Advice for a short guy

zero9217 · 2020-10-20T19:09:07+00:00

work on your mouthpiece and money

i-am-the-prize · 2020-10-20T19:10:14+00:00

don't bring it up. i'm a member of a (99% all male) classic car club. people of all walks of life and colors and classes and temperaments and aptitudes. and obviously of heights.

the shortest guy in our club is clearly the shortest guy in our club (he's about as tall as my 11 yr old, so 5'2" ??) we don't care about his height, this isn't a volleyball league. But not a single event, or car-show, or tech-day goes by without him making at least one joke about himself being short. every.fucking.time.

you make it an issue by making it an issue, don't be like him.

and know, most woman may want a tall guy, but they only think they truly need a guy taller than them. so you may find more traction with shorter women, obviously. Will you will have a harder time than if you were 5'9" or 6'3"? sure. Acknowledge it, and set it aside.

Then focus on what you can improve and change (knowledge/wisdom, Game, Frame, strength/fitness, freedom/economic standing), focusing on your own opinion and rewarding yourself for hard work. and do not make women the focus of your life, make yourself your focus, and over time, you'll likely find some that appreciate your whole package, especially once you can be proud of who you've become.

DerekMorganBAU · 2020-10-21T00:59:57+00:00

I'm 5'5 and it's literally never stopped me from fucking bitches. Just act like you got some nuts and not like a mopey lil bitch and you'll be alright.

IXseed · 2020-10-20T20:10:48+00:00

Oh you short short. Might as well give up. It's over for you, bro. /s

Remember that your height is only an issue if you think it's an issue. If you step to a bitch like being short is a GOOD thing, it'll help your mental.

djsjsndvdv · 2020-10-20T22:38:52+00:00

if you're short and still approach a HB9 without fear and with outcome independence that means you got balls of steel which is attractive, and even if you get rejected keep doing it and you'll succeed eventually - everything in life is a numbers game

don't stress about your height, stress about the shit you can actually control (your lifts, your diet, your purpose, your reading etc), body acceptance should be about shit you can't control like height instead of encouraging people to stay fat fucks instead of workin on themselves

Snowboard18 · 2020-10-20T19:04:27+00:00

Nothing. Cause you don’t give a single fuck that your short

Path-Quiet · 2020-10-21T07:22:10+00:00

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Title	Advice for a short guy
Author	Path-Quiet
Upvotes	1
Comments	14
Date	October 20, 2020 6:46 PM UTC (5 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/askTRP
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