23 PM
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I agree, but I wouldn't say "non-issue," I would say "working as intended."
/r/MarriedRedPill08/03/17 11:05 PM
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I don't see where I said white men had to vote for anyone? The reason "white men" is used in this context is because saying "men" is a fallacy, no other male demographic voted for him (Trump, the person whose victory is being claimed a defeat of the Feminine Imperative) in significant numbers. I did seem to imply that aggrandizing Trump's victory as a win for Masculinity, or as Roissy has probably said, "Uncucked White America," does reduce the "white male" voting bloc to a bunch of single-issue…
/r/MarriedRedPill08/03/17 10:45 PM
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you think those three counties alone represent the will of the people. You just disenfranchised over 10% of the American population and 16% of the country's GDP represented by those three counties. To contrast, I could disenfranchise just 40,000 Pennsylvanians, 10,000 Michiganders, and 6,000 people in Nebraska's 2nd, in just a handful of counties, and Hillary would have the popular vote and the electoral college. Who is misleading now? Where is the will of the people? To be fair, the same could …
/r/MarriedRedPill08/03/17 09:42 PM
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To continue on the AFC theme: Qualities of an AFC ONEitis – First and foremost. Subscribes to feminine idealizations. Supplication is supportive. To comply with gender equalism she must increase, so he must decrease, regardless of how subtly this is realized. The Savior Schema –reciprocation of intimacy for problems solved. The Martyr Schema – the more you sacrifice the more it shows devotion. The ‘Friends’ Debt – LJBF and the pseudo-friendship as a means to prospective intimacy. Primarily relie…
/r/askMRP08/03/17 04:47 PM
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Trump does not have a mandate though. In this election, "white males" finally started voting like "blacks" and "Latinos" and "evangelicals," in a bloc...and it still wasn't enough to win the popular vote. If we want to talk about zeitgeist, consider that out of the last nine times a party could potentially win three elections in a row, it has only happened twice. The same party doesn't win back to back to back. Zeitgeist kept Hillary out of office as opposed to potentially sweeping her in. Votin…
/r/MarriedRedPill08/03/17 04:16 PM
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We started dating as college freshmen, and our relationship was the first (and only) serious relationship for both of us....I'm [now] in my mid-30's. a 9 month old baby. After about six months of working to improve myself with no effect on my wife's behavior, I decide to start discretely dating on the side 6 month+ LTR So you go from worthless to awesome in six months (after 10++ years, impressive) and start leading a double life while your wife is at home with a baby and/or pregnant. We know ho…
/r/askMRP07/03/17 10:06 PM
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http://time.com/3596014/attraction-sex-birth-control/ This is all golden as fuck and has been reported and studied since at least 2008. The good news, being on the pill means she will be more likely to deal with a "not conventionally attractive" beta shlub. Conversely, if you're bored of your foxy husband, going off the Pill might make you more excited about him. Maybe. It is better that she picked you off the pill, but the possibility is still there of her loosing attraction: In discussing the …
/r/askMRP07/03/17 08:49 PM
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god damn this bitch sounds intolerable
/r/askMRP07/03/17 06:36 PM
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She can be a diva on stage, that is her job. But to be in a relationship with you she also needs to needs to be LTR/wife material. There is no reason a woman can't be both, but it can be difficult, depends on how susceptible she is to it. The only thing you can do is absolutely DO NOT be insecure. She's your good little girl until she crosses a line, and then she's gone. Same as any other woman. Have that frame and hold it. Don't pedestalize her because she is pretty or talented...a woman HAS to…
/r/askMRP07/03/17 06:13 PM
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So what is really going on here when you aren't doing that? Is it easier to just be passive and get a BJ than to tell her what to do and deal with her resistance? You don't want to risk the sex to end because she might get mad that you insist on PIV? Do you put her on a piedestal when she's blowing you so you let her call the shots? Something is fucking spineless here. Yep. Dude dreams about filet mignon, but gets a sirloin every day instead. He's so used to never getting steak at all so he just…
/r/askMRP07/03/17 03:18 PM
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gets snarky as it is not as convenient as the 20oz bottle. Baby, you know I always bring you the big one that can last all day. Wink, smirk, walk away swinging your dick. Possible shit test overload followup: That was so inappropriate I can't believe you said that! Love you too babe, mwuah, see ya later... Sounds like you had this nice frame all day but in your wife's presence you let your guard down and let her blow it up. Need to work on having that same frame with your wife. She's not a speci…
/r/askMRP06/03/17 11:44 PM
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The world is a weird place. Amazingly, people dedicate their time to peer-reviewing research on all this weirdness.
/r/askMRP06/03/17 05:03 PM
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I'll become that man Yareally specializes in getting women to be the freak with him that they could never be with their husbands/boyfriends and has some posts on his archive. God bless you if you find it because it is a mess. When she climbs on top That's interesting, I would expect a girl who likes being on top to also love having your cock in her mouth and sitting on your face.
/r/askMRP06/03/17 05:01 PM
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I was going to mention that we are adults and do not need cringey elaborate euphemisms as well, and then I remembered some of the top voted posts/comments in TRP and MarriedRedPill are elaborate euphemisms and metaphors. Regardless for OP: telling your woman: I am going to lick that pussy till you beg me to fuck your brains out would probably work a lot better than: M'lady, might I wander through your streets until I reach downtown, if you know what I mean...
/r/askMRP06/03/17 04:23 PM
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Desire to perform oral on your woman is based in mate guarding psychology, mate-retention, and a mental point of origin that needs to please. Google "cunnilingus mate guarding" for more info. Some believe the male is also trying to increase the possibility for an orgasm to increase sperm retention to increase the likelihood of pregnancy. To paraphrase one: Male interest in cunnilingus peaks at estrus, especially when the man perceives multiple, simultaneous extra-pair couplings. Yes, you have be…
/r/askMRP06/03/17 04:17 PM
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The 12 steps of dread have become irrelevant. The 12 steps of dread aren't irrelevant. They approximate and outline a man that has woken up and decided to better himself. Most of the steps are analogous to various guides for single men; dressing better, socializing, working out. A man at Step 9 is ready to ditch his current relationship and get new women. Women know this, that is why they feel dread from the process. Being single, obviously TRP deals more with game; Bang! and techniques like pus…
/r/askMRP06/03/17 03:47 PM
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In this [year], I’ve devoured sidebar, pursued MAP, advanced at work and in gym, and have moved past the anxiety of trying to determine all the circumstances and details omitted or truly forgotten. I still wake up thinking about it. I still feel anger and hatred, but not all the time anymore. I was in your shoes for about 7 days. That is how long it took me to find out, feel like I did my due diligence, and then both of us move the fuck on with our lives. Those 7 days SUCKED. Why the fuck anyone…
/r/askMRP06/03/17 02:57 PM
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I can't do this anymore. I think we should be friends I'll drop your stuff off at your place, leave the key inside, and lock the door on my way out. Done. Instead you rolled around in her frame, dug around for some trickle truth that doesn't matter, and now you're covered in shit and feel like shit. You did a good job in your intro setting the scene like you have frame and outcome independence and DNGAF, but then you immediately cracked and started treating the hot girl like she was hot and you …
/r/MarriedRedPill23/02/17 02:51 PM
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Are you afraid of her emotions and responses? Afraid she might leave over this? That doesn't bode well.
/r/askMRP22/02/17 04:58 PM
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Haven't seen this posted in awhile, guess it is time again: https://www.reddit.com/r/TheRedPill/comments/2l7pqe/the_12_levels_of_dread_the_rules_for_any_long/ Dread Level 3: Begin to build a life apart from your wife. Join a club. Take up a cause, discipline, or calling. Get busy. Read the Way of the Superior Male by David Dieda and the Art of Seduction by Robert Green. Dread Level 4: Begin conditioning your availability to your wife with her treatment of you. Your are busy now. You don't have t…
/r/MarriedRedPill22/02/17 03:17 PM
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because my current wife was the only one I ever had (met her at 19) Sounds like you want to make up for missing out, you going AWALT bro? We aren't going to moralize, or waffle around with you about your FEEELZZ and your NEEEEDZZ. Do what you want...but it sounds like you need pussy for validation, and that is some weak ass bullshit. A) You are NOT the self-fulfilled guy who just gets other women and fucks other women, always have and always will, and that's just who you are and the girl your wi…
/r/askMRP22/02/17 03:04 PM
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I agree it is like a shit test. Same as a woman asking for any pie-in-the-sky bullshit from her man. No condom tonight please baby Aren't you ovulating? Ha, no. Sally got a lexus with a bow for Christmas Good for her This Instagram/Facebook lifestyle though!! Yeah, that's great Ever thought about watching me fuck someone else? HAHAHA I want to hyphenate our names Yeah, not gonna happen Another one of the million things a woman wants her respectful "nice guy" equal partner to go over the top for …
/r/askMRP22/02/17 02:39 PM
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but don't think you cracked the case Oh, but you an enigma wrapped in a riddle and I just MUST dive deep in the waters of your mind and figure out what makes you tick and how to give you the life that you want, it is my greatest desire, to tug at every elusive string you dangle until I have solved the puzzle. Interesting you think I have that capacity and desire, because I'm sure you think your wife does too then. We don't. I want a good post, your wife wants a good man. If the two are correlate…
/r/askMRP21/02/17 06:08 PM
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Going to have to go into nature/nurture bullshit or what depression/anxiety she is on. We can dig into all her shit, or we can talk about the only thing that we can change, you. I haven't initiated sex in about 2 weeks, because I didn't t feel like it. Yesterday in bed she starts kissing me, in what seems to quite sexual way, I'm thinking she must be horny too and I go with her. But then she starts behaving like 5 year old making retarded childish jokes, being all cuddly and killing any sexual v…
/r/askMRP21/02/17 05:19 PM
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I feel... Hmm. I would say that women (and men), start using "I feel..." more after reading a few marriage problem sites and "How to Communicate Effectively in your Marriage" columns. Is that a good thing or a bad thing? It is either a woman wanting to be more versed in subtle domination/control/gaslighting....or someone who is really trying to make a good-faith effort towards good interpersonal communication. "I feel" is at the top of every list. Not exactly common otherwise in everyday vernacu…
/r/askMRP21/02/17 04:05 PM
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I just checked the DSM-5 to see if "Clinical Insecurity" was a thing, the closest I could get was: Paranoid Personality Disorder Avoidant Personality Disorder Narcissistic Personality Disorder Maybe look into those. I can't imagine the insecurity it takes for a 9/10 guy to settle for a 6 (only because she is young, lol), and because "I wouldn't trust a very attractive woman to stay faithful." If you purposefully chose a girl who won't get anyone's dick hard, how does your work? Anyway, your inst…
/r/askMRP20/02/17 06:49 PM
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almost always happening in the lead up to ovulation If we are going by the books here, that is not beta comfort test time, it is alpha assurance tingle time. asking me what I want from her. I'm like you, I mix it up: AA, AM, Cocky/funny, Jerk-boy long term vision, kids, family, etc clarify/directions about task at hand My favorite though, and what she is wanting to hear when we are alone with "puppy" eyes, and maybe what your wife is wanting to hear if she is ovulating: What do you want from me?…
/r/askMRP20/02/17 03:51 PM
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You know it's been so hard since the baby was born with all of the stuff you've done...It's supposed to be the happiest time in my life and you've just ruined every moment...Well I don't think I'm coming into the office with her today...No, I don't think so! And we won't be going to Cancun She sounds like a bratty, spoiled child. You have opposite schedules, you now insist on sleeping correctly, and you have learned to STFU...which means, according to her, you have removed what is probably your …
/r/askMRP17/02/17 02:59 PM
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Wait a second... 1 month ago Girl of 6 months broke up with me today. She developed a cold sore and freaked out, went to the dr. and everything, says I gave it to her. Bruh. 95% of the population has HSV1, but she was acting like I ruined her life. I get a cold sore like once every five years…and I remember getting them as young as 6. I just don't see what the big deal is. So, you are in your early 20s, and are contemplating marrying a girl who broke up with you last month after knowing her for …
/r/askMRP16/02/17 09:19 PM
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I have had two one night stands in the past...there were times with other girls where I didn't have PIV sex, but did have oral/touching/etc...presently sexual promiscuity is not a problem that I succumb to anymore I don't think you EVER succumbed to it man. I'm Catholic, I know that guilt. I didn't lose my virginity until I met the woman I was going to marry at college, but had LOTS of "oral/touching/etc" until then. If your gf disclosed every french kiss and felt titty in-between heartfelt sobs…
/r/askMRP16/02/17 06:58 PM
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I just removed myself entirely and just asked what its like to be a weekend dad in a new thread. I apologize for making this about you, when you want others to make up your mind for you, I edited accordingly. I'm sure huffpo has plenty of listicles about single/divorced dads too.
/r/askMRP16/02/17 06:37 PM
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https://www.reddit.com/r/raisedbynarcissists Read around. Post your story even. Hear from the kids who were raised in a house like yours about what schedules worked for their family. Spoiler: They are all fucked up
/r/askMRP16/02/17 05:51 PM
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Was really wondering if people had tricks. Oh, well in that case, it is called stomach vacuum. Google image "stomach vacuum arnold"...it used to be ubiquitous in the fitness world, and then seemed to be forgotten, but is picking up steam again. There are a ton of "stomach vacuum" videos. I like this guy: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=I8aJxYtH4ts I did it laying in bed before going to sleep and when getting out of the shower for awhile, I definitely felt flatter. That guy explains a very seriou…
/r/askMRP16/02/17 05:29 PM
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My first thought was: Some engineer or programmer really needed this.
/r/MarriedRedPill16/02/17 03:35 PM
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http://truth-dealer.com/physiology/fundamentals/lean-body-weight-03.html Judging from that, I bet you would need to be 8% or less to not have any loose skin when lounging naturally. Not having any food/water/carbs for some period of time would probably help. Being 18 and skinny would be great, but that ship sailed. I would google image "male model sitting" and "bodybuilder sitting" and scroll until I've internalized what is acceptable to myself and what kind of effort it would take for me to mak…
/r/askMRP16/02/17 03:29 PM
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how do you handle these situations?...i can tell she wants me to connect with her...she just wants me to understand and connect with her. www.reddit.com/r/marriedredpill/comments/478ye2/wife_admitted_she_uses_sex_to_try_and_control_me/d0biqpm/ And I bet she wouldn't have noticed, just like I bet a lot of you didn't notice right now, you didn't actually confess any feelings. Every sentence was spoken in the second-person. You, you, you. You aren't confessing you're vulnerability at all, you're ju…
/r/askMRP15/02/17 08:43 PM
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Immigration is stressful, there are setbacks and false starts, you showing disappointment and getting upset doesn't help. her dad lying to me for 2 years, so I couldn't immigrate and live with his daughter Obviously she wasn't going to involve her dad after that, sounds like a bad idea for you to have him involved honestly. me and the wife were fighting a lot during those days...[still fighting]... I just cut contact for 10 days. You fight a lot, she obviously has no problem living without you, …
/r/askMRP15/02/17 02:20 PM
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OP is so powerless in his life he can't pick up a paperclip, bend it straight, and stick it in the hole on the bottom of the router. We have reached peak emasculation. The prophecy has been fulfilled.
/r/askMRP14/02/17 03:34 PM
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but I guess I just have to take the risk sometimes. You found MRP because you've been living the lie you thought the world wanted from you. Maybe you really are just a lame, joyless, compromising, ass-kissing bitch...great, be true to yourself, but just know the world isn't kind to those people. I think you have learned that by now. Long term BP me will get awkward Because that guy sucks, that's why he is here. Agree and amplify, amused mastery, hold frame, tease your wife. She's poking the bear…
/r/askMRP14/02/17 03:25 PM
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I'm 25 y.o...I was raised without a father... some stuff happened which took me down to a deep dark place emotionally....the bedroom died... researching on the web and finding TRP, MGTOW, etc. Are you ok man? You might need to talk to someone about some stuff? Most of MRP is self-esteem and frame, if you are not in a place where you can culture that then you are in danger of doing everything for the wrong reasons, or lacking the motivation to do anything at all. I want to know if there is anyone…
/r/askMRP14/02/17 03:08 PM
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Amused Mastery! Turning daughters into "daddies little girl" since forever. If you haven't been using it on your wife, then perfect it with your daughter, and then transfer those lessons back to the wife, watch that 9/10 get higher. https://therationalmale.com/2012/09/14/amused-mastery/ I mean, look at the banner picture for this post.
/r/askMRP09/02/17 09:04 PM
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Presence. That is the word. "Peacocking" is a term used extensively in the PUA and game literature, and can be researched, but that is a slippery slope to "clown" IMO. Clothes, grooming, posture, and body language easily get you into the top 20%, especially since women already have such a low appraisal of most men...http://i.imgur.com/2MstAzl.gif But that combined with "Presence" is what draws the eyes, makes them linger, and awakens the mind the impressive manner or appearance of a person. "Ric…
/r/askMRP09/02/17 08:49 PM
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I disagree that I don't know what I want... I can choose between scenario 1, 2, or 3... I dislike responsibility too. I used to live my life by procrastinating until only one option was left and then just doing that. Ambivalence is a shitty trait, and completely different from frame, outcome independence, and DNGAF. If you have no boundaries, if you have no expectations, if you have no preferences, if you don't care about what job you have, or your partner's fidelity, or how your kids are raised…
/r/MarriedRedPill09/02/17 05:51 PM
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Whore wife + plates + nuclear family That is called an "open relationship." Polygamous. There are subreddits around that will probably be a better fit for you. Even they are not going to suggest that lifestyle with a BPD woman you can't trust and that has involved the police before. True fact. TRP has beaten open relationships to death: https://therationalmale.com/2015/12/16/open-relationships/ https://heartiste.wordpress.com/2014/09/17/the-ugly-reality-of-open-relationships/ That leaves you wit…
/r/MarriedRedPill09/02/17 05:09 PM
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I'm looking to hear from the "deadbeats." You are talking with the guy that started this discussion 6 months ago. https://www.reddit.com/r/marriedredpill/comments/4tlziv/divorced_with_kids_on_being_a_parttime_parent/ I feel like that thread went closer to where you want this one to go. Reading the comments, you will see that most men here, on MRP, are family men, they love their children, they want the best for them, and want to be in their lives. That is why we are here instead of just the usua…
/r/MarriedRedPill09/02/17 04:51 PM
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This is dysfunctional and fucked... I'm sticking this out while it works for me... Scarcity. No abundance. Rationalizations are not the same as a frame. Since when is fucking other women scarcity mentality? I don't think you're fucking other women, I don't think you have any options, that is why you entertain thoughts of "plating" this dangerous, BPD woman you can't trust or control. If you had sex-fueled weekend with a healthy, dramaless young pussy you haven't already worn out for 10 years...a…
/r/MarriedRedPill09/02/17 02:43 PM
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Your inner monologue wears a fucking fedora bro. After the first couple sentences I unconsciously replaced all the feminine pronouns with "M'lady." she is a sexual sadist...The police are involved, lawyers are involved...What is I can tell you impossible to control, is a woman with BPD that has negative empathy\sadistic tendencies. Basically this woman was a total fraud... You are only worth the shit you put up with, and apparently you will put up with anything...risking jail, litigation, STDs, …
/r/MarriedRedPill08/02/17 09:15 PM
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But judging The Red Pill by the most extreme statements of its members is, if not unfair, then at least inaccurate. There is plenty of vileness, to be sure – elaborate conspiracy theories formed out of pure misogyny and outright hatred of female independence. But the bulk of the comments are much more muted and, frankly, pathetic. I agree with you and the author. A broken, confused, sexually-inexperienced man seeking answers on an anonymous website...embarrassing, pathetic...but with some self-a…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/17 10:14 PM
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for the last 3-4 years I have been acting very bluepill....We got married 2 years ago.....wife finally found a job in the same [country].... her company is giving her accommodation and she will stay there. The country you live in doesn't happen to be "more exotic" or have a higher standard of living does it? The kind of place a person from her country would petition her employer to send her to because, as luck would have it, she is a citizen-via-marriage there? Google "foreign brides documentary…
/r/askMRP07/02/17 03:11 PM
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Menopause joke, took me way too long to get, but my girl is late 20s so pretty far from my mind.
