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hhex/r/askTRP17/03/16 11:07 PM
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Good post, thelse situations can have a tendency not to feel real until it happens to you personally so I think your mindset is gonna improve substantially. Funny how these things motivate us
/r/TheRedPill27/01/17 04:04 PM
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http://www.smbc-comics.com/comics/20140205.png seems stupid but it works - I have an app on my phone called 7 weeks and it pretty much just lets me tick off a task once i've completed it for that day. check it out it might help https://play.google.com/store/apps/details?id=com.ryan.brooks.sevenweeks.app&hl=en_GB not a shill i promise lol
/r/askTRP18/01/17 10:17 PM
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great minds think alike i see
/r/askTRP07/01/17 06:18 PM
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Boxing and salsa
/r/askTRP06/01/17 01:07 AM
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Silvio Berlusconi
/r/TheRedPill26/12/16 10:57 PM
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have been lurking for about a month now. I stumbled upon TRP when I was looking into how to get back into dating after a LTR. For the next few months I would go out regularly why you gotta make shit up??
/r/TheRedPill09/12/16 11:25 PM
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This always stuck with me Imo there's a "class 0" as well which is lower back/shoulders
/r/askTRP05/12/16 09:29 AM
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if you need your hand held through the whole fucking thing youd probably be a better match for tbp
/r/TheRedPill03/12/16 10:29 PM
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I think you should stop taking fiction so seriously
/r/askTRP03/12/16 10:09 PM
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Posture + think through your dick
/r/askTRP03/12/16 10:22 AM
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briffault's law youre not gonna get it back bro
/r/askTRP30/11/16 09:51 AM
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for instance, try to induce jealousy via the artificial scenario created by me requesting my significant other to hook up with someone in front of me. if youre looking for permission to be cucked youd probably have more success in askwomen
/r/askTRP25/11/16 03:45 PM
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look into stronglifts 5x5, it's pretty straightforward and theres an app for it
/r/askTRP23/11/16 09:53 PM
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posts like this are why i come to trp thanks man
/r/TheRedPill21/11/16 04:50 PM
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its a numbers game, approach approach approach i know thats not what u want to hear because tbh i hate it when people tell me that too, but as with anything in life discipline > motivation
/r/askTRP19/11/16 10:05 PM
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good shit as usual appreciate it man any tips for if u dont really want to hang out? or is taking her out the best course of action
/r/TheRedPill19/11/16 09:48 PM
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you are not special were not gonna hold your hand thru the whole fuckin thing sounds like youve had enough of that already
/r/askTRP19/11/16 08:51 PM
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worst case scenario you end up with a bunch of weird fetishes and ED, cause the vanilla stuff gets boring and you need more extreme shit to get you off Dont get too worried about it tho, theres a difference between being addicted to porn and whacking one off once or twice a week
/r/askTRP19/11/16 02:55 PM
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Imagine you're fucking her, helps with the smile and puts you in the right frame of mind
/r/askTRP19/11/16 02:45 PM
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TRP is about discussion of sexual strategy in a culture increasingly lacking a positive identity for men says it right there in the sidebar who gives a fuck if his titles are clickbait
/r/TheRedPill18/11/16 07:16 PM
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just vibe for a few messages then organise a meet up
/r/askTRP13/11/16 09:22 PM
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i'm in college so usually i just go to the library and work for most of the day, means that whatever happens i can feel like ive actually done something aside from that i cook or learn to cook new dishes, i clean up the kitchen or my room (cos inevitably they both get super messy) or i just go for a run sometimes i'll work towards my long term goals which pretty much just involves me sitting in front of a computer, but imo the best time sink is schoolwork cos its basically endless
/r/askTRP09/11/16 10:05 PM
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I box 1.5 hrs per week, salsa for 40 mins per week, both in the evenings, I could double the time taken for both if i wanted, & i play guitar in my downtime if i'm bored because i enjoy it that's 1 physical, 1 creative, & 1 social hobby which take, what, 3 to 6 hours per week depending on how much i feel like doing? it's not exactly a huge time commitment just make sure you prioritise your hobbies over your plates cause that shit can be a time sink if you let it be work > lift > hobbies > read >…
/r/askTRP05/11/16 05:59 PM
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This deserves it's own post
/r/askTRP05/11/16 11:03 AM
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as in i've seen it mentioned less outside of TRP
/r/TheRedPill27/10/16 07:50 PM
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lately people seem to have calmed down about TRP, with respect to that, how do you see TRP evolving over the next few years? also which is faster your greyhounds or your skidoo
/r/TheRedPill27/10/16 06:45 PM
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i think a lot of us fool ourselves into thinking that there IS a legitimate reason for some beta behaviours, but once you know that a behaviour is scientifically programmed it's very easy to be aware of it and to overcome it great post
/r/TheRedPill27/10/16 06:14 PM
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As of now I don't give a flying duck of what happens to our relationship good Tomorrow I am telling her what a shit she's been to me. not good you don't know it now because you've read ~0 TRP but the best thing you can do right now is go no contact chill the fuck out, read the sidebar and don't give her the satisfaction of chasing her because i can tell you with 100% certainty that you'll embarrass yourself
