So been trying to apply the teachings of this place. Just need some field advice. I’m in the UK if that has any bearing.

So met up with a chick Sunday ( had a date for Monday but I was letting her chase me so much she couldn’t wait to see me)

Did some kissing and groping first date ( hard to do more in broad daylight and she had some add) only issue is my living and her living situation isn’t the best atm.

Anyway she suggested camping which makes me know she’s dtf this weekend. Then we’re joking about my snoring and she says I’ll grab your nose, I say no you won’t. And she goes I’ll grab something else then, basically transpires we talk about head or whatever. Then the typical shit test/add comes in.

I’ve managed to unassumingly avoid these in the past by how do I consciously do so.

Things like I was just joking.. (asd), if we didn’t have sex would that be okay (shit test)

Just wondering, thanks in advance