24. No friends currently. Never dated. Unnattractive. Boring job, etc. What can do I to change things and make things better for myself?

redhawkes · 2018-01-10T14:52:07+00:00

Cut the victim mentality first.

Woe is me bullshit won't help you in this journey.

You're not exception, TRP tenets work for everyone if you apply and stick to them.

With that said, forget about hoes for a while, hit the gym hard, diet, read the sidebar, top 500 posts and go monk mode for 6 months. Find some hobbies and goals, then work on your mission and if you don't have one, find.

TRP is not a sprint it's a marathon. Be the best version of yourself.

McVaghunter · 2018-01-10T14:59:33+00:00

Did you try reading the side bar? There are no shortcuts, you'll have to read it link by link sooner or later.

tl;dr level up your SMV (aka look yur best) and Game (aka behave the correct way).

Coolguy1699 · 2018-01-10T22:39:58+00:00

Don't EVER call yourself unattractive man EVER. I did that and that shit fucked me up big time. I started to lift and felt like the shit. I called myself the most handsome guy in school and how I should be model and so on. And that shit really boosted my confidence. Listen man confidence is the key to success and the girls. Start lifting and read some books like "double your dating 2 by David DeAngelo

TimPartendale · 2018-01-10T17:18:11+00:00

Mental illness is real. Have you seen a mental health provider or therapist? Because we can’t help you with that.

All we can help you with is the fact that you need to turn your life around. Go to the main sub and lurk, don’t post. We’ll provide the information and you just need to apply it to yourself.

SoulRedemption · 2018-01-10T23:03:14+00:00

You come here asking for advise then shit on the people who point out that you have a victim mentality. Having a victim mentality can be separated from your other mental issues. Unless you get rid of the victim mentality and start owning what you are lacking and what you really are there isn't much progress you can make. Own it, accept responsibility for the things that are/were in your control. Why I'm talking about victim mentality like this? Cuz I used to be the same.

"I had a bad past" "my problems are way worse than yours" "you really don't understand how hard I'm having my life" "I really got fucked over, you have no idea what it's like"

If you mental issues I suggest go see a therapist as soon as possible to help you break things down and really get diagnosed so you can start fixing the problems.

You come here and ask a question and it's natural people will call on your shit. Some will do it in an over the top no bullshit way, some will try to level with you an ease you into it, some will just strip you naked. This is an online forum and Dun take shit too personally. Maybe this is part of the problem. There are some gud suggestions here already. Dun get sucked into the 'tap on shoulder' 'I feel you' bull shit without actual advise being given thereafter. That's just mental masturbation for you and it won't help what you are trying to fix.

There are people who will help you here if you reach out but with the right attitude. Take ownership for your shit and things in your control.

Read the sidebar, as many have suggested. No short cuts in your life if you really wanna make a change.

Good luck.

Title	24. No friends currently. Never dated. Unnattractive. Boring job, etc. What can do I to change things and make things better for myself?
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Date	January 10, 2018 2:39 PM UTC (8 years ago)
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