Aug 21 was the first day of my MRP journey. I've been going hard since then reading the books, focusing on diet & lifting 5 days/week consistently, body fat down 3-4%, but more to do, crushing in career, working on my MAP & generally improving in all areas

I have an interesting conundrum that is recurring for about past 4-6 weeks. I've obviously not been able to figure it out which is why I'm asking.

Routinely, I get shit tests. When I STFU & pass it she immediately turns it into a comfort test. It goes from you, you, you to I just want you to understand me. I don't feel loved, etc. It has literally followed every shit test. I respond with hug, smile, kiss on the forehead whatever. At that point it goes away, but can't understand why every shit test turns into a comfort test.

Is there any way to just end it after the shit test or am I not really passing the shit test & that's why it turns into a comfort test? Really confused here. Appreciate thoughts.