/r/MarriedRedPill02/02/17 04:51 PM
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If you think the shit tests are bad now, just wait until you drop out or fail and end up making less money than you could have been if you graduated. I chose to pursue nursing in order to long term make more money and possibly go through NP Get CNA in a couple weeks, work while getting RN cert, work while getting BN, work while getting APN. Go from making 25K to 100K in several years working whenever and wherever you want. Best gig in America right now. This track is so easy and so fool proof. S…
/r/askMRP02/02/17 03:44 PM
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I 100% agree, but the silver lining is that OPs frame is getting better. She had to go to the big guns, a suicide threat/recalling his suicide attempt, to get him back in her frame, and get him to tampon with her. And then she did some relationship building by consenting to sex. She's not going to be able to pull out the big guns with every frame grab...and a couple more times and its effectiveness is going to be reduced to zero. Once that doesn't work all she is going to have is sex. As OPs fra…
/r/MarriedRedPill02/02/17 03:16 PM
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u/thefamilyalpha has a good post about "keeping her on her toes." That is half the benefit of AA and AM and cocky/funny, it gives you the opportunity to create 100 little emotional spikes throughout the day. A) If you are unlikable and low value then those are just microaggressions that will piss her off. B) Without frame and charisma you won't be able to hold your own in the little mini-emotional-whirlwinds they can create and blow the winds in your favour. That's why the usual advice is lift, …
/r/MarriedRedPill01/02/17 10:34 PM
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Rollo at Rational Male recently had a post about women wanting men that were able to "kill the puppy,' that had the strength and outcome independence and frame to do the "unsavory" things that they didn't want the responsibility for. In that instance he was talking about ending the relationship when the time came...but I think in your instance it could be burying your child and moving on. I'm sure I haven't read as much on the subject as you, but it seems like marriages ending over dead children…
/r/MarriedRedPill01/02/17 02:58 PM
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I needed to read that again.
/r/askMRP01/02/17 02:12 PM
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My condolences for your child. Having known several couples who have lost children...please tell me that their room is not a shrine. Please tell me that your home isn't a mausoleum. A child's death is devastating, it destroys people, families, and relationships. I can't imagine what I would do, or how I would do it if I were in your shoes...but I can't imagine leaving their room "just how they left it" is psychologically healthy for anyone. I can imagine your wife's desire to be away from that i…
/r/MarriedRedPill31/01/17 11:28 PM
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Normally I'm all for cuddling (and will escalate to other things), but it's 5:00am and I need sleep. 15 minutes of devildick and a busted nut would have put your girl in her place, saved you all this drama, given you the best 45 minutes of sleep you've had all week, and given you the alpha mindset needed to dominate your day of client presentations. Don't even wash that shit off and watch everyone buy whatever your selling all day. Sucks being a man sometimes and having responsibilities, we know…
/r/askMRP27/01/17 05:15 PM
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http://truth-dealer.com/physiology/fundamentals/lean-body-weight-03.html Good pics with descriptions. Over 20% it doesn't matter, get lean fast, then worry about it.
/r/askMRP27/01/17 04:15 PM
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Yes, I wanna be like Trump, I will get a haircut like his! I have been growing my hair out, I swoop it back and call it "The Don" just to trigger her. Her anxiety and political BS takes over until I just absolutely "fry her circuits." It is a PUA term but it absolutely works, once she's been fried and I weather the storm its back to business as usual.
/r/askMRP26/01/17 05:52 PM
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Catch them being good Is certainly a reinforcement technique. But here's the thing, not being her normal bitch self isn't worth flowers, it's the bare minimum required for your time, attention, and commitment. She's wondering if you're still a beta flower-sending bitch stuck in her frame, if these improvements are real, if this morning workout shit is just an act...and you almost fell for it over some period pain...wait til she really starts testing you with 6AM blow job promises via text. It so…
/r/askMRP21/01/17 12:07 AM
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sex while cheating Hysterical bonding, guilt, allaying suspicion, keeping her millionaire content. cheating No dread of loss. No fear of the consequences. Right time, right place, right guy.
/r/askMRP20/01/17 07:37 PM
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I googled "period flowers cringe" because I swear I've seen somebody do this. I feel like flowers are appropriate in this situation Read NMMNG and WISNIFG again. I don't plan on initiating tonight Why the fuck not?! So you have an excuse to send flowers? Well, I can't be a beta bitch or have a covert contract if I don't even WANT sex tonight. She'll see what a great undemanding, asexual man she has and really appreciate that. God damn son. Buy a black/maroon towel. Keep it around. Initiate whene…
/r/askMRP20/01/17 07:25 PM
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After eating, I no longer felt like doing the dishes. So ...I go to kiss her before a shower, telling her she needs to join me. She declines. or agrees. Another day out of 365 is in the books. See what happens when you STFU and don't feel the need to be constantly preemptively be apologizing and defending and DEERing and instead own your shit and hold your frame. You showed weakness and apathy and low value and she pounced, what the fuck you expect? Let's have a worst case scenario: After eating…
/r/askMRP20/01/17 05:41 PM
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Agree and Amplify and Amused Mastery are two of the best flirting and woman management tools available. You used to know this when you were in elementary school, and maybe highschool/college if you had game and lots of gfs. They weasel in because A) You are agreeing, women love that, and B) you are amusing, women love that too. It can defuse a situation or generate tingles. Plenty here and at Rational Male and Chateau Heartiste (if you wade back through the "Trumpening") Think about the last tim…
/r/askMRP20/01/17 05:13 PM
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Watching John Wayne movies isn't going to make you John Wayne. BUT, watching Blue Valentine will make you cringe and feel so disgusted with everything that you identify with that you might actually be a little more motivated to be a better man. http://heartiste.wordpress.com/2011/01/18/beta-valentine/
/r/askMRP19/01/17 03:01 PM
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http://truth-dealer.com/physiology/fundamentals/lean-body-weight-03.html Start at the bottom of the page and scroll up until you get to the point that any self-respecting woman would consent to enthusiastically fuck you. Hint: You're 10 percentage points and many months away. That site has all the math, plans, exercises, and timelines you need.
/r/askMRP17/01/17 03:12 PM
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I've set boundaries Become a valuable man, decide what you want out of your life and relationships, set boundaries, only allow men and women in your life that add value. RP as fuck.
/r/MarriedRedPill12/01/17 04:31 PM
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If I knew then, what I know now, I would have left sooner... Fuck what you didn't know, you weren't even the MAN you were then that you are now.
/r/MarriedRedPill12/01/17 04:25 PM
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the point of this post: I want to help the men this applies to reach this realization sooner so they don't waste time trying to make something happen that will never happen. I had to learn this through meditation and lots and lots and lots of thinking. Hoping to save some guys the trouble. How is improving yourself wasting time? You think a percentage of men should just swallow the pill and leave their partner? It takes months man. A man has to improve and develop outcome independence and build …
/r/MarriedRedPill12/01/17 04:20 PM
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I have to finish texting my friend We have to put all this stuff away I need to get ready for bed first Hang on let me pick out my clothes for tomorrow Wait until later Let me get out the meat for dinner first Wait until we go to the store first That doesn't sound like "face to face and about to get it on." It sounds like you're waiting around with your dick in your hand for mommy to run out of excuses. If you have gamed and kinoed and isolated and escalated and she puts it off then don't just w…
/r/askMRP12/01/17 02:36 PM
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Welcome to the club man. We expect great things of you, and you should expect them of yourself.
/r/askMRP11/01/17 04:01 PM
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For the new people: Every unhappy wife is a rape victim If you can't secure enthusiastic consent then you need to up your game, and think about why you are spending your life trying to please and fuck someone that doesn't want to fuck you. This road leads to the anger stage, and later, abundance mentality, OI, DNGAF, and the end of oneitis and pedestalization. If anyone here is not on that road then they haven't been paying attention.
/r/askMRP11/01/17 03:57 PM
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This is a great entry level, approachable, summary of adding MRP into your sex life.
/r/askMRP11/01/17 03:47 PM
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Been reading here a few years I have read the entire sidebar Rejections and delays from sexual partner Never thought about leaving Fucking liar. If you are too insecure to admit you are new to this then I can't imagine all the cringey shit that goes on in your daily life that you interpret as "[owning] my shit."
/r/askMRP11/01/17 03:32 PM
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Fucking the same girl for six months than moving on at the slightest annoyance is easy, hence the tone of OP's post. Agreed, OPs history bears this out. submitted 2 months ago by 88Will88 It has been three years single, plates, STRs, ONS and no interest in a relationship. Now I find myself bored of the chase, bored with plates and I have met a cool girl (not a unicorn, do not have oneitis). I have had one LTR before, lasted 20 years and I enjoyed 90% of it. The moral of the story I guess is why …
/r/MarriedRedPill04/01/17 11:22 PM
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All LTRs, given enough time (we are talking decades, not months or years) will become boring at best, or someone will cheat/ leave. Not a bad premise, we have: She is not yours, it is only your turn. So, First things first, there are no unicorns. She will have some red flags. The thing is, and I'm going to go out on a limb here,and say that at this moment about half the guys here think they DID marry their unicorn (or a really decent woman anyway) and would be perfectly happy if she would just f…
/r/MarriedRedPill04/01/17 04:20 PM
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1: She is with you, and I'm assuming not fucking you 4+ times a week. Therefore: She KNOWS you are a worthless piece of shit. What kinda of man would put up with the shit she gives you, and the amount of sex she puts out. She KNOWS you "love her." She KNOWS "you take her seriously." She KNOWS all this shit because she knows that, if you had any value, you might leave her, she might have to defer to you, she might have to put in effort, she might have to fuck you. SO: When she gives you this shit…
/r/askMRP03/01/17 10:57 PM
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Did someone say "score!" https://www.reddit.com/r/askMRP/comments/4clb60/had_a_fight_last_night_help_me_parse_it/ OP needs to read this thread top to bottom, paying attention to jacktenofhearts breakdown of "score."
/r/askMRP16/12/16 04:10 PM
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http://yareallyarchive.com/ Top Right of the page.
/r/askMRP16/12/16 03:58 PM
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https://www.reddit.com/r/askMRP/comments/503os6/lift_and_stfuhow_much_should_i_stfu/ Three months, no progress. Supplicating and being her doormat so she will stay because you can't bear to be alone. Everything you and I discussed last time still applies. I promised she wont regret moving into new town with me and how there is not a day when she doesnt regret it. I would regret it too... Your problem is that you decided to build your life around trapping a rebound girl who quit putting out after…
/r/askMRP15/12/16 07:03 PM
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amused butthurt is still butthurt? If it doesn't have the tone and tenor of: Oh honey, that is so cute pat on the head, slap on the ass Then it is not amused at all...
/r/askMRP15/12/16 04:44 PM
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If I dropped her today I know I could easily find someone hotter and more pleasant with ease and she'd absolutely struggle to do that, but SHE either hasn't internalized this yet or doesn't believe I'm prepared to drop it all and leave right now (which to be fair, is true, because of the kids.) So I did respond in an overtly dickish and sarcastic way to her test. The word is solipsism. Read up at Rational Male. Add value, build frame, develop outcome independence, be benevolent, amused mastery i…
/r/askMRP15/12/16 02:54 PM
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https://www.reddit.com/r/askMRP/comments/5ehv3m/christmas_gift_ideas/ https://www.reddit.com/r/askMRP/comments/4zmsqf/giving_gifts_birthday_anniversary_xmas/ https://www.reddit.com/r/marriedredpill/comments/3wslyw/need_xmas_gift_ideas_for_wife/ https://www.reddit.com/r/marriedredpill/comments/30ez4m/whats_the_mrp_solution_to_giftgiving/ https://www.reddit.com/r/marriedredpill/comments/2phd6k/what_are_your_thoughts_on_gifts_ideas_for_good/ https://www.reddit.com/r/marriedredpill/comments/3s04nh/c…
/r/askMRP14/12/16 11:09 PM
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Perfect rundown. Married 5yrs. Ltr 10. Emotional affair with "work husband". No kids. Very similar to me. Knew it was over, confronted her, divorce finalized as soon as the minimum waiting period was over, moved on to younger, hotter, tighter. You might be able to save this...but why? You told him last month, you told her last month. I just tell her she should keep herself in check and that was inappropriate. I set up meeting and talk with him about that. Now you are powerless. They are both con…
/r/MarriedRedPill14/12/16 11:02 PM
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You won't want fatties or girls with baggage any more. cute girls who aren't crazy or entitled are very very rare. crazy or entitled Those girls were never LTR material anyway, and are now just easier to spot. Are we imagining saving them at some point before they got fat, crazy, entitled and developed baggage?
/r/askMRP14/12/16 08:28 PM
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What resonates with me is how you said a good LTR will seem organic and natural. When everything is going accordingly it really does. You're woke now bro. You're not going to do the unnatural blue pill beta shit. You are not going to settle for a woman who doesn't desire you. You are not going to force a relationship with a woman who doesn't desire you. You're not going to allow women who don't add value into your life. You are not going to put a woman on a pedestal above you to try to facilitat…
/r/askMRP14/12/16 08:23 PM
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What advice can you give us late 20s folks when it comes to dating aspect of life at this stage. Everything is going to be okay. Don't worry about this shit. Take care of yourself, self-actualize, build a quality life and it will be easy to find a quality woman who wants to live in your frame with you, you'll find her or she'll find you. realize that with age my pool of potential high quality mates is going down. Not at all true OP, and the biggest misconception. I thought the same thing after m…
/r/askMRP14/12/16 05:48 PM
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It depends on your frame. Are you the guy that takes care of what's his and loves being papa bear? Then meet her at the bus stop. Are you the sexy lothario who kicks a girl out of bed in the morning? Make her walk. "Tired" isn't a good reason here. "Manning up" isn't a good reason either. Decide what is best for you and your family and do it. Without knowing where you live...I would do it during the Winter/Holidays if I could. Or arrange for some way to get her to the door of the building. There…
/r/MarriedRedPill14/12/16 04:17 PM
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He's crying because his mom caves in every time he does. Great insight. Good post.
/r/askMRP14/12/16 01:02 AM
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About 2 years ago her teenage son came to live with us (he is 16 now) Ok, so his mom fucked up bad enough to not even get 50/50, or just didn't care, so he lived with his broken father (not wanted by him either so lived with aunt!) until the age of consent (14 in this case I bet). God knows how bad it got, but seeing the men that come dragging ass in here, divorce busters, and surviving infidelity I can fucking imagine. He has issues i think... Yes, yes he does. Family therapy, meds, and counsel…
/r/askMRP14/12/16 12:27 AM
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I got the inkling he was gonna delete so I stopped typing and posted...turns out I was right.
/r/MarriedRedPill13/12/16 09:32 PM
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I told her last night that I am planning the entire event, starting on Wednesday, and concluding on Saturday....I’m taking off work early on Wednesday, the 21rst. I have already told her that she is to be ready for me to pick her up from work around 4 and go immediately to dinner. The reason for that is I am going to dress up the house as my personal sex palace while she is at work. ...but I know this will work.....Then, I’ll let her open one each day leading up to the event to let her suspense …
/r/MarriedRedPill13/12/16 09:29 PM
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In college I played through one of the Final Fantasy games. I remember being so pumped as I beat Sin and saved Spira. I have the image of my save game burned into my fucking retinas. 106 hours. 106 HOURS What did I gain from that? A Rikku fetish? An appreciation for Square Enix? A more lush and verdant imagination? That accomplishment has never impressed anyone, has never benefited me, and those hours could have been spent studying or doing something more constructive. We can all google "benefit…
/r/askMRP13/12/16 05:06 PM
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Yes, a return to form, being the man she was originally attracted to, seems like it would be easier than becoming an entirely different person she has never seen before. I think many of our tenets are geared to be able to get those guys over the hump. Shut the fuck up Go slow Lift to become psychically more attractive Handle all your shit Raise your SMV No ultimatums Never discuss sex etc... The point is to slowly and quietly become attractive and valuable so that your wife has the opportunity t…
/r/askMRP13/12/16 04:35 PM
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How do you build up comfort without losing the attraction at the right pace so that you don't over do it as I seem to do every time. You can't build comfort because you already built a wall. A woman interested in you and attracted to you will try to comfort herself, you just have to recognize it and respond to it. The wall is cold and high and thick though, and you didn't build any windows. Imagine you've seen someone three or four times, what is your response to these: One night as things get s…
/r/askMRP13/12/16 04:12 PM
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I don't remember being this popular in high school, but now I'm the center of attention. . act like you've been there before. This is why MRP is so much easier for the guys that had some game in high school and college, they HAVE been there before. They remember. Then there are the guys that don't have those memories, but have come a long way since school and matured and can internalize frame, abundance, outcome independence, and irrational self confidence and do just as well. Then there are the…
/r/askMRP13/12/16 03:42 PM
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I have a small butt plug, and I'm going to purchase a suction-cup dildo at some point, the idea being to fill all her holes at once. While I'm inside her, or in her mouth, the dildo fills the other hole. She loves having fingers or panties in her mouth while we are fucking, so this would just be the next step. I have a Hitachi for foreplay, edge play, bondage and light BDSM, but I don't see myself using a dildo as a surrogate. She never owned her own though so I don't have to bridge the gap some…
/r/askMRP13/12/16 03:18 PM
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I see a therapist I was going to mention that, when people start talking about defense mechanisms and coping strategies and how guarded they are etc...that really extends beyond what people on the internet can help with other than providing you a place to talk and vent and give feedback on your comments. Your situation is not out of the ordinary though. I think the sidebar reading will be really helpful for you. When I Say No I Feel Guilty and No More Mr. Nice Guy are at the top of the list for …
/r/askMRP12/12/16 04:05 PM
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Ok so you're not going nice guy overboard, due to your past you are overcompensating and being aloof and distant and cold. To be fair, a girl that really wants you will expend quite a bit of effort to attempt to overcome that. But the general red pill rule to try to prevent aspies from acting like retards is 2/3 I think. Give her 2/3 of everything she gives you. She sends you 3 texts, send her a couple. She cooks for you a couple times, take her out to dinner. She adores you after sex a few time…
/r/askMRP09/12/16 03:48 AM
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try to go affection or comfort and it gets me slow degradation of the relationship until it's gone Are you talking about the woman you wanted to marry from college before you moved to Japan? Or are you back in the states serial dating? Regardless, the most important thing when it comes to the first couple days/weeks of dating/sex/relationships is to have ZERO (0) expectations about what is going to happen between you and the girl. Tinder date? No expectations. Same night lay? Wake up, go to brun…
/r/askMRP09/12/16 02:56 AM
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Check out The Chump lady - Real vs Imitation Remorse Seconded. "Sorry" and then continuing the status quo doesn't cut it.
