Hi guys,

Need your advice on this. I have been posting here for the past few weeks about a brutal breakupI had and some other life issues am facing at present and I received some great advice.

I have a question: One girl I've been talking to for a little over two weeks sudddnly calls me wanting to come over. I wanted to turn her down as am focusing on much more important and urgent issues at the moment, including renewing my green card, getting back to work and finding a new place to live.

I was a bit confused as to why she was throwing herself this hard when all I wanted at this point was to talk to a female and feel good about my game and myself again, but I told her Ok..

So she came.. We had a few drinks and talked a bit. Then I tried the usual escalation etc.. She was fairly responsive and I ended up getting a bj and tried to have sex but she stopped me then said "but we can do anal".. We did

Then while talking afterwards she said how she doesn't enjoy PIV even tho she's had it many times in the past..

I was pissed, as this reminded me of an old relationship where an ex ltr would only give me anal and oral but not PIV...like never

TL;DR

Would you ever plate, fwb, or ltr a woman who doesn't give you vaginal sex, only oral and anal? And why do some bitches do it?

The reason why I care so much is because this girl knows what am going through rn and still displayed high interest and even said things like you can make it and you're strong and it'll pass, so I thought am keeping this one as a plate when things stabilize a little, but fuck I keep slipping back into thinking about girls ehen it's certainly not the right time for this crap