Advice for a highschooler

Modified_Hackware · 2014-12-06T11:41:25+00:00

Host parties.

Social proof and they come to you.

CDBaller · 2014-12-06T15:27:21+00:00

If you're trying to hit on girls at lunch, you're wasting your time. Play sports with your buddies or something. If you want to date, host parties and socialize more outside of class.

I_Cum_Blood_666 · 2014-12-06T17:49:32+00:00

A man with options has power, and from these options and this sense of power, a natural sense of confidence will manifest itself. Opportunity and options make a man the PRIZE. Rock stars, professional athletes and movie stars aren’t irresistible to women because of their celebrity, but because they blatantly, and with the highest form of social proof, prove they have options that other women will jealously compete for as well as the confidence that this unconscious knowledge naturally manifests itself in them. - Tomassi

favours_of_the_moon · 2014-12-06T16:32:24+00:00

I think it is different for young 'uns.

But school is a fucked up place to interact anyway. Everything's apparently gotten very PC and hostile to the male gender. I think you should find a milieu outside of school where you can interact.

fnordsnord · 2014-12-06T16:39:53+00:00

Buck up. If you're looking for "dating" and "making out," high school isn't a bad hunting ground. But actually getting laid is HARD. (Cue chorus if natural alphas saying "I banged cheerleaders all the time, it's not big deal.")

Most of us AREN'T the captain of the football team. Most of us don't drive a Trans AM. (Heh - see me date myself. It's been thirty hears since that was a "cool car.")

And most high school girls are physically afraid of sex. They've been told losing your virginity HURTS and that they'll instantly get pregnant and their lives will be destroyed. That's the starting point that the average western high school girl comes to sex from.

The good news is that they start to calm down around 16, 17, 18. Even if you improve nothing, you'll start to do a little better in a couple of years. Once you get to Uni, it will be even better.

If you're not driving yet, that puts you in first or second form (freshman/sophomore), right?

Having no wheels is your biggest cockblock. Having no money is second-biggest.

Your best move is to get a job. The responsibility will make you feel more adult, your parents will support the idea, and you'll make MONEY. Bank it. Bank almost ALL of it. Because once you get that driver's license, you're going to need a CAR.

Once you have a car, you'll have the mobility and flexiibilty to chase skirts in ways you can't even imagine now.

So seriously, if you're 14, 15 - look for after school/weekend work and start making bank. Also hit they gym and lift.

kasper0 · 2014-12-07T05:34:36+00:00

after 3 days everything goes down hill

Sounds like you're giving them too much attention. Start giving other girls attention in front of them.

Don't treat them well in front of anyone. Do that in private. In public, dismiss them.

Cant get a drivers licence yet. This makes it hard to go anywhere but the movies or to the city via public transport.

If you're in a city, there's plenty of hidden away places.

I had to ride my bike to get laid before I could drive.

Hard to escalate in school as its rare to get a chance to talk.

Bullshit. There's plenty of time in class, and if you don't have class with with a girl you want, ignore all the girls you want completely and wait for them to come to you. They will if they never catch you looking. They'll go out of their way to prove they're hot by coming up and talking to you. Build your body, walk like you own the school, laugh loud with you friends, and be ready for jealous males to start fights, so keep your boys with you and always ready. Always back up yours in a fight. Openly make fun of girls in the halls. Make sexual interest a joke.

Talking to girls at lunch time is frowned upon due to them all saying "bros before hoes" and other childish shit.

So be a man. Don't go and talk to them, but when they call out to you, go over for a second, act like you're the best thing since sliced bread ignoring whatever they want to talk about, and walk away when you have their interest.

Also, be nice to the girls you don't want and allow them to follow you around like a parade. Get yourself some orbiters.

The only real way I can find time to talk and get to know a girl is over Facebook. But this seems to be a big NO in the TRP community.

Screw that. Just don't accept friend requests, and definitely don't like any of their posts. After a while, they'll do anything just to get some Facebook recognition, which you sell at the highest price.

Misteralcala · 2014-12-07T06:12:38+00:00

In High School you should just be concerned about getting those good grades and getting into college. Once you're in college, the rules will change and you will have opportunities to explore plenty of girls.

If your grades are shit and school isn't your thing, have a job lined up or think about a trade school (auto mechanics, carpentry, welding etc.) to get you into a career.

At your age, the girls you're going to have access to are going to be flighty little drama-prone hormonal princesses - they will get better in a few years - this gives you time to work on your "brand" and style. At your age the most important thing in the world seems to be pussy, but those pussies are attached to girls who will suck the resources (time, money, attention, emotions) that you can't hardly afford to give right now. Study. Women will always be there, but if you work on you, they will do the chasing.

If you want an easy in though, do as /u/Modified_Hackware suggests and throw a party!

Title	Advice for a highschooler
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Date	December 6, 2014 10:37 AM UTC (11 years ago)
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