/r/askMRP08/12/16 03:36 PM
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Congratulations on your progress. I want to mention that anyone who is able, especially those seeking improvement with confidence, public speaking, leadership, shyness, shame, eye contact, charm, wit, anxiety etc...should join a Toastmasters club in their area. Their website has a list. Great place to transition from a shy socially anxious person to a person capable of commanding a room. Local members are also usually the type of people you would benefit from knowing.
/r/MarriedRedPill08/12/16 03:10 PM
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If you had the self-respect to kick her out of the house and file for divorce after the affair then this would all be settled. She would either wake the fuck up real quick and be a better wife, at least for awhile, or she would have taken the opportunity to leave (20% chance of coming back when reality sets in and/or you stoically continue with the separation and divorce). But you didn't so your relationship is stuck in some malingering phase, of which the conclusion will most likely not be much…
/r/MarriedRedPill07/12/16 08:18 PM
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To be honest it was her or nobody really. I used to be quite popular and fun when I was younger but that has faded quite a lot over the years, I didn't want to end up totally alone. Also we don't want children and pretty much everyone else I know is having kids so if I wasn't with her I'd probably be with somebody who wanted children....She threatened to leave me if I didn't propose to her....I am not very attractive or interesting if I'm brutally honest! So when we got together and it seemed to…
/r/askMRP07/12/16 06:28 PM
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Without commenting on the article, I will say that I have gotten the impression that the incel and deadbedroom subs occasionally discuss chemical casteration, medications, and other methods to suppress their libido to compensate for their partner's lack of attraction/libido and/or their sexless/affectionless existence. I can't imagine resenting my libido, much less desiring draconian methods to extinguish it.
/r/askMRP07/12/16 04:07 AM
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I think many men here can identify with that fucking cold sweat, the chills, when we realize the potential damage a woman is capable of. It must have been extra unnerving to think that you have taken adequate precautions to insulate yourself, but then realize that you are dealing with a next-level psychotic that doesn't play by any of the fucking rules, and is capable of anything without remorse...even worse when that woman is someone that you loved and thought you knew and were attempting to bu…
/r/MarriedRedPill06/12/16 12:22 AM
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She is an evil psychopath. I believe you. Lets recap. You got 4 good years of being fucked, sucked, and pleased to a level most men could only dream of. She stepped out, and you took your ring off and moved on without legal or social repercussions. You then found out that she had a sordid past and had cheated on you before. You did what you felt was due diligence to her new lover. She continues to make your life a living hell through various methods. It's May, she has a new man on the hook and y…
/r/MarriedRedPill05/12/16 09:30 PM
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Outcome independence Frame DNGAF Sounds promising OP. Question: Starting three days ago!? Am I being a dick for wanting to sell my wife's craft machine? I got home last night and she had the house cleaned, dinner ready and dressed up cute with a smile on her face. Incredible sex was had. Wife packed her shit yesterday and said she was going to stay at her parents' house for a while... Then we fucked and she moved back in. Last night we had sex for an hour and I gave her three orgasms. So congrat…
/r/askMRP05/12/16 03:23 PM
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From your thread in r/divorce no kids...my marriage is not improving...I very much want a family....I have to consider the possibility that I would not necessarily meet someone else very soon after separating from my wife. That could mean not having kids until I'm in my late 30s, or 40s, or perhaps even ever. And I'm trying to decide if that is a risk I am willing to take. On one hand, my marriage is becoming a net cost in my life, wife and I want different things for our future lives, and I am …
/r/askMRP04/12/16 09:56 PM
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I'm low [Machiavellian] but high [narcissism] with some psychopathic traits developed through entrepreneurship. Combined with high empathy... We all saw the narcissism, we all saw the "egoist," that is probably why you're presenting different than what we usually see here. Many of the men here showed up during the worst week of their life. They can't believe this could happen. They don't know why it happens. You, on the other hand, knew it happens, you know why, but you can't believe that it hap…
/r/MarriedRedPill04/12/16 08:49 PM
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Dude, we have all read: NMMNG WISNIFG http://www.sharischreiber.com/articles.html ex_addict_bro We know what enmeshment means, we know what codependency means, we know that it takes two people to cocreate a relationship, we know that if one partner is damaged it means the other is very likely damaged in a similar and complementary way. I'm going to save you some sidebar NMMNG reading and skip to a pertinent question: Why did I need to co-create this relationship? How does this relationship let m…
/r/MarriedRedPill04/12/16 03:01 AM
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I"m really glad you got some of your victim puke out of the way in the OP, that is the first step brother, welcome to the MRP club, you are not special, you are not unique, we are all married or have been married, nobody cares anymore what she did to you, that is in the past and you can't change that. We care about how you are moving on and improving your life. The bad woman can't hurt you anymore. Kill your ego man. It sounds like you still haven't moved on with your life. Keeping up with her, …
/r/MarriedRedPill04/12/16 02:41 AM
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I reread your "family therapy dome post" and you got so many good responses in there. mostly mentally abused by both parents I think I covered why CPS came, but many of the comments in the family dome post ring true about the pressure to excel, loosing a best friend, feeling of worthlessness, conditional motherly (fatherly?) love based on performance, and shifting dynamics with parents and M's place in their lives. The comment your mother made about your grandparents may be appropriate, but I do…
/r/MarriedRedPill02/12/16 06:31 AM
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A) I'm going to assume that you have been the best father you know how to be. B) I'm going to ask if it is possible that she has ever been raped or molested by ANYONE. If rape/sexual violence/molestation statistics can be taken at face value...there is a significantly higher than non-zero chance that she is a victim. MRP missed this, The Blue Pill missed this. But, almost every woman that has ever been comfortable enough to confide in ME has mentioned a dick they didn't want to touch, or similar…
/r/MarriedRedPill01/12/16 07:09 PM
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The general consensus: Experiences over objects. The experience should be something YOU want to do and enjoy, and you invite her along to have a good time. That $200 costume jewelry or trinket or whatever will be forgotten in a drawer, but that $200 meal for two or fancy AirBNB location in town will always be remembered, even if your RP journey leads to divorce. $200 too much? $20 each will probably get you tickets to see a local performance of The Nutcracker or something, pretend to have some c…
/r/askMRP23/11/16 03:46 PM
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She's getting like 1500+ calories a day somewhere bro, if she wasn't, she wouldn't be overweight for long, end of story unfortunately. That 30 minute walk I talked about only burns 200 calories, and that's about the most you can expect a woman to do unless she's the fitness type. Sounds like your bodyfat is over 20% too and it would help you both if you took a long hard look at how you're eating
/r/askMRP17/11/16 11:07 PM
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By having fun, I am mostly referring to fucking after we go out. Be sure not to have any covert contracts around that. It would be really easy to become a passive aggressive asshole in that situation. Well, I want to fuck my g/f so I better take her to dinner and then Well, I took her to dinner, she better fuck me If you are aware that is your definition of "fun," then so is she. A beer and a bowl of ramen around the coffee table can be just as fun and nurturing and intimate and sexy as dinner o…
/r/MarriedRedPill17/11/16 10:50 PM
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I didn't want the OP to be too lengthy. It is your vomit, it will end up helping you more than us to get it all out.
/r/askMRP17/11/16 08:26 PM
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Was it you who said: A woman will fuck a man she hates before she fucks a man she is [apathetic?] about Manosphere fucking truth. I love to press Newgirl's buttons, and Newgirl loves to bring it up. Surely by now she realizes that I do it mostly because "riled up" is often just a short step to "hot and bothered." And it's just amusing as hell.
/r/MarriedRedPill17/11/16 08:22 PM
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she understands nutrition...she's just not even trying Nutrition is 95% of the battle with a women's weight outside of muscle building/definition...so how do you run the nutrition in your household? If the only snacks available for you and your family were baby carrots, yogurt, dried fruit, nuts and water to drink--and you planned the meals...then nobody in your house could get fat, end of story. You could accelerate this by talking your family on a walk around the block before you head off to t…
/r/askMRP17/11/16 08:05 PM
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https://therationalmale.com/2015/03/16/making-up-for-missing-out/ It is super difficult to hold a woman down from 18 through her twenties without the "making up for missing out" theme playing out. There is a world of dick and experiences out there for her, and here she is with the same old asshole. Unless you are seriously her hypergamous optimum that she dreads living without then she's going to buck you off at some point. You don't sound like her optimum though, you sound like a guy that got l…
/r/askMRP17/11/16 07:49 PM
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OP: Another good thread, and it has the link to "keep her on her toes" https://www.reddit.com/r/marriedredpill/comments/4ton4b/masculine_moves/
/r/MarriedRedPill17/11/16 07:34 PM
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Our relationship began by having fun almost every night we were together What is preventing you from having fun together now? Keeping in mind that just because you take them out and have fun doesn't mean they are attracted to you; my exwife and I had an enviable social and activity schedule. In your post it seems like you have all the prerequisites of attractiveness. You're making 60K more than her, you're ripped, you aren't constantly around each other. What your post lacks is how you game your…
/r/MarriedRedPill17/11/16 07:33 PM
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but what I'm really talking about is the body of knowledge. I realize what the term "liberal arts" mean educationally. I certainly appreciate the body of knowledge, and ended up taking the highest level courses offered in nearly every area of study, but we will have to agree to disagree about the "crybaby fag" mentality that, while prevalent on many campuses today, is especially egregious on liberal arts campuses. It seems you are just taking offense to "liberal arts" being used as a pejorative …
/r/askMRP16/11/16 07:07 PM
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I graduated from a liberal arts school, my degree says "Bachelor of Arts." I think it is a good term to portray the propensity to verbally vomit, the need to always be sharing feelings and having them validated, the desire to create safe comfortable places free of tension and misunderstanding, using logic and reason to really discuss a topic until it is dead, but not settled, because we are all entitled to our feelings... Maybe, all that is not all bad, all the time, but OP is trying to fuck his…
/r/askMRP16/11/16 06:15 PM
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The days are counting down. I finally found a house worth buying and put in an offer. Should close and move in within 60 days. GF is super excited about moving to town and living with me after she graduates next month. Going to be interesting going in the opposite direction as a lot of the men here.
/r/MarriedRedPill16/11/16 06:05 PM
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HL/LL terminology is a brand you labeled your wife with to avoid any responsibility on your part, and it means you've been browsing /deadbedrooms, usually populated by sad, worthless people looking to wallow in their asexual existence instead of doing anything about it. "Chemically LL" is another term to use to avoid responsibility. It's chemical, there is nothing I can do about it, not my fault... Is she on birth control? Chemo? What is her problem that modern medicine, Flibanserin, therapy, et…
/r/askMRP16/11/16 05:37 PM
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What do tinder and affairs get you? Could you legit have sex with a woman hotter than your wife? If so, why is that you think? Because you're more charming than you are with your wife? Because you're not desperate for sex and validation from a random woman? Because you can pretend to have your shit together for one night? Because they don't know your shit? But in time they will just like she does. Just because you can fuck other women doesn't mean you're awesome. It just means you're good at put…
/r/askMRP16/11/16 04:58 PM
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Exactly! I mean damn.
/r/askMRP16/11/16 04:31 PM
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Chinchilla? Are you sexually satisfied in our marriage? Your eyes soften at first, seeing her, looking at her, for what seems like the first time, in a long time. And then your eyes get that twinkle, she remembers, you used to look at her like that all the time back when you were both young. She notices the sly smile cross your lips as you get up and close the distance between the two of you. As you lean forward, your hands on the chair around her, your face now inches from hers, you say... Let …
/r/askMRP16/11/16 04:29 PM
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33-34 is not "problematic." Just some info here, multiple doctors in my immediate family, including Ob/Gyn. Any woman that will be 35 or older when they give birth is treated by the medical establishment as a "high-risk" pregnancy. Pretty interesting to me.
/r/askMRP15/11/16 07:16 PM
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Amendment: 1 Year ago: Feeling somewhat uncomfortable with PiV 1 Year ago: Hot sex without strong gender polarity, is it possible? 10 months ago: To men (or males) how many of you feel a need to satisfy women 3 months ago: When meeting someone in real life, when do you disclose your status? (self.nonmonogamy) 9 days ago: Who should be the initiator of sex? (self.askMRP) 5 days ago: Men's sexual oppression goes deep, and starts with every adolescent boy learning to hide his erection Dude, you are…
/r/askMRP15/11/16 05:40 PM
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As a mid 30 something recent divorcee without children: You'll never be ready, the timing will never be right, nothing will ever be perfect. Do some soul searching, you are either okay with this woman being the mother of your children and attempting to raise them with her, or you are not. Disney isn't real. What is real is two people committing to each other to do the best they can for each other and their family. Honestly, it sounds like you are not ready to do that, with your two more years an…
/r/askMRP15/11/16 05:04 PM
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If you want to take one fucking thing away from this: You have zero fucking frame. What the fuck have you been doing? FOR YEARS?! Want to know how this whole fucking thing could have been avoided? 1) Be a fucking man 2) Partake in No Shave November because "why the fuck not?" 3) Prepare yourself to represent your family well in family photos 4) Take the family to get family photos made. You failed because you missed Step 1. You don't have the frame to fucking handle your facial hair and fucking …
/r/askMRP15/11/16 03:48 PM
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One of my favorite parts of my rediscovery process was getting my sarcasm and wittiness back. I used to never answer cute girls straight back in HS and college, but somewhere along the line, after thousands of "what are you doing?" and dead eyed glares from my wife, I just started giving the straight, mundane answer to avoid reprisals, but I was also avoiding banter, fun, intrigue. Getting that back is so much fun. What are you doing? Where have you been? What did you do today? Why are you doing…
/r/askMRP14/11/16 03:49 PM
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Hey guys, so I swallowed the red pill and I'm ready to make all these changes in my life to get my wife to fuck me....it's just I just don't even like my wife and resent her so much from not fucking me the past X years, so I'm having a hard time getting motivated to make said changes.... Every week.
/r/askMRP14/11/16 03:18 PM
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Whew, ok, man. So I identify a lot with this and I'm going to try to break this down for you. 1: Constantly. in. her. frame. Always. Everything you do revolves around some outcome that you have theorized will get you the desired response from her. You don't have your own frame yet, your own outcome independence, and your own IDGAF. Instead of just "swallowing the pill" and getting to work being a man she wants to fuck, and following the damn steps, you are just trying to theory-craft a better wi…
/r/askMRP10/11/16 04:49 PM
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+1, but the flip side is that she is already a full-time caregiver to two disabled children. After divorce she would be doing the same thing, with his money, just that he wouldn't be coming home at night, but all the guys lined up to be step-dads on match dot com could come over instead.
/r/MarriedRedPill08/11/16 07:35 PM
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https://www.reddit.com/r/marriedredpill/comments/5burhb/fr_on_the_brink_of_divorce/ Read this just-posted success story OP. The situation is so similar, but so backwards. You can't have that anymore. You didn't get there first, she did. You weren't the man you needed to be to make this happen, and she wasn't the woman. It sucks OP, we know, but divorce is often the best case scenario, MRP or not. Get a lawyer, fight for the best terms you can. Maybe you can flip the tables, maybe not, not sure w…
/r/askMRP08/11/16 07:25 PM
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Congratulations OP. +1
/r/MarriedRedPill08/11/16 07:15 PM
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I admit that paying 2K in vet bills for exwife's "best friend" that she later left with me when she moved out probably colored my commentary. I missed the comment about his wife graduating in a year and making 100K. And I 100% agree with you after reading your comment above about asking, though it really depends on his FIL and their relationship if it shoukd be asking for help with a gift or asking for help to help himself. Much appreciated.
/r/askMRP08/11/16 12:03 AM
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she is willing, but I am going to take my ball and go home cause she isn't really into it Lol, when the other team isn't into it, that just means I get to put on a clinic and run up the score. Keep it 100
/r/askMRP07/11/16 11:30 PM
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Just gonna mention the MRP maxim about a woman surpassing her man and then leaving his ass. I'm not that cynical though usually. Best of luck OP.
/r/askMRP07/11/16 11:20 PM
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Ask your FIL/MIL for money and own it. Do it with your head held high. Don't start off the conversation with "I hate to ask but...." or "I feel really bad bringing this up". Tell them you've planned as best you could to help support their daughter while she goes to school, but it hasn't worked out as well as you both hoped. Tell them you'd be tremendously grateful if they'd help you out until your wife's job started and the household income returned to a regular level. DON'T ASK FOR A SPECIFIC A…
/r/askMRP07/11/16 11:12 PM
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I'm from the type of family, and have always been involved with women from the type of family, that if anything was needed, a check was written without a word before it was asked for. That said, I have read plenty of horror stories. I'm surprised that such (benevolent?) parents, knowing their daughter is a poor PhD student, and knowing that her husband is a teacher and currently sole breadwinner, haven't offered you money. A credit card linked to their account with her name on it until she gets …
/r/askMRP07/11/16 10:55 PM
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Enjoyed this thread.
/r/MarriedRedPill07/11/16 08:43 PM
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When you went limp was she emotionally devastated? Did it make her question her self-worth? Did it shatter her self-esteem? Did she cry because she fears she is not attractive enough to you anymore? That has happened to me like 4 times in the past couple years. If your girl just shrugged it off and went to sleep...?
/r/askMRP07/11/16 08:13 PM
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encourage her behavior of laziness. You have a woman acquiescing to your penetration. You shouldn't need more than that. Are you a boring lay? Don't be. She goes starfish then wrap your hands around her throat, put her on her hands and knees and pull her hair, lay her head off the bed and fuck her face, grab her hands and hold them tightly above her head, blindfold her with your t-shirt, pick her up and place her on the floor and fuck her there. My girl knows that if her hands are not digging in…
/r/askMRP07/11/16 04:06 PM
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I wrote her a nice poem and letter this morning on my way to work. What hurts the most about our cuck repost troll is the stinging sense of familiarity. I'd wager many men here can identify with a lot of the stories. It is embarrassing to remember how we acted back in our blue pill days. Unlike our cringey moments from grade school and junior high and high school that we can look back on and repeat the tales and laugh at ourselves because they hardened us and matured us or taught us something or…
/r/askMRP07/11/16 03:50 PM
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https://www.reddit.com/r/marriedredpill/comments/4ton4b/masculine_moves/ Follow the "keep her on her toes" link too.