/r/TheRedPill26/10/16 06:40 PM
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Isn't it just a "red pill" doc by name? Last I heard it was full of MRAs and didn't really represent our side of the manosphere at all
/r/TheRedPill26/10/16 10:04 AM
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cheers man this is exactly what i was looking for.
/r/askTRP24/10/16 08:15 PM
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you can learn pretty much anything if you take the time to do so Ultimate Guitar top 100 and Songsterr are good starting points, there's a lot of meme songs there though so be careful here's a few i know/am learning Gorillaz - El Mañana [Youtube] Ed Sheeran - The A Team [Youtube] The Beatles - Blackbird [Youtube] Oscar Isaac - Hang Me, Oh Hang Me [Youtube] [Bonus] George Ezra - Barcelona [Youtube] Owl City - Fireflies [Youtube] Sungha Jung - Gravity [Youtube] Undertale - Undertale (tab in descri…
/r/askTRP22/10/16 11:33 PM
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i guess it worked out for you this time, but as a general rule i wouldn't talk about politics with anyone except those who you know share your views, you're only setting yourself up for failure law 38
/r/TheRedPill17/10/16 08:53 PM
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this post is a disaster I will initiate a conversation with a joke related to the woman's interests, or a meme she may enjoy, or a news article relevant to her. what are you doing op you have 3 laws on the importance of emojis
/r/TheRedPill16/10/16 01:18 PM
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You don't need a number to set up a date
/r/askTRP06/10/16 09:21 PM
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Here's an answer to a similar thread that might help you out.
/r/askTRP23/09/16 10:12 PM
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Idk how old you are but here's a comment I posted a while ago that might help you out Black slim jeans [Asos] White/black plain tees [Next] Meme shoes [Stans][Vans] Meme Watch [Casio] That's your base outfit, you can add pretty much anything you want to that. Sweatshirts, bombers, windbreakers are all good. If you get a grey tee you can thrift a bunch of flannels and wear them with that. Baseball caps are always a good option too, I have a cheapo navy one that goes with pretty much anything. Don…
/r/askTRP21/09/16 10:42 PM
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Basically what /u/1v1mebruh said: in case it still isn't crystal clear to you, I'm NOT bitching and moaning about my position in life. My life is awesome and I love it. I was making an observation about society as a whole. I understand that people like you and I can fix ourselves relatively easily through simple discipline, but not everyone is in a position to do so. I was just making fun of you for being a little out of touch.
/r/askTRP14/09/16 10:28 PM
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I appreciate the advice but you took that entirely the wrong way.
/r/askTRP14/09/16 08:36 PM
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"why don't homeless people just get a job?"
/r/askTRP14/09/16 05:02 PM
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Goddamn, man. She's actively been making plans to fuck her married ex boyfriend in front of you. A few questions for you: Why her ex boyfriend and not a stranger? That's not going to make it easier, that's going to make it awkward as shit when you cross paths again. A: He's an old ex, they had awesome sex and she wants to fuck him again, guilt-free. Why does she assume he's okay with this? He's married, surely it's not the case that she just rang him up and asked if he wanted to fuck? A: They've…
/r/askTRP08/09/16 02:48 PM
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Great job imo, where I live at least, you get a bunch of bored housewives with nothing better to do than watch you running around and exerting your authority over them. Kerps you active too, definitely recommended if you know what you're doing.
/r/askTRP26/08/16 12:42 AM
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Non-fiction, yes. Fiction not so much.
/r/askTRP08/08/16 03:19 PM
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The sticky that says NEWBIES READ THIS and the sidebar are a good place to start. There's no magic words we can say that'll fix everything for you.
/r/askTRP31/07/16 04:14 PM
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Yeah it used to be atrocious, but it made efforts to reform. And while its far from perfect it continues to do change in response to our own changing cultures. Islam is unreservedly hateful and intolerant towards people who don't follow its ideology in a way that catholicism isn't, at all. There's also proportionally less catholic pedophiles than there are pedophiles in other professions that have frequent contact with children. You hear a lot of shit about catholicism because people put up with…
/r/askTRP26/07/16 10:08 PM
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And as if by magic, the day after I've written this comment, Muslims behead a catholic priest in france. But yeah, Christianity is a toxic religion, right?
/r/askTRP26/07/16 02:23 PM
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Depends on the religion. I'm catholic and I don't find that TRP conflicts with it in any meaningful way, though admittedly I'm pretty liberal about it. I can see it being a bigger problem if you're a protestant or jewish, or even if you're just a more serious catholic than I am. In any case, TRP is often given the salad bar analogy: pick what you want; if you don't like it, leave it. If you're a muslim, though, let me save you the trouble: you're wrong, escape while you can.
/r/askTRP25/07/16 10:50 PM
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Obviously the main suggestion you're going to get here is divorce, and while that'll be the best option for you in the long run, DON'T MAKE A DECISION AFTER A DAY OF READING. Give it a month or so at least so that you can make an informed decision. In my opinion you've got a slim chance of gaining any respect at all from your wife, but if you choose to try to salvage the relationship the stuff you learn here will help you immeasurably. I'd start off by looking up the 12 levels of dread.
/r/askTRP25/07/16 10:40 PM
