what would you do?

hhex · 2016-05-22T16:43:25+00:00

Have you read the numerous threads that tell you never to get married? She relies on others financially, doesn't interest you intellectually and doesn't particularly excite you sexually. Maybe she's nice enough and looks decent (newsflash, that won't last) but she's nowhere near the unicorn standard that you should be seeking if you want to get married.

Don't make a mistake that will last your entire life just because it's the "safe option" or the "done thing". You're young, you have the potential to do better.

dragonpants6 · 2016-05-22T15:56:21+00:00

sex is your responsibility. train her if you don't like the status quo

good mother someday? nothing wrong here

so she can't stimulate you at an intelligent level? are you trying to put your dick in her degree?

desire is the only hangup I see. you may need to create it yourself by controlling your environment. make her do shit you like

it honestly sounds like you'd rather date a dude

it's all about beauty, loyalty, and morality for me so maybe I'm biased here

Jani1157 · 2016-05-22T15:56:38+00:00

I wouldn't stop focusing on myself, and looking for the next level. Period. It's easier for a guy like you to get lazy because your natural positives outweigh your negatives. Your girl (according to RP) is moving out of her prime years and starting her decline. That being so I wouldn't be surprised if she comes to you more, looking for more.

Get that consistency under control, that's a weak spot and although minor we need to eliminate as many as we can.

If you enjoy her, then enjoy her. Always know you can walk away at any time, and she'll know. "If you feel it, they can see it."

Docbear64 · 2016-05-22T17:14:58+00:00

If i was as near perfect in terms of SMV as you suggest you are i would aim for someone who maybe was a little less pretty with more personality however that person may not be as submissive or have good mother qualities. It's a trade off .

ecosci · 2016-05-22T16:13:05+00:00

SHE IS NOT KIND AND FAITHFUL ALL SNAKES MAY NOT BE POISONOUS BUT THEY ALL BITE AND THIS WILL ALL CHANGE IN LTR OR MARRIAGE ALL THIS IS A COVER UP.DONT FALL FOR IT.

redpillbrazil · 2016-05-22T15:48:49+00:00

If she has nothing add, besides being pretty and good sex, I'd drop that.

Unless her parents are like millionaires with very safe investments, if she isn't pursuing a career, in the future she could be relying on your money, so you need to think about that too.

Title	what would you do?
Author	Bethefuture9
Upvotes	1
Comments	20
Date	May 22, 2016 3:28 PM UTC (10 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/askTRP
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