/r/askMRP01/11/16 05:05 PM
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I don't believe one fucking thing you said. If you were a 27 year old alpha, you wouldn't need internet strangers to pick an LTR between a boring woman, and a woman older than you. You'd be fucking them both and maybe 6 months from now if one proved her unending loyalty, submissiveness, femininity, libido, and genuine desire she would get to be called "girlfriend." 2 years from then she might get an engagement ring if you're family orientated and she keeps up the good work..but probably not beca…
/r/askMRP01/11/16 04:58 PM
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I am generally of the opinion that dread game is best when passive....Active dread seems try hard. - SirGaetanDugas . blogs like CH have posts like [CH link full of active dread suggestions]. To call those suggestions "emotional abuse" is overblown, silly, and false. To call it "effective MRP advice" is also false. We are not going to be fixing fundamental problems in our marriage based on how often we [use all of the active dread scenarios in the CH link] I hope this is not a controversial opin…
/r/askMRP31/10/16 08:48 PM
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The summa theologica on the topic: https://www.reddit.com/r/marriedredpill/comments/374wln/what_we_talk_about_when_we_talk_about_dread_13/
/r/askMRP31/10/16 03:22 PM
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So why keep going? Once you improve enough, for yourself - once you do it to satisfy your own internal drive to be your best self, and not as some covert contract for BJs and better sex, your wife will come around. Or, she won't and you'll be able to make a positive decision from firm footing to leave. Essence of MRP.
/r/askMRP27/10/16 12:45 PM
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You have proof that she was involved in an emotional affair before and during the wedding and until recently. You haven't been married that long. You don't have kids. Fuck dude, you could get an annulment...and those are impossible to get. Forget "saving your marriage," the legal system would rule that it never even legally happened in the first place...and that is how you should fucking look at it too. I have had 3 long term relationships in my life and they all end the same way. What are you? …
/r/askMRP25/10/16 05:12 PM
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UGHHHHHH What the fuck Charlie Brown? That isn't very actionable. I would think this is a troll if you hadn't been posting the same sad shit for two months with zero action. Deadbedrooms didn't even want your sad ass shit, that is a new low man. Since you have zero decision making skills when it comes to your personal life I'm going to give you a list. Go to your doctor, duty bound to keep your secrets and paid by the hour, awesome. Tell him you were molested as a child and grew up sexually inex…
/r/MarriedRedPill25/10/16 01:21 PM
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It just gives everyone an out. It's not your fault bro, nothing you can do, she has endocrine problems Or maybe he pulls it out to convince men that their woman is not going to come around so they might as well leave her.
/r/MarriedRedPill24/10/16 10:31 PM
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Excellent. My very first "girlfriend" taught me this lesson in junior high. It wasn't much of a relationship obviously, but she wanted out, so she kissed another boy and told me about it. I was supposed to get mad and dump her, but I just didn't care. It drove her fucking crazy that I didn't care if my "girlfriend" kissed another boy. I didn't know I was supposed to dump her, so she got furious and had to dump me herself. After she had some kids and dropped out of beauty school she started tryin…
/r/MarriedRedPill24/10/16 10:21 PM
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I am 5'10, 190 lbs 12% body fat and in great shape. That's awesome... http://truth-dealer.com/physiology/fundamentals/lean-body-weight-03.html 12% though, really? I am good enough to generate a couple hundred thousand a year Great If you knew how bad I wanted to be desired and fix this shit.. It is painful Oh, we all know here buddy, we all know. I have always been a leader in my life, starting lots of businesses, generating income, and creating new opportunities. You are in the top 2% of all me…
/r/MarriedRedPill24/10/16 09:46 PM
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I would have to say, at 22, when "Pony" came out, I was at the height of my natural powers. I was in high school, but I couldn't agree more, "Pony" just personified me at the apex of my game. If it came on the radio while my boys and I were out we would all just look at each other and smile, knowing we were gonna have an awesome night. If a girl was in the car we had to pull over. The thing is, objectively, after my divorce, for the few months with tinder before I got involved in an LTR again, I…
/r/MarriedRedPill24/10/16 05:06 PM
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Maybe it was my attitude. 90% of MRP is getting that attitude back.
/r/MarriedRedPill24/10/16 04:52 PM
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After my divorce the first girl I dated put on some Skrillex and told me to pull over so we could fuck on top of my car. It wasn't the 90's, it was us.
/r/MarriedRedPill24/10/16 04:46 PM
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but then I'm driving a piece of shit BMW...I'll stick to cool pickups. Sounds like we both have preferences and opinions. What is preventing you from living the life you prefer? Driving a vehicle you are proud of. You ever shined up the sensible sedan and posted it on facebook? whomp whomp. Trucks can have four doors too. It's interesting that you think they were deferring to my frame What a gaggle of drunk women, fresh off a bitch-fest high, would say to your face if they truly felt any derisio…
/r/MarriedRedPill24/10/16 04:37 PM
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No shit some people like sexy cars and conspicuous consumption. Another chick wouldn't eye a dude in a corvette but would fuck a guy on the tailgate of his 20 year old $3K 4runner that had seen some mud recently, ironically the same guy could own both and appeal to different women based on what he was driving that week. I knew fine ass viet girls in high school that wouldn't fuck a guy unless he had a honda...yes, a $6K used honda civic was the ticket to fine Asian pussy. The real theme here is …
/r/MarriedRedPill24/10/16 04:03 PM
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I am 46 years old, my wife is 49 and I have been married 8 years and dated 12 years prior 26 year old sexually-inexperienced dude settles for 29 year old epiphany phase woman approaching the wall (and never gets her best) instead of banging fresh college grads, lives giant covert contract ever since I was sexually harassed around 8-9 years old and have had shame around sex and being honest with what I really want. I know that when I initiate and my wife responds with : All you care about is sex"…
/r/MarriedRedPill24/10/16 03:16 PM
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Said the respectful wife that deals with her kids all day long. Said the wife that doesn't communicate directly, which is to be expected of a female brain. Said the woman that has probably told you all of what I just did a ton of times, saw that it didn't work and thus went to other excuses to why she doesn't want to be subjected to your family in hopes you get a clue. But you didn't. A+...to confirm from a month ago: My mom is a textbook paper hoarder and exhibits most of the symptoms associate…
/r/askMRP17/10/16 07:55 PM
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So you've drank heavily for your adult life except for 7 out of the last 8 months, you're getting AMOGed by her dad, she's labeled your sister persona non grata.....prima facie it appears you're a drunk captain. That's fine, you're in law school, it's haaaard so let your wife handle everything, that's fine, she's still fucking you, but don't get pissy with her because you've let this happen. https://www.reddit.com/r/marriedredpill/comments/2yrxtp/the_three_dysfunctional_captains_and_first/ I can…
/r/askMRP17/10/16 07:22 PM
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Why does he know what mom and dad make? If I hadn't taken over the family business I would have no clue what my parents made, I just know we lived comfortably. Please tell me your son is not a pawn in some passive-aggressive financial cold war between his parents. Why can't you be the husband, father, leader, financial planner, and scheduler of your house, irrespective of income? The fact that you are not in that default position is the wizard behind the curtain here. I know you've had to come f…
/r/MarriedRedPill17/10/16 05:53 PM
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Let me be clear that if we don’t reconcile I would be gutted A 33 year old u/starryeyedbum said this about his 9 month girlfriend...remember that next year. Everything is roses for a few months That 9 month time-frame might be stretching it apparently. Things are gloriously disfunctional/disfunctionally glorious. Sounds awesome bro, glad you're so high value you have time and energy for all that bullshit in your life. Sex stops...Is still a high value woman A high value woman that doesn't fuck y…
/r/MarriedRedPill17/10/16 03:27 PM
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thought this report was going to end with road head Saturday I had to park in the middle of the road so I didn't wreck while cumming in her mouth. If people can't believe this shit happens to a high value man surrounded by women he arouses....I would say I feel bad for them, but I was there too, and I don't pity my former self one fucking bit.
/r/MarriedRedPill17/10/16 02:47 PM
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Are you fucking kidding me man? Do not go on the work trip....get another job Give up his job for a woman that isn't fucking him and isn't aroused by him?
/r/askMRP29/09/16 10:26 PM
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Currently I am scheduled to be away from home due to work until december, then post-december for 8 months or so, returning a few weeks before the wedding. So you're gone for nearly a year, minus the holidays. You'll only have a skeleton of a relationship during this period. I encounter hard-no's probably 25-30 times a month before she gives in... I can't complain in the BJ department She can't stand to fuck you right now bro, sucks, we know. At least she is keeping your balls drained so you don'…
/r/askMRP29/09/16 10:22 PM
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a woman who IS getting married in her 30s and wants children purposely chooses a "beta." She knows that alpha will give her trouble--he won't be loyal and he won't be comforting....She might be glad to see him go be alpha somewhere else because she never intended to play the role of first officer. Edit: Rollo answers this better in https://therationalmale.com/2015/01/18/she-turned-on-me/
/r/MarriedRedPill29/09/16 09:47 PM
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"The Quick Fix" always leaves me conflicted. He says it is never worth it to dig yourself out of a hole. As soon as you are friendzoned, as soon as you are on the beta provisioning side of the hypergamous equation, you should be gone, irrespective of children and lifestyle. But the point of MRP is to turn it around. It’s my belief that wives will use a married form of open, or certainly casually overt, revelations of Hypergamy in order to rouse a man to a Red Pill awareness in the hopes that he’…
/r/MarriedRedPill29/09/16 03:30 PM
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Creating a throwaway account to call somebody out? Bitch move bro. https://www.reddit.com/r/marriedredpill/comments/54kq7n/confidence_amazing_how_quickly_it_can_disappear/d82xihb That is the post you are talking about. If you have a comment or a question, pretend you have some masculinity and post it there. I found out she was a whore girlfriend while I was in bootcamp, didn't discover until 8 years later. Came to the same conclusion as you, for the 8 years she was solid and still is a solid wom…
/r/askMRP29/09/16 02:45 PM
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First day of the rest of your life bro. You call a lawyer yet? There is nothing to gain from drawing this out.
/r/askMRP29/09/16 02:20 PM
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The "180" or "Last Resort" routine from "Divorce Busting", a book written by a woman in the 90's, who acknowledges that women are usually the LL partners who end up cheating or leaving her spouse...This is gold, once divorce is broached, this may as well be our playbook. Don’t pursue reason, chase, beg, plead or implore. No frequent phone calls. Don’t point out “good points” in marriage. Don’t follow her/him around the house. Don’t encourage or initiate discussion about the future. Don’t ask for…
/r/askMRP28/09/16 10:17 PM
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a wife has a convincing argument for talking her husband into allowing her to cuckold him knowingly. If this is the crux of your argument the solution should be apparent.
/r/askMRP28/09/16 12:24 AM
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I can tell you've been reading too much alt-right stuff and watching porn again. Chateau Heartiste even dabbles in this " fetishization of black men" stuff. Yeah, rap is cool, drugs are cool, thug life is cool, therefore rappers, drug dealers and thugs can fuck bitches, this isn't new. AMOGs and situational alphas always fuck bitches. Steven Tyler and Lil Wayne both fuck bitches. The guy selling dope in the 'hood and my pasty adderall-slinging college roommate both fucked bitches. The truth is m…
/r/askMRP27/09/16 07:28 PM
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Some Red Pill gold there boys. Not sure your husband would like that Mrs. Fatwife Maybe i will joke about it first Not sure your husband is down for that Mrs Fatwife i will joke around with him on the idea. When a bitch crosses a line, or wants something from you, and her response is Just teasing, just joking, just playing, only kidding, just wanted to see what you would say, no big deal, it is not a big deal You remember this fat troll convincing her cuck husband to walk in on his wife getting …
/r/MarriedRedPill26/09/16 03:27 AM
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you’d be surprised how good I could make myself look in short order. She isn't even cognizant of how savage that is, don't be mad at a bitch very long, you're RP now, it just amuses you and helps you pull out that last dead lift set. The thing about Dom/Sub, BDSM sex...it removes all choice. They can't resist, they have no power, they don't have to think about anything, they don't have to be anxious about anything, they can just disassociate and be ravaged. I took my relationship there, exclusiv…
/r/askMRP23/09/16 11:23 PM
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mini honeycombs You, sir, just elevated my charcuterie plate game. I tip my hat and nod, ever-so-slightly, in your direction.
/r/MarriedRedPill23/09/16 09:48 PM
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25% is fucking FAT bro. The best thing to help your health and looks is to get to 15-17% as fast and healthy as you can irrespective of muscle-mass. http://truth-dealer.com/physiology/fat-loss/rapid-fat-loss-01.html
/r/MarriedRedPill23/09/16 04:26 PM
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Mine isn't red pill at all but this it, and I like it. I mention she's cognizant of the cost/benefits, but apparently: I can see she wants to go back, hasn't begged me or pleaded but she's banged up over it. Be the man and make the decision for your family and own it. Take that weight off her shoulders, assume she doesn't want it and some of this anxiety is due to the uncertainty of the current situation.
/r/askMRP22/09/16 08:30 PM
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It really fucking sucks to decide to only do what you want to do, and be doing everything that should make you happy...but still not being happy because you're not having the sex you think you deserve. I've been there bro. I still deal with it. And we can't blame anyone but ourselves, because either we stay with someone that isn't fucking us like we want, or we won't improve ourselves to the level it would take to get fucked like we want, and/or are afraid we can't go out and find somebody else …
/r/askMRP22/09/16 08:16 PM
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Median survival is 2 years, 90% are dead in 5 years. We have been discussing moving back next year already once I hit my 5 years and get a guaranteed pension. well then... I'm flying her down there and keeping a kid and sending a kid for a couple weeks, we just took a trip when we found out a month ago. I can't see how I can just quit such a good job that I enjoy for a company that loves me but at the same time how can I let her sit 10 hours away and have her resent me for it. You're living the …
/r/askMRP22/09/16 06:57 PM
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we had pizzas, which she ate in bed, I sent her a text and told her I was going for a walk. Holy shit I just realized they text each other, even when they are both home, instead of talking to each other. Not that you need to tell anyone you're going for a walk, you only did it because "that'll show her.."
/r/askMRP22/09/16 06:35 PM
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http://truth-dealer.com/physiology/fundamentals/lean-body-weight-03.html This is pretty solid too.
/r/MarriedRedPill22/09/16 05:58 PM
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After today NONE OF THIS SHIT HAPPENED! You missed opportunities, that's all. You'll get more. yeah he's to skinny, he needs to gain some weight I just bought these new jeans you love my ass in I'm fit enough to toss you around Any fucking display of AA or AM or frame at fucking all dress up in a slutty costume for the chance to go but would NOT for me. I say nothing. more like My wife brought up dressing slutty and I fucking wiffed on parlaying it into anything fun or flirty because my fee-fees…
/r/askMRP22/09/16 04:35 PM
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What attracted her to you in the first place? Just an easy going paycheck? I don't think it was that bad if she could suffer through fucking you non-starfish 2-3X a week. Are you still doing attractive things? Fun things? Make her tingle? followed by a week of enthusiastic dirty sex 5-6 times. I guess so, but when this happens, it needs to ease her dread. She needs to learn that when she is sweet and feminine and sexually available, she gets her comfort, she gets her stress and anxiety relief. T…
/r/askMRP22/09/16 03:38 PM
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Asexual Boy Love reader Weeaboo Skyrim all day Convention-cock tease woman of value Where is all this value you speak of? I'm afraid she's going to break up with me soon. Somebody needs to have some ball here, might as well be her.
/r/askMRP20/09/16 08:20 PM
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not for LTRs If you're so invested in vetting for LTR/family potential why you trolling the post-wall epiphany-phase women bro? Can't snag a 20-something? That low self-esteem and insecurity keeps you orbiting 30-something's that you can only finger occasionally? If you were worth half the acronyms you've thrown around today you wouldn't "LTR" a bitch you ain't fucking, and you wouldn't be posting online about a bitch you've never fucked who has ignored you for a month, you'd be on to the next o…
/r/askMRP20/09/16 06:36 PM
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on point
/r/askMRP20/09/16 05:42 PM
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That ego-protecting rationalization hamster is strong with you. You can have your 30 year old "virgin" that can only tolerate you enough to take your two fingers twice a year. I promise that if she's ever used normal sized tampons she didn't have a hymen for you to break-- penis or fingers or fairy dicks or otherwise. I promise that a thirty year old woman that has never had sex with an LTR is: not attracted to you broken both The fact that you're so invested in her hymen and anybody without one…
/r/askMRP20/09/16 05:29 PM
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It's possible that she's feeling some dread but is stuck in the maze: https://www.reddit.com/r/marriedredpill/comments/374wln/what_we_talk_about_when_we_talk_about_dread_13/ Read all.the.way.down. You have to get her hamster out of the maze. She tried blowjobs to ease her dread, but it didn't take. Are you sexy? Are you man that takes what he wants? Are you a man that wants sex? Do you act like it? Do you GAME? Isolate, kino, escalate, initiate? You need to show her that fucking your brains out …
/r/askMRP20/09/16 03:38 PM
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You. clueless. fuck. Have you ever seen a girl before? You don't FEEL her hymen. You can SEE it! 15+ years of life and tampons means she doesn't have a hymen anymore. AND CERTAINLY...CERTAINLY...the first time two man fingers go knuckle deep open it up and she doesn't have a hymen anymore. I can't wait for you to google this and realize your whole relationship is a lie. 3/10: Didn't even link you any hymen pictures. Edit: +1 for the delayed chuckle I got from imagining somebody confusing a cervi…
/r/askMRP20/09/16 03:00 PM
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Told to go get it else where and for her to not find out The worst shit test of all. She literally doesn't believe you could manage to get your dick into another vagina. This shit test has been written about extensively. The only thing a woman that says this deserves, is to be proven wrong. I bet you beta-bitch comforted her too. No baby, I could never find another woman like you, we're married, and that is more important than ever having sex again, believe me! I am so desperate for your love an…
/r/askMRP20/09/16 02:40 PM
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I can't even say I made her used goods because she didn't let me stick my dick in her, just fingers. I wanted sex that night She doesn't seem to be bothered by the lack of sex or affection. She's asexual, broken and/or repulsed by you, you fucking worthless piece of shit. You call a woman you have never put your dick in an LTR? Beta, orbiting fuck-up. You've never HAD SEX! That you would waste more than 5 dates on a woman that won't fuck you says volumes about your negative self esteem, your lac…
/r/askMRP20/09/16 02:10 PM
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Like /u/pikadildo mentioned, I don't have any opinions on "Sex Starved Marriage," or even the whole book "Divorce Busting," But the "180" or "Last Resort" routine from "Divorce Busting", a book written by a woman in the 90's, who acknowledges that women are usually the LL partners who end up cheating or leaving her spouse...This is gold, once divorce is broached, this may as well be our playbook. As Pikadildo mentioned, TRP suffers from bad branding, but "following Michele Wiener-Davis' advice" …
/r/askMRP19/09/16 03:30 PM
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My bookmarks: https://therationalmale.com/2012/01/17/setting-the-rules/ Should probably be required reading here. A guy wants to stay home instead of go to a birthday party, but knows his wife will be mad. What do? https://therationalmale.com/2012/09/14/amused-mastery/ Single greatest tool to have a fun, enjoyable, positive, masculine, powerful, endearing frame...and thus life. https://therationalmale.com/2015/03/31/wives-lovers/ If these headlines don't make you want to read this post then what…
/r/MarriedRedPill15/09/16 05:03 PM
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More: https://therationalmale.com/2014/11/28/rational-male-qa/ 1) Does ONEitis best Hypergamy? 2) Genuine Inter-Gender friendships? 3) Religion vs Evolution vs Habit? Gold from the comments: I wonder if someday you could illuminate the ways in which men’s love is idealistic. Turn on any top 40 radio station. Listen to the lyrics men write and sing then compare them to what women write and sing for half an hour. Profit. Watch the movie ‘Her‘. This is a 2-hour illustration of male idealistic love.…
/r/MarriedRedPill15/09/16 04:50 PM
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Here are some questions he has already answered: https://therationalmale.com/2014/08/14/20-questions/ 1) What brought you to SoSuave and how did you find the site? 2) Any special reason for your SoSuave username, why you chose it? 3) What’s the best and or worst advice you’ve ever received in regards to chicks? 4) Have you ever posted in or lurked in other seduction forums/blogs etc? 5) How many chicks have you slept with? 6) What was your worst and best experience with a chick? (wife, girlfrien…
/r/MarriedRedPill15/09/16 04:33 PM
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Hell, I deleted three today. My criteria is usually: Why did I write this? Did it help me? Or others? If it only helps me then I usually delete it, because the benefit has already been derived. If it might help others then I leave it. Sometimes I just hit save anyway, like scrawling your name on the back of a desk.