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Yeah it's times like this I really appreciate the salad bar analogy. I'm a broke college student, I don't want to spend £8.50 on my date's large glass of merlot. if I want to know about wine I'll work behind a bar for a couple of months.
/r/TheRedPill05/07/16 08:54 AM
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Law 38, think as you like but behave like others. Law 9, win through your actions, never through argument. You have nothing to gain from arguing and everything to lose.
/r/askTRP14/06/16 04:26 PM
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Ever since I started using /r/streetwear i've been getting a lot more compliments about my fashion sense.
/r/askTRP14/06/16 04:24 PM
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If they flake they're uninterested. You've got a log of you're entire conversation to see where you went wrong, which is nice, but generally it's because you moved too slowly and didn't show your intentions.
/r/askTRP07/06/16 11:00 AM
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The point isn't to get her back, it's to train yourself to have an abundance mentality so that it doesn't matter to you. She was never yours, it was just your turn.
/r/askTRP04/06/16 04:35 PM
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When you let her in first she probably thought you were going to take the aisle seat, so doing that weird manoeuvre would have thrown her off a bit. Still, that's not enough to make her act cold towards you. From the information you've given, it looks like you barely tried to escalate at all apart from putting your arm next to hers. You went to a concert, she expected you do do something, you didn't do anything. Work on your game.
/r/askTRP03/06/16 12:32 AM
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Sounds like you're developing oneitis. Of you're already fucking multiple other women, the best thing for that is to just go cold turkey and soft next her. If she's the only girl you're seeing, though, find a new main plate and you'll find that that feeling will start to go away.
/r/askTRP03/06/16 12:26 AM
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Two weeks later, I sent "aiyo, what it do — what it be? u like anime, i like anime two. holla at ja boy". (She likes anime. A lot.) Fucking christ the cringe. You need to read the sidebar, big time
/r/askTRP31/05/16 11:38 PM
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I forget where I saw it, but I use a pretty basic kino guide with 3 stages. Stage 1: arms & back Stage 2: legs & front Stage 3: face & ass It's straightforward and easy to remember. If you're nervous you can just stick to stage 1 but I found that once I'd crossed that line it was really easy to go further.
/r/askTRP31/05/16 12:28 AM
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The guys who get laid the most are also the ones who get rejected the most. Yes, it's that simple. But "simple" and "easy to accomplish" are two different questions entirely. Next time you go out, aim to get rejected as much as possible. It's difficult, it sucks to start, but it's the only thing that works. You're never going to get better by just reading words on a screen.
/r/askTRP29/05/16 08:34 PM
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Discipline > Motivation. When I started out with TRP I wrote down a primary goal for my life, then split that into four smaller goals. I wrote down lists of what I needed to do in order to reach them, and now I spend my energy every day trying to fulfill some small part of those goals. But the most important thing for me was, and still is, to keep myself disciplined. If I catch myself snacking, or wasting time when I could be completing one of my goals, I stop immediately and go and do something…
/r/askTRP29/05/16 08:03 PM
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While nofap can be good for a week or so at a time, it's best not to take it too seriously. If you're sexually frustrated, have a wank. No big deal.
/r/askTRP29/05/16 01:38 AM
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Absolutely correct. If even the people you confide in can tell you without hesitation that you're being an ass, your first thought shouldn't be "hell yeah, I'm doing something right!"
/r/TheRedPill28/05/16 11:37 PM
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why? I'm unfamiliar with it, I just thought it would be something OP might want to check out.
/r/askTRP28/05/16 04:40 PM
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Have you tried the TRP IRC?
/r/askTRP28/05/16 04:18 PM
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I am absolutely NOT experienced with this so take my input with a grain of salt, but can you not just lock the website like this guy did?
/r/askTRP26/05/16 03:38 PM
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You're doing fine as it is by ignoring and A&Aing. Consider Law 12: Use selective honesty and generosity to disarm your victim.
/r/askTRP26/05/16 01:59 PM
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Why do you feel the need to qualify yourself to others? You've weighed the advantages and disadvantages of both sides and have decided to stay single based on that. They should be able to respect it.
/r/askTRP26/05/16 01:59 PM
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Time, money, effort, independence
/r/askTRP26/05/16 01:43 PM
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Not a fan of this one - the people who could give the most relevant advice would be unfamiliar with TRP at best, while the veteran redpillers might not necessarily be able to help to the best of their abilities due to lack of recent experience.
/r/TheRedPill26/05/16 12:16 AM
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If you're not going to get married why are you stringing her along? You're only going to get pressured into it by her and others. Let her go, focus on yourself.
/r/askTRP22/05/16 04:48 PM
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Have you read the numerous threads that tell you never to get married? She relies on others financially, doesn't interest you intellectually and doesn't particularly excite you sexually. Maybe she's nice enough and looks decent (newsflash, that won't last) but she's nowhere near the unicorn standard that you should be seeking if you want to get married. Don't make a mistake that will last your entire life just because it's the "safe option" or the "done thing". You're young, you have the potenti…
/r/askTRP22/05/16 03:53 PM
