6 month LTR gained weight

NabroleonBonaparte · 2019-09-01T18:53:54+00:00

Why does she eat more around you? Why is this continuing despite you having problems with her weight?

You spend 4 nights a week together and none of those are the gym?

You can’t get pissed at the woman if you’re a shitty captain

PandaLitter · 2019-09-02T00:47:12+00:00

Start weighing her food and weighing her like she's your animal

[deleted] · 2019-09-01T20:01:33+00:00

You just tell her right in the face that she's fat and you don't like fat girls. No explanation, then start to give less and less attention. She'll get the hint.

You chose her cause she was fit. Now she's just a fattie A fat chicks knows how to be a fat chick cause she has been a fat chick all her life. As Partice O'Neal said: "She sits in where she fits in." She has compensated for that in a personality. Like a blind person develops a better hearing, a fat chick will develop something else. A good looking girl who gets fat, is just a fat entitled bitch.

wawakaka · 2019-09-02T01:37:17+00:00

she doesn't feel a threat of losing you to other women so she not working too hard to look good. if she was scared of losing you to hotter women she would be on a diet and at the gym early tomorrow morning.

if your relationship is based on her looks then its a point you would stress. Like a movie star who needs his woman to look perfect.

[deleted] · 2019-09-01T19:15:55+00:00

Tell her that the weight situation is a deal breaker.

If she doesn’t change, dump her.

That aside, you’re leading her down this path as well, but there’s no law yet that says you have to keep seeing her after she gains weight.

HurricaneHugues · 2019-09-01T21:11:45+00:00

You better start checking out of this relationship. Most guys don't even commit this much to a new barber in 6 months.

throwitdownman · 2019-09-02T06:28:46+00:00

She thought she had to be hot to attract a man into an LTR. She thought she had to had abs in order to compete for your availability.

6 months later she realized she had misjudged your SMV. She didn’t need abs to get your availability. Now she’s smartly playing down to your SMV. Women always only do the minimum amount of work needed to get a man.

mrwolf3000 · 2019-09-04T17:57:26+00:00

Was in a similar position. Just started inviting my girl to activities. Such as running and a kick boxing class we went to. She wants to hang out with me. So she will come. It’s not about leading with words, it’s about leading with actions. If she doesn’t want to come she doesn’t, but she can’t be surprised if I next her or don’t have time for her.

0io- · 2019-09-01T22:47:58+00:00

Maybe change up datenight so instead of dinner and a movie or netflix and chill, it's deadlift and chill, sprint to the top of the hill and have sex at the top, nude medicine ball, tennis and sex, swim across the lake and back....

If she doesn't want to do those things with you and just wants to watch TV and eat, I'm sure you can find someone else who is crazy fit with a perfect body to spend time with.

Title	6 month LTR gained weight
Author	8w80o6
Upvotes	10
Comments	17
Date	September 1, 2019 6:45 PM UTC (6 years ago)
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