Been a part of TRP for roughly 10 months now. Had my eyes opened after the death of my dad and a terrible break up. Have been working on myself since. I'm 23 turning 24 in Dec and i've had A combination of lifting (4x a week now), changing my diet, have a part time job, nofap (18 days now), trying to meditate every morning and night, last year of school and actually have a plate (old ex, barely a HB5 but something)

Improvements right? However, I still can't seem to stop comparing myself to others. I barely have enough to go out and can't get the idea that I need more money, my own place, a better car, etc before I can really go out and game. I see those my age and younger that are doing all that I have never been able to do. Talking about game... I understand how everyone says to not make women as a goal but I want to be chad. I want to change it but my excuses are holding me back (as well as lack of resources...) That and my general lack of self-esteem from all of the bp days is killer.

My questions are, what do you guys see overlaps with your RP journey and what do you suggest? Also, how did you blast through your excuses to really become the man you want? I appreciate you guys more than you can imagine and anything helps.