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Ask her if she's bringing anyone; if she is, tell her she should come alone instead. That'll cover both questions 1 and 2 (and if she brings her friend you'll know she's not interested anyway). After that it's a simple question of escalating.
/r/askTRP22/05/16 03:35 PM
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It sounds like the only ammo he has to "ruin your reputation" is that you used to be beta, in which case you have literally nothing to worry about. You've improved yourself, and he's sneaking around behind your back trying to tell people that you're not a nice person? He's a jealous beta and those who know you will understand this, especially if you're well liked and good at your job, at you say. It seems like you know what you're doing, though. I recommend reading the entirety of Law 5 to get a…
/r/askTRP22/05/16 03:25 PM
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So he's a calculating asshole. If you look through my previous posts you've got 3 options: ignore, attack or fix your reputation yourself. How old are you? Are you still in school? What did you do to make him hate you so much?
/r/askTRP22/05/16 11:58 AM
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This should help. In future try and find your answer on this sub or the main one before asking a question.
/r/askTRP21/05/16 08:56 PM
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Here's the entire summary of law 5 so you can get some context. This guy isn't applying rules, he's just an asshole. As I've said, laugh it off or go on the offensive. On the other hand if you're breaking law 38 and giving people a reason to dislike you, then maybe it's more your fault than his and you need to get to the root of that problem first.
/r/askTRP21/05/16 08:06 PM
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Save your conversational topics for the date you should be setting up.
/r/askTRP21/05/16 07:42 PM
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Your problem with game will only be solved through practice, and at the moment it looks like your girl is basically a safety net for you. That's not necessarily a bad thing, but the longer you put off learning how to game the harder it'll be for you. As for sports, it's literally just a question of joining a sport society (I recommend a martial art, like boxing). If your mates go off to play football or something, suck it up and accept that you're terrible. Better to be terrible at a sport than …
/r/askTRP21/05/16 07:41 PM
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If you feel unsafe around her, one of you needs to leave. Let him know that, and understand that "unsafe" extends to "hurting her and getting fucked in court".
/r/TheRedPill21/05/16 07:09 PM
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If I told you that my oneitis broke up with me to fuck my best friend and is now pressuring me into commitment at 19 years old, what would you tell me to do?
/r/askTRP21/05/16 07:02 PM
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You make a good point, I just went back over law 5 and saw this: ...learn to destroy your enemies by opening holes in their own reputations. Then stand aside and let public opinion hang them. That's an oversight on my part. Going on the offensive can be an effective strategy, as long as it doesn't devolve into a petty argument.
/r/askTRP21/05/16 06:53 PM
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My conclusion (based on experience) is that, shit tests, if any, are just: • indicators of disinterest rationalized as "tests", made by women just not interested in you No, you're just failing shit tests.
/r/TheRedPill21/05/16 06:37 PM
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If he's missing this many red flags he's definitely not a "devout TRP follower". There are ways of giving people a chance without having to be in a relationship with them. Props to him for being 60 days sober though.
/r/TheRedPill21/05/16 06:30 PM
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Wherever will have you, really. Buff up your resume and hand it to as many places as possible, you're not going to get anywhere without trying.
/r/askTRP21/05/16 06:20 PM
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Increased SMV
/r/askTRP21/05/16 03:17 PM
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Repeat after me: I don't give a fuck. If there's nothing wrong with you then you shouldn't be worried, and if there is something wrong with you it's probably because you're disobeying law 38 (think as you like but behave like others). Also, I don't know about you, but whenever someone tells me about someone else and is obviously taking pleasure in shitting on them, I just think they're petty and salty, and I pay it no mind (unless the person is genuinely horrible). I'd wager your friends don't g…
/r/askTRP21/05/16 02:34 PM
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Discipline > Motivation. Set aside a few hours per day to work, stick to that religiously, and you won't need to be motivated because it'll just turn into a habit. I used to have the problem you do with games and reddit (still do, to an extent), and I found the best thing for me was going cold turkey and replacing those habits with interesting, productive habits. I read nonfiction, I practice my guitar, I cook, I learn new skills (programming and a couple of languages at the moment), I exercise,…
/r/askTRP21/05/16 02:27 PM
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Just talk to him honestly. It doesn't even have to be a DMC, you can just straight up tell him that he's turning into a fat shit and dismiss it as brotherly banter if he challenges it.
/r/askTRP21/05/16 02:16 PM
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don't get drunk and act stupid Yeah, I tend to use it as a crutch. I'm gonna wean myself off starting tomorrow, good advice.
/r/askTRP19/05/16 11:47 PM
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Hahaha, love this. It's true though: it's all mindset. Thank you.
/r/askTRP19/05/16 11:45 PM
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If you're relatively young, /r/streetwear is incredible! I'm at uni and over the Easter holidays I completely changed my style to one that fit more with that subreddit. Never had so many compliments on my clothes before, self-confidence through the roof. Edit: also have a look at the first few videos in this playlist.
/r/askTRP15/05/16 06:12 PM
