25 year old virgin here

R984 · 2016-08-15T00:45:41+00:00

Dude, not to be rude, but you are 25 years old and virgin and you are willing to wait another 3-4 years to get laid? That's just insane.

Lifting is good for you, taking care of your body is good for you, but you don't need to be fit to get laid. Getting ripped is infact the last thing you need to get lad, it's just the frosting on the cake. If you think you need to wait to get fit to fuck a girl you have a serious self esteem issue.

Let me tell you someting: I'm 1.85m just like you and in my twenties I use to weight 110 kg at my worst (240lb) and I never got laid as much as I did then. It seems to me that you are focused too much on what other people might think of you, as u/PraetereoBonobos said before me.

To answer your question: No, you have ZERO chances with women if you are not willing to go outside and meet new people. If you just focus on getting ripped and get obsessed by women you'll never get there, you'll always appear as the creepy antisocial dude who thinks it's his right to get laid because he spent the last 5 years of his life improving his appearance. You need to start enjoy social life, meet new groups of people, men and women, enjoy the company, be open, and let the sex part happen.

That's what I can tell you based on what you told us, your post is pretty vague..

look_good · 2016-08-15T01:55:53+00:00

fuck a fatty if u have to, male viginity is poison. sort out your logistics and lose that shit asap

Hakametal · 2016-08-15T01:42:58+00:00

Everyone (not only men) will tell you that losing your virginity is one of the most overrated experiences in your life. You're first time will be terrible, so get used to that idea.

The key is to get it out of the way ASAP. Pick up any half-decent chick and bang her. Buy a hooker. Seriously, it's not a life event. It's a mental block more than anything.

PraetereoBonobos · 2016-08-15T00:10:59+00:00

You haven't read anything have you? Hit theredpill sidebar. how can you know you don't enjoy being around people if you have never had a social life? More than likely it's you don't enjoy the idea of people judging you negatively and are uncomfortable being yourself around other people.

As for your actually question the answer is no, not even close to being to late.

top-notch-alpha · 2016-08-15T02:46:12+00:00

Get an escort if all else fails...

empatheticapathetic · 2016-08-15T11:14:43+00:00

I'm 26. Went to an escort at 25. Would have preferred a real girl but honestly I'm happy I went and got it over with. The amount of mental damage it was doing to me after I found TRP was too much.

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Title	25 year old virgin here
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Date	August 15, 2016 12:03 AM UTC (9 years ago)
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