/r/MarriedRedPill14/09/16 08:47 PM
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time on the SoSuave forums It is interesting how the bloggers I followed transitioned. The manosphere begins with pussy, sorry, it does. I don't think about the FI or hypergamy or the elections or lifting weights or see an interracial couple and go find the manosphere. I'm thinking about dating or the girl who rejected me, or gaming women or getting my wife to fuck me or saving my marriage or getting a divorce or what to say to that cute chick in my class. I ended up in the manosphere via the Di…
/r/MarriedRedPill14/09/16 05:31 PM
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Awesome field report Homo! You need to be aware that these are noob gains. Stonepimpletilists has a lot of posts about "sprinkling alpha on it" and I think you should read them and really pay attention. I'm also worried that you have a lot of resentment built up from your deadbedroom and are in danger of becoming "dark triad." So, now Ron knows that if he doesn't give me what I want in bed, he'll have to find a new bed. No, he knows that you can act like a butthurt faggot. He may have apologized…
/r/askMRP13/09/16 06:17 PM
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The Godfather of the manosphere. I appreciate Mr. Tomassi and the MRP Team for this incredible opportunity. I think it is a testament to his work that I can't immediately think of a burning unanswered question, maybe tangents left unexplored. I'm reminded of Richard Dawkins, another influential mind whose work is exhaustive and unyielding. In forums, he gets a lot of softballs, and questions any Biology major could answer...but some of his most interesting answers...at least the ones that get a …
/r/MarriedRedPill13/09/16 05:48 PM
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Evident you don't read Rational Male. number one root cause of the sorry state of modern masculinity? Not to put words in his mouth, but his writing evidently states that he would say Female Imperative/hypergamy/solipsism with the byproduct of feminized men. Those terms are too "intersectional," to use a feminist term, to dissect without great length, which Rollo has done over the past 5 years. He might go further and say that men are the root cause because we have let that creep in and replace …
/r/MarriedRedPill13/09/16 05:14 PM
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discard inmediate check out ir cut and run, which is something true alpha. There are a lot of threads here where the common response is "why are you still with her? Leave!" I don't know many true alphas, but I think another stereotype is not being emotionally or monetarily invested and not having any qualms about culturing romantic options and potentially following up on them. Having a woman at home while living your life and getting all the side action you can. This is what the 12 Levels of Dre…
/r/MarriedRedPill13/09/16 04:10 PM
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You got it all wrong bro, we love victim puke, it is needed for progress a lot of the time. It's interesting that you say we hate it...but then say there is great advice.... The great advice has a lot of cussing, and derision, and scorn...because that is what is needed. If you made a place for people to victim puke, but then commentators could only say nice things...you would not have any advice or progress. r/askMRP is by definition for noobs, for entry level questions.
/r/askMRP09/09/16 06:12 PM
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Whenever I worry about shit like that...I load up firefox, start up a private browser (you can only look at 3 profiles outside a private browser), go to pof dot com: Women seeking Men 23-30 Thin-Athletic 25 miles from zip code And then look at all the women online RIGHT NOW, or online TODAY, or online THIS WEEK....for some reason I always feel better after that. Then I go lift weights. Time invested Worst reason ever bro. Man I've had my leg in this bear trap for awhile now, I'm pretty invested …
/r/askMRP09/09/16 02:18 PM
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she wants to feel more wanted...right now. When was the last time you approached her with passion, with intensity...pounced on her and kissed her furiously like a man possessed, let her feel your raging erection. Bonus points if you then hold yourself back...chill...say "I needed that"...and walk away like it never happened.
/r/askMRP09/09/16 02:06 PM
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Dude, if you want to go to dinner and have fun and fuck a woman later...then try on your woman. When you're single you have to put in effort too. Drinks, kino, flirt, escalate, venue change, logistics, drinks, venue change...if she's a cold fish when she walks in the door then try to fuck her before you get her home. I know a dozen places that I can pull into and fuck in my car. I take her around back and fuck her on the deck instead of going in the front door. Ten years together, no kids, infre…
/r/askMRP08/09/16 03:32 AM
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What we had was comfort. Contentment. The death knell of a relationship.
/r/askMRP08/09/16 03:17 AM
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You realize that many of the men on this sub didn't have the lovely wife they have today until they got to Level 8..and stayed there right? Sounds like you're at Level 4 to me. The Professor himself had to get to like level 11 if I remember correctly.
/r/askMRP08/09/16 03:12 AM
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I really like that story. The closest thing I think most boys have to a "Rite of Passage" anymore is killing their first deer and/or getting their first car. Those obviously don't have the same preparations and connotations and responsibilities, and that is sad. I remember reading about one Rite where the boys are literally stolen in night from their "wailing" mothers, taken into the woods and initiated. I remember a youth camp I went to with a similar dynamic on a tamer level.
/r/MarriedRedPill07/09/16 10:26 PM
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The longest thread I ever bothered skimming on TBP was a bunch of women debating how to navigate society while not being a bitch by shutting "nice" guys down, and not being a bitch by leading "nice" guys on. Not that TBP is an assortment of average functioning women.
/r/MarriedRedPill07/09/16 10:10 PM
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The PUA community is big on phenibut, supposedly easy and safe to use, a nootropic, just like caffeine, that you can essentially always be on.
/r/askMRP07/09/16 10:07 PM
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I'm gonna assume you're not a troll for a little while. Bluepillprofessor and Athol Kay both talk about using these practices in homosexual relationships. Long story short, don't be a beta bitch, people don't respect them, and nobody wants to fuck them. We typically think of men as the high libido partners, thus two men should have no constraint on their sexuality....and in general that is the way it seems to stereotypical work. The fact that you can't come up behind Ron, stick your hand down th…
/r/askMRP07/09/16 10:01 PM
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some fake smile on my face Get a real one bro. You're alive. Your dick works. You have a MAP. Listen to some Dashboard Confessional in the car and get over it. The worst day of your life is a boring story somebody heard on a Tuesday. Best RP advice I've ever heard in real life. Your Red Pill may not have been a full dose. High Value Men don't mope for a week.
/r/askMRP06/09/16 07:52 PM
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Almost like she's acting like the beta male here. Woman isn't acting right, but men can't have that, so we probe for information and try to fix all their problems and use rationality and logic when we just need to STFU and give them a hug....except in this case it's reverse..because for 5 years she has been the one responsible for everything. And we all know that pisses women off when men do it...just like it is pissing you off now. Six Days Ago. We have been having little to no sex, no snugglin…
/r/askMRP06/09/16 07:17 PM
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Married red pill or not I guess a shorter version could be, that the argument itself is ideally moot...MRP in itself IS the process of wisely preparing yourself to divorce (or not). There should be little difference in opportunity costs, or you're doing it wrong. A man above the inflection point likely didn't end up on /db or /mrp...and a man below it has little value divorcing immediately, MRP gets a man climbing the curve, the idea being to reach the inflection point. You seem to be saying tha…
/r/MarriedRedPill06/09/16 04:11 PM
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Yeah, if you read my further comments on the subject here and in other threads we discuss how GTFO/divorce has become the default. Stereotypical, the poster has already tried talking, therapy, counselling, books, choreplay etc...and self-improvement is not an option there...so the only thing left for a commentator to say is divorce. Certainly the LL partner of many posters seems to have few if any redeeming characteristics. MRP men are generally here because we want to save our marriage due to s…
/r/MarriedRedPill06/09/16 03:42 PM
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https://therationalmale.com/category/parenting-2/ All you need to know. Most importantly: You will never be appreciated for your sacrifices...Your reward, your motivation, for being a Red Pill parent and a positively masculine example in your kids’ lives needs to come from inside yourself because it will never be rewarded by a feminine-primary social order. Concerning #3: I cannot endorse single parenthood for either sex. Parenting should be as collaborative and as complementary a partnership as…
/r/askMRP06/09/16 02:33 PM
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I'm not gonna question your captainship man, maybe when she's so deep in your frame you can lead from behind a bit and this would work, but not #1 here and now. Get rid of the bookcase and consult with her on what she wants. Have her show you examples and what she's trying to solve. I'm not sure he should back down on this now. Solidifies that everything he does is up for re-question, reanalyzed, replaced, redone, rethought. If he was Papi' then she would probably love and appreciate whatever pi…
/r/askMRP06/09/16 03:14 AM
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Dude this was a great read. Dealing with the silent treatment isn't always this easy from what I've read in this sub, but your FR seems to show you've got good frame and your wife is almost inside because she couldn't resist your game. You mentioned the same thing I would... Could probably do better if I had better AA or AM skills You seem reeeally close to living the sexy cocky-funny life with a fun flirty little wife in your frame. That's my favorite, maybe that's why I liked this post. And th…
/r/askMRP02/09/16 04:30 PM
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This is the most stereotypical every-man post I have ever seen. Add in the single-post user-name and zero use of any manosphere terms and I think we have our repost troll. For the record though, the 12 Levels of Dread were written just for you buddy. She's probably getting her emotional ans sexual needs somewhere else but that's besides the point. W.I.F.E. = Woman I Fuck Everyday. Your woman says sex and intimacy is off the table, so your husbandly duties are off the table too. Live your life, r…
/r/askMRP02/09/16 04:04 PM
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As for the woman, you have a great lesson. What should have been the time when you needed her, you received disdain, and a solipsistic attitude. She gave you the gift of the true nature of women. Not even Rollo could bring it all back full circle better than that. Fuck.
/r/askMRP01/09/16 10:56 PM
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Your SMV isn't the score we're talking about... https://www.reddit.com/r/askMRP/comments/4clb60/had_a_fight_last_night_help_me_parse_it/d1jr3ej Now that we've read that, back to ping-pong....who keeps score u/blimblamp? Remember little league? The mercy rule? Who kept score? The losers. The champs fucking know they are so far ahead it doesn't matter, they never kept it to start with, they just internalized that they rounded the bases so many more times than you from the start that you could neve…
/r/askMRP01/09/16 10:41 PM
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Well said.
/r/askMRP01/09/16 07:10 PM
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It's also hard to enjoy the fruits of your labors if you're still pissed. Enjoy. Perfect.
/r/askMRP01/09/16 07:05 PM
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lil bit of pussy being available provides the chemical changes needed for us to accept mediocrity Intermittent reinforcement, works on rats, works on men.
/r/askMRP01/09/16 07:03 PM
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as I have started achieving some of the early goals I've set You answered your own question. You have achieved some early goals. That is awesome. Now you have to make more. sex has increased Be the guy that does anal, be the guy that fucks his woman on rooftop parking decks, be the guy that films amateur porn, be the guy that gets blowjobs in club bathrooms, be the guy that fucks in changing rooms. It's nice to start with a deadbedroom and ANY increases in frequency are amazing and cherished...b…
/r/askMRP01/09/16 06:59 PM
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Losing your son is tragic. I can't even begin to comprehend. And it is okay if that broke you. It is okay to be a train wreck. It is okay if you break things. It is okay if you cry. I can tell you don't want to be "selfish" here. I know. So I'm going to flip it for you.... You can't be a good partner to her so soon after divorce and death. You can't be a good parent to her three kids so soon after divorce and death. She's probably done having kids. You will never have what you lost, with her and…
/r/askMRP01/09/16 06:34 PM
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Jackten never responded to my love letter to meet after class...should I up my comfort game or use more dread? Just notice me senpai :(
/r/askMRP01/09/16 05:01 PM
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I do lack perspective though. If this post is detrimental nuke it You made this post. It helped YOU. How did it help you, do you think? Reaffirm something inside yourself? Show that you're beginning to "just get it?" Reinforce what you've been thinking about recently? That is a great benefit of askmrp, looking back on what you posted and gaining some introspection, some perspective as you say. Don't ask for it to be nuked. Don't let it go to waste. Look inside yourself and wonder what made a guy…
/r/askMRP01/09/16 04:56 PM
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Everything you said is true. But imagine you've been in your wife's frame for decades. Imagine you just unplugged. Imagine you came here today from deadbedrooms or relationships instead of the manosphere and your world is shattered and nothing makes sense and you feel like your marriage, your life, is on the line. Is THIS fucking real life?!?! Is ANY of this real? I was told to BE MYSELF?!? I thought we were married and life was supposed to be great and I didn't have to be THAT guy anymore?!?! Y…
/r/askMRP01/09/16 04:21 PM
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OP should also quit the weed, like, yesturday (mentioned in another post) If she knows she pisses clear and he won't, it very well could come up in a custody battle.
/r/MarriedRedPill31/08/16 08:04 PM
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Someone should form a church of manliness. Guarantee there is a "cowboy church" within driving distance of you.
/r/MarriedRedPill31/08/16 03:36 PM
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Rollo has been reading Dalrock I see.
/r/MarriedRedPill31/08/16 03:33 PM
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Ultimately I want her to see the errors of her ways Separating from an abusive alcoholic is not an error. Not really giving you a second chance is not an error either. If this was a female self-improvement forum we would be telling her she does NOT have to give you a second chance. Relevant: How did you get this second chance 1.5 years ago? Did you whine and beg and plead? Or were you so fucking awesome, was your life going so well, that she got curious? We've posted this a lot recently so why n…
/r/askMRP31/08/16 03:22 PM
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Those two years of separation certainly were not cockless either.
/r/askMRP31/08/16 03:16 PM
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We had a big argument, where she disrespected me (name calling, insults) and she just left the house without saying a word or saying where she's going. __ curious: would someone with genital chlamydia pass on the infection if they only perform oral sex? __ She IS searching him. People search their exes, who cares. Caught a glimpse of him in her search history before. __ She wanted to go to the park but I was busy. Then she goes "but you need to protect me from all the guys that will hit on me". …
/r/askMRP31/08/16 03:07 PM
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Statistically, someone with a gun in the house is more likely to kill their spouse, or have children accidentally shoot themselves. You are here, so you are likely a drunk captain whiny beta bitch filled with impotent rage, if I were your partner I wouldn't want you having a gun either. Have you shown complete mastery and responsibility over your life and emotions for years without fail? If not, maybe hold off on acquiring "the great equalizer" until you can prove that you're a man, and that's j…
/r/askMRP31/08/16 02:51 PM
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she mentions some things she thought I didn't do anymore....right now
/r/askMRP30/08/16 06:39 PM
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I'm not surprised. We were just talking a couple weeks ago about how often the /db advice is GTFO or divorce. I've clicked around a little recently I am surprised how often GTFO comes up. Surely some are bitter, mentioning their db or their ex...but GTFO is often just the best response regardless of their potential bitterness. Without a personal development ideology on the sub that is the only option right? Talk to the partner, counseling, therapy, check medical issues, GTFO. Those are your only…
/r/askMRP30/08/16 06:26 PM
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It would really soothe OPs ego if the only thing preventing him from having the perfect life he deserves is that his wife has a trauma. It's all her fault! And she won't go to therapy on her own so I guess there is nothing more I can do, gosh it feels so good to know I kinda tried. Since it's all her fault I'm probably going to cheat and get caught like all the other men in our social circle lately.,."but that's a topic for another day."
/r/MarriedRedPill30/08/16 06:14 PM
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Im pretty sure that her reaction will be to leave, she won't break down. I had that girl man. I remember, after a two hour conversation convincing her we were a good couple and so lucky to have each other..in a moment of clarity...I said: Someday, after doing this every day for a week, I'm not going to have the time or energy to talk you into staying...and then you'll be gone... She didn't even acknowledge what I said...but a month later I didn't have the emotional energy in me to placate her an…
/r/askMRP29/08/16 09:51 PM
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Looking for advice on how to get wife more comfortable with more adventurous sex at home w kids in the house. From r/sex a year ago. So you've got kids and have been struggling with this for awhile. You have to consider that she is just not comfortable having immersive sex...with you. I have a broken woman too, but she knew from the beginning that sex was essential to being in a relationship with me and thus has been working really hard to get healthy and deal with all the shit that she had been…
/r/MarriedRedPill29/08/16 09:36 PM
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I will start dating once I feel confident I can keep myself from getting stuck in the same bullshit A lot of us date broken women because we have low self esteem or fear rejection. Just don't be that guy. A hundred rejections in a row are better than never putting yourself out there. Normally I would say you're a fucking pussy for literally just now saying you don't have the confidence to have a healthy relationship or date a healthy woman...but I really do think some therapy and introspection w…
/r/MarriedRedPill29/08/16 08:25 PM
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We're being harsh here because of the kids, yet we're the first sub to say divorce is better than dysfunction huh? This guy has been married for 20 years, hasn't gotten hugged in years, wife literally avoids all physical contact while he is drunk captain beta bucks. She sleeps with her children more than him. Assumed a servile/passive role in the family He was fucking broken, man. We've been saying for a month to slow down and don't go red-pill-rambo, But we've also been telling him to develop O…
/r/askMRP29/08/16 06:58 PM
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she has to pay for what I bring to the table. I'm going to gloss over everything I could say about that sentence (covert contracts, ego, validation etc...) and just ask: What do you bring? A paycheck, gifts, dinners, fathering, emotional tampon, respite from loneliness, physically fit man....you say she's 90th percentile for her age and still a 7/8 at 40 (meaning a 22 year old Chad would still take her home from the club? Really?)...she would have had all that without you, and would have all tha…
/r/askMRP29/08/16 05:51 PM
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Hey man. Good to see you making progress. How is that therapist you found? You still intent on moving to the mountains? You think that is the real you? I remember you saying that you were celibate for awhile. I was just wondering if you are regressing to your previous solitude (imposed on yourself because you were in a bad place mentally) or feel like that is really the person you are?