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Being short isn't an excuse not to try.
/r/askTRP12/05/16 07:26 PM
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Wtf are these replies lol In my experience teasing girls on your course is a bad idea because of the "don't shit where you eat" rule. Just saying no without a reason is a pretty shit idea too for almost the same reason - you're going to be seeing these people frequently; hell, you're in a group with them, it's going to make things awkward. So don't do those things. You need to give a valid reason: "No, you owe me." They're taking advantage of you, so make it clear that you won't do it for nothin…
/r/askTRP12/05/16 07:22 PM
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Because it's incredibly Machiavellian and selfish, and for a lot of people that automatically means you're a shitty person.
/r/askTRP08/05/16 09:17 PM
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Sure, go for it.
/r/askTRP08/05/16 08:44 PM
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The RP philosophy is that women will follow a predetermined set of behaviours which we can learn from and take advantage of. The posts you mentioned are demonstrations of this behaviour, examples of Red Pill theory. You can't preach shit without having something to back it up.
/r/askTRP08/05/16 08:15 PM
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6 girls is hardly a good sample size. Keep working at it and make sure your profile's up to scratch, and if you're still having trouble get one of us to give you a second opinion. Good job focusing on meeting up though, that's the #1 mistake people tend to make so once you've broken through that wall you'll tend to do fairly well.
/r/askTRP08/05/16 08:05 PM
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If that's what you think of TRP then it's obvious you're just here to troll.
/r/askTRP08/05/16 07:56 PM
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Oh, hey, I remember you from this thread. /u/muharashie, right? SlutHate breeds negativity and you're just proving its philosophy. Take your shilling and concern trolling someplace else.
/r/askTRP08/05/16 07:31 PM
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So what? So am I. Facial aesthetics will get you noticed, sure, but they're nowhere near as important to closing as you think they are.
/r/askTRP08/05/16 02:00 PM
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Attractiveness opens the door, but game lets you through. Look at RSDTyler. He's a small balding ginger and he slays. Do yourself a favour and don't visit Sluthate, it's a ridiculously shallow website that only focuses on maximising your facial aesthetics when there's several better ways to make yourself more attractive. Lift, dress well, get a decent haircut and hold yourself with confidence and you'll be in a better position of 95% of the slimy dudes at the club. Don't get hung up about someth…
/r/askTRP08/05/16 01:12 PM
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More money to spend on cool shit More time to invest in stuff that matters Less effort needed to keep drama out of your life Limitless pussy You're free, enjoy it!
/r/askTRP08/05/16 01:49 AM
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We had a pretty shitty relationship until we started smoking pot, lol.
/r/askTRP01/05/16 09:11 AM
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Save your questions for the dates you should be setting up. Texting is for logistics.
/r/askTRP30/04/16 10:32 PM
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It really is amazing to see the generational differences in ways of thinking. That doctor was the only one who looked comfortable in his own skin, because he was the only one who understood how the world works.
/r/TheRedPill29/04/16 12:52 PM
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In a general sense Chad = someone who fucks a lot of women, but depending on the context it can mean anything from a brain-dead football jock to a natural alpha who we should aspire to be like (although I reckon we're gravitating towards the latter).
/r/TheRedPill29/04/16 12:40 PM
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I found from experience that the best thing for oneitis is No Contact. Avoid her without being rude, never initiate texts, and if you're struggling, just imagine her getting spit roasted by two huge dudes, because AWALT.
/r/askTRP28/04/16 11:34 PM
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Law 19: Know who you're dealing with - never offend the wrong person. If your parents are financially supporting you, you need to suck it up until you're self sufficient. Don't cause trouble, smile and nod, you have nothing to gain by arguing but everything to lose.
/r/askTRP28/04/16 11:31 PM
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Look up "dread game". You've got a lot of reading to do.
/r/askTRP28/04/16 11:27 PM
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You've got a few options here. You can tell her how you feel, and come off as a jealous beta. You can forbid her from going, which will make you look like a jealous beta AND will make her resent you. Or... you could just let it go. From what you've said he doesn't sound like a threat, since your SMV is (apparently) higher and he even invited you to the party. That's not important, though; what's important is that you have an abundance mentality, outcome independence and a solid dread game. If yo…
/r/askTRP28/04/16 11:17 PM
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The number 1 quality to look for in a girl is self control. If she can't control her drinking habits she won't be able to control her pussy, especially if she's drunk, and ESPECIALLY if she's drunk and "travelling". Hard next her mate, it'll be a weight off your mind.
/r/askTRP28/04/16 11:05 PM
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Richard la Ruina has a great video on speaking to groups of girls. Essentially, talk to theach whole group to get her friends to like you so that you won't get cockblocked, then start talking to the girl you want to isolate and let the others start their own conversation. Remember that the most important part is that her friends like you, or they'll make it hell for you. We've all been there.
/r/askTRP28/04/16 10:59 PM
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Make it look good, remove redundant information and don't refer to yourself in the first person. The top posts on /r/resumes really helped me out when I was writing mine.
/r/askTRP27/04/16 03:00 PM
2

