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[–]kclanton804 points 5 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link
There's nothing to do here..hit her up Saturday and ask her what time she is come. Don't even act as if something nwas wrong Conversations just naturally end sometimes....don't chase after a resolution not every conversation.
As a high value guy ... You didn't even notice. You were on to other shit. Your not even thinking about her until Saturday.
[–]SnooDoughnuts29561 point 5 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link
Already said I’ll see you sat so might’ve put the ball in her court there.
Appreciate the advice my guy.
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[–]ModsCantBanMe20201 point 5 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link
What do you want to proceed with? Seems alright to be.
Just don't pick up on that conversation. If she brings the cuffs or not doesn't matter. Don't get obsessed over particularities.
Ok bet sounds good.
Think she’s reaching for something? Been seeing her for around 8 months smooth sailing.
[–]scissor_me_timbers001 point 5 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link
Personally I don’t see it as blue pill at all to provide things like the drinks and cuffs. Especially cuffs/toys. That’s your thing as the man, to bring her into your world. Occasionally the girl will bring over drinks but I always provide the extras. They love it. Doesn’t make you beta at all.
True might have gone a little over board in this sit.
How would u proceed?
[–]scissor_me_timbers003 points 5 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link
So, I always try to focus on bringing something to the table with women. Like how can I make her enjoy herself, cum, feel exciting, etc. And not from a submissive frame but a dominant frame. Cuz women don’t like to feel used or cheap, and so it helps theirs psyche if you aren’t just trying to make them do whatever you want. TRP goes a little overboard in trying get women to be 100% submissive all the time. Don’t fight/struggle w her unnecessarily. Stay flexible when it’s over petty stuff, as long as it’s not disrespectful to you. Be the man by providing the extra fun.
Think I wen’t full rp when she asked for a reward lmao. I like your perspective think that’s exactly what happened here.
[–]familiarfolly2 points 5 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link
to add on here - going “full rp” isn’t rp at all.
what the comment you’re replying to wisely recommends is to be the responsible one - when we talk about leadership, we’re talking about assuming responsibility; for your life, for managing women, etc.
as a man, when you’re with a woman, she should be in your frame and feel fully comfortable submitting, but that means you must create the environment for her to be that way, make her feel safe to be her primitive, primal self.
so it’s a kind of masculine comfort that isn’t discussed here often enough but that comes with experience.
you’re on the right track.
edit: to respond to the post, i wouldn’t over analyze this exchange. you could’ve responded to her a variety of different ways, but remember you want to make it fun for her, too, while centering your pleasure (responsibility and attractiveness). i think you handled it decently well.
i think it’ll be fine. this was a logistical convo, which is good, but she seemed to want a little comfort. she’s getting to that point, if you’ve been seeing her long enough, where she might be getting anxiety about your situation with her. “what are we”. hold frame, pass shit AND comfort tests. the latter will occur more frequently as time progresses
Appreciate the wisdom sir🙏🏼
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