/r/MarriedRedPill29/08/16 04:16 PM
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https://www.reddit.com/user/jacktenofhearts/gilded/ Phase 1 and 2 Paying for wife's birthday Rage
/r/askMRP29/08/16 03:19 PM
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Yeah, I think reacting like you did would not go as planned, which is why I am trying to avoid it at least until I have higher SMV. That is fucking sad bro. Your girl is telling you she wants to leave, or threatening to leave. And according to you, she would leave, and the only reason she is still here is because you talk her out of it every time. Is that your reference for the rest of your relationship? You want to settle down and have kids with a woman that is gone as soon as she gets a new co…
/r/askMRP29/08/16 02:54 PM
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My wife gives me duty sex about once per week gives me https://therationalmale.com/2014/02/17/the-gift/ Is her body a gift, truly freely given to a man she wants to fuck? Or something you expect, something you've earned? Obligation is not sexy. Should I initiate everyday even if she is butthurt? Is she butthurt or are you? Does it even matter? Passionate men, and men who inspire passion, have desires that they need to fulfill and work tirelessly to satiate them. All day, every day. You're in sal…
/r/askMRP24/08/16 05:26 PM
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three boys teen to toddler Would you say that you are modeling a good relationship for your sons? From nothing else than watching you and their mother, would they begin to learn what a healthy relationship with good dynamics looks like? Would they learn how to treat women? Be romantic? Be playful? Be, as BPP just posted about, mindfully attractive? They should see you romance their mom, flirt with their mom, game her mom, because they need to internalize what healthy relationships looks like. Sh…
/r/askMRP24/08/16 04:53 PM
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You ever just look at a beautiful pussy? Cum and just lay there in the afterglow with her spent body next to you, head on your chest..."I like this, I want this to last forever..." It is difficult as fuck to not just do or take whatever seems to be the easy way to placate it and keep it around. It is not just the easy way..it seems like the right way...little did we know that is the surefire way to lose it.
/r/askMRP22/08/16 02:14 PM
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Like you said, they make a lot of money, the wives suffer through the two weeks off so they can live flush and single the two weeks on. When the jobs inevitably dry up for awhile and the guy is home indefinitely not making any money the bitch is gone. Incidentally, if you know anybody waiting on the jobs to come back this time, they aren't. Slant drilling means that instead of needing crews for eight wells you just need a crew for one. That means they only need an eighth of the jobs. The game ha…
/r/MarriedRedPill19/08/16 03:53 PM
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It seems pretty clear to me now that I need to convince my wife that divorce is no longer verboten You haven't read enough, do not talk about divorce! That is not your concern. You're skipping to LVL 9/10 again. And remember, you're autistic. It's not going to work out just like you planned. Maybe when she was 18 you could play her like a violin, but you are both 40 now and she's had 20 years to study you. You probably still think you can literally bend her brain gyri to your will...but after 20…
/r/MarriedRedPill18/08/16 05:32 PM
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Nobody is butthurt. To be butthurt we would have to give two shits about you, but we don't, you could die in a fire now and it would not make a blip in my words per minute as I type this post and watch an Arby's commercial at the same time. We don't care about your list of special snowflake behaviors, we don't care about your personality disorders, and believe me I get it, I'm hospital-HR-certified-INTJ,..I don't know why internet fucks are so proud of that label...that means I'm damn near autis…
/r/MarriedRedPill18/08/16 04:41 PM
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work and three kids I spend a lot of time and effort on. That gets you ZERO wife points. That is shit you should do. I love hearing Chris Rock in my head: "Niggas say 'I take care of my kids'....Nigga they your kids, you should take of them..." I think it's really fucking interesting you mention Damocles (besides confirming insufferableness). You're fucking Damocles here...the throne is empty, you begged and bitched and so Dioniseus let you have it...you HAVE to sit in it...but there is that fuc…
/r/MarriedRedPill17/08/16 08:19 PM
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You lying ego-protecting piece of shit. If I flirt with her friends...I was very open with her friends at a party. FRIENDS!! PARTY!! You don't say!! Anyway, my instructions don't require you to know the husbands. You don't need to. I swear...normal people, people without autistic Myers–Briggs personality types...only need the flimsiest of pretenses to get together. You know her work friends names, you know they have husbands. I said it was a test. You fail. Keep working your ass off to maintain …
/r/MarriedRedPill17/08/16 08:06 PM
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Here's the thing...you're worried about divorce dread and trying to make Level 8 work for you, when you're still on Level 3. https://www.reddit.com/r/TheRedPill/comments/2l7pqe/the_12_levels_of_dread_the_rules_for_any_long/ You're a boring comfortable schmuck, women don't want to have sex with boring schmucks. We don't know anything about how you game your wife, how often you have sex, how much time you spend apart...anything really...except we all thought you were boring and lonely. Edit to add…
/r/MarriedRedPill17/08/16 07:30 PM
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I thought it was common courtesy to give a guy a reach around? Or is that just Marines?
/r/MarriedRedPill17/08/16 07:10 PM
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We have a saying: What would you be doing if you were single? Do that. When I was single, momentarily, I got out old yearbooks and looked people up on FB to shamelessly message to go do shit with, "hey man/girl, it's been a minute, you down for a drink at XYZ Thursday?" I read every periodical and blog and FB event list to find shit to go do. I made myself go solo to half the bars in town and try to talk to people (anxious as fuck at first). I spent weekends with cousins or brothers out of town.…
/r/MarriedRedPill17/08/16 05:50 PM
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"I love you, I just need you to make all of this better." ... I love you too babe inserts the cutest picture I have of me/her/us in my camera roll on my phone kiss lips emoji there, daddy made it all better. If you're in a mood.. I know how to make it all better when I get my hands on you ;) or maybe Existentially, what IS "better?" French philosophers spent their lives trying to decide, but I'm more of a German School man myself...I really don't think I can make "it" "better" until we ascertain…
/r/MarriedRedPill16/08/16 09:23 PM
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Yeah that is why it caught my eye.
/r/MarriedRedPill16/08/16 06:51 PM
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communicate more That's exactly what he did actually. I lost my shit...I shut the door...and started..." [issuing an ultimatum.] If he's become attractive and his SMV is high and passive dread is on lock and she's still a cunt and Level 10 is where he is at then good for him I guess.
/r/MarriedRedPill16/08/16 06:42 PM
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To be fair, he says elsewhere the sex has been much improved, this conversation was precipitated by her being cunty to him and yelling, apparently. But yeah, it obviously didn't get her horny.
/r/MarriedRedPill16/08/16 06:19 PM
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Another data point: https://www.reddit.com/r/DeadBedrooms/comments/4xx2zo/of_fights_and_consequences/ DB/MRP user Sadbeary nuts up and displays some OI, frame, mostly active dread, or is it just an ultimatum?...db eats it up. They call it "boundries" or "standing up for yourself" or "fear mongering" or "red pilled her" or "being honest and truthful with your wife"...but they like it...they fucking loved that ultimatum! At least is not manipulative I guess... Anyway, apparently he's become more a…
/r/MarriedRedPill16/08/16 05:29 PM
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When I was on tinder, the only way to send pictures was to share them with all your matches on your "story" or whatever. So if he got nudes on tinder, all of her matches got those same nudes..that sounds shady. But the bot profiles are usually obvious and I've never seen them share photos, they just immediately send you a link and tell you to talk to them on there. Has any of that changed recently? Now yeah, get their phone number, start texting, escalate like normal, get them nudes.
/r/MarriedRedPill16/08/16 04:43 PM
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He's done. He updated /db but not us...now my feelings are hurt. https://www.reddit.com/r/DeadBedrooms/comments/4xuowf/20_year_old_male_hl_about_to_marry/d6jrc2x UPDATE: I calmly tried to talk to her about things last night. I told her I've been struggling the last few weeks because we've had sex one time in three months. It turned into a big fight because "it's always about what I want never her" which in this case is entirely false because I've gone 2 months without it when I would do it daily…
/r/MarriedRedPill16/08/16 03:42 PM
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I've clicked around a little recently I am surprised how often GTFO comes up. Surely some are bitter, mentioning their db or their ex...but GTFO is often just the best response regardless of their potential bitterness. Without a personal development ideology on the sub though that is the only option right? Talk to the partner, counseling, therapy, check medical issues, GTFO. Those are your only options. In some circumstances GTFO could be jumping the gun due to commentator's bitterness...or just…
/r/MarriedRedPill16/08/16 03:14 PM
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Usually I feel pretty safe quoting Rollo and Roissy, regardless, speaking in absolutes is dangerous.
/r/MarriedRedPill16/08/16 03:01 PM
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Just to show some inter-sub love I'm going to tell you that /deadbedrooms has nailed it so far. https://www.reddit.com/r/DeadBedrooms/comments/4xuowf/20_year_old_male_hl_about_to_marry/ I liked u/maryjanesandbobbysox post the best. Dating for six months and no sex the last two, fuck me. You said: Now the the point that I've tried 2 times in 2 months and been no both times Now...shit...you're 20...you like to fuck...but in the past two months you've only tried to get your dick wet two times? You …
/r/MarriedRedPill16/08/16 02:37 AM
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Specifically the "Last Resort" or "180." Tell me that doesn't look like MRP. http://www.divorcebusting.com/blog/how-to-prevent-a-divorce-the-last-resort-technique/ https://beingabeautifulmess.wordpress.com/the-180/ http://www.chumplady.com/2014/07/the-pretzel-logic-of-the-180/ The same shit we say, but by a woman in the biz since like 1992. Very popular in the "Fuck she's gonna divorce me" demographic.
/r/MarriedRedPill16/08/16 02:02 AM
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you can't negotiate desire I think most manosphere cognizant men got it from The Rational Male circa 2011, who very well may have gotten it from Schnarch circa 2009. deadbedrooms is a cesspit of despair and inaction. I wouldn't go that far. I think it has a purpose. Most people don't want to hear the problem may be with them. It seems cruel to tell a hopeless, broken man that they are not getting love and validation and sex because they are not attractive. They want to know that it happens to ot…
/r/MarriedRedPill16/08/16 01:27 AM
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are just meant to be representative of the general opinions Am I incorrect? I don't find the "support group" argument particularly compelling. AA's a support group I knew that was going to be a contention so I went and looked at their steps before I posted: We admitted we were powerless over alcohol - that our lives had become unmanageable. Came to believe that a Power greater than ourselves could restore us to sanity. Made a decision to turn our will and our lives over to the care of God as we …
/r/MarriedRedPill15/08/16 11:05 PM
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Mark Twain has something along the lines of "I find I enjoy a higher class of company: myself.." or some shit
/r/askMRP15/08/16 10:10 PM
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http://lmgtfy.com/?q=wiki
/r/MarriedRedPill15/08/16 09:52 PM
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This smells surviving-infidelity-troll as fuck bro, so I'd be responding to comments before you get deleted.
/r/askMRP15/08/16 09:47 PM
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I suspected one of her friendships was becoming a little inappropriate, but I never had any proof. yeah... She told me I was smothering her and she needed some time away from me, so she left for a full day to just be with her friends (we lived together at the time). A mod just posted to assume she's getting fucked dirty every day of a separation. This happens often enough a man should assume it assume I think. Woman-initiated separations premarriage should be LTR deal breakers, but it is too lat…
/r/askMRP15/08/16 09:44 PM
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"every unhappy wife is a rape victim" God that takes me back... So she doesn't masturbate ever? She wouldn't let you watch her masturbate?
/r/MarriedRedPill15/08/16 09:23 PM
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I'm curious about this meta-discussion, because ya know, faggotry, so... Let's assume I don't know much about /db, which I really don't. I should go look at the side bar. A support group for Redditors who are coping with a relationship that is seriously lacking in sexual intimacy. Advice is always appreciated, just don't be surprised if we've heard it all. A support group? They appreciate advice? But they've heard it all before. Self defeating from the start. Well fuck, I just wanted my wife to …
/r/MarriedRedPill15/08/16 09:02 PM
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I love meta! The crux of the question in DB and here is what exactly MRP adds over existing DB advice. Accountability? The desire to change yourself versus improvement is in the hands of your LL partner? The hope that self-improvement leads to a better life with or without your wife? I realize you say all that is in their side bar books, maybe we should put all those books in our sidebar so we can deflect any criticism as well?
/r/MarriedRedPill15/08/16 09:02 PM
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Man, she have some trauma in her past? Was she ever into any of that? Ever tried mutual masturbation? Like, during her weekly starfish sex, somehow instead get her to start rubbing herself while you stroke your cock? It's really nonthreatening and builds intimacy, and I find it really helps partners to verbalize and get used to a partner assisting. Work together and try to orgasm together, though my girl can't cum until I cum on her first. It's our default when we're at our parent's house and do…
/r/MarriedRedPill15/08/16 05:22 PM
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Hamster... Right now she is in full challenge mode Maze.... She spends hours at night staring into the dark scheming Triggered... https://www.reddit.com/r/marriedredpill/comments/374wln/what_we_talk_about_when_we_talk_about_dread_13/ Read this top to bottom. Your bitch is in a maze and it's only been a few months and so she's doesn't know how to get out...be sure you're giving her a way out. The last part is important...you have to like your wife, you have to want her to get out of the maze the …
/r/MarriedRedPill15/08/16 03:50 PM
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I've only recently started doing that So you have been at this a year, and are really at Dread 4 but think you're at Dread 10? You say that you're still needy. u/persaeus shared a relevant experience recently: https://www.reddit.com/r/marriedredpill/comments/4wz3vk/when_wife_ups_her_game/d6bzn2l Your neediness may have weaponized affection, and that takes a lot of work to correct. and is total starfish What you're telling us, is that a woman initiates sex with you nearly weekly, but expects you …
/r/MarriedRedPill15/08/16 03:21 PM
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Her usual remarks are along the lines of : "You have a great hold on every aspect of YOUR life. Where do I fit in? I feel low and I am not as talented or as hard working as you. Where are you taking US?" So your wife gives you the MRP fucking wet dream of a question.... I'm sure a MRP man has masturbated to the fantasy about hearing and answering that question....and what is your answer? Hundreds of men have worked their asses off, flamed out, divorced, or came back stronger and made their life …
/r/askMRP14/08/16 11:51 PM
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It is...and I get it..I am really prone to melancholy. I like that music, I like that feeling....just a little bit, and then normal again...I imagine it is kinda like how "cutters" feel ya know? Wanting to savor that pain for just a second and then have it gone...very cathartic. As we age, there is a lot of sadness in life. At loss, at broken opportunities, at stupid decisions. I take the time now and again to feel that. See, you need to see that to appreciate the joy and happiness and enjoy lif…
/r/MarriedRedPill12/08/16 01:43 PM
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I sprinkled those questions into my game...they worked great. The one about the last time they cried though...50/50 you're the most sensitive greatest guy ever, who she won't fuck on the first date...or she's crying now too, great job...so use with caution.
/r/MarriedRedPill12/08/16 01:38 PM
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an awkward conversation that we will NOT be having kids or buying a house this year Do not have that conversation, why are you looking to start a fight or clue her in something is wrong? Just don't work towards those things.
/r/MarriedRedPill12/08/16 01:33 PM
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The Power of Now....Nonviolent communication by Marshall Rosenberg Thanks for that info man. Are YOU sure that's why you made this post? Swallowed the pill 5 years ago Damn man, that's way before I did, you deserve a lot of respect! Do you always try little tricks like that to get respect? I hate being told what to do. I hate when people tell me my business when I already know, or when someone has a pointless criticism that achieves nothing. I read that in a child's voice. Because only children …
/r/MarriedRedPill12/08/16 01:22 PM
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If it is for you then great, I handle all the shopping and cooking and most of the laundry as well, and all the man shit too, many of us here do, that is great as long as there are no choreplay aspects or covert contracts. pretty much live to please her and make sure she's comfortable. That is concerning though...
/r/MarriedRedPill11/08/16 09:49 PM
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Read the sidebar here. Read the sidebar there: https://www.reddit.com/r/marriedredpill/ After NMMNG how many covert contracts did you identify and put a stop to? After MMSLP how did you begin to game your wife? How much touch and affection do you give your wife with zero expectations of escalation? Do you kiss? Say I love you? Will she cuddle? Are you an emotional vampire? Do you energize your wife or drain her?
/r/askMRP11/08/16 09:38 PM
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I don't know your life, but we see a lot of shit here. You know what the sex was like before you got married, you know how long you've been a beta bitch. It could be possible she doesn't suck dick just because you've never stopped fucking her, pulled you're dick out, and told her "I bet you taste so good baby, suck your juices off my cock" and put it in her face. She might not do anal just because while you have her bent over with your dick inside her, you've never put your thumb in her ass and …
/r/MarriedRedPill11/08/16 09:26 PM
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the last thing you want now is kids. new wife, 36 she wants to have kids this fall I will not have kids with her unless this is working towards being fixed - and if it's not, I'm out The first thing she wants is kids. She's 36. I'd be gone man. You're seeing what she's gonna give you. This is the honeymoon! I don't think you can consider any of her behavior from now until she gets pregnant as legit. She might turn her freak back on for you, but it will likely only be in order to get pregnant, th…
/r/MarriedRedPill11/08/16 07:54 PM
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You ever see those little star things in your field of vision after a cartwheel? Another question: Anybody ever cum and then get a headache? Like, I roll off of her and then realize my head hurts...kisses from mommy make it better, but it is still weird.
/r/MarriedRedPill11/08/16 04:01 PM
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Newbie gains are a thing This I have seen a huge improvement: 3-4 times a week sex. This is going to be his test...if just initiating more gets him more sex...is he going to have the willpower to continue improving?
/r/MarriedRedPill11/08/16 03:54 PM
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the methods you guys are teaching most likely will not work They will work on YOU, we never promise that you will end up with your wife, only that your life will be better and you will have a better partner. trying to find any way around this fucked situation other than leaving the person I promised I would never leave. A lot of us deal with guilt...that's part of the anger phase...it's part of the covert contract that being married means you should have a happy life with a healthy sex life. Tha…
/r/MarriedRedPill11/08/16 12:59 AM
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u/aclarn: I have already seen massive improvements in my marriage. My sex life since I found this info is already better than ever. This is coming off of a mostly sexless marriage that was built from a mostly sexless LTR. My wife was really wanting to be submissive and even tried subtly telling me that over the years. I can finally hear it. Our sex life seems to have taken a 180, thank God and MRP. This was a month ago...was this you lying to yourself and us or were there improvements? Like what…
/r/MarriedRedPill10/08/16 09:43 PM
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This is a seriously fucked up situation guys...she is not fucking anyone ever until she gets therapy for the vaginismus she probably has...and he is not not fucking a healthy woman until he gets help either. Two books and a reddit sub are not what this couple needs. From a deadbedroom post In three years of marriage I think we have had sex successfully two or three times including the honeymoon. From OPs NMMG post a month ago: Recently found and read NMMNG. I am disturbed by the level of similar…
/r/MarriedRedPill10/08/16 09:22 PM
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Thanks friend <3 I noticed you trying to slide a note in my locker, don't be shy. I mean we're dudes right...we're gonna either have fun with it or be Prussian about it and make everyone do the RPW thing with years and statuses like you proposed. I do agree with you about the trickle truth shit...oh by the way I had an affair...did I mention the kids etc...but without a firstpost questionnaire how are we gonna get all that in the flair? Do we want a barrier to entry? I think ideally a guy random…
/r/askMRP10/08/16 07:42 PM
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DGAF. Better yet. Slow down to a nice slow stroll and start looking at more of the scenery. This. You and your son enjoy your stroll. Give her the house keys. Occasionally decide to get in the car and go somewhere instead of going in. Girls storm off so you have to chase them and step in their frame and try to fix whatever is wrong. Also, my last girl walked slow, this one walks fast. Should the question actually be about her "storming off" or about her walking pace?