That's true, and if you don't want to go after girls with boyfriends, props to you. All I'm saying is that it's easy enough to dissociate yourself from the guilt if you so choose, by adopting that particular mindset - which is perfectly valid. At the end of the day, though, everything you do should benefit you. If you're going to beat yourself up about sleeping with some guy's girlfriend for weeks afterwards, it's probably not the right thing for you to do.
/r/askTRP26/04/16 08:17 AM
2

I like to send some variant on the old "glad I could make your legs shake last night" the morning after.
/r/askTRP26/04/16 07:27 AM
1

If she didn't cheat with you, she'd just end up cheating with someone else. By deciding not to fuck her you're just postponing the inevitable.
/r/askTRP26/04/16 07:25 AM
8

TRP is a toolbox that helps you to fulfill your potential. An LTR blunts the instruments. At a very basic level, TRP is split into two halves: sexual strategy and self-improvement. In an LTR, the sexual strategy half is completely locked. You're not going to be able to learn game if you're in a relationship. The self-improvement side is somewhat more accessible, but the amount of time, money and effort that is put into relationships can seriously hurt your efforts to improve. Leaving your relati…
/r/askTRP25/04/16 12:55 PM
3

Bottom line: cheating isn't cool. Go with the other girl if you want but let your LTR know first. The fact that the new girl is okay with you cheating is also a HUGE red flag, so for the love of God don't start an LTR with her or she'll only cheat on you further down the road. The ideal situation would be to plate them both, but if that's too tough just do whatever you're comfortable with.
/r/askTRP25/04/16 08:08 AM
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She's refusing to let you do something that she's not totally against. She's using her sexuality to get what she wants; in this case "good (read: beta) behaviour". There's parallels here with the girls who refuse to let their orbiters do anything to them then run off to Chad to do all sorts of depraved shit, and the reason for that is, as we know, lack of respect. Your FWB doesn't respect you as much as she could because you're both growing too comfortable in the relationship: exercise dread and…
/r/askTRP25/04/16 08:01 AM
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The moment you stop having goals, the moment life stops being fun. Set a few goals for yourself, and if you reach them, set more. You never "make it", you keep improving.
/r/askTRP21/04/16 03:41 PM
1

I'm sure she can think for herself and might not appreciate you prying into her life, but I'd make sure she knows that she can come to you for help if she ever needs it, since there's also a possibility that she might be seriously looking for a way out of that situation. IMO, sit down with her for coffee or something, tell her what you've told us, and leave it at that. You're just worrying about your little sister, there's no reason for her to be offended.
/r/askTRP21/04/16 03:35 PM
10

Offer solutions if she wants them, if not, let her vent and don't get emotionally involved.
/r/askTRP21/04/16 03:23 PM
2

Ask a bunch of questions and let her do most of the talking, bu make sure you escalate instead of just talking about work and whatnot. Note that kino is easier when you're sitting next to her rather than opposite her.
/r/askTRP21/04/16 03:10 PM
1

Average bpl is 5.2 inches. You're fine.
/r/askTRP18/04/16 12:55 AM
4

yes, exactly... you would rather prefer to hangout in a place where everyone is telling you sweet sweet lies to reaffirm your bluepill worldview.... its ok, bro... just be in the top 10% and you will get laid... its nothing to do with confidence... face/height/race is all that matters... i have a white friend who is works at a call centre and doesn't know how to speak to girls... and he gets laid with white HB9.5 goddesses all the time... you can too...
/r/askTRP16/04/16 08:09 PM
2

I had a quick skim through and they all look completely delusional. It's a great example of what not to do: max out your aesthetics without working on game or improving yourself, then be surprised when somehow it doesn't work out. Oh, and if you're not tall and your face isn't a 9/10, get out, because there's no hope for you. It's full of negativity and you shouldn't concern yourself with it because it will literally get you nowhere.
/r/askTRP16/04/16 04:01 PM
1

To enjoy yourself, to give your life some purpose. Maybe it'll make you happy some day. And once you've achieved it, at the end of it all, you'll be able to go back to whatever you're doing now, but you can be satisfied that there was at least something that held your attention for awhile. Plus there's always more steam games to buy and you're gonna need some money for that. :^)
/r/askTRP15/04/16 07:08 AM
1

Why do you give a fuck about what other people think? Why not just do what you want to do? And if there's nothing, what's stopping you from creating some arbitrary goal and working towards it to keep yourself busy?
/r/askTRP14/04/16 10:12 PM
1

Great to see another redpiller from Exeter, thought I was the only one.
/r/TheRedPill13/04/16 11:23 PM
8

Good job! The important thing now is to create habits that'll ensure you'll keep improving yourself even when you're not motivated. It's all too easy to assume that not dating women is enough.
/r/TheRedPill12/04/16 03:39 PM
1

I was implying NC besides what was necessary, guess I should've made that clearer.
/r/askTRP11/04/16 07:52 PM
5

She emasculated me on a daily basis And she's still doing that? 100% the best thing for you to do right now is to go no contact. Cold turkey. Break it off completely as soon as you possibly can. If there's a chance that she can still divorce-rape you even now, remain cordial and polite, but you need to stop initiating contact. If she wants sex or anything else, tell her that you're busy. This relationship is totally unhealthy and you're not going to be able to move on, let alone improve yourself…
/r/askTRP11/04/16 03:51 PM
5

This, don't worry about him unless it directly impacts your work.
/r/askTRP26/03/16 02:41 PM
2

Yeah, static website. I'd just sell ad space.
/r/askTRP25/03/16 11:23 AM
3

Personally, I want to do something that's location independent and produces some sort of passive income. The absolute best way to fulfill those goals is through the internet, and I'm currently looking into making static guide websites and ecommerce (preferably ecommerce because it's scaleable). I'd recommend reading the Millionaire Fastlane for a general idea about starting your own business; otherwise, here's a list of ways to make passive income.
/r/askTRP23/03/16 11:35 PM
4

You're talking like your life has no meaning without girls. So what if she was a unicorn? She was never yours, it was just your turn. So what if no one else matches up to her? Every girl has flaws, and relationships are a waste of resources anyway. Take the pussy off the pedestal and sort out your own life first. Work on your game and fuck a few girls on the side to keep yourself sane. Relationships aren't going to magically give your life meaning.
/r/askTRP23/03/16 11:24 PM
1

