Guess what sub is hostile, now?

fuzzyface1980 · 2016-08-30T08:30:15+00:00

I'm slow. Was looking for MRP or TRP. Deadbedrooms...lol. I hear they got a pill for that

fuckMeRedFuckYouBlue · 2016-08-30T12:50:46+00:00

Very interesting. Top is /r/deadbedrooms, /r/relationships is mentiond, but no mention the /r/theredpill. Good job being welcoming, everyone.

UEMcGill · 2016-08-30T13:53:10+00:00

Been flagged as a shitpost.... It kind of is. But this is AskMRP and as such a training ground.

Recommendations for improvement? Learn how to use archived version when cross-posting. Add editorial comment, or perspective, etc. Don't clog the page with karma whoring.

BluepillProfessor · 2016-08-30T16:00:16+00:00

almost all relationship oriented subs have a tendency to recommend divorce/breakup when people are just looking for help improving things.

That is a big difference between what we do on MRP and what all the other subs do. Yes, we WILL tell you to get divorced but we will first tell you to own your shit, be a man, and work on your attraction. We also have targeted and well proven techniques for men specifically in low sex marriages. Our methods are aimed at men and since we are Red Pill we recognize that boys and girls are actually, you know, different.

DB and relationshits don't have the answers because they assume boys and girls are the same with the same motivations. They think a man in a DB and a woman in a DB have the same solutions. They don't. There are some similarities- build distance, be less available, build your own life, improve your appearance by working out and dressing up, take charge of your life and wife and get your ass in motion doing things.

The solution for BOTH men and women woman is: "Don't be a bitch." However, being a "bitch" takes different forms whether you are a man looking to turn around a DB or a woman trying to turn around a DB.

There are CRITICAL differences:

Men: Be strong and confident and package your inner goo in a hard covering of Alpha. Be upbeat and lead your wife and yourself. Take care of you shit.

Women: Be sweet, kind, and submissive. Be upbeat and content. Take care of your shit- but follow your husband's lead.

TLDR: MRP is not hostile because what we do actually works. DB/Relationshits are hostile because they know inside their heart of hearts that what they are advising doesn't work.

stonepimpletilists · 2016-08-30T12:50:13+00:00

I guess it's a step up from wallowing in self pity

anythinginc · 2016-08-30T18:26:48+00:00

I'm not surprised. We were just talking a couple weeks ago about how often the /db advice is GTFO or divorce.

I've clicked around a little recently I am surprised how often GTFO comes up. Surely some are bitter, mentioning their db or their ex...but GTFO is often just the best response regardless of their potential bitterness. Without a personal development ideology on the sub that is the only option right? Talk to the partner, counseling, therapy, check medical issues, GTFO. Those are your only options. In some circumstances GTFO could be jumping the gun due to commentator's bitterness...or just because "lose 20 pounds" or "quit being a fucktard" are not available options. Where the disillusionment and jadedness come in: Why is self-improvement and introspection off the table? To be fair, they are a "support group"...says it right there on the sidebar.

Title	Guess what sub is hostile, now?
Author	Boogy03
Upvotes	6
Comments	14
Date	August 30, 2016 8:05 AM UTC (9 years ago)
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