/r/askMRP10/08/16 07:17 PM
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Part of me really wants to be able to add something witty behind my name. Part of me really wishes the mods would recognize my awesome contributions and some aspect of my special snowflake personality and validate me with a cool flair. But part of me buys into the personal accountability thing we preach here. Look at a poster's history. Search and find and read who is coming from where you are and read their story. Do your due diligence. Part of me thinks some weak-sauce, sad, and hurt noob is g…
/r/askMRP10/08/16 07:01 PM
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I knew I should have used a wink emoji.
/r/MarriedRedPill10/08/16 05:55 PM
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I really like this. I think it ties into something so I'll just mention it here. Pressure. We all know pressuring women into sex or intimacy is not ideal. Covert contracts, we all know they don't work, and they are often essentially pressure. Imagine the relationship where a covert contract, or pressure gets associated with something like kissing, or going to bed naked, it just takes some effort and introspection to identify and correct. Women often have a lot of "emotional vampires" in their li…
/r/MarriedRedPill10/08/16 05:53 PM
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If somebody posts a link somewhere....and you click it...it might be to a site that they monitor the traffic on...if they can monitor the traffic they have your ip address and could potentially track down your identity. "HEY RED PILL COCKSUCKERS! WHAT DO YOU THINK ABOUT THIS LINK!" - link to some bullshit site but with a redirect/site that they can monitor = ip addresses of assumed redpillers. I don't know if this happens or not, but all the veterans are sure scared of it when they post on /tbp …
/r/MarriedRedPill10/08/16 01:36 PM
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No, but I am open to it if she keeps bringing her A game. My ex gave me my ring back and I think they are the same size, the resale value on these things is shit.
/r/MarriedRedPill10/08/16 05:41 AM
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he's likely not hitting some key comfort spots for her to respond sexually. Story time. Be me, have good frame, A+ comfort game, get behind them walls and break'em down, tender, affectionate, sexy kino on lock....still got the "I need non-sexual touch" occasionally...I'm like WTF? Didn't need to up my game, no active dread, didn't need to beta up...just found the trigger...around bedtime and in bed I am nude...just how it was. Didn't mean anything to me. But getting in bed nude and initiate/esca…
/r/MarriedRedPill10/08/16 03:56 AM
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I don't believe lack of attraction is the problem any more. As I've mentioned elsewhere, my wife was traumatized as a kid, and builds walls around herself. Are Survivors Different? GAD sounds exactly right. On those occasions when we do kiss, she'll usually laugh or make a joke, which I now recognize as a symptom of anxiety. She's also easily distracted and worries a lot. You hint here and there that she is being a better partner...like the disrespect and arguments are decreasing. Like maybe she…
/r/MarriedRedPill10/08/16 02:42 AM
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Wife pushes me away or runs away when I approach her even for a simple hug. Never shows physical affection Actually you mean both. I can't imagine. So like...you sit down on the sofa next to her with an arm around her...and she gets up and leaves? She's fixing a salad and you stroll up behind her, wrap your arms around her and kiss her cheek....and she grimaces? I would just be gone. Out doing something, reading and crying in the car in a parking lot a couple miles away...anything else, wake-up …
/r/MarriedRedPill10/08/16 01:17 AM
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A month ago. As a follow up, I had a significant conversation with Wife last night. Going to bed after a pleasant evening, I tried to initiate and was shot down. On the spur of the moment, I told her that it was getting old, not just the lack of sex but also the near complete lack of physical affection of any sort. She sort of blew it off and accused me of being a sex addict (because once a week is not enough for me). So I took the plunge and told her that I didn't want to stay married if it mea…
/r/MarriedRedPill10/08/16 12:53 AM
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http://www.smbc-comics.com/index.php?db=comics&id=2552 Thanks dad. link = Popular indie webcomic, not a dox factory.
/r/MarriedRedPill09/08/16 09:33 PM
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AWALT My ex is/was a perfectly good woman who I stopped being attractive to.
/r/MarriedRedPill09/08/16 09:11 PM
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well, we did the crusades, and invented original sin...what is my suffering through life unhappy with this bitch compared to the suffering of the world... I literally remember psyching myself up to live this way..."well, I guess this is my life now." Thank god she had the balls to walk away because I had never even thought to consider it at the time. She was a Methodist actually though so she didn't have the "virtue via suffering" gene I don't guess otherwise we'd still be together.
/r/MarriedRedPill09/08/16 09:03 PM
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she's being a PITA were taking the kids to the beach or zoo that day or whatever, like from my kids perspective it's an unjustified dick move for me to just walk out me to just walk out This sub is full of stories where the woman is a bitch in public or around the kids. You pack everyone up and go home or tell her she can go and you and the kids will have a nice day. The mother is ruining the event and making it about her...you're saving the day. No pawns involved. my availability to her is cont…
/r/MarriedRedPill09/08/16 08:55 PM
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Ever notice there are a lot of Catholics here? I think it is built in guilt or masochism or something.
/r/MarriedRedPill09/08/16 08:44 PM
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From another thread: I just got a new phone so when I was copying everything over I ran some numbers, Exwife: 700 letter size pages, 600 photos, none nude, maybe 2 suggestive, "Love" mentioned 200 times, "Sex, Sexy, Pussy, Cock, Penis" like 50 times. NewGirl: 1600 letter size pages, 1300 photos, 200 or so nude or suggestive, "Love" mentioned 600 times, "Sex, Sexy, Pussy, Cock, Penis" 850 times. So both.
/r/MarriedRedPill09/08/16 08:38 PM
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The counseling and therapy crowds are coming back to the idea that the husband-wife dynamic is the most important, it is not ideal to put the kids before yourself or your marriage...if you suck or your marriage sucks then the kids are gonna get the shit deal. Where in "working on yourself" and "handling your responsibilities" does it say to "neglect your kids." Being the best man you can be is intrinsic in being the best husband and best father you can be. I can't help but feel like almost every…
/r/MarriedRedPill09/08/16 08:29 PM
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My initial thought as well, she knew where he was and what he was doing and that he was asleep and didn't get those texts. Probably stood at the door as she sent them to make sure he didn't wake up. The classic "I'm having so much fun and you're missing out" game people play their whole lives..when there actually isn't anything fun and you aren't missing anything. The response next morning was what she was after...he was supposed to be a cry baby little bitch and say "AWWW baby, you know I wante…
/r/MarriedRedPill09/08/16 08:14 PM
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I'm mostly confined to my LTR's house and work. I also spend a lot of time...in a new town (I'm currently in the real estate world, but about 60 miles away from my normal base of operations). my cop exe-wife from a major US metropolitan police department There is literally no reason your lawyer can't get your range to include every where in the US except that major metropolitan city...and it sounds like you are 60 miles away already. If anything you should be banned from using the internet. Tell…
/r/MarriedRedPill09/08/16 04:04 PM
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Guns Germ Steel
/r/MarriedRedPill09/08/16 03:51 PM
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After about 2.5 hours, I decide I would like to go somewhere else, possibly home. It's after midnight and she's getting pretty drunk. I give her a squeeze and kiss her neck and say in her ear "let's get out of here" she says "but I thought we were having a good time?" I say "ok we can stay a bit longer if you'd like" [MISTAKE #1] You should have been escalating and, ya know..gaming your wife instead of sucking that sweet sweet validation titty...I would think by an hour and a half and 4/5 drinks…
/r/MarriedRedPill07/08/16 10:02 PM
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Practice while jacking it once or twice with your hand to get the placement right...put a couple fingers on your taint behind your balls before you cum...you kinda gotta find the right spot...there is probably a diagram online. And you have to hold it during the entire orgasm or some will still squirt out...and after the orgasm a bit too or some will leak out afterwards a little.
/r/askMRP07/08/16 08:41 PM
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You're overthinking things Yeah obviously, but after reading everything...and maybe this is masochist or blue pill or whatever....but I'm curious about this diagnostic....when the last time these people said "I love you" to each other was. 5 years ago? Anniversaries only? Two years ago after some baby-making starfish? I'm curious, while he's gone...right the fuck now....if he texted her, "hey baby, just thinking about you and the amazing job you do with our kids, I love you and appreciate you so…
/r/askMRP05/08/16 08:23 PM
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First things first: Is she sleeping in bed with you again or still with the kids? Has she hugged you in the past month? Why haven't you hugged her? Have you ever stopped and looked at her as you go to work in the morning, grabbed her, and kissed her on the mouth as long as she will let you? Assuming I'm still in said hole at Xmas/B-day time Are. you. kidding. me? We'll talk about Christmas in 4 months. You're fantasizing about some carrot/stick scenario possibility 4 months away...... offer to b…
/r/askMRP05/08/16 04:44 PM
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you're making a lot of assumptions about this hypothetical poor, abused guy... putting this hypothetical dude in the best fucking light. You're the one claiming that MRP is all love and positivity. Actually we have all probably called him a fucking fat lazy looser who should understand why his wife isn't fucking him or wants to divorce him. We tell him to shut the fuck up, get fit, and handle his shit...You're making a lot of assumptions about us too. You know people get here from /deadbedrooms …
/r/MarriedRedPill05/08/16 02:56 AM
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Tomorrow will be the most beautiful day of Raymond K. Hessel's life. His breakfast will taste better than any meal you and I have ever tasted. Glad you're still here and doing well.
/r/askMRP05/08/16 01:46 AM
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women bad/men good We say TRP is amoral, there is no bad or good, that's just how it is. We mock men who are angry or bitter or butthurt about anything. The attitude that an ideal relationship involves the man managing/controlling/directing/yes, "leading" the woman - those are not things that you do to/for someone who is your superior, or even your equal. I said I was doing just that in my current relationship and you implied it was the support role, but here you describe it as an insecure man n…
/r/MarriedRedPill05/08/16 01:05 AM
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For starters, I appreciate your response, to continue: the moral and intellectual superiority of men I would have thought after lurking here for awhile you would get the subtext women are superior. Being an attractive man, who takes on as much responsibility as he is able, who handles his shit, who fucks well, who is Outcome Independent and stoic about a woman (from an obvious position of superiority) choosing him to fuck/marry/divorce....that's all we have...you don't see that? Don't you see wh…
/r/MarriedRedPill04/08/16 10:17 PM
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But you don't get to have hurt feelz if somebody overhears you and laughs. I just had the wrong impression of ya'll. I thought /bp was something like Gawker or Jezebel, but instead you're a perfectly acceptable 4chan, please continue: TRP, dread, this man and his dead wife, the holocaust fuck I don't care bro. implying The overwhelming majority of the men in /askmrp and /mrp are here because we love our wives and girlfriends, a world away from keeping six fuck buddies on tenterhooks, we are usua…
/r/MarriedRedPill04/08/16 06:37 PM
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I just visited that thread, and clicked around the sub a bit. I'm reminded of the year I spent in college dicking around on 4chan. Everything is "for the lulz," nothing is sacred, everything exists just to be lampooned. A place for people to go to let out their frustrations and get some humor....catharsis....catharsis. And what did the people in that sub pick as the target of their catharsis? What do they need to burn in effigy? What is their strawman full of arrows? The men here who want their …
/r/MarriedRedPill04/08/16 04:26 PM
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When she describes something that you don't do anymore, add a 'right now' at the end. When she has a rule on something she won't do, add a 'with you' at the end. Truly the wisdom of the ancients. I'm 95% sure this is in the Old Testament in Psalms, or Proverbs or Judges or something. Of course Proverbs also says to "not answer a fool according to his folly" in 26:4, and then immediately afterwards says "answer a fool according to his folly," so I can see how everyone get confused with "wisdom." …
/r/MarriedRedPill04/08/16 03:23 PM
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It's tantric man, ejaculation depletes your energy padawan. You must learn to channel your ejaculation energy back up into your essence and have a full-body orgasm instead of a weak futile release. So yeah, hold it. I've done it a few times using the old school kamasutra method of digging your heel into your taint before you cum. I kinda just felt like I wasted my load, but I can see how if you are into the "essence" stuff and get your head right you might be able to have a mind blowing full bod…
/r/askMRP04/08/16 03:09 AM
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My girl says it only burns when it gets in her eyes? Do you think it is all the pineapple I eat?
/r/askMRP04/08/16 02:46 AM
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It's just controlling your orgasm with kegels essentially I thought. As you get close to cumming you're supposed to do a kegel and "let the energy flow up through you" instead of letting yourself get closer to ejaculation. Yoga, tantric energy magic happens or some shit.
/r/askMRP04/08/16 01:36 AM
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we are down to communicating once-twice a day over text, and a phone call over weekend. This is my red flag. That bitch probably lives on her phone but ya'll can't stay connected? If you don't have any text game you couldn't even replace her these days, that's how you get and keep women now. It's not RP, but I just went from LTR to LDR for a few months, and my woman is constantly texting me, nightly calls, facetime, both our phones are full of nudes, the works, she's putting in the effort to sta…
/r/MarriedRedPill03/08/16 09:10 PM
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I've seen some verbal beatings, a shit load of sarcasm, lots of trash talk, and even more real-talk, and yeah, some low effort/quality stuff too, but this may be the first truly bitchy comment I have seen here. Like, a woman's snide petty sarcasm, ya know? Just, caught me off guard here I guess, I ended up reading it in my exwife's voice even, I need to go post a "Triggered" meme on FB and find my safe place. Lord knows I'm not the tone police, I'm just momentarily concerned ya know? Everything …
/r/MarriedRedPill03/08/16 08:04 PM
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Evanredler: I don't really see what lifting has to do with any of this. Still my martiuage is a wreck so maybe I will do some workout DVDs and get started Actually that looks like a too shiny hook to me. Questioning lifting, workout dvds, "maybe i will"...
/r/askMRP03/08/16 04:46 AM
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Troll poster, last time this guy just had a daughter, now he has three sons... From a response to his last post that got flagged about a cheating wife. Be a good man. Be a good father. You're not either of those with that woman in the house with you and your daughter, and if you cant recognize that then I hope your daughter hates you and kicks you out of her life as soon as she is old enough to realize the hell that she has had to endure because her daddy didn't save her. https://www.reddit.com/…
/r/askMRP03/08/16 02:11 AM
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http://yareallyarchive.com/ He's an old so suave guy and posts a shit load in the Rational Male comments. Someone archives all his shit. I identify a lot with him and see a lot of my style in him, dngaf, verbose texting, etc...
/r/MarriedRedPill03/08/16 02:03 AM
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This. I've always been the guy that women got the non-judgmental, you-can-tell-me-anything vibe from. It took me an embarrassingly long amount of time to learn I could transition this from them just pouring out their hearts to me, to them revealing their deepest fantasies and us fulfilling them. Yareally is the master in this field I think.
/r/MarriedRedPill02/08/16 09:14 PM
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My wife is highly intelligent...manipulation...not capable of going toe to toe with her yet... You never will be. This a woman's expertise and we're outgunned bro. Your SMV and value have to be higher than hers so she submits, so she plays the loving feminine wife, that is the key. You can't play at AM, you can't get your way, you can't get the sex and life you want...until your SMV is higher. That's why the first few months are STFU, lift, add value, work on yourself and your frame and your out…
/r/MarriedRedPill02/08/16 08:46 PM
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So you can legit have sex with women hotter than your wife? Why is that you think? Because you're more charming than you are with your wife? Because you're not desperate for sex and validation from a random woman? Because you can pretend to have your shit together for one night? Because they don't know your shit? But in time they would just like she does. I'm a redneck too and I feel like you're just an average good-ol boy with poor impulse control who lets his woman run shit while he's tinkerin…
/r/MarriedRedPill01/08/16 10:03 PM
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He is done. RP rule number X: Don't elevate your wife above yourself. How many times do we have to live and read the stories of putting your wife through school, or supporting her up the career ladder in the hopes that once she's on top she will benevolently support you and your family. Statistically it doesn't work. Hypergamy means marrying up. Even worse, she works in a hospital, they are fucking cuck machines bro. She's probably already got her first 3 potential new stepdads lined up. The goo…
/r/MarriedRedPill01/08/16 03:27 PM
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Pathologically selfish to detriment--------------normal dude----------------------pathologically selfless to detriment We're all on a spectrum somewhere. Chris Kyle was obviously further to the right above. A White Knight is somewhere in the middle using virtue signaling to differentiate themselves and gain attention. No different than you wearing Costas versus Persols or mentioning to a group of people where you vacation. People will always try to group things...wolves, sheep, sheepdogs breaks …
/r/askMRP20/07/16 08:43 PM
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Rollo would just give his Iron Rule Maxim #69: For one sex's strategy to win, the other has to fail. But both of the "feral" strategies result in the most fitness for the individual. A man has relationships with three women over his reproductive years, having five children (Trump for example, or Pedro on the corner). The first two (or all three) women take their child and go find a New Guy. New Guy gets a kid or three out of them. Trump/Pedro came out great. 5 kids, genetic diversity, awesome. E…
/r/MarriedRedPill20/07/16 08:20 PM
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She can take all of the dick she wants and still some dude is going to wife her up and provide for her without requiring a thing in return. I say, good for her Indeed, bravo. guys think sexual strategy only goes one way. Hypergamy literally means a woman marrying up, doing better, we like to say getting your AF and then your BB, ideally with an AF child or two first...if that is their feral mating strategy then men forget our feral mating strategy.....knock up a bitch every chance you get and mo…
/r/MarriedRedPill20/07/16 04:55 PM
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Evolution is my fav A lost point among relationships, that is making a comeback in "advice" circles, is that the husband-wife relationship is the most important. Your kids come second. This makes intuitive evolutionary sense...you can always make more kids, and if the husband-wife relationship falls apart then the kids are screwed anyway. The thing about evo, is that for it to work there has to be variation in order for selection to take place...therefore we have women who vary from putting a ch…
/r/MarriedRedPill20/07/16 03:24 PM
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we sit together in a booth I always do that, her on the inside. Even if it is just the two of us. Most booths are made for fat fucks so we can barely hold a conversation over them. I get to be intimate and playful with her during the meal, grab her ass when I let her out to go to the restroom.... I grab my woman and spin her around in public places Well known PUA move, because it fucking works. Everyone should do this. Some of these things may sound retarded and counterproductive Since we're amo…
/r/MarriedRedPill20/07/16 01:43 AM
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Often quoted but rarely understood, the first sentence of Anna Karenina—“All happy families resemble each other; each unhappy family is unhappy in its own way”—offers a paradoxical insight into what is truly important in human lives. What exactly does this sentence mean? In War and Peace and in a variant of Anna Karenina, Tolstoy quotes a French proverb: “Happy people have no history.” Where there are dramatic events, where there is material for an interesting story, there is unhappiness. The ol…
/r/MarriedRedPill20/07/16 01:16 AM
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I had a gf like this when I was BP. I literally couldn't satisfy her. I'm pretty verbal, but it took so much time every day convincing her we were in a good relationship...satisfying her anxiety..it was exhausting..I remember telling her "someday I'm not going to do this anymore, and you'll be gone." And sure as shit, when I finally stopped spending hours calming her anxiety, she was gone. And thank god. Now you have a child, and I'm not gonna go redknight commando on you because certainly after…
/r/askMRP20/07/16 12:53 AM
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The couple times I've ventured over there and posted it has generally been well received. I tame it down a little, leave out TRP/MRP terminology. If someone spots you as a RP poster though it will get deleted. I've been the most upvoted comment a couple times and it has been removed. IMO, if you're there and you feel like you have some advice that would help and you can do it without being too redpill then go ahead, but do not post links to redpill stuff or use redpill terms because it will get …
/r/askMRP20/07/16 12:35 AM
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Dude this is your wet dream That was my inner monologue. It makes me pensive that I had one for that situation. and for me it has no anchor in reality. True, inner monologues don't mean shit once reality happens to an individual. I don't have a reply but I wanted to let you know you were insightful.