"We don't need to label it", or anything that makes her feel like she's making a fuss over nothing.
/r/askTRP23/03/16 11:05 PM
1

It's decent. I'd say something like "Hey, I've seen you around and you're pretty cute, why don't we go out next weekend?"
/r/askTRP17/03/16 10:45 AM
3

??? That alpha's talking out of his arse if he says that tinder isn't good for hookups, I wouldn't worry about that. About Netflix and Chill... it's true that it's infamous as a phrase that basically means "let's fuck", but that doesn't really matter if you're aware of that fact. If you're not it can come off as a little cringy, but if you're playful about it and realise that you're essentially asking her if she wants to fuck, don't worry about it. Otherwise, just say you want to show them somet…
/r/askTRP17/03/16 09:28 AM
2

First of all make sure you don't have oneitis for her. There are plenty of other girls you can game, she's not special. Secondly, you're never going to game a girl over Facebook. The golden rule for texting/messaging is that it's only good for logistics, so if you're going to use it at all, use it to arrange a meet up and make sure you don't turn it into a long heart to heart conversation. The aim is to move it off facebook as quickly as possible then have minimal contact until you meet. After t…
/r/askTRP17/03/16 09:18 AM
2

Fake it till you make it I know you probably want more than that, but for me it's a matter of simply deciding I want to be more alert, happy and open; in short, "high energy". Make that phrase your mantra, and you'll find yourself giving less and less of a fuck in social situations - you're happy, you're energetic, and you're a lot more fun to be around than the guy who delivers canned one-liners in an effort to fit in.
/r/askTRP09/03/16 08:21 PM
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I'm naturally introverted like a lot of the guys on this sub but what worked wonders for me was realising that as long as I had high energy (Law 37, create compelling spectacles) then I could pretty much do what I wanted. Previously I could only be extroverted I was drunk or had the highest social standing in the group, and I used to really beat myself up about it. But once I realised that I could turn on high-energy-mode pretty much at the flick of a switch everything became a lot easier, inclu…
/r/askTRP09/03/16 03:58 PM
1

I don't agree with this at all. It's a well known fact in TRP that you need to balance out alpha/beta characteristics in different situations - you wouldn't AMOG your boss, for example. I'd argue that people on here who go on about being alpha are either just starting out and are missing the point completely, or they're just using incendiary language to put a point across.
/r/TheRedPill09/03/16 03:43 PM
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Ok, let me spell it out for you. You're in an LTR, which isn't objectively bad but I'd discourage it for the sake of wasted time, money and potential. You're using a hookup app to find friends. You're using a hookup app to find friends. Join a club or find a hobby that allows you to meet other people, and suddenly your problems with people flaking are going to magically disappear. You're trying to find female friends when you're much more likely to form strong connections with men. What sounds m…
/r/askTRP08/03/16 05:45 PM
1

Have you heard of Richard LaRuina?
/r/askTRP08/03/16 05:14 PM
1

Be very careful about this: if you force the pill on someone they're most likely to reject it. The best thing you can do for people who haven't taken it yet is to drop a few nuggets of RedPill wisdom every so often. Having said that, if you really, really want to introduce it to him, send him a post that you think would genuinely help him, and don't push him at all. If he confronts you about it, you have the option to say you were just googling stuff and it popped up. Worst case scenario he lear…
/r/askTRP08/03/16 05:01 PM
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There are so many things wrong with this I don't even know where to begin. In response to your question, texting is for logistics rather than conversation, so you were pretty much screwed from your 2nd message. But holy shit do you need to read the sidebar.
/r/askTRP08/03/16 12:29 AM
1

That's not my point - you have the opportunity to do anything you want, for as long as you're physically able.
/r/askTRP02/03/16 07:39 PM
4

Fuck, man, you've got it all wrong, being a woman is shite. Post wall you've got no real value to men or employers or anyone, really. Dudes on the other hand can keep fucking and following passions well into middle age if we so choose. I mean, look at this guy. He's 60 and wants to be a model. For girls, life ends at half that age. They may be able to do what they want for a decade or two but all things considered, you're much better off as a guy.
/r/askTRP02/03/16 07:11 PM
5

Have the freedom to do what I want
/r/askTRP28/02/16 11:25 PM
2

From a completely amoral standpoint, your only reason to follow through with this is out of loyalty to your friend, and yet it could screw up your life in a big way if you're not ready or able to look after the kid. Here's a similar story from /r/childfree which might resonate with you, especially this part at the end: They're hard work. They take all of your money and time and energy. And even if you love them you'll always resent them. And you'll have no one to talk to about it because everyon…
/r/askTRP27/02/16 05:15 PM
1

No problem man. The hair suggestions were based on the 3-inch maximum hair length you mentioned awhile back, but if you're able to grow it out longer and grow a beard it might be worth researching other haircuts too.
/r/askTRP21/02/16 11:55 PM
3

I had a look at your /r/rateme post. You're not unattractive but you could use a better haircut and potentially a better dress sense since at the moment you look like my 30 year old accountant cousin. /r/malefashionadvice have helped me a lot so I'd definitely recommend having a look at that, but it looks like /r/malehairadvice hasn't really helped you much. Personal opinion, short back and sides and grow out the top as much as you can. Example 1, Example 2, Example 3. Also, make sure your Tinde…
/r/askTRP21/02/16 11:23 PM
2

