3 most important pointers for a date?

benhurensohn · 2020-11-08T14:35:42+00:00

1) don't stress the girl with interview-style questions like "do you want kids?", "where do you see yourself in 5 years?", ...

2) don't say anything negative about yourself "I suck at math", "my apartment looks like shit", ...

3) don't say anything negative about other groups, e.g. "I hate vegans", "Republicans are so dumb"

Instead, talk about general stuff that is interesting to you and to others: "I am reading this book about x right now. Did you know that...". Ask open ended questions about experiences and actually listen: "do you remember your first day of college/in this city...?"

There's a lot more to it, but if you start with these principles, you'll avoid major fuck ups

LeatherBoundWisdom · 2020-11-08T14:42:31+00:00

Do your best, but have proper expectations. Don't try and bullshit your way into some crazy alpha date game to seal the deal. You won't jump from virgin to experienced player overnight.

Most important thing is to enjoy yourself during the date. Act like she's hopping on a plane to China the second after. Meaning enjoy it for its moment and don't be concerned about the future.

throw-away-1709 · 2020-11-08T15:12:31+00:00

Escalate. Touch. Have fun.

Treat her like your small sis.

Be fun. But not a clown.

Listen. Smile. Don't talk much.

Don't be afraid of times noone says a thing.

skyrunner22 · 2020-11-08T15:53:35+00:00

Lead the interaction. You are the man, it is your responsibility to lead the interaction, you will be carrying convo at beginning, picking the locations, introducing to your world, having fun, etc.

Tease her. treat like little brat sis, push pull, question her decisions, disqualify yourself, qualify her, etc.

Escalate/isolate. Be bold, break touch barrier early, have your logistics on point, while leading interaction it should lead right to your bed if done right. Your place might be where interaction starts and ends, or you meet at local spot close by, or you subscribe to 2 dates, you calibrate and adjust.

BlocknGhost · 2020-11-08T14:40:32+00:00

The most important thing is to have fun with your date, get to know her, and enjoy her company. Don’t become robotic trying to implement strategies, you’ll ruin the date with overthinking and over analysis.

The whole point of this sub is to be an independently successful and attractive man, so that you have a greater purpose you’re working towards and have abundance to the point where you don’t get dependent on things or people that don’t add to your life. Enjoy dates, enjoy the women you meet, but never rely on them for your happiness and fulfillment.

Ifoundthedevilfirst · 2020-11-08T16:16:07+00:00

Confidence - demonstrate sexual intent early. Could be a hug or a compliment based on appearance. eye contact, talk slow, use pauses, keep frame, take up space

How to lead the convo - dont bore with details, girls like feelings and will hamster her own version. Tease her, make her qualify. Good starting point is talk about people in general and topic of relationships and sex usually follow.

Logistics - your both screening for sexual compatibility. Make sure you can kino. Once a connection is clear isolate (with plausible deniability) and escalate. Its your job to lead so if you want to kclose make sure you plan when to (leaving venue) or if you want more get the kiss in early and figure out how to next destination. If you dont lead you risk not being number 1 choice. This is your shot

Title	3 most important pointers for a date?
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Date	November 8, 2020 2:25 PM UTC (5 years ago)
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