Been dating a girl for a couple months now. She’s head over heels for me and I really like this chick a lot. The one day she told me if I get spontaneous and want to come over here’s her address. Now she goes to bed at like 10 and it was like 12 when I ended up going over. Wake her up. She snuck me in (lives with her rents). We fucked cuddled it was great. We hungout since then and she keeps telling me how much she likes me and can’t stop thinking about me.

I get a nude snap saying come over. She knows I had things to do so I tell her I can’t now but I will again tonight if she wants. She said once everyone’s asleep. She then sends me a message about how she wants to suck my dick. And wishes I was there to fuck her. She said I need to get you off my mind before I get wet. I’m going to bed goodnight.

I didn’t see this till about an hour later. She said goodnight so I was confused If she expected me to come over again. I hit her up when I got done my things. The call woke her up. I said did you still want me to come over. Your text was confusing. She said I do but I don’t. I said no biggie we’ll do it another night.

She text me after saying. She should have said yes because now she feels bad. My thought was “feels bad?” That sounds like she owes me a favor. Or some pity shit. She goes im sorry. I’ll make it up to you next time I just am struggling. I suck right now. But also something about how she barely gets to see me (we actually see each other a lot almost everyday in passing at least we work in the same area. Not same department or anything)

I said you don’t owe me anything. You’re acting like I’m upset and I’m not at all. Lol feel better (said she had a head ache earlier in the day and she is on antibiotics because she was sick a couple days ago) and Get some sleep. Goodnight

Now my thought process is if she really wanted to see me should would have told me to come regardless maybe that’s wrong thinking. And way she said she feels bad. It makes me think she thinks I’m over invested or something. I have been giving her a lot of attention and time.

She leaves to see some family Saturday-Tuesday. Should I not hit her up really tomorrow at all and not ask her to hangout. Back off a little and Make her miss me? Or am I overthinking this?

My plan was to not really talk to her at all while she was visiting her family. Like I said I’ve been giving her a lot of attention. Everything It’s still fresh and honey moonish