Yeah, vagina tingles
/r/askTRP21/02/16 01:39 AM
1

Potentially salvageable if you put in the effort. She's not attracted to you, so the obvious solution is to make yourself attractive - not necessarily to her, but to women in general. If you're serious about this you need to read the fuck out of TRP; I'm talking sidebar, top posts, related subs, whatever. Internalise it, because while you might disagree with some posts now, others will click. For now, know that only you can make yourself happy. You are the most important person in your life, so …
/r/askTRP21/02/16 01:37 AM
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Remember Law 38 - Think as you like but behave like others. You need to read the situation and understand which actions will benefit you the most, and if that means acting like a beta faggot, then act like a beta faggot.
/r/askTRP17/02/16 02:05 PM
2

Become the man who can. I just want to emphasise this. Telling yourself not to give a fuck about her isn't realistically going to help you much, but when you focus on self improvement, she'll naturally become secondary to your goals since she's not helping you to achieve them. And, as an added bonus, nothing infuriates exes more than seeing you improve.
/r/askTRP16/02/16 09:47 PM
3

Welcome to TRP! This first thing you’ve got to realise is that the Red Pill is a toolbox. It has no specific agenda, it’s just a list of facts which you can choose to apply in different situations to improve yourself in that area (see projectself’s comment). That area could be sexual strategy and that’s what TRP tends to focus on, but it doesn’t have to be. The 48 Laws of Power is a Red Pill staple and it has almost nothing to do with women (although many laws will obviously apply to them). Ther…
/r/askTRP10/02/16 01:55 PM
1

When talking to a single person I wouldn't worry too much about it, texting's best for logistics and organisation. In group chats it's slightly different since you've got to participate to be of any real value to the chat. It's easy enough to just add your opinion or make a few jokes from time to time, especially as you're not trying to get anything out of it - you're just participating for the sake of participation.
/r/askTRP31/01/16 07:02 PM
1

Start figuring out how to live a life that'll give you the freedom to do what you want. For me, that came when I read the Millionaire Fastlane which, despite having a fair amount of fluff, gave me enough of a kick up the ass to get me to start thinking seriously about what I wanted to do with my life. I'd also like to echo what was said about getting some solid male friends. You might find this post an interesting read.
/r/askTRP31/01/16 06:48 PM
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News flash: you only think we're creepy because we aren't ATTRACTIVE! Yup. But it's down to you to change that.
/r/TheRedPill21/01/16 10:52 PM
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Previously pinned thread which I was also guilty of not reading: https://www.reddit.com/r/asktrp/comments/3u05gs/you_are_not_a_special_fucking_snowflake/ Read the sidebar and the top posts, internalise the core tenets. Personally, what helped me the most was when I realised that discipline > motivation. Get into a habit of sleeping well, going to the gym, talking to everyone you see, and you'll see yourself improve.
/r/askTRP16/01/16 03:12 AM
2

Because I'm at university. Once I'm out, I'm moving to aus or America or something. Far from here.
/r/TheRedPill06/01/16 11:05 AM
3

Rule 38: Think as you like but behave like others. You've got a lot of reading to do if this isn't obvious to you.
/r/askTRP06/01/16 02:59 AM
5

Jesus fucking christ, stuff like this is why I'm seriously considering leaving europe.
/r/TheRedPill05/01/16 11:08 PM
3

Yeah, I'd be careful with this. Much as I respect op for how it turned out, by the way he described the conversation it could have easily gone the wrong way.
/r/TheRedPill05/01/16 10:25 AM
3

These days girls have so little respect for themselves and how they appear that they would rather walk around in a generic snug pair of yoga pants and falsely claim “rape” or sexual harassment in order have a young man expelled from school than attest for their own actions. http://i.imgur.com/MZOq4co.jpg
/r/TheRedPill19/12/15 02:27 PM
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Hi Milo, you've obviously got a lot of fans here, but what are your personal opinions on TheRedPill? Are there specific aspects of it that you like or dislike?
/r/TheRedPill17/12/15 05:12 PM
1

I did have a look around but all the situations seemed slightly different to my own. Probably should've looked harder. Anyway... stop being a bitch and be accountable for yourself because nobody else will change you but you. Thanks for summing it up so concisely. I can't believe it was this obvious all along.
/r/askTRP17/12/15 04:16 PM
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What's the point? All publicity is good publicity, one of our biggest spikes in subscribers came from an askreddit thread denouncing us. A wolf does not concern himself with the opinions of sheep.
/r/TheRedPill19/11/15 08:50 AM
2

To "hedge your bets" means to protect yourself from making the wrong choice. In this context, the stupid people are being nice because it's the safest option for them.
/r/TheRedPill08/11/15 06:03 PM
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"Being nice is something stupid people do to hedge their bets." - Rick Sanchez
/r/TheRedPill08/11/15 02:07 PM
1

Excellent post. Would be interested to see what your "unique style" is.
/r/TheRedPill06/11/15 08:59 AM
6

Text conversations are only for sorting out where or when you're going to meet up. Save the interesting stuff for then.
/r/askTRP04/11/15 05:59 PM
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