/r/MarriedRedPill19/07/16 08:55 PM
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What's being developed are the tools to cope with weakness, and overcome it. Since we are such flawed creatures, there will be a ton of weaknesses, and it takes a lifetime to develop all of them, then you die. Can't win for losing. On the occasion a long time RP man posts an OWS, look at the differences, it's there when you know to look for it. I know my biggest weakness. My greatest fear. That a woman will take my kids. Do we have the tools to cope with that? Lets help ourselves.
/r/MarriedRedPill19/07/16 08:28 PM
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But why? Where is our Frame, our outcome independence, our IDGAF? "NEXT! (oh, unless you have kids, then you're screwed)." "Oneitis is bad bro, oh, unless you have kids with an exwife then totally go oneitis for them; its not like you can make more of them with a woman who loves you and you start off with a MRP perspective and vetted her and gamed her from the beginning instead of digging your way out of a beta hole. Again, I want to point out I have no skin in the game. But I do think it is wor…
/r/MarriedRedPill19/07/16 08:14 PM
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Yeah, and your 9 sons by 4 different women join you on the battle field or fuck off. It takes a village, not one beta dad right? Tale as old as time, the man out doing, out fucking woman, too busy to be a parent to them all, their alpha widows, their many children, and the beta orbiter men who come after to help raise them all while hoping to get a shot at having one or two of their own with her. Fuck this is coming together pretty well.
/r/MarriedRedPill19/07/16 06:36 PM
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Would you not find a new woman? Surely you wouldn't go MGTOW or incel, and apparently we're not the plating type here... Would you find a sexy young woman without kids? Or would you find a woman that already had kids and help her raise those? Would you find a nice woman with grown kids so you don't have to worry about it? Would you and this new woman you love not want to have children together? How much effort does your new family deserve to have routed away from them towards your exwife, your o…
/r/MarriedRedPill19/07/16 06:25 PM
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Do they? Or do we, the type of feminine imperative, formerly blue pill men that end up circle jerking on MRP? Does it extend to the woman and kids after she leaves? When the man leaves a non-zero percentage of the time? Or is that drive then rerouted to a new woman and a new family. Think carefully here...
/r/MarriedRedPill19/07/16 06:17 PM
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I respect the fuck out of that. I just posted this thread for some synthesis, some synergy or something. In Marriedredpill not askmrp. I wanted the IDEA discussed, but the first thread devolved into "you do you,"...not very illuminating :/ This particular thread did not need to turn into badgering you about your wife though and that is regrettable.
/r/MarriedRedPill19/07/16 06:02 PM
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We all had to learn this shit, alpha, TRP etc...and I think we haven't accepted our incomplete transition in this respect. Because what do the men we are all mimicking the behaviour of do? The type of man that gets a woman's panties wet? They fucking bounce mother fucker! The goal of the fucking RP is to essentially act like the kind of motherfucker that a woman wouldn't make pay child support. And yet the chorus still says "whatever it takes to be a good dad..." And I think Rollo and Roissy are…
/r/MarriedRedPill19/07/16 05:52 PM
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You can understand though how "case by case" and "depends on her behavior" and even "doing whatever is necessary to be in my kid's lives" doesn't jive with TRP and OI, and Alpha in general though right?
/r/MarriedRedPill19/07/16 05:42 PM
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Well of course we should just go by whatever it says in our iron-clad prenup and postnup right? We all have those right? Anything concerning custody in those is always upheld I'm sure. When us, as MRP men, essentially say "well, really it all just depends on how my wife acts and what she decides to do, and the circumstances of the divorce so this is entirely case by case..." Which I figured would be the default...I have to take a step back and try to put that in a RP context, and it doesn't fit …
/r/MarriedRedPill19/07/16 05:23 PM
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Exactly the link I was going to post. I think the question OP was trying to ask is "what are some displays of high value?" The list could get long but luckily MMSL has a forum dedicated to it. http://marriedmansexlife.vanillacommunities.com/categories/displays-of-high-value-men Unfortunately, it is mostly concerned with how to dress it seems. BPP also has a youtube video that may be pertinent https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=rs0aNuxyBJY
/r/askMRP18/07/16 03:39 PM
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During my ingestion period I read some articles, mostly scholarly or derived from scholarly, that kinda said the same thing different ways...when women are exposed to a sexual stimulus...they can become aroused...they just may not know it. For example: Make a male heterosexual student watch gay sex or two dogs humping...and nothing happens. He is neither aroused physically or consciously. Make a female student watch gay sex or two dogs humping or a rape scene ...and her vagina becomes lubricated…
/r/MarriedRedPill15/07/16 06:45 PM
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Hydroxyzine. It is basically a strong antihistamine and cheap as hell. Any clinic will give it to you for allergies, help you sleep, and anxiety. Just say you have allergies but don't like pseudoephedrine because you need to sleep and you have some anxiety from dealing with your wife. It just keeps your skin from crawling and turns down the fight or flight response a little. If it puts you to sleep during the day you're not anxious enough to need it. One at night makes me sleep from 10 to 7 no q…
/r/askMRP14/07/16 02:26 PM
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Holy shit you're real. First things first, why the fuck would you want to stay with a cheater? Where the fuck is your self respect man. Many of us have been there. Plus a fucking personality disorder? The best thing for you, the best thing for your daughter, is to get the fuck out, get custody of your daughter, and live a better, healthier life than the two of you would be capable of with her in your life. Fuck her, fuck her rape, fuck her PTSD, fuck her BPD, fuck your worthless shell of a relat…
/r/askMRP14/07/16 04:01 AM
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I actually just read an interesting evolutionary theory about the origin of language. Short version is we don't need many words to do perfectly well in the world. You can say anything in the world with Basic English, consisting of 850 words. Yet we all probably know 60,000+++. Why? To to show fitness to the ladies. The most verbose youve ever been and the most flowery shit you've ever said and written was probably during courtship. And then you regress back to basic use. Then we invent poetry, l…
/r/askMRP14/07/16 02:58 AM
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I'mma add this. We say it takes a month for every year of blue pill relationship. That means you can expect to have TWO YEARS of building a better man before your wife begins to be attracted to you again, if ever, we can't promise your wife will be aroused by you at the end. We promise that you'll be a better man, and a man that can get women better than his wife if he wanted to. Think about that...2 years. And you're gonna give her a blowjob ultimatum after a week? As somebody else said, if you…
/r/askMRP13/07/16 04:49 PM
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It's been one week since your intro post bro. You're sprinkling so much alpha on it with no frame, no value, no SMV, no dread, and zero game. She's went from your bed to your daughter's bed in the first week so I am 100% sure you're doing too much too fast. The first inklings that your wife should have that anything has changed should be "has he lost a little weight?" "He's been to the gym three times this week" "wow, a lot has gotten done around here and I didn't have to do it" "We haven't blow…
/r/askMRP13/07/16 04:14 PM
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Holy Fuck man, I've never heard that song, too much love will kill you, jesus christ.
/r/MarriedRedPill12/07/16 07:51 PM
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If it is called "pre-selection" or "displaying high value" or like you said "building sexual tension," then that's great, but if is called "creating an obligation and pressuring a woman who would rather not fuck you right now"...then that's gonna fail unless your SMV/Dread is super high. If you're getting anal because your woman has a UTI then you're much better off than we were led to believe.
/r/askMRP12/07/16 07:09 PM
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I work at a hospital helping others and have been trying to doing the right thing everyday. Dude that is great! I'm sure that fills you with a sense of purpose and drive, so humanitarian of you bro. recovering opiate addict Ah fuck, man. Goddamned kid in a candy store. You act like you got it all together, and it's gonna be easy, and maybe it will, but you are just one oxy-that-noone-will-miss away from relapse, from being fired, from being in jail.... or being dead like every nurse that takes a…
/r/MarriedRedPill12/07/16 05:32 PM
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So you made the OP post in the period of time between you getting a soft no and your wife offering her butthole? Damn dude I don't see a problem, well, except for you spazzing on the internet about the whole situation prematurely, showing your lack of frame and outcome independence. I'm glad you spazzed here though instead of IRL because not letting your wife see it probably got you that brown cheerio.
/r/askMRP12/07/16 05:04 PM
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Paging /u/ex_addict_bro The man above is going to tell you what it is like to be in a relationship with the type of woman who would stay with an addict like yourself! How they want you addicted so they have all the power! How she enabled your addiction! You can't let her back in! she didn't trust me...She would try to also control everything You NEED to read all of his posts, at least the long ones in marriedredpill and askmrp....they range from concise, to rambling, to coherent, to emotional, t…
/r/MarriedRedPill12/07/16 06:09 AM
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Always owned own businesses, always lifted (6'3" 245 pounds, almost visible abs), always was alpha Dude thats awesome. fiance is 11 years younger than me and a total 10. Holy shit bro! Fuck yeah! But our sex life has sucked the last year really...few good sessions through the past 12 months but then it dried up. Well fuck maybe you need a different 10. Or maybe an 8 will give you a little more hypergamous wiggle room. A fiance that is not fucking for a year does not fucking get cars! A fiance th…
/r/MarriedRedPill11/07/16 11:03 PM
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I'd FLIP out...and I mean flip. Temper tantrum shit I mean, I see why he might have been suspicious.
/r/MarriedRedPill11/07/16 10:37 PM
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This is analogous to "date night" or "losing a sex bet". Having to perform out of obligation is never attractive to a woman. This so much. More concise than mine.
/r/askMRP11/07/16 10:25 PM
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You've been on the Red Pill for nearly a year and you don't know about LMR and Anti-Slut Defenses and how to get past them? How the fuck did you stack up 35 notches? You haven't cultivated any outcome independence? You haven't built any frame? You've been married for like a year? Enjoy your dead bedroom bro. Imma add: The "game" aspect was just added pressure, women hate being cognizant of pressure when it comes to sex, it has to feel free and spontaneous and uninhibited and unobligated and all …
/r/askMRP11/07/16 10:01 PM
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Dude, what the fuck is this shit from two months ago? Been using tinder religiously for thr last 2 years. Have had my fair share of random moments but this one takes the cake. Girls in her late 30s and wants to be tucked in. Arrive to address she wanted me to drive to in fairly nice gated community. Let me know both her boyfriend and roommate are gone. Pictures of him everywhere in room. Shrine like. She's dressed like a girl in her 20s pig tails and all. Proceed with hanky panky. Because of jui…
/r/MarriedRedPill11/07/16 12:38 AM
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The only appropriate response is that she can have all the dick she wants but that if it is not yours then you're fucking gone. No equivocation. If your frame is so shitty that you can't shut down a request for a second dick in your fiance then you need to push back the fucking wedding bro. You're in such deep shit because she is thinking about being married but not having sown enough wild oats. Part of her can't imagine that she is going to be off the market without having a threesome, and anal…
/r/MarriedRedPill10/07/16 11:47 PM
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I think everyone is going to knock this out of the park but I want to mention your "princess" comment. She wants you to be nicer, she wants more compliments, you want to display massive alpha behavior while still giving her enough comfort. This princess thing is your ticket. If she's really used to being a princess, and you are really going to be her alpha, then eat that shit up. It can allow you to be the alpha dominant position in the relationship, and she can be your "little princess" and bot…
/r/askMRP10/07/16 08:20 PM
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i'd like to invite him I would like him to come over and intend to invite him. How the fuck did you read enough Red Pill shit to find this place and not do any better than that. Your wife is absolutely right and displays the logical dominate traits that fucking somebody should display in your house. Hint: it should be you. If you do it anyway I won't be home. No shit so why did you ask her? Her fucking female brain must have fucking exploded when you added another goddamn responsibility and deci…
/r/askMRP10/07/16 02:57 PM
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Most of us would probably label [fucking with people's heads] as a low value activity. Oh yeah? Well, maybe not the image of actively expending effort to fuck with people's heads. We should all just be natural alphas with stratospheric SMV who haven't given a fuck about anything in our lives and have been swimming in abundance since our first pube and deference and respect and submission and adoration and success and hamsters on our wheel just make up our reality. But this is fucking Married Red…
/r/askMRP09/07/16 11:05 PM
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I saw him wreck a 100,000 dollar boat because he liked the splash. I wrote the first sentence and thought, "am I entering her frame?" and then went and read that same post you linked. Then I went and read OP's first post here, where he hasn't been hugged in years, where his wife doesn't eat with the family anymore...and I was fucking pissed. And then I wrote the rest. And OP should be fucking pissed too. And I thought "fuck her frame, rattle the fucking cages. I'm the ring leader and I'm going t…
/r/askMRP09/07/16 07:09 AM
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Usually, by the time we're ready to move it's dried on, for better or worse.
/r/askMRP09/07/16 12:04 AM
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When I get in the door the slacks come off and the athletic apparel goes on. You never know when you're gonna need to pull your dick out or wipe curtains on your ass. And for the record I'm going to up my chances of getting her bra off to 80%.
/r/askMRP08/07/16 11:49 PM
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Honest to fucking god the next time she came in the house there would be fucking blinds there instead of curtains and when she is like "what the fucking fuck" I would say "I. fucking. told. you. I wasn't being sarcastic" just dead pan as fuck like I was telling my doctor how regular my shits are. And then I would go take one, with the door open. Is that overkill when STFU would have worked, yep. Is it a huge fucking message about how shit is going to be around here, yep. Would the shit storm cov…
/r/askMRP08/07/16 10:14 PM
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In the example the woman wasn't being assertive, she was being passive. Once she got some balls she quit being passive and handled her shit. STFU and walking away from a shit test is a pretty neutral thing to do, which is why we suggest it more for people who can't handle more assertive stuff, or are just are not there yet, but it FEELS like a fucking act of war compared to the truely passive method that every man here is used to doing...taking it like a fucking bitch. The assertive thing is to …
/r/askMRP08/07/16 07:19 PM
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It just sucks to be laying here with impotent rage. “I fear all we have done is to awaken a sleeping giant and fill him with a terrible resolve.” I'm sure you know that Yamamoto probably never said that, but it still gives me goosebumps.
/r/MarriedRedPill08/07/16 12:41 AM
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I appreciate it though. My gf loves it when I read cringe porn, gets my cock hard enough to qualify as industrial machinery. Good for the bedroom and I can depreciate the fucking on our taxes. I'm gonna bite and answer the question anyway. If a fit gym rat is in a book club for two years it's because he absolutely slays the gray pussy there. Sorry Ivan.
/r/askMRP07/07/16 11:30 PM
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Not that internet brohugs matter but I've got a lot more faith in you now man. Nobody here can promise a relationship will make it, but I know you'll make it.
/r/MarriedRedPill07/07/16 10:03 PM
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What did you do before the shift and you got your MS? Please tell me that you didn't meet her while PreMed and didn't make it because you are fucked. A Bio degree is a passport to shit pay. Even if you worked at an "innovative" employer you still wouldn't get rich running gels, PCR, CRISPR and manning a scope. The best and most stable are with hospitals and the state. You can move up a pay grade every couple years. Maybe run the lab eventually. Transfers are easy. Benefits are boss. If it is sta…
/r/askMRP07/07/16 09:54 PM
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It is improving daily Today is a better day Thats what we want to hear. That sucks your daughter's birthday didn't go as planned. That has to hit hard. Bitch move not having anything for her you fucker. Can't glue some macaroni noodles to a fucking cigar box? Can't cut out some construction paper hearts and glue on sequins? Couldn't whittle her a fucking pony out of soap? Couldn't order her a barbie off amazon/ebay? Couldn't follow her around in her favorite MineCraft world? Fuck you. Do you hav…
/r/MarriedRedPill07/07/16 08:03 PM
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Do you see any other ovulation traits? Showing more skin? Drawn to masculine things? Urge to go out? Girls nights? The cycle might still be there, but it can mellow out and every woman is different and it changes as they age too. The conventional wisdom on "ovulation game" is that yeah, it is not good if your partner isn't DTF during ovulation...but it is also the time to really up the jerk-boy charm. If ovulation is horny slut mode then red pill wisdom is that it takes massive game to bang a ho…
/r/askMRP07/07/16 05:35 PM
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I am not making money, living off savings, cannot contribute to parenting and cannot help out around the house or do maintenance. I've never read this before but I'm going to throw it out there. Ad hominem attacks are needed to build a better man. What is your argument? What is your "condition?" Does it matter? You know the Red Pill Philosophy. The levels of dread are always the same. A bot can post the playbook. SMV is what it is. I think YOU matter, so I'm attacking YOU. I do applaud your use …
/r/MarriedRedPill07/07/16 05:50 AM
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I just read a news article that said men are not running anymore. They had the data that seemed to show that as more and more women are beginning to run, men are less inclined to do so.
/r/askMRP07/07/16 04:34 AM
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First of all, I don't want to throw around the word "unicorn," but myself, the men on this board, and men we know, all know somebody who has been abandoned in your situation so she deserves some praise. Now: Morse code? HAM radio? You fucking neckbeard, maybe you could win some money and notoriety in a fucking Pokemon Tournament or something. Are you going to make me Google "How to make money on the internet" and "what to do when bedridden" for you? There are whole reddits covering these topics.…
/r/MarriedRedPill07/07/16 03:58 AM
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And I get it dude. I was in my 30s before I started in my families business, realized I was not gonna hit six figures doing my own thing and it would be stupid to let my parents just lock the door when they retired. The number one way to build wealth is intergenerationally. I know society puts a big emphasis on the self-made man, but building your families wealth is just as admirable, most people HAVE to go the self-made route because not everyone can luck into privilege. I don't know what kind …
/r/MarriedRedPill06/07/16 07:09 PM
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You say I was wrong in my analysis, but then go on to confirm everything I said. You say you don't care about Muslims, but your post history makes it seem like that is ALL you care about. Granted I can't read German, so I may be drawing the wrong conclusion from your posts and comments, but it appears you're pretty concerned/obsessed. That type of thinking and its frequency bleeds over into your life man, that is why I called you on it, that is what politics have to do with this case. Contrary t…
/r/MarriedRedPill06/07/16 06:45 PM
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And this one https://www.reddit.com/r/asktrp/comments/4rd9xi/wife_that_kicked_me_out_asks_if_i_can_take_the/
/r/MarriedRedPill06/07/16 05:00 PM
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This thread not go well? https://www.reddit.com/r/asktrp/comments/4r4mqm/this_mother_of_my_child_i_live_with_with_asked_me/ Looks to me like you spend all day on Reddit and "Software Development" is an excuse to sit in front of a computer and masturbate and worry about Germany's Muslim immigrants. You probably bitch about them so much instead of doing anything productive that your wife is considering fucking one. Instead become the man that frauleins are proud of and want to be with. Man the fuc…
/r/MarriedRedPill06/07/16